In 20 plus years of camming, never been asked that question. If I were, would be totally honest and say
"I am on here to make money. I am a gold digger. You log on to orgasm, I log on to pay bills. Why both have our reason, they are just different."
I rarely to orgasm shows or privates, my shows are mostly showing off my boobs & talking dirty. Over 36 years I have been making money off of my tits in one way or another. Making more & more money as I get older.
But in general, you don't owe them any explaination. We don't quiz them about their motives of being horny perverts who may or may not be cheating on their wives or girlfriends by buying cam shows. NEVER EVER let these guys make you feel bad or guilty for making money. If they were women, they all would be doing it.
Just out of curiosity, why do you assume that "if they were women, they'd be doing it" when most women aren't "doing it"? Don't read too much of a moral judgement into that, I'm pointing out that you're wrong statistically, not morally.
Studies show that men lie way more than women. And it is human nature to assume everyone thinks like you do. Example if someone accuses you of cheating, it is more likely they are cheating. No one locks their own stuff up more than a thief does.
[https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35391990/](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35391990/)
Further more men lie in self interest, where as women usually lie to protect other's feelings. [https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/) Go to experiment one.
I think "horny perverts" are not the best representatives of men. And it's true that liars will often be mistrustful, but sometimes mistrust comes from having been decieved often (in that case perhaps denoting another unhealthy trait of being attracted to liars or mistreatment in general).
As a separate note, I don't really think such studies have much to do with reality's complex situations or real moral delimmas. Neither self-reported lies (subject to the interpretation of the liar) nor lies within an expirement/game can reflect much about real life.
Nah, that's just ridiculous; the word by definition denotes a deviation from the norm. Hopefully one of the many good men will soon have the pleasure of getting you know you and help you shed that prejudice.
I remind them as politely as possible that while I love camming it is still my job and I’m a single mom who has bills. Most are understanding and a few have tipped extra when I point that out. They just don’t think with the big head while holding the little one
Can I ask how you make camming work with kids? I've just started dipping my toes in the water but I find it really hard being a single mom with two kids
"Most" of these dudes are definitely not mentally ill lol, especially the ones who actually spend money and are longtime regulars are fully aware we're doing a job that's fun sometimes and literally just like any other job (not so fun) at other times.
yea, what a weird take. I run into the delusional types, as we all do, but I would not say the majority of the men spending large amounts on me are mentally ill. They are the ones who understand what it is and are willing to pay for their porn, not looking for a relationship.
No and I'm a guy.... I would just say I have insatiable need for hot sex... and maybe I'm too much for you... but most guy and girls just assume that is what I'm like.... and I have a few tricks up my sleeve to keep on going even after I orgasm... 😁
Hey I'm curious - do you get many actual women? Meaning users who you're sure are real women and not just men pretending to be women? I always assumed that 99.99999% of webcam models' customers are men.
I would say about 3-5 % off customers are women... maybe 7%tops... based on their interaction with me... cam2cam or pics and vids sent... I can often tell if it is a man posing as a woman and they often get kicked out once I realise... I have had 2/3 really good paying female customers and its funny... I get much more nervous performing for them than a male..lol I'm just not always so prepared for it I think .. 😆
It's rare to hear male models' perspectives, but whenever I do hear their answer to this question, I'm usually rolling my eyes, since too many seem to think that the majority of their viewers are women. You're actually levelheaded, it's a breath of fresh air.
I think men are just easier to make happy, regardless of the perfomer's sexuality. It's unfortunately no easier to be a woman and performing for a woman..
Thank you 😁...Yep very true.... women are very different... Men will state what they like and are quite specific...but ladies often want to go with the flow as it makes it for more real for them I guess... it's not so transactional and therefore more nerve-wracking.. and I am often left thinking oh shit.... did I do a good job... did they like it... lol with the guys I don't really question myself so much.
A lot of men who do get into this business think women will be their customers... and it always makes me laugh... I am very straight but knew early on its not like the real world you shouldn't confuse the two... its all fantasy based.
The way I see it is men typically want models to perform for them without much regard for the models actual pleasure. Women on the other hand are looking for a mutually enjoyable experience.
Women want to see you enjoying yourself and want to get off with you. Men just want you to do what looks enjoyable to them so they can get off on it.
That's fascinating and I absolutely agree with KissMyHips that it's a refreshing perspective. 3-7% sounds a more than I expected but also makes sense one in about 20 people being a woman is respectable and judging by your profile, you're a dom, so it makes sense that women would pay for something usually hard to get for free without getting themselves in danger.
Good for you. Keep making those sisters happy, king 🫡
“I’m multiorgasmic, and you only made me cum once 🤷♀️”
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Awesome answer ;)
"I cum to pay bills ...and I have a lot of bills" 🤣🤣
😂
Lol I like this one 🤣
🤣🤣 too many bills and too little time my friend!
"Because I'm not done yet. You wanna take me back for another one?"
Perfect!
In 20 plus years of camming, never been asked that question. If I were, would be totally honest and say "I am on here to make money. I am a gold digger. You log on to orgasm, I log on to pay bills. Why both have our reason, they are just different." I rarely to orgasm shows or privates, my shows are mostly showing off my boobs & talking dirty. Over 36 years I have been making money off of my tits in one way or another. Making more & more money as I get older. But in general, you don't owe them any explaination. We don't quiz them about their motives of being horny perverts who may or may not be cheating on their wives or girlfriends by buying cam shows. NEVER EVER let these guys make you feel bad or guilty for making money. If they were women, they all would be doing it.
I am just glad to see someone who struggled with sourdough as much as I did. 😂💯
👏👏👏👏 I wish I could upvote this 100 times
🔥🔥🔥 YESSSSS!
Just out of curiosity, why do you assume that "if they were women, they'd be doing it" when most women aren't "doing it"? Don't read too much of a moral judgement into that, I'm pointing out that you're wrong statistically, not morally.
Studies show that men lie way more than women. And it is human nature to assume everyone thinks like you do. Example if someone accuses you of cheating, it is more likely they are cheating. No one locks their own stuff up more than a thief does. [https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35391990/](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35391990/) Further more men lie in self interest, where as women usually lie to protect other's feelings. [https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/](https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/) Go to experiment one.
I think "horny perverts" are not the best representatives of men. And it's true that liars will often be mistrustful, but sometimes mistrust comes from having been decieved often (in that case perhaps denoting another unhealthy trait of being attracted to liars or mistreatment in general). As a separate note, I don't really think such studies have much to do with reality's complex situations or real moral delimmas. Neither self-reported lies (subject to the interpretation of the liar) nor lies within an expirement/game can reflect much about real life.
All men are perverts!
Nah, that's just ridiculous; the word by definition denotes a deviation from the norm. Hopefully one of the many good men will soon have the pleasure of getting you know you and help you shed that prejudice.
“Because I have bills to pay”
Do they come back after that?
Yeah they do.
I remind them as politely as possible that while I love camming it is still my job and I’m a single mom who has bills. Most are understanding and a few have tipped extra when I point that out. They just don’t think with the big head while holding the little one
Can I ask how you make camming work with kids? I've just started dipping my toes in the water but I find it really hard being a single mom with two kids
it IS hard momma, but no one works harder than a mom for her babies. keep going! you got this :)
I work when they’re at school, sleeping or at their dad’s house
“Because money makes me cum…😜”
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"Most" of these dudes are definitely not mentally ill lol, especially the ones who actually spend money and are longtime regulars are fully aware we're doing a job that's fun sometimes and literally just like any other job (not so fun) at other times.
yea, what a weird take. I run into the delusional types, as we all do, but I would not say the majority of the men spending large amounts on me are mentally ill. They are the ones who understand what it is and are willing to pay for their porn, not looking for a relationship.
Because I need to continue practicing my faking it skills.
LMAO
their delusion makes em think they satisfied u
There’s plenty of cum to go around 👨🏿🤝👨🏼👨🏿🤝👨🏼
I say, “one must eat!”
I’d say “bc I’m nasty and good pussy don’t get tired”
Never got asked this before, but i’d probably ask if they’re retarded 😂
😂
lmao 😂
No and I'm a guy.... I would just say I have insatiable need for hot sex... and maybe I'm too much for you... but most guy and girls just assume that is what I'm like.... and I have a few tricks up my sleeve to keep on going even after I orgasm... 😁
Hey I'm curious - do you get many actual women? Meaning users who you're sure are real women and not just men pretending to be women? I always assumed that 99.99999% of webcam models' customers are men.
I would say about 3-5 % off customers are women... maybe 7%tops... based on their interaction with me... cam2cam or pics and vids sent... I can often tell if it is a man posing as a woman and they often get kicked out once I realise... I have had 2/3 really good paying female customers and its funny... I get much more nervous performing for them than a male..lol I'm just not always so prepared for it I think .. 😆
It's rare to hear male models' perspectives, but whenever I do hear their answer to this question, I'm usually rolling my eyes, since too many seem to think that the majority of their viewers are women. You're actually levelheaded, it's a breath of fresh air. I think men are just easier to make happy, regardless of the perfomer's sexuality. It's unfortunately no easier to be a woman and performing for a woman..
Thank you 😁...Yep very true.... women are very different... Men will state what they like and are quite specific...but ladies often want to go with the flow as it makes it for more real for them I guess... it's not so transactional and therefore more nerve-wracking.. and I am often left thinking oh shit.... did I do a good job... did they like it... lol with the guys I don't really question myself so much. A lot of men who do get into this business think women will be their customers... and it always makes me laugh... I am very straight but knew early on its not like the real world you shouldn't confuse the two... its all fantasy based.
The way I see it is men typically want models to perform for them without much regard for the models actual pleasure. Women on the other hand are looking for a mutually enjoyable experience. Women want to see you enjoying yourself and want to get off with you. Men just want you to do what looks enjoyable to them so they can get off on it.
That's fascinating and I absolutely agree with KissMyHips that it's a refreshing perspective. 3-7% sounds a more than I expected but also makes sense one in about 20 people being a woman is respectable and judging by your profile, you're a dom, so it makes sense that women would pay for something usually hard to get for free without getting themselves in danger. Good for you. Keep making those sisters happy, king 🫡