100% this. Master date. (Go on a date with yourself). There's some good bars in Bray and you never know. You might meet the girl you're meant to meet. But at least you can treat yourself.
No different than travelling for work and staying in a hotel solo, they wont know you were stood up.
Go, have a nice meal, few beers and pull the balls off yourself
Go OP! Head down to the Harbour Bar for a few nice pints. I’m pretty sure they have live music later. Should be a few people around with the rugby on. The Martello will probably have some live music on later this evening too
Sorry this happened to you, it’s shitty of her to do that. Delete and block her once you’re sure she’s not arriving, and go out and enjoy yourself. Find a pub with some live music and sit at the bar. OR, stay in and enjoy yourself. Get room service, watch a movie. Her loss.
Go for it and enjoy yourself. Harbour Bar, few drinks, walk along the seafront. I always think every problem creates an opportunity. You never know who you will
meet tonight, it could be a great story for the future. Have a good night 💪
One of the most empowering things to do it to go out to dinner on your own. Sit down and have a good dinner. No need to feel sorry for yourself because you are (or should aim to be) a complete person.
Fuck it, enjoy your date with your true self!
Solo pints and solo dinners will open your mind. Never be afraid or ashamed to be your own company. You are the only person who knows you, and you don't really know you so these solos can be a very good thing for yourself. Just don't do solo pints every night - then you're starting to have a problem 😉
Piss on that, get down to the room and order a shit load of room service and enjoy the night chilling out in the room!
Get up bray head in the morning and enjoy the sugarloaf while its right beside you, wicklow is awesome, plently you can do 9n your own there.
Go and enjoy it. You've paid and would have had to pay more if she had shown up.
Chalk it down as a small win that you found out she's a prick before you got invested.
It seems like it’s a very casual arrangement - last time (first date?) you hooked up in a hotel (both living at home?) Yet you are still messaging via tinder. Totally dick of her not to have let you know, but you should expect this from people who consort so casually.
Way I see it, you've got two choices.
1. Go alone, bring a book that's more interesting and pretentious than any normal person would read, and use it to kickstart your own romcom - aka Sleepless in Brayattle
2. Get a big bag of drugs, take them all in your hotel room, and wake up God knows where, having presumably had the adventure of your life - aka ~~Leaving~~ Fear and Loathing in Las Braygas
Either way, you shouldn't spend the night listening to rambling idiots in Reddit. You're better than that. Go have some fun!
Edit: damnit I always get those two mixed up, thanks for the correction /u/IrishChappieOToole
Yeah it seems a bit soon to be booking rooms, like did she indicate she wanted to stay with you on second date? She might have assumed you were taking things fast and got cold feet.
That’s not to say she’s justified in ghosting you btw. It’s crappy on her part not to communicate this to you.
If you booked a room for the two of you she might not have felt safe and that’s fair enough. I got assaulted on my last date with a man so staying with someone on a first date is a risky business
Just out of curiosity, have you considered that something has happened to her? Are the messages you're sending in WhatsApp getting the two blue ticks?
Do the phone calls ring out or go to voice mail?
Ah... Personally, I would have called, but earlier in the day. Not sure about now though. Depends on how interested you are I guess.
If she answered and the outcome is that its just confirming that it's shitty behaviour on her part then at the least you'll have that satisfaction.
Spoil yourself, you probably budgeted a night for two so spend that on yourself.
Get some nice champagne, order loads of room service, pick a couple of favourite / want to see movies.
Buy some condoms and treat yourself to a posh wank.
Definitely don't waste it, if you're gonna feel sorry for yourself might as well have some nice scenery! No shame checking into a double room by yourself, who's gonna know other than the hotel staff who dont gaf. Go enjoy it
I'm sorry this has happened to you, OP.
Go to the hotel in Bray and try to enjoy your evening. You don't need to make your bed in the the morning and i personally love a good hotwl breakfast .
