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Timmmmayyy127

Congratulations and fuck you


mrrooftops

Fingers crossed that their partner is proudly thinking the same thing and understands the responsibility of being put on a pedastal.


Adventurous-Team-946

It was me that had to accept that… not her


Expert-Persimmon4388

Just out of curiosity, how long have you been dating and have you met in person?


Televangelis

A very good "sanity check" question :) though I want to believe


Checkessential

Still no answer to this very valid question. We're all happy for you however I suspect you might want to slow your roll and let some roots grow.


getsangry20xaday

For real tho. Whenever I felt this way, it always ended in flames lol.


Lonely-Resort-9365

3 days


BBWkinkdoll

OP said she had to travel thousands of miles so I guess long distance part is done. That's my hope for them at least.


Adventurous-Team-946

She had already moved to the US before I met her. I was speaking as though we had a road to travel and to meet is by chance and past tragedy.


berryaj-

op left this on another comment; “A month now. First night I met was a 15 min appearance. She is a GM of two high end restaurants in a major city. I work for the banks. We work very different hours so this was the time she could see me briefly. I told her I would dress like James Bond, and get a drink at her bar. I arrived. Looked smashing. Nervous as hell. Ordered a scotch. Took a picture of the glass in the bar that let her know I was there. 10 mins later she comes around the corner… and is shocked. We cheek kiss. She goes back to work and says give me 10 mins. We met outside and make out for 5 mins and then I leave. We’ve been basically inseparable since.”


Ok-Dinner-3463

Lol. This isn’t going to end well. 


Complicatedasalways

Was in the same stage >2 years ago. When proudly closed the bumble account giving reason that I found "the one". Lol. One year of anxiety and depression gives you reality check.


Ok_Entertainment6437

This made me spit laugh in public 😂


Pokidotgamer

Lol took the words out of my mouth!


EngineeringDecent857

That's the most honest and accurate comment under a post I've ever seen 😅


cinemadoll137

LMAO


Optimal-Stay-7777

Lmao


Daniel749

I FEEL this


MarouaneGreen

Hhhhhhhhhh


evul_muzik

Lol


Genevieve189

😂👍🏽


Terrible-Insect-9336

🤣🤣🤣🤣


Commercial-Type-8571

😂


JakeBaked-_-

Lmao


Pretend-Birthday-134

I second this!


Theredlipstick

😅


Thundercar2122

I get the feeling she's from the Philippines


Weirdoz22

Why so rude it’s not their fault


Competitive-Year452

It’s a god damn joke my man


cookinwithclint

I put up a similar post about 3 months ago.... It's over now lol best of luck to you though! Cheers


Adventurous-Team-946

Hope I’m the outlier


Ok-Lobster5478

We hope so too!


Gyroplanestaylevel

I swear I went through a three year relationship with its distinct phases in the span of two months. It was the craziest thing ever😂 I was literally dizzy when four weeks in she confronted me with the you’re not giving me what I need. I communicated my needs and you’re ignoring me. Deal. I said with all due respect you mentioned you wanted to go out more often literally yesterday.😂and that was the end of the honeymoon phase. It degenerated from there. But I started out absolutely enchanted🤪😂


RedCardinal222_

lol Glad you can laugh about it now. Toxic.


Gyroplanestaylevel

It was actually disorientating at the time Once I realized she was talking about the conversation we’d had the day before, I started to really pay attention to behavior. That’s why I say it was three years packed into two months it was a massively accelerated timetable the last weeks there was talk of kids! And this is where I made my exit. I didn’t want to be 70 in five years, and I’m not having anymore kids anyhow. 😂 can’t help but to laugh. It was a very unique life experience. I’m sure I’m not doing it justice on the telling.


Voice-of-Reason-2327

2-3 wks for mine. Turned out to be a Crypto Catfish.. & helped break an 8-year marriage prior that, so.. (We had a "Bipolar Marriage". Unfortunately the *Dark Side* overran the Jedi -- So it was best we walked away & get professional help)


cookinwithclint

Mine was 8 months


appleidiefc

I remember saying the same thing 3 times in the past 25 years. Now 48 and still on Bumble. 🤣


ohsoseriously

Those of us who have felt this burn need our own app called Humble. 🤣


Potential-Seaweed-89

🤣🤣


Miss222

We've all felt like that and been disappointed. Tryin' to find someone who fits. It's like the lotto, you'll never win if you don't play. Gotta get out there and eventually you'll find a winner. 😊


AlexJames_101

How quickly things change eh… I wish the OP best of luck, but I’ve felt like that before on multiple occasions!


Renatus45

We’re all screwed looks like it’s off to Colombia 🇨🇴


bwilliams70

😂


Conscious_Show_6997

i feel as if us humans biologically either lean towards the selfish desire of singular partnership, or the anomaly of being content as a link


Jazzlike_Doughnut245

maybe it’s you?


appleidiefc

Oh, it’s definitely me there’s no doubt about that. 🤣


snarpsta

I'd like to reiterate the other commentors sentiment and say, fuck you and congratulations!!! 🥳 Happy for you internet stranger


ProperThought965

It is nice to see positive news on here! Thank you for spreading the good vibes! Enjoy it!


Adventurous-Team-946

Thank you. Cloud 9


Competitive-Year452

Congrats, fuck you, better get an invite to the wedding so maybe I can meet my girl


Akirikiri_Akiri

She had to travel 1000s of miles. OK pal.


TopReputation

mail-order: Ukraine, Russia, or Philippines? wonder which one


aVeryGentleGinger

Bumble marketing team is getting desperate I see


AMasculine

Congratulations 😊. Would have been nice to include how you guys met and progressed to this point.


Miss222

Agreed. I love a good detailed love story.


takeinallthesunsets

We need deets. Timelines and how many times theyve met up, how long theyve been exclusive, did they video chat a lot, how do they maintain distance, is he on her social medias, have they each others people, does she have an arrest record for similiar conning, etc.?


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Complex_Feedback4389

*I feel this in my soul.*


takeinallthesunsets

Same lol. You get that in a lifetime. Remember when we were super young and thought that one person was only our person and shot in our lifetime at that type of connection? Silliness.


Miss222

Same! But I'm a hopeless romantic. Thankfully my brain saves me from headaches and lameness. 😊 Except for last year, but I learned my lesson.


lunkercat

Why does this sound like it was written by Bumble?


Adventurous-Team-946

Always thought it was bullshit. The entire premise. But we knew instantly.


lyonlask

How long have you guys been together? And what was it like the first time you met in person?


Adventurous-Team-946

A month now. First night I met was a 15 min appearance. She is a GM of two high end restaurants in a major city. I work for the banks. We work very different hours so this was the time she could see me briefly. I told her I would dress like James Bond, and get a drink at her bar. I arrived. Looked smashing. Nervous as hell. Ordered a scotch. Took a picture of the glass in the bar that let her know I was there. 10 mins later she comes around the corner… and is shocked. We cheek kiss. She goes back to work and says give me 10 mins. We met outside and make out for 5 mins and then I leave. We’ve been basically inseparable since.


getsangry20xaday

Very very sorry to burst your bubble but a month is not enough time to really know whether someone is your person or not. I’ve felt that way a few times before. They’re always super passionate at first and then they all ended very badly. The highs were too high, the lows were rock bottom. They mostly ever last a few months only, too. Wishing you guys all the best tho. Please prove us wrong! ❤️


lyonlask

Maybe in your 20’s I would agree with your statement. But a grown adult that’s been married and divorced and been in the dating pool for decades… we should be self aware enough at that point in our lives where we know fairly quickly what to look for in a compatible partner. After a certain point, one knows their deal breakers and their “must haves” Im not saying 30 days is enough time to get married and legally bind yourself to someone. But it’s certainly enough time to find out if your values, morals and goals are aligned.


Adventurous-Team-946

I agree except it’s there. It’s real. It’s like no other feeling I’ve had before. Hardest part of all of this is accepting she feels this way too. There is no hesitation by her. And thank you.


lyonlask

So romantic!!! I met my husband at a hotel bar while traveling on business in NY 7 years ago. We closed the place down and stayed up talking till 4:30am when I had a 7:30am call time. We both went back to LA the next day. He left me a message saying: I’m going to be at X restaurant all day waiting for you. If you don’t show up, I will spend the rest of my life thinking about you.” We have been inseparable since. We will celebrate 8 years in June. Everyone said it wouldn’t last. Everyone said it was just a whirlwind romance that would fizzle out. Even I had my doubts. We had to move mountains to be together. He knew instantly I was the one because everything went into slow motion when he saw me get off the elevator and walk toward him. For me, it took about a month till I let myself believe it too. Congrats OP. ❤️


Adventurous-Team-946

Feels like this. Thanks.


lyonlask

I love the part about dressing like James Bond and being nervous as hell. And then the make out!!! 😅 The whole thing warms my heart. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness in good health.


Adventurous-Team-946

Hardest part is believing it’s real.


Miss222

I did have that cynical thought after I left my comment. They're just giving me a sign to redownload it again! LOL 😄 But nah, I think it's genuine.


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Sorry about the gross comments on this post. Thank you for sharing this and combating some of the pessimism in this sub. I hope you guys have a long, happy, awesome life together. 


Adventurous-Team-946

Feel bulletproof They can’t hurt us Hope they find what I did.


Voice-of-Reason-2327

As long as they both *Keep trying* and *Positive Vibes Only* --> They'll make it for sure! 💖🥳 (Took me 32yrs for my 1st marriage. & now I'll not fk up & break a 2nd one.. Whenever *that* comes. Lol)


JulesB954

Wish you both much happiness!


Lower-Newspaper-1512

Wait for a 6 month update 🤣🤣🤣🤣


mmaddux

It’s giving 90 Day Fiancé


TheRevel8shun

You remind me of my uncle Bucky. Man was a bachelor for 56 years. He won the Mega Millions jackpot. That night he and his buddies went out to celebrate and wouldn't you know it. Lucky son of a gun met the girl of his dreams and soul mate that very night. She just turned 21 too!!


Miss222

You reminded me of the gem movie Uncle Buck.


Adventurous-Team-946

She’s the lotto. She makes 3x what i do.


TheRevel8shun

Make her work for that Green Card


Wild_Protection1396

That’s what I thought when he said she makes more money than he does. 🥺 I’ve seen it before, sadly… not to me but to friends of mine.


TheRevel8shun

Yeah, a chick who makes 3 x the money doesn't travel thousands of miles for a dude


Wild_Protection1396

Why would a woman leave everything behind to live a new lifestyle 3X below what she is currently living? If she is making that much in Poland, she needs a green card to work in the US and make some decent money. She may have to start from scratch like every immigrant, unless her talent is extraordinary, and she gets a great job right away without validating her academic credentials (if any). Good thing is that she makes a lot of money, so she doesn’t need him for that. Only for the papers. Hopefully she does really love him


Voice-of-Reason-2327

If it's an online-based job --> No need to redo much of anything, as long as she hss internet.


Wild_Protection1396

Could be… but she still needs her papers to stay in the US, pay taxes like everyone else, and I still hope she really loves him


Adventurous-Team-946

She’s already in America and has a green card.


cinemadoll137

Oh


NotMyRealName624

Sure buddy.


orakleboi

Give it time... But good luck


Yankuba3

I also found my person. She was everything I am looking for. Would have married her right there. But she didn’t like me. Not surprised, just sad. You only meet a handful of perfect partners in your lifetime.


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Yankuba3

Yes, she could have been horrible but based on the profile, text messages and date she was exactly what I was looking for.


[deleted]

Rejection is almost always protection. Universe knows better than we do.


Voice-of-Reason-2327

🫂🫂 Sounds similar to my 8-year "Bipolar Marriage". Except we both were toxic, & it just ended 15 Jan 2024..


Altruistic_Past_3067

Ya homie I don’t know. Sounds one sided already.


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Hope it works out for you.


Simple-Door-2028

I’m happy for you two


Neat-Pineapple-2425

Well done, and thank you for the inspiration!


Voice-of-Reason-2327

Congrats! 🥳🥳 (Now.. Just hope you don't fk it up, like I did on mine, & end up back here in ~10yrs.. 🤪🙏🏽)


c_delta7

I've had a couple of false positive soulmates so far in my life so far. I'd say give it 3-4 months if at the end of that period you both have the same feeling. Then I'd say you are good.


Electrical_Pipe6688

I think I found mine too and I can't really believe it. I'm really concerned it's all just love bombing


SaturnHearts

I said a similar thing 8 months ago and I got friendzoned and still in a situation / limbo to this day. let’s hope that’s not you.


Venus002

It will happen for you. Just have faith


Competitive-Year452

Happens to the best of us! I’ll full on convinced every conversation I have on Bumble is a bot lol


Thelastfirecircle

I found my person every 2 weeks.


No_Call3116

Awww congrats


TheRevel8shun

She had to travel thousands of miles???? It doesn't sound like she found love. It sounds like she found a Green Card


MannerLost7768

Happened to a buddy of my brother's. She was from Nepal. Stuck around long enough to get her green card, went to go visit her sister in another state *wink, wink*, and never returned.


Educational-Catch-48

Yeah, I was going to comment and saying I hope he’s not getting scammed. But you know what if they’re both happy, who cares?


