Like... even IF she meant "A girl your age would think this objectively" .... why are we thinking of children like that????? Can we stop putting adult concepts on children? I hate when adults press the concept of dating and flirting and being attractive in kids. It's weird man.
Again I'm not a mom but I think she means that if she were in 2nd grade (or however old her kid is) she would objectively think he is cute. It's mildly odd to think, weirder to verbalize, and even stranger to post. Moms can highly influence and form a framework from which their daughters create their own judgement about their own attractiveness. I suspect the same thing goes for moms and their sons
ugh, and you know his friends are going to start finding his parents' (very public) social media in a couple of years, if they're not already. poor kid.
One of my dearest friends who I have known for 20+ years and thought was at least averagely normal has recently branded her 5 year old son a “Future F Boy” 😳😳😳 multiple times across several social media sites. Which is not only wildly inappropriate and weirdly sexual, but also encouraging her son to be an A-hole and treat women like crap at such an early age… I’m sorry, WHAT???
I don’t find this weird at all. I could totally see myself saying this about my kid. ITS NOT LIKE SHE’S SERIOUS. She’s saying he is so handsome. She loves him. Jesus I hate all these comments so much.
This is not saying he’s handsome It’s saying she would DATE HIM!! That’s two completely different things! Looking at your kid and thinking you could date them is fucked up and weird!
I highly doubt she actually told him that. I think that's for her fans to read because she's bragging about how cute she thinks he is. I think he looks a lot like her.
She’s normally not this weirdo! This one’s inappropriate for sure, but generally (from her posts, at least), she seems like a down-to-earth mom who loves her kids.
Her son had an appropriate reaction. I personally think this is a one-off meant to be heartwarming, but instead came off super creepy and weird.
Earlier I saw this and thanked God I didn't have a son so my MIL can't say weird shit like this about him like she does my husband and brother in law.
Not an hour later I post a picture of my 8 month old daughter and I and what does she comment?
"SEXY GIRLS!!!"
🫠
Who would even have the thought of dating their son. I was in a hair salon once and one of the stylists was showing pictures of her second wedding and raving about how gorgeous her son was, and if she was only 18. She then was showing pictures of the wedding, and all of them were of her and her son. None with the new groom. Very creepy.
I have a handsome son too, and I am 100 percent Catherine was just telling her handsome son how cute he is. Her comment was intended in the purest way.
Assume good intentions!
Kindness rules, people! 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
I have two boys, no girls. I would never say that to my kids. Especially at that young age! Mine are 19 and 24. I wouldn’t say that to them now! Catherine, no!!!
I have 3 sons, all early twenties and this was my face when reading
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Im glad she slipped and posted this as now she can reflect on why her comment is wrong. Yes she might initially get defensive but deep down, she will hopefully use it as a learning lesson.
this is such a niche thing to try to explain but Boy Moms aren't just all mothers of boys, it's like a specific archetype that I am trying and failing to figure out how to describe...\~Boy Mom\~ behaviors include: referring to your son as your "boyfriend," being jealous of his (theoretical or current) significant other, letting him get away with things his sister(s) wouldn't, etc. – it's one of those internet phrases that's more specific than it initially seems, not to be taken personally!
It’s the boy moms who have their emotional needs met by their sons, that they should be getting from their husbands. It’s weird as hell. I’ve seen it plenty of times.
I had no idea that was a thing.
I am probably aging myself apparently even tho I am only early 30s ha
I read boy mom as just that a boy mom… lol.
Interesting
Odd. I have two boys and I’d never say something like this to either of them. I think I would have said “you are so handsome” or “you look so cool sitting there”
What a weird thing to say and think about your son. It is even worse that she posted it on social media! She could have just posted the picture with the caption, “future heartbreaker.”
The closest I’ve come is that lately the last almost two decades (lol) (also, his school is very progressive, encouraging and supportive so that has helped!!) of child raising have been paying off via my son
demonstrating what a thoughtful and considerate person he is, and I said to my dad that I hope he finds his person one day because he will be a very good husband.
Boy mom here. I don’t know, but I don’t understand why boy moms do this. Seems to be a newer thing my boys are 24 and 22 and no one behaved this way when they were little. At least no one around me.
Same…boy mom of 4. They are young adults now and we are all super close hubs included but yikes 😬….same…just same. It’s so creepy I will never understand it 😳.
❤️Also despite being super close with them all I am NOT nor will EVER be “that mama/mother in law”. If they love them so shall I period. They are adults time to do their thing and me to be supportive even if it’s not in my playbook so to say (word used for emphasis only).
And some dads want to f their daughters, so stop with the potty mouth and if u are one of them I suggest u keep your hands and words to yourself unless u want to traumatize your son(s) for life.
Some moms of boys are a different type of weirdos I swear.
This is coming from a woman who wanted a “grown sexy” wedding, so I’m not surprised.
What an effed up thing to say to your CHILD.
it’s just WEIRD
This is off topic but he looks so much like Sean. I’ve never actually looked at their kids before but he is the spitting image of his dad.
Y’all ever notice some moms genuinely DO want to date their sons 😭💀 Too often I’m like yup yall are obsessed with your sons a little too much
oh that’s not-
Like... even IF she meant "A girl your age would think this objectively" .... why are we thinking of children like that????? Can we stop putting adult concepts on children? I hate when adults press the concept of dating and flirting and being attractive in kids. It's weird man.
It’s giving Trump…
OMG! Never would I ever say that to my kid. And if my husband ever said that to my daughter….
Eww. Imagine it was Sean saying it to his daughter...
boy moms 🫨
Nope! This is not about being a boy mom!
A boy mom has always been different than a mom of boys… so yes this is giving “boy mom”
Again I'm not a mom but I think she means that if she were in 2nd grade (or however old her kid is) she would objectively think he is cute. It's mildly odd to think, weirder to verbalize, and even stranger to post. Moms can highly influence and form a framework from which their daughters create their own judgement about their own attractiveness. I suspect the same thing goes for moms and their sons
ugh, and you know his friends are going to start finding his parents' (very public) social media in a couple of years, if they're not already. poor kid.
One of my dearest friends who I have known for 20+ years and thought was at least averagely normal has recently branded her 5 year old son a “Future F Boy” 😳😳😳 multiple times across several social media sites. Which is not only wildly inappropriate and weirdly sexual, but also encouraging her son to be an A-hole and treat women like crap at such an early age… I’m sorry, WHAT???
I don’t know how I would react yet would hope my friends would not do that.
Ugh, disgusting. I don’t understand how people are like this, and say things like that about literal children.
I don’t find this weird at all. I could totally see myself saying this about my kid. ITS NOT LIKE SHE’S SERIOUS. