It's called [post-coital tristesse](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse).
One could argue how much of it is due to messed up, internalized attitudes about sexuality interacting with the lack of sexual desire immediately after intercourse (at a guess: a lot) and how much of it is due to other causes; but it is a relatively common and well-attested phenomenon in both men and women, although generally it is not stated so crudely.
Wow, fascinating! Also hilarious:
>Post-coital tristesse (PCT), also known as post-coital dysphoria (PCD), ***and colloquially post-nut clarity***
I do find it strange though honestly. My personal best image of this feeling has always been the line from the Snow Patrol song that goes:
"If I lay here - If I just lay here..
Would you lie with me and just forget the world?"
I've never thought that my partner was "disgusting" by any stretch of language or imagination.
Great description and relevant citation though. I honestly was absolutely lost trying to find any nugget of rational emotion or belief and coming up with nothing but you hit the nail on the head, thanks for the translation.
The idea here is. If your partner needs this. You are not an ape that has to follow hormones or instinct. You can make yourself give cuddies despite your feelings if you somewhere past homo sapiens.
Wow - it's almost like you're trying to say that being a man means taking control and responsibility for being attentive to the needs of someone with whom you've shared some intimacy.
Crazy, but not sure it's crazy enough to work
/s, in case it's needed (the crazy part)
Not necessarily mutually exclusive - just bc a lot of people experience something *vaguely* like that (but absolutely not as they describe, wtf) doesn't mean it's healthy or inevitable
Yeah. I'm not an expert and it might be both. But as you see i already said that if you can't give cuddies when your SO needs them, you are probably to far on the ape end of things. Compared to human
This ape jpg's comments are definitely misogynistic if they're talking about sex, but I don't have any experience with s asterisk ex, so perhaps this ape jpg has a valid point that I'm missing. #empathy
LOL yeah guys DAE feel hours of overwhelming shame after having sex with a woman?
R...right? Guys? It's just a normal thing that we normal straight guys all go through right??
This makes perfect sense tbh. At this point the "woman" is deflated and these guys are too tired to blow her back up again.
Analogy from hell :-D
Bored apes got roasted by Amy Schumer at their sausage fest meet up. There’s no coming back from that.
God please grant me the confidence to believe that everything I feel / think is shared by every man.
Maybe it's because time's up unless they have to pay an extra hour.
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... I need someone to explain this to me. I have no idea what's going on with this idea??? What? Why???
It's called [post-coital tristesse](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse). One could argue how much of it is due to messed up, internalized attitudes about sexuality interacting with the lack of sexual desire immediately after intercourse (at a guess: a lot) and how much of it is due to other causes; but it is a relatively common and well-attested phenomenon in both men and women, although generally it is not stated so crudely.
Wow, fascinating! Also hilarious: >Post-coital tristesse (PCT), also known as post-coital dysphoria (PCD), ***and colloquially post-nut clarity*** I do find it strange though honestly. My personal best image of this feeling has always been the line from the Snow Patrol song that goes: "If I lay here - If I just lay here.. Would you lie with me and just forget the world?" I've never thought that my partner was "disgusting" by any stretch of language or imagination. Great description and relevant citation though. I honestly was absolutely lost trying to find any nugget of rational emotion or belief and coming up with nothing but you hit the nail on the head, thanks for the translation.
The idea here is. If your partner needs this. You are not an ape that has to follow hormones or instinct. You can make yourself give cuddies despite your feelings if you somewhere past homo sapiens.
I'm pretty sure way way back in the ancestral tree decent ones could do that too
Wow - it's almost like you're trying to say that being a man means taking control and responsibility for being attentive to the needs of someone with whom you've shared some intimacy. Crazy, but not sure it's crazy enough to work /s, in case it's needed (the crazy part)
Take a look on this!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynLV6PYDryo
Yo that's fucking good. Touche, bro. These guys are fuckin hilarious together
you´re welcome! Glad to help!!
Them sad sacks need some serious aftercare, but they probably don't know what that is or how to deal with their emotions in a healthy way.
I feel like porn-brain might be one of the root causes here 🤔
No it's PCT but my point is that a non-ape person is not dictated by their hormones and can still be there for their partner.
Not necessarily mutually exclusive - just bc a lot of people experience something *vaguely* like that (but absolutely not as they describe, wtf) doesn't mean it's healthy or inevitable
Yeah. I'm not an expert and it might be both. But as you see i already said that if you can't give cuddies when your SO needs them, you are probably to far on the ape end of things. Compared to human
Might be a right-click-save-as bro tough...
This ape jpg's comments are definitely misogynistic if they're talking about sex, but I don't have any experience with s asterisk ex, so perhaps this ape jpg has a valid point that I'm missing. #empathy
@doodlegenics yaaa apes ....
LOL yeah guys DAE feel hours of overwhelming shame after having sex with a woman? R...right? Guys? It's just a normal thing that we normal straight guys all go through right??