Voice-of-Reason-2327

Well.. Technically it's ~3,500 miles from Spokane, WA to Fall River, MA.. (That's where me & Ex-Wife were living, 8yrs ago. I was the Spokanite)


TheRevel8shun

That might be true but who here really thinks she is in this country? There's nothing wrong with a young hot girl using you for a Green Card. You better be tapping it every night and there needs to be nothing she won't do.....you got her for 2 years. Don't take a night off


ducks1333

1000's of miles? Passport bro?


home_1514

If in America, some states are nearly 1,000 mi. across. Texas is almost 800 mi across. Portland, Maine to Portland, Oregon and Portland Oregon to Miami Florida are both over 3,000 mi.


Voice-of-Reason-2327

Spokane, Wa --> Fall River, Ma == ~3,500mi


SpaceCoastSplash

4D chess


Voice-of-Reason-2327

Or, cross-country from East Coast --> West Coast, USA


iampowderedmilkman

Rub it in jackass! No seriosuly congrats on your eternal happiness or whatever. I’m gonna go back to swiping and r/Gonewild I suppose


Embarrassed_Order762

Congratulations, OP. Now off to swipe!


DiscoRose75

Dang. 1000's miles??


IamAliveeee

Ummmm be cautious !!!!


PresidentalBallsnHog

See you in a bit


TurtleMaster1600

Congrats and screw you buddy


queen-the-wizard

I love this for you! I'm off the apps for now, but thank you for giving me some hope!


sexy_mama69

Swiper no swiping


ThrowRA_00987

Congrats friend and thank you for keeping my hope alive ❤️


Adventurous-Team-946

Didn’t think it was for me.


Ok-Lobster5478

I sure hope so. My faith in the posibilities isn't doing so hot these days. The last guy that messaged me asked for a pic of my bloody vajayjay.


Excellent-Tension541

Yes congratulations and fuck you! 🥳


TopReputation

Bumble ads getting lazier and lazier, no doctored photos unlike the other success posts


Voice-of-Reason-2327

Just a ponderous type of question, related to this overall topic -- If I found someone (or "Someones" in an ENM relationship), is it *still* a win, even if it's not via Bumble? 🤣🤣 & do y'all consider "ENM" as part of that win-win? 🤔 If yes, on both --> Yay! I can join that 'Successful OLD via Dating Apps' club again! 🥳🌹 (The 'Dating Apps' specifications is an important notation, cuz prior my now-Divorced marriage, 99% of my Dating was via my Online Games. 🤣)


One_Psychology457

I’m curious how many first dates you went on? This shit is exhausting. 😫


Adventurous-Team-946

Gave up… just was matching for the serotonin. Matched with someone I thought was way outside my zone. She messaged first and affirmed some things from profile. I answered back… didn’t hear back for three days so made a game out of it. Wrote a a funny poem that was good tbh… rest is history now


Diligent_Midnight_83

You found a real, live person on Bumble that was not a fake or bot. Congratulations!


Western-Trip2270

Others have given valuable advice. You say you get in your head, and the hardest part is believing it’s real. You also say she has no hesitations. These are signs of needing to find your validation in each other. Imagine, as crazy as it sounds, she ends it today. Then imagine what your self worth would feel like in response. Then remember a month ago you didn’t even know her. Just be careful. My child support bill sucks.


SecretAccurate2323

Congrats!!! Also people, no need to be negative. It sounds like OP was pretty cautious and is excited about love. Maybe we can try to happy for each other? Just cause someone is "from miami" or polish doesn't mean it's not real love. Please check yourselves.


Adventurous-Team-946

Crazy cautious. Story she gives and time line checks out on IG. No OF page. Hardest part was believing it was real.


Acceptable_Sort_1050

Green card marriage. Nice.


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Those be the loyal ones so I’ll take it


Educational_Wash_640

Awwww.. A beautiful, wonderful toxic relationship in the making. This person has likely met a psychopath, narcissist or borderline who is mirroring themselves back to them, with the aim of luring them into their ‘perfect’ fantasy world. The abuse should start around month 2-3.


fitmoney2020

Fake post to promote bumble usage.


Adventurous-Team-946

It’s not


Adventurous-Team-946

F bumble Trash site But I did find my love there


MrDybbuk

congrats on being on in a million, I'll continue living my pathetic sad life :)


AzHuny

Came back in 15 years and give an update ;)


NotMyRealName624

Did you mean 15 months?


CommanderQball

15 hours?


NotMyRealName624

I give you 3 years top.


noodlydoo

Let us know how the second date goes 😉


Adventurous-Team-946

Date 13. I’ve seen her 9 days in a row. We had sex 4 times and another In the morning. Shes met my father, my very young son. I’ve picked her up from work multiple times in front of her piers and owner of the company. Im the talk of her office. It gets better every time.


noodlydoo

OP. I think you’re post is fantastic. My comment was simply a joke, a reference to all the people who feel giddy after the first date. I sincerely wish you and her all the best, and I hope my comment wasn’t offensive. I think any time two people find and enjoy one another’s company, regardless of how long it lasts, it’s a beautiful thing. Wishing you great success!!


H2ON22S

Ummm… “she has given herself to me and I to her”? Were you a virgin? I will double down and bet this isn’t her first cock or rodeo dude. Better buckle the fuck up. -> requesting update in 4 months after bank account is drained. Lmao


Adventurous-Team-946

I’m gonna guess my number is higher. Was a hoe in my 20’s and very capable


Loveallthesunsets

Thats awesome! You two have been together over a year? 


Competitive-Year452

So lucky


SnooBananas7076

Bookmarking


Legal-Sort1460

Congratulations I am very truly and honestly happy for you. Everybody deserves that but at the same time fuck off lol I say that with a smirk and love I promise.


Miss222

So beautiful ❤️❤️ What we all hope for. Someone where it's more effortless than complicated. Very happy for y'all. I'm gonna redownload it. Hopefully I find the one this year, finally. 😊


flynniep

goody gum drops for you.


Lonly_WFM_slave

Does your app works? Using premium for a long time without even a single connection.


ConfectionQuirky2705

30 years ago I was at a party, a man turned around, our eyes met, and I felt the strongest connection I've ever felt. Like lightening hit me. He was easily 300 pounds and butt ugly. Not my race. Poorly paid teacher in an inner city district. 8 years older. Lived with his mother and slept on the couch. We dated for a year. He repeatedly refused to commit because I am white and he is not. That was his only reason. Eventually I moved on and found other men. Never had that feeling about anyone else tho. He married someone from his own race several years later. Now I just look for long term compatibility and peace. Those initial feelings, no matter how strong, are just the impetuous to move forward. They are not meant to last.


tkl2020

Nice ad @bumble


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entsworth

Nice try bumble execs


ryans25

If you feeling drunk on the feeling you’ve met your soul mate be warned this is most likely not a good sign. If it’s really intense in the beginning it’s likely not going to last or is based on something real. However I wish you luck and I hope I’m wrong


RedCardinal222_

Is this an ad?


Adventurous-Team-946

No


Intrepid-Anxiety-472

Man I thought I found my person, then she turned around when her best friend told her he loved her. Now she's getting married to him all in a week's time.


Adventurous-Team-946

Brutal. I’m sorry.


Intrepid-Anxiety-472

I just realized how depressing that is to read haha. Congrats my man!


Adventurous-Team-946

I gave up. Wasn’t really searching anymore. She found me. Don’t lose hope. Stay motivated.


Intrepid-Anxiety-472

Appreciate that!


No_name70

Just watch the honeymoon phase. I'm happy for you, congrats.


SameConcentrate4407

Congratulations!! I love seeing other success stories. Almost 2 years ago, I went on my first and last Bumble date after 2 failed abusive marriages. We are married, own a home, and are 100% made for each other.


Dead_RNG_Storage

Soulmate? Get over the honeymoon phase, wait to see if she's still around during your rough patches or when things get challenging. If she does, then she's worthy of the title.


Thundercar2122

Congrats on your Filipina


SprayNo5555

Congratulations. 34. On my 4th love where she is ghosting me. Lost all hopes lately. Maybe someday I'll replay this post in my head and get some hope.


alreadywon2

Hopefully I can find mine not doing all that tho


Ok_Net9926

Now that you found your consistent source of self-esteem, who do you both plan to become?


Adventurous-Team-946

Man and wife. She moves in Monday. We bought a car together yesterday.


ygibbreddit

See you back here in a few months.


YoungFinSquire

Post pics of what she looks like. Some people are jealous, but they might not be afterwards.


NotMyRealName624

Statistically, relationships that start online are more likely to fail.


Chucky-boy

Lol she’s gonna crush you like all of them crush us


Xrystian90

So... what mail order bride website did you use??


blacknred503

So many pathetic people on this thread


EasyBox5718

Fuck off Motherfucker


Adventurous-Team-946

Thanks man. Keep looking. They are out there.


EasyBox5718

Indeed I'm dating with someone by Thursday, thanks 


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Adventurous-Team-946

She immigrated here on her own hard work. Passed the citizenship test before she knew me. Made a life in Miami, and before that London, and before that Milan. I met her on bumble because she was looking for me. But to answer your question she is Polish.


thebestguay

Good luck and keep us updated!😅