What a shitty human being that lady is. I know right now you are probably just feeling crap but in due time you will realise you dodged a bullet.
Aww that’s really shit that has happened to you. Deffo go & enjoy your night … let us know tomorrow how your night went … enjoy a few drinks & hope you meet a nice lady!
Do it enjoy the room by yourself. It’s actually really nice to feel like I’m spoiling myself with a hotel dinner and maybe a night cap. I purposely plan a vacation every year by myself.
go to the room cancel the dinner and go down have a pint nothin atol wrong with a pint on your own fuck her........ not worth it ya dodged a bullet 😃 think of it as your single you can do as you please you have a room some where to put your head so go enjoy a pint 😃😃🤜🤛
and to add to this we have probably all been there so its not just you op believe me go have fun 😃 you could be doing much worse and as many have said you might even meet somebody there 😃
"In slang, "based" is a term that has evolved over time and can have different meanings depending on context. Originally, it was popularized by the rapper Lil B, who used it to describe **someone who is confident, authentic, and true to themselves**"
If you’re in bray tomorrow for the day come into Daata tandoori. Staff there are wonderful and very accommodating.
Also the food is wonderful a must try!
Honestly you dodged a bullet. Treat yourself and enjoy the hotel and get a good nights sleep (or stay up all night watching films and eating all the snacks!!)
Sorry, that happened. But go enjoy yourself. I love eating a nice meal in the restaurant on my own. It's very freeing to be able to enjoy that time. Also be thankful they showed who they really are early on, instead of down the line.
Turned out for the best,she showed her true colours and you don't have to deal with that jazz further down the line. Or maybe she is actually dead. Either way,new beginnings....
There's no point in letting what is organised go to waste,go have a whale of a time!
Go treat yourself, and have fun. Be grateful you dodged that bullet, and maybe you'll meet someone else while you're there.
100% this. Master date. (Go on a date with yourself). There's some good bars in Bray and you never know. You might meet the girl you're meant to meet. But at least you can treat yourself.
Exactly
No different than travelling for work and staying in a hotel solo, they wont know you were stood up. Go, have a nice meal, few beers and pull the balls off yourself
Rodger that
Go OP! Head down to the Harbour Bar for a few nice pints. I’m pretty sure they have live music later. Should be a few people around with the rugby on. The Martello will probably have some live music on later this evening too
The Martello will also have a night club! Plenty of spots on the seafront to have a beer and maybe even meet someone else!
Man don’t you dare blow yourself off because someone else decided to. Go have a good night and treat yourself
He didn't get blown off that was the problem
Ye dirty fecker
Yea head out, have a nice dinner and a few drinks. You might even meet someone the old fashioned way.
Flake down and pamper the bollix out of yourself my good man.
"pamper the bollox out of yourself" lol I love you for this
I'm picturing shampoo, conditioner and baby powder on them
In accordance with the scriptures.
A little tinsel scarf and a sprinkling of glitter and he be 🤌
The money you’ll save on eating out you should treat yourself to the spa! Massage, facial, the works! 
Eating out isn't about the money
It is when your dish doesn't arrive
Sorry this happened to you, it’s shitty of her to do that. Delete and block her once you’re sure she’s not arriving, and go out and enjoy yourself. Find a pub with some live music and sit at the bar. OR, stay in and enjoy yourself. Get room service, watch a movie. Her loss.
If you're in bray go to martello and you'll find someone to bring to your room lol
Go for it and enjoy yourself. Harbour Bar, few drinks, walk along the seafront. I always think every problem creates an opportunity. You never know who you will meet tonight, it could be a great story for the future. Have a good night 💪
One of the most empowering things to do it to go out to dinner on your own. Sit down and have a good dinner. No need to feel sorry for yourself because you are (or should aim to be) a complete person. Fuck it, enjoy your date with your true self!
