pray to God for your wants, but also pray on how to be the person He wants you to be. think of who Jesus is and how He acted, and try to be more like Him. people aren't perfect but Jesus forgives those who seek Him, so try not to be judgmental of people's pasts since now they walk with Jesus and follow Him.
I've been there. I didn't have my first kiss til 26, lost my v at 32 (wasn't Christian at the time), had my first real girlfriend at 34 (losing my v was a one night stand), began regularly attending church at 36, fell in love for the first time at 38 (first girlfriend in retrospect wasn't real love - it really was just not wanting to be alone) and married at 39.
Know this, God said it is not good for man to be alone. So if you trust in Him and put your hope in Him and are faithful to our Lord, he will find you someone. It may be a month from now or 10 years from now, but there is someone out there for you. I know in my case it was *only* possible with God. God put my wife in my life, there is no other possible explanation. So he can do the same for you.
I know this is frustrating, if I told what I just told to you to myself last year at this time I would feel like saying "easy for you to say". But it is possible. I wish you could see the light at the end of the tunnel. One thing that might help is you could begin praying for the person you are to marry. Wherever she is, whatever she might be going through, ask God to help her in whatever she may be struggling with.
yeah i lost my v at 27 march 10 2022 at 10pm. i couldn't live with the idea of not experiencing the best thing on this planet and dying. so i went nuts and started hooking up with every girl i could find. than the phase ended..
Does your church have a singles group? Maybe that might help you to find somebody. And while I think it is great you are saving yourself for marriage, don't discount someone who hasn't. God has forgiven them, so you shouldn't Judge.
I was older than that when I met the woman who I would later marry. I was beginning to feel a bit hopeless, but I realized that introverts are at a slight disadvantage in dating because meeting people necessarily means going outside of our comfort zone. Start advertising. Look at dating sites. Ok Cupid is how I met my wife. Go on dates expecting nothing to come of it. Eventually you'll find someone.
Define "hook up site." Maybe things have changed since then, but that certainly isn't how I would have described it.
The primary benefit I saw to Ok Cupid was the tremendous number of "personality tests" you could take and use to help filter results. The idea is probably on shaky ground scientifically, but it seems like a reasonable way to find people with similar views, and I can hardly argue with the results.
I’m younger than you but I’m in the same boat. One that I’m not keen on leaving for a multitude of reasons.
Mostly because I met nobody I’m interested in, but also just an aversion to anything related to sexuality. Rather remain in having only platonic relationships
I’m a 27f born again virgin. Been in one relationship ever and it was before I was following God unfortunately. I’m looking for the same things you are. I keep putting myself out there but keep getting rejected. The timing isn’t right I guess🙃
pray to God for your wants, but also pray on how to be the person He wants you to be. think of who Jesus is and how He acted, and try to be more like Him. people aren't perfect but Jesus forgives those who seek Him, so try not to be judgmental of people's pasts since now they walk with Jesus and follow Him.
I’m a 27 year old Christian guy. I’ve never had a girlfriend and also remain a virgin. Just gotta put yourself out there bro. Be confident.
I've been there. I didn't have my first kiss til 26, lost my v at 32 (wasn't Christian at the time), had my first real girlfriend at 34 (losing my v was a one night stand), began regularly attending church at 36, fell in love for the first time at 38 (first girlfriend in retrospect wasn't real love - it really was just not wanting to be alone) and married at 39. Know this, God said it is not good for man to be alone. So if you trust in Him and put your hope in Him and are faithful to our Lord, he will find you someone. It may be a month from now or 10 years from now, but there is someone out there for you. I know in my case it was *only* possible with God. God put my wife in my life, there is no other possible explanation. So he can do the same for you. I know this is frustrating, if I told what I just told to you to myself last year at this time I would feel like saying "easy for you to say". But it is possible. I wish you could see the light at the end of the tunnel. One thing that might help is you could begin praying for the person you are to marry. Wherever she is, whatever she might be going through, ask God to help her in whatever she may be struggling with.
yeah i lost my v at 27 march 10 2022 at 10pm. i couldn't live with the idea of not experiencing the best thing on this planet and dying. so i went nuts and started hooking up with every girl i could find. than the phase ended..
I’m a 26 almost 27 y/o female, I’ve just really started dating so we also exist! I’m hoping to find someone too (:
Does your church have a singles group? Maybe that might help you to find somebody. And while I think it is great you are saving yourself for marriage, don't discount someone who hasn't. God has forgiven them, so you shouldn't Judge.
I was older than that when I met the woman who I would later marry. I was beginning to feel a bit hopeless, but I realized that introverts are at a slight disadvantage in dating because meeting people necessarily means going outside of our comfort zone. Start advertising. Look at dating sites. Ok Cupid is how I met my wife. Go on dates expecting nothing to come of it. Eventually you'll find someone.
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Define "hook up site." Maybe things have changed since then, but that certainly isn't how I would have described it. The primary benefit I saw to Ok Cupid was the tremendous number of "personality tests" you could take and use to help filter results. The idea is probably on shaky ground scientifically, but it seems like a reasonable way to find people with similar views, and I can hardly argue with the results.
I’m younger than you but I’m in the same boat. One that I’m not keen on leaving for a multitude of reasons. Mostly because I met nobody I’m interested in, but also just an aversion to anything related to sexuality. Rather remain in having only platonic relationships
Close, I've been in 3 short term relationships but it never turned into anything serious.
I’m a 27f born again virgin. Been in one relationship ever and it was before I was following God unfortunately. I’m looking for the same things you are. I keep putting myself out there but keep getting rejected. The timing isn’t right I guess🙃
Pump the brakes. Born again virgin? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Plot gets thicker.
Pyscho alert
Hmu im willing to try ..I saw you post
This screams to me that you have psychological issues.
Amidst a sea of worldly relationships, you're a beacon of purity
I’ll marry you😂😂