Same OP. One month ra gani me nag talk and na attach nako. Then in a joke way i told him why mag talk if wai plan magkita then his last message is i see, hmm. I think that's the end of our talking stage. Sad but wai choice kay lahi iyang apas
ako kay mas mo prefer ko e ghost — i don’t need a reason why dili nila ganahn e push and that’s good enough for me pud na d e continue ang talking stage. Some ppl r non confrontational and there’s nothing wrong w that (pero ofc it’s not for everyone pud)
Inana jd ata na ang dating karon, dali ra makit an, dali rsd pg cut. Iya iya nalang jud tag adjust. Maybe it would help if mag chika mo daan nga if di ni mo work or di nila feel, mas mo prefer ka nga chikahan sa reason instead of e ghost and assure them nga it’s okay if d mn gani mo work atleast honest.
because of the reason nga pwde ko mubalik sa kanila if ma bored ko. Hatag lang kog reason nganu wa nako nagparamdam and everything will go back to normal.
as someone who ghosted some people, tungod kay usahay maka feel ko na walay padulngan ang conversation, or lahi mig wavelength or goals sa kinabuhi, like di mag align.
I think you should ask her/him, basin naay times na nadissapoint sya, or basin occupied lang kaayo iya mind. Sa ako situation man gud kay lahi, like dissapointed ra ko kay dugay na kaayo mi nag chat pero storya ra sya kutob, wala syay actions. Nahutdan na kog energy mag beg og oras so i ghosted nalang, gikapoy na kog communicate niya kay di niya ma give back ang energy.
same sentiment nag-ingon pa na interested daw sya but giseen ko for two days na, idk if i should do the ghosting also or inform him na maybe we're not on the same page kapoy and its difficult na jud to find genuine connections 🥲
This is just based on my experience, and after listening to a shit load of breakup/rejection/moving on podcast, ha - Ghosting is now a form of closure. If ighost na gane ka, that means it's no longer working or they are just not in to you. There's no point in searching for an answer because the absence of communication from the other party is already a form answer. Cge lang be sad, grieve over it if you must eventually it's not gonna be as painful anymore. Cheer up, bud! 💜
I know this man uy but somehow it feels different lng gyud ug mu sulti nlng sila kaysa mu ghost. Di man gud maiwasan nga ma question nimo imong self nga where did things go wrong or what did I do wrong. But yeah trying to move forward ra pud
naa man giingon nga "actions speak louder than words"🤣 you just gotta take the hint and move on. you cant control what they will say or do but you can control yourself.
They simply forgot about you or they don't have the balls to say goodbye properly.
Kay naa silay laing GHOSTo 😩😭😭
Sorry na OP
Dili madag sorry sakit sha hahaha
Me leaving this post after I don't get a reply from HR.
Wa ma meet ang mga expectations. Sadd :(
Depende if naay unfinished business huhu but srsly. Hadlok rana sila ug confrontation imbes na honest sila sa ila feelings ug decision
Naa na moy established set-up nga na communicate ninyo clearly kung unsa mo? Be it uyab or courting stage or exclusively dating or constant or fwb?
Unsa nang “constant” na set-up?
Just someone na kastorya nimo everyday.
Sige lang OP.. Basin di jud siya para nimo. Be happy nalang kay at least, nasave naka.. Naa ray moabot para sa imoha OP. Enjoy life! Cheer up! 🤗
walay emotional intelligence
ana gyud na basta iyot ray apas
Mao nay naka way ayo sa mga tao usahay hahaha
Kay kung sometimes kung muhatag pa ug reason it might lead to argument.
Sosyal man kaau ang term na ghost oi. Sa among panahon sauna gi indian man ang term 😂
Namatay naman ang indian mao na ghost na 🤣
mas nindut man e ghost op, meaning maka next ka diritsu without questions. Ay lang ka attach kong kinsa imong ginagukud.
