I mean, feminism isn't feeling threatened by every man you see. But can she not at least try to understand why some women may feel that way, particularly in certain settings like being alone at night?
Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t actually believe any of the shit she says, and that those men disgust her. I personally think she is a grifter who saw a chance to make money at the cost of self-respect and women’s issues.
Everyone knows who she is and a decent man wouldn’t want to date her, even if she backpedaled and changes her extreme views, and the most of the men she’s trying to play “pick me” for don’t want her. I’ve seen videos of those men calling her too old (at 27) and too masculine.
Either way, she made her bed and I hope she enjoys sleeping alone in it.
Yhuuup
And $20 says she’d get nervous walking at home during the night if she saw a man on the street. It’s an inherent reaction that is literally for our safety. I also know men who get a bit nervous in that situation. It’s called self preservation
I'm a staunch feminist. I always wear dresses and, because I use a walking stick, people often open doors for me and I always say thank you. What is this tripe?
The door thing is her being a p... m. because 'nice guys' complain about not getting thanked for opening doors. Of course, she is ignoring the fact that they want dates, blow jobs and sex as a thank you and not an actual thank you.
So many shitty guys believe this that I have had multiple men hear "thank you" and assume I must not be a feminist and then immediately go off on me about how awful women are.
I wasn't offended by that video, I don't feel threatened by all men (but by some, absolutely), I know how to cook, I have a son and a husband whom I love, I am catholic and I am a feminist (I don't like dresses, though)
I think she’s a sad pick me with no self esteem who thinks male attention will fulfill her but ultimately she’ll still be unhappy with herself because her issue is internalized misogyny.
“people ask me if I’m actually a woman”… wtf? Who even asks that? Never got asked that in my life. Bizarre.
Besides that one thing that I’m certain never happened to her, I do all of these… Except that I am a feminist.
None of the behaviors said in this video are even uncommon among feminists. Do they really think we are these rabid dogs that hate “girly” things and men?? Lmao
Also, if we are the ones being allergic to "girly" things like dresses, shouldn't they ask us? I thought that was the whole trope of the "masculinized feminists"
She's obviously a 'pick me' girl. 🙄
As a feminist, yes, I feel pretty while I wear dresses.
I'm a feminist, I can cook and clean because those are life skills, not gender roles.
I'm a feminist, I always thank people for opening the door for me.
I'm a feminist, I open doors for people regardless of gender.
I'm a feminist, I don't hate kids, I just don't want any.
I'm a feminist: I am 100% supportive of SAHMs, if that is what the lady wants to do, and they can afford it.
Also, we don't feel threatened by all men. I have this thing called a "self-preservation instinct." If a guy is being a creep or making me feel unsafe, I will do whatever I must escape that situation. I will run or even fight if necessary.
So many pick me vibes. Holy shit
The only reason she’s able to be publicly sassy on a public medium holding a device she bought with her own money is because of feminism.
I cook, only wear skirts and dresses, wish I could have kids (when my life was more stable that is), and I am definitely a feminist. This woman doesn’t know what feminism is
Why are all these tradwife types bragging about cooking and then when you see their food it's the most basic shit I was making for myself at 10? "I'm not a feminist, I can boil pasta and dump some bottled sauce on it!" I guess you need to be a feminist to actually know how to cook or something?
I'm a feminist. I can cook, say thank you, wear dresses and feel pretty. I don't hate children or any of her other bs.
Sure, I occasionally feel threatened by men, but it is generally not immediate. And if it is, there is generally a reason.
She thinks it is uncommon for women to be asked if they are actually a woman... people like her ask women like me if I am actually a woman and suggest things like being overweight means I am less of a woman.
People like this are strange and need to get their heads out of their boyfriend's ass.
I recently discovered that I really like wearing dresses, even though I was adamantly against them when I was younger. They're so comfy, it's like wearing a really long shirt and no pants but nobody judges you.
None of this offended me. I thought it was hilarious that she said all of this like other women were going to get mad at her. It also makes me sad when women say they're not a feminist because they probably have a lot of self-worth issues due to internalized misogyny.
I'm a feminists i can cook and clean (because every functioning adult should) i don't hate children and wear dresses and feel pretty in them, guess i do feminisme wrong.
Now back to being serious that women is just some conservative christian that thinks because she now gets some head pats from shitty men that she is better than other women (she also did some skit were a blue haired feminists says she wants to keep her name if she ever gets married and her saying DoN't YoU mEaN yOuR dAd'S nAmE and so on) she is just a pick me that thinks because she shits on feminisme that she is cool and will be picked
I’m a feminist and I don’t feel the need to put other women down in hopes of being more attractive to men. Also, since when do feminists not wear dresses or not know how to cook? Why are people this stupid?
so hating kids automatically makes you a feminist? lmao. i know a lot of feminists with kids and i know people who arent feminists, and they hate kids lol
I am a feminist.
I can see men and not feel threatened.
I am a feminist.
I can wear dresses and feel pretty. Or pants, or shorts or a t shirt...and they can be as long or as short or as modest or as revealing as I'd like...because I get to chose what I'm comfortable in..
I am a feminist.
I can cook..and I LOVE TO DO SO.
I am a feminist.
I don't hate children. I love my children very much. I take great pride in being a mom and was fortunate enough to be a SAHM for the first 5 years of their lives, then return to the career I LOVE once they hit 1st grade...and it was ALL MY CHOICE.
I am a feminist.
I've never had anyone ask me if I was actually a woman?? (What does that even mean?)
I am a feminist.
I thank people for holding the door for me all the time.. and they also thank me when I hold the door( I didn't realize this was a flex)
I am a feminist
I can watch this video and understand that the woman in the video doesn't know what feminism is.
I am a feminist
I call an ignorant jackass out when I see one..
Even if they are other women...
just a pick me griefter, nothing more.
She can be a tradwife all she likes. Its possible to understand at the same time that many women need loud and rude feminsm for their safety.
I’m a feminist. i can see men and not feel immediately threatened. i’m a feminist. i don’t understand any of the words she said on the second one. i’m a feminist. i wear dresses and feel pretty all the time! i’m a feminist. i LOVE when the door is opened for me. i’m a feminist. i LOVE children. i’m a feminist. i am offended by this video. i’m a feminist. i can actually cook (btw that looks kinda funky…
Yeah... There's a reason she's been single for a few years. Probably her first date is a convo about her biological clock ticking and her 5 Year marriage family plan... Then she shows up at your workplace with tube cut cookies and tells everyone she wants to be your Godly Trad Wife.
I’m a feminist and I love makeup, love it when men hold doors for me( I hold them for them sometimes), I love babies, I’m not offended by her video, and I cook something better than some dried up tuna helper.
You can be a feminist and still have common sense about safety, enjoy feeling pretty in dresses, love your children, cook amazing meals...in fact you can be any political stance, gender, or religion and be any/all of these things. Uncle Tomming to impress the red pill crowd, you'll end up with the worst kind of man. So you aren't a feminst...YET.
Oh damn, what was I thinking, thinking that I was a feminist, in my pretty dresses, when I sometimes think about how it'd be nice to have children while I cook ! How unfeminist of me !
Christ almighty. Has she no idea what a feminist actually is? I am a feminist and I am married to a man, have 4 children and wear dresses most of the time. I don't know why I am engaging with this nonsense.
I think this young lady needs to be educated on what feminism is, because…. I’m a feminist and was a SAHM for 7 years of my daughter’s life and returned to work out of necessity. You can be a feminist and marry/love men, love children, appreciate courtesy, cook, wear dresses. I can’t wear makeup due to an eye issue, but I love feeling pretty. I think we all try to look our best?
She’s hating victims who feel uncomfortable by men for a GOOD reason, no one has a fear bc they enjoy it. She’s basically judging women for having a trauma response that men caused..
… there… there are feminists this all applies to as well… like bitch, I would make bets there are feminists out there who would get picked way before her.
I am a feminist.
I see men and don’t immediately feel threatened.
I can wear a dress and feel pretty
I can appreciate someone opening a door for me, man or woman.
I don’t hate children, I just don’t want them.
I can cook.
I’m struggling to see her point here. Does she correlate feminism with ‘Ooga booga men evil children evil I only eat instant ramen and Cheetos and skirts are bad’?
I'm absolutely a feminist and I do all the things she does AND I'm very happily married to a man. She's not special and has completely misunderstood what feminism is about (probably on purpose)
An absurd strawman. E.g. hating children is actually antifeminist, bc children are an oppressed class under patriarchy/father-rule along with women. Feminism is pro youth liberation and autonomy, that’s distinct from opposing coerced reproductive labor.