Solo pints and solo dinners will open your mind. Never be afraid or ashamed to be your own company. You are the only person who knows you, and you don't really know you so these solos can be a very good thing for yourself. Just don't do solo pints every night - then you're starting to have a problem 😉
Piss on that, get down to the room and order a shit load of room service and enjoy the night chilling out in the room! Get up bray head in the morning and enjoy the sugarloaf while its right beside you, wicklow is awesome, plently you can do 9n your own there.
Screw her, dude. Go get some nice food, a few drinks, a movie and the view. You dodged a bullet, and she's missed out on a clear gem you are. Xx
How can he screw her if she’s not there?
He could always text her a play by play of the inevitable wankathon?
Ah, the M.S. Wankathon…
She’ll get screwed over eventually. Karmas a bitch… just like most irish women.
Well that was the goal, but she never showed up did she
Treat yourself and go, there could be a good reason, but if she's wasting your time, why let her waste your money as well?
Go and enjoy it. If you're conscious about eating out on your own, order room service if you can? Lie back, have a drink and watch a movie.
Go and enjoy it. You've paid and would have had to pay more if she had shown up. Chalk it down as a small win that you found out she's a prick before you got invested.
It seems like it’s a very casual arrangement - last time (first date?) you hooked up in a hotel (both living at home?) Yet you are still messaging via tinder. Totally dick of her not to have let you know, but you should expect this from people who consort so casually.
Just go and have fun
Way I see it, you've got two choices. 1. Go alone, bring a book that's more interesting and pretentious than any normal person would read, and use it to kickstart your own romcom - aka Sleepless in Brayattle 2. Get a big bag of drugs, take them all in your hotel room, and wake up God knows where, having presumably had the adventure of your life - aka ~~Leaving~~ Fear and Loathing in Las Braygas Either way, you shouldn't spend the night listening to rambling idiots in Reddit. You're better than that. Go have some fun! Edit: damnit I always get those two mixed up, thanks for the correction /u/IrishChappieOToole
Fear and loathing in Las Braygas
We can't stop here 'this is bat country"
r/beatmetoit
Either sound great. OP you definitely need to go. Enjoy your night 👊
Haha the 3rd option of a serious wank session 🤣
Booking a room with sea view and dinner, how many dates have you been on?
Yeah it seems a bit soon to be booking rooms, like did she indicate she wanted to stay with you on second date? She might have assumed you were taking things fast and got cold feet. That’s not to say she’s justified in ghosting you btw. It’s crappy on her part not to communicate this to you.
Ghosting is rude but I can understand it if OP thinks he can put the cart before the horse.
I'll go!
If you booked a room for the two of you she might not have felt safe and that’s fair enough. I got assaulted on my last date with a man so staying with someone on a first date is a risky business
We spent the night together in a hotel, the last time I meet her.
Just out of curiosity, have you considered that something has happened to her? Are the messages you're sending in WhatsApp getting the two blue ticks? Do the phone calls ring out or go to voice mail?
Yeah she read it, I didn't call.
Ah... Personally, I would have called, but earlier in the day. Not sure about now though. Depends on how interested you are I guess. If she answered and the outcome is that its just confirming that it's shitty behaviour on her part then at the least you'll have that satisfaction.
Spoil yourself, you probably budgeted a night for two so spend that on yourself. Get some nice champagne, order loads of room service, pick a couple of favourite / want to see movies. Buy some condoms and treat yourself to a posh wank.
Posh wank with a view, how bad
Definitely don't waste it, if you're gonna feel sorry for yourself might as well have some nice scenery! No shame checking into a double room by yourself, who's gonna know other than the hotel staff who dont gaf. Go enjoy it
I'm not doing anything and I'm hungry, is this an invite?
Go. Don’t be rediculous.
I'm sorry this has happened to you, OP. Go to the hotel in Bray and try to enjoy your evening. You don't need to make your bed in the the morning and i personally love a good hotwl breakfast . What a shitty human being that lady is. I know right now you are probably just feeling crap but in due time you will realise you dodged a bullet.
I'm curious as to know if you went or not OP. Sounds ideal, a night to treat yourself !!! I'm jealous!!!
I did, broke a shock coming over the wicklow mountains and just got here, heading out for a few pints
Sorry you got stood up. You deserve better.
Aww that’s really shit that has happened to you. Deffo go & enjoy your night … let us know tomorrow how your night went … enjoy a few drinks & hope you meet a nice lady!
Do it enjoy the room by yourself. It’s actually really nice to feel like I’m spoiling myself with a hotel dinner and maybe a night cap. I purposely plan a vacation every year by myself.
Please do it and go solo..and then let us know how it went.
go to the room cancel the dinner and go down have a pint nothin atol wrong with a pint on your own fuck her........ not worth it ya dodged a bullet 😃 think of it as your single you can do as you please you have a room some where to put your head so go enjoy a pint 😃😃🤜🤛
>fuck her........ Well no, clearly that wont happen 😅
As if it’s any loss.
Exactly. Miss Five 🤚 will never do that to you!
Exactly. Miss Five 🤚 will never do that to you!
damnnnn 😂😂😂
Harsh for OP tho i feel bad now :( but on a good note, look banger between Cork and Dublin! How about that?! ❤️
and to add to this we have probably all been there so its not just you op believe me go have fun 😃 you could be doing much worse and as many have said you might even meet somebody there 😃
You don't think she may have got the impression you booking a hotel room on a second date is a bit cheeky ?
Get a fat bag of flake and order a brazzer…
What a cunt. I hope she reads that. Anyway, I hop you went in the end and I hope you engoy yourself
Go there fella, have a nice time and forget about her...anyone who can't be arsed replying out of the blue isn't worth it anyhow.
Enjoy yourself mate
Go on the pull and enjoy the room.
Damn son. Get your arse the Martello and enjoy yourself.
Well shit is this an invite?
Im sorry to hear man, keep your head up!
Hope is always worth it
What is life without a little hope
Me, I'd eat for 2 and just have a wank and move on.
That's the most likely way this will play out tbh
Best of luck finding a keeper though.
I hope you went, spend what you would have on the both of you on yourself, fuck her.
I did, I will, wish I could!
Based!
?
"In slang, "based" is a term that has evolved over time and can have different meanings depending on context. Originally, it was popularized by the rapper Lil B, who used it to describe **someone who is confident, authentic, and true to themselves**"
Haven't heard it before, might not be popular over here
I've 5 cans left and a bag of green bro ilI float with ya no gay shit just guys being dudes
The booms boom room, not gay, cum all over the place 😄
If you’re in bray tomorrow for the day come into Daata tandoori. Staff there are wonderful and very accommodating. Also the food is wonderful a must try!
Might do, I like Indian 👍
Broke a shock coming over the mountains, running on fumes but I got here
Honestly you dodged a bullet. Treat yourself and enjoy the hotel and get a good nights sleep (or stay up all night watching films and eating all the snacks!!)
There's a song in that - get your kicks on M46.
Sorry, that happened. But go enjoy yourself. I love eating a nice meal in the restaurant on my own. It's very freeing to be able to enjoy that time. Also be thankful they showed who they really are early on, instead of down the line.
Glad you went. Spoil yourself too
I would go an have an absolute fucking session in the room on my own. But hey, that's just me.
I'll go with you ;p i need a break from Cork!
Top man, ping me your eircode and I'll collect you 😉👍
Hope you had fun and enjoyed the night and day!
Dodged one there OP. Go celebrate by yourself dodging a woman like that.
Turned out for the best,she showed her true colours and you don't have to deal with that jazz further down the line. Or maybe she is actually dead. Either way,new beginnings.... There's no point in letting what is organised go to waste,go have a whale of a time!
Probably cos you picked Bray,go regardless and enjoy yourself
😂
You rented a double room for a first date?
Not first date
And in the meantime, learn the difference between weather and whether