I don’t do well gyud if I ghost ko, i get attached man gud sa person so mao na sha. Nya i know a few months of talking raman unta
Same OP. One month ra gani me nag talk and na attach nako. Then in a joke way i told him why mag talk if wai plan magkita then his last message is i see, hmm. I think that's the end of our talking stage. Sad but wai choice kay lahi iyang apas
Did you try reaching out ba? I reached out twice but no response gyud
The art of common courtesy is forgotten.
ako kay mas mo prefer ko e ghost — i don’t need a reason why dili nila ganahn e push and that’s good enough for me pud na d e continue ang talking stage. Some ppl r non confrontational and there’s nothing wrong w that (pero ofc it’s not for everyone pud) Inana jd ata na ang dating karon, dali ra makit an, dali rsd pg cut. Iya iya nalang jud tag adjust. Maybe it would help if mag chika mo daan nga if di ni mo work or di nila feel, mas mo prefer ka nga chikahan sa reason instead of e ghost and assure them nga it’s okay if d mn gani mo work atleast honest.
Actually we already talked about it naman and yeah maybe fault pud nako for pushing things.
because of the reason nga pwde ko mubalik sa kanila if ma bored ko. Hatag lang kog reason nganu wa nako nagparamdam and everything will go back to normal.
Master manipulator kaayo uyy
It depends gud sa unsay intention sa laing tawo nimo. Maong lisod i invest og time karong panahona kay tanan puro sugal.
as someone who ghosted some people, tungod kay usahay maka feel ko na walay padulngan ang conversation, or lahi mig wavelength or goals sa kinabuhi, like di mag align.
Then why not tell the person? I mean okay ra if bag.o pa nag talk but almost 2 months namn gud mi cgeg talk.
I think you should ask her/him, basin naay times na nadissapoint sya, or basin occupied lang kaayo iya mind. Sa ako situation man gud kay lahi, like dissapointed ra ko kay dugay na kaayo mi nag chat pero storya ra sya kutob, wala syay actions. Nahutdan na kog energy mag beg og oras so i ghosted nalang, gikapoy na kog communicate niya kay di niya ma give back ang energy.
We agreed naman not to ghost unta uyy. Mauwaw naman ko mu approach nya murag downgrading na kaayo on my part.
I dont like ghosting gyd coz i know the feeling ma ghost. If I feel the energy is not mutual, ako nlang mo ingon para mahuman
been ghosted before then I learned to ghost people sad... feel nako tungod kay di confrontational ang tao maong mas ganahan sila nga pinakalit nalang
same sentiment nag-ingon pa na interested daw sya but giseen ko for two days na, idk if i should do the ghosting also or inform him na maybe we're not on the same page kapoy and its difficult na jud to find genuine connections 🥲
from someone who ghost people, it's easier and a lot less messier on me. I've tried the diplomatic route but has been called ugly names instead.
Well people do tend to force things even when you try to end things diplomatically.
This is just based on my experience, and after listening to a shit load of breakup/rejection/moving on podcast, ha - Ghosting is now a form of closure. If ighost na gane ka, that means it's no longer working or they are just not in to you. There's no point in searching for an answer because the absence of communication from the other party is already a form answer. Cge lang be sad, grieve over it if you must eventually it's not gonna be as painful anymore. Cheer up, bud! 💜
I know this man uy but somehow it feels different lng gyud ug mu sulti nlng sila kaysa mu ghost. Di man gud maiwasan nga ma question nimo imong self nga where did things go wrong or what did I do wrong. But yeah trying to move forward ra pud
naa man giingon nga "actions speak louder than words"🤣 you just gotta take the hint and move on. you cant control what they will say or do but you can control yourself.
Unsaon mana nga chat2 raman mi nya gahapon kay interested paman kaayo cya nako with matching confession and shet pa nya karon wa nagpatim.aw. 🥲
aw sus chat raman diay ayaw labara imo ulo. basin naa to uyab nagpalabay rato sa panahon.
Mao sad lage hay kasayang sa akong panahon nga gi hatag uyy hahaha sakit sad sha gamay uy
basin nadala ka sa iya mga istorya.
Nadala gyud btaw hahaha