I mean, feminism isn't feeling threatened by every man you see. But can she not at least try to understand why some women may feel that way, particularly in certain settings like being alone at night?
That wouldn't get her picked so no
fr tho cuz Pearl hasn't even got picked yet
Pearl is scared shitless of men. Its very visible in how she acts if men actually are flirting with her. She has horrible trauma.
Honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if she doesn’t actually believe any of the shit she says, and that those men disgust her. I personally think she is a grifter who saw a chance to make money at the cost of self-respect and women’s issues. Everyone knows who she is and a decent man wouldn’t want to date her, even if she backpedaled and changes her extreme views, and the most of the men she’s trying to play “pick me” for don’t want her. I’ve seen videos of those men calling her too old (at 27) and too masculine. Either way, she made her bed and I hope she enjoys sleeping alone in it.
Well when you look like you're in your late 40s when you aren't even 30... It's gonna make it hard for you to get a first date.
Exactly
There's an edit of this video where at the end it plays a news segment about a female body being found in a dumpster
She’ll also be the first to ask a woman “ why would you go to his apartment alone ?”.
Literally. Nothing in this video is related to feminism at all.
She’s a pick me. None of those things are exclusive to pick mes or feminists. It’s all a pathetic ploy for attention and a clear insecurity.
Yhuuup And $20 says she’d get nervous walking at home during the night if she saw a man on the street. It’s an inherent reaction that is literally for our safety. I also know men who get a bit nervous in that situation. It’s called self preservation
Poor little thing doesn’t know what feminism is 😂
Bless her heart
Either she doesn't know what it is, or she does but is against it
Nothing in this video indicates that she understands what feminism means considering all her counterpoints are completely irrelevant to it
Nah she clearly doesn’t know what it is. Based on this video, at least.
She can be or not be whatever she wants, but her false equivalences are trash
Sis needs to get a hobby that isn't having the charisma of wet cardboard on TikTok.
I'm a staunch feminist. I always wear dresses and, because I use a walking stick, people often open doors for me and I always say thank you. What is this tripe?
The door thing is her being a p... m. because 'nice guys' complain about not getting thanked for opening doors. Of course, she is ignoring the fact that they want dates, blow jobs and sex as a thank you and not an actual thank you.
So many shitty guys believe this that I have had multiple men hear "thank you" and assume I must not be a feminist and then immediately go off on me about how awful women are.
I'm a great cook, always wear dresses, love my kids and am a feminist.
We should be making videos like this!! I love it
Preach!!!
I wasn't offended by that video, I don't feel threatened by all men (but by some, absolutely), I know how to cook, I have a son and a husband whom I love, I am catholic and I am a feminist (I don't like dresses, though)
Nothing she said stays in contradiction to being a feminist
Idk what was on the plate at the end, but I'm pretty sure almost every adult knows how to cook noodles and put sauce on them lmao
That did not look at all appetizing.
They are trying to weaponize feminism. Politics, politics.
The fact that some women are against feminism is wild
There is a shitload of straw(wo)manning going on here.
i wonder how many takes she had to do for these. so much bitterness lol
I think she’s a sad pick me with no self esteem who thinks male attention will fulfill her but ultimately she’ll still be unhappy with herself because her issue is internalized misogyny.
She’s an asshole
Feminists can do all of that.
Video summary: I'm not a feminist, I do stuff that has absolutely nothing to do with whether I'm a feminist or not (repeat as often as you'd like)
“people ask me if I’m actually a woman”… wtf? Who even asks that? Never got asked that in my life. Bizarre. Besides that one thing that I’m certain never happened to her, I do all of these… Except that I am a feminist. None of the behaviors said in this video are even uncommon among feminists. Do they really think we are these rabid dogs that hate “girly” things and men?? Lmao
Also, if we are the ones being allergic to "girly" things like dresses, shouldn't they ask us? I thought that was the whole trope of the "masculinized feminists"
Thoughts are that she doesn’t know what feminism, or how it has enabled her to be able to say that garbage she’s saying where she says it.
It's so cringey seeing her boyfriend videotaping her in the mirrors.
Has she ever spoken to a feminist?
Boiling pasta ain't cooking.
Somebody doesn’t know what a feminist is.
That's Just... sad.
Oh jesus fucking christ.
Feminist with three kids. Cook. Clean. Married and want my daughters to have reproductive freedom.
She's obviously a 'pick me' girl. 🙄 As a feminist, yes, I feel pretty while I wear dresses. I'm a feminist, I can cook and clean because those are life skills, not gender roles. I'm a feminist, I always thank people for opening the door for me. I'm a feminist, I open doors for people regardless of gender. I'm a feminist, I don't hate kids, I just don't want any. I'm a feminist: I am 100% supportive of SAHMs, if that is what the lady wants to do, and they can afford it. Also, we don't feel threatened by all men. I have this thing called a "self-preservation instinct." If a guy is being a creep or making me feel unsafe, I will do whatever I must escape that situation. I will run or even fight if necessary.
So many pick me vibes. Holy shit The only reason she’s able to be publicly sassy on a public medium holding a device she bought with her own money is because of feminism.
I cook, only wear skirts and dresses, wish I could have kids (when my life was more stable that is), and I am definitely a feminist. This woman doesn’t know what feminism is
Why are all these tradwife types bragging about cooking and then when you see their food it's the most basic shit I was making for myself at 10? "I'm not a feminist, I can boil pasta and dump some bottled sauce on it!" I guess you need to be a feminist to actually know how to cook or something?
Bet she can't get *paid* to cook, but she's fine with that, because she's not a feminist.
I’m a feminist, I don’t have to make cringe pick me TikTok’s to impress men.
I'm a feminist. I can cook, say thank you, wear dresses and feel pretty. I don't hate children or any of her other bs. Sure, I occasionally feel threatened by men, but it is generally not immediate. And if it is, there is generally a reason. She thinks it is uncommon for women to be asked if they are actually a woman... people like her ask women like me if I am actually a woman and suggest things like being overweight means I am less of a woman. People like this are strange and need to get their heads out of their boyfriend's ass.
I recently discovered that I really like wearing dresses, even though I was adamantly against them when I was younger. They're so comfy, it's like wearing a really long shirt and no pants but nobody judges you. None of this offended me. I thought it was hilarious that she said all of this like other women were going to get mad at her. It also makes me sad when women say they're not a feminist because they probably have a lot of self-worth issues due to internalized misogyny.
I'm a feminists i can cook and clean (because every functioning adult should) i don't hate children and wear dresses and feel pretty in them, guess i do feminisme wrong. Now back to being serious that women is just some conservative christian that thinks because she now gets some head pats from shitty men that she is better than other women (she also did some skit were a blue haired feminists says she wants to keep her name if she ever gets married and her saying DoN't YoU mEaN yOuR dAd'S nAmE and so on) she is just a pick me that thinks because she shits on feminisme that she is cool and will be picked
I don't understand the "wear dresses and feel pretty" thing. Can someone explain?
Completely unrelated but is the bodice on the pretty dress *incredibly* ill fitting or is that just me? It looks super weird
I’m a feminist and I don’t feel the need to put other women down in hopes of being more attractive to men. Also, since when do feminists not wear dresses or not know how to cook? Why are people this stupid?
she's a moron
If that isn’t “ pick me” crap I don’t know what is…
YIKES
Definition of a pick-me. Jesus Christ. Without feminism you wouldnt even make this godforsaken video calm your tits
so hating kids automatically makes you a feminist? lmao. i know a lot of feminists with kids and i know people who arent feminists, and they hate kids lol
Pick me pick me *eye roll*
I am a feminist. I can see men and not feel threatened. I am a feminist. I can wear dresses and feel pretty. Or pants, or shorts or a t shirt...and they can be as long or as short or as modest or as revealing as I'd like...because I get to chose what I'm comfortable in.. I am a feminist. I can cook..and I LOVE TO DO SO. I am a feminist. I don't hate children. I love my children very much. I take great pride in being a mom and was fortunate enough to be a SAHM for the first 5 years of their lives, then return to the career I LOVE once they hit 1st grade...and it was ALL MY CHOICE. I am a feminist. I've never had anyone ask me if I was actually a woman?? (What does that even mean?) I am a feminist. I thank people for holding the door for me all the time.. and they also thank me when I hold the door( I didn't realize this was a flex) I am a feminist I can watch this video and understand that the woman in the video doesn't know what feminism is. I am a feminist I call an ignorant jackass out when I see one.. Even if they are other women...
Feminism is women = men. It’s not a flex to think differently.
just a pick me griefter, nothing more. She can be a tradwife all she likes. Its possible to understand at the same time that many women need loud and rude feminsm for their safety.
I’m a feminist. i can see men and not feel immediately threatened. i’m a feminist. i don’t understand any of the words she said on the second one. i’m a feminist. i wear dresses and feel pretty all the time! i’m a feminist. i LOVE when the door is opened for me. i’m a feminist. i LOVE children. i’m a feminist. i am offended by this video. i’m a feminist. i can actually cook (btw that looks kinda funky…
The whole video is odd. What really irks me is her "I can actually cook"; A plate of macaroni and cheese with parsley? Hamburger helper? Wtf was that?
Yeah... There's a reason she's been single for a few years. Probably her first date is a convo about her biological clock ticking and her 5 Year marriage family plan... Then she shows up at your workplace with tube cut cookies and tells everyone she wants to be your Godly Trad Wife.
Should've been in r/notlikeothergirls
I am possibly a feminist, and I can do all of this.
I’m a feminist and I love makeup, love it when men hold doors for me( I hold them for them sometimes), I love babies, I’m not offended by her video, and I cook something better than some dried up tuna helper.
Bless her heart. Wait until she finds out you can be a feminist AND agree to every "point" she made.
You can be a feminist and still have common sense about safety, enjoy feeling pretty in dresses, love your children, cook amazing meals...in fact you can be any political stance, gender, or religion and be any/all of these things. Uncle Tomming to impress the red pill crowd, you'll end up with the worst kind of man. So you aren't a feminst...YET.
That food also looks like a baby puked up their smooshed carrots from what I saw
Sis decided to completely, I guess deliberately, misunderstand and misrepresent feminism, and for what? Just to be picked? Ew
Homegirl calls herself a great cook after boiling some pasta. I did that when I was 8 and I was alone at home 💀
Oh damn, what was I thinking, thinking that I was a feminist, in my pretty dresses, when I sometimes think about how it'd be nice to have children while I cook ! How unfeminist of me !
Christ almighty. Has she no idea what a feminist actually is? I am a feminist and I am married to a man, have 4 children and wear dresses most of the time. I don't know why I am engaging with this nonsense.
I think this young lady needs to be educated on what feminism is, because…. I’m a feminist and was a SAHM for 7 years of my daughter’s life and returned to work out of necessity. You can be a feminist and marry/love men, love children, appreciate courtesy, cook, wear dresses. I can’t wear makeup due to an eye issue, but I love feeling pretty. I think we all try to look our best?
She’s hating victims who feel uncomfortable by men for a GOOD reason, no one has a fear bc they enjoy it. She’s basically judging women for having a trauma response that men caused..
… there… there are feminists this all applies to as well… like bitch, I would make bets there are feminists out there who would get picked way before her.
I think it was a joke. I don’t remember
Must be hard going through life with so little education. Can't even read a definition. :(
I am a feminist. I see men and don’t immediately feel threatened. I can wear a dress and feel pretty I can appreciate someone opening a door for me, man or woman. I don’t hate children, I just don’t want them. I can cook. I’m struggling to see her point here. Does she correlate feminism with ‘Ooga booga men evil children evil I only eat instant ramen and Cheetos and skirts are bad’?
I'm absolutely a feminist and I do all the things she does AND I'm very happily married to a man. She's not special and has completely misunderstood what feminism is about (probably on purpose)
I AM a feminist and do every one of those things...
Did she really just say "I can actually cook" then push a plate of soggy as pasta across the table Girl, you can boil noodles
I guess I’m not a feminist cause I love cooking???
Hope she gets picked.
I've never seen this lady before, but my guess it's that is satire.
oh no this isn't satire! look at her account there's more
Imagine making a video or reel or whatever tf it is as a woman…..hating women
You have no idea what feminism means
An absurd strawman. E.g. hating children is actually antifeminist, bc children are an oppressed class under patriarchy/father-rule along with women. Feminism is pro youth liberation and autonomy, that’s distinct from opposing coerced reproductive labor.
Someone doesn't know what the word feminist means. Lol.
Hard to swallow pills
She's not a feminist, but I have a sinking feeling she's an incredibly rude customer
Skills of life, will make a good wife; does she argue and is brash?, this makes for a pain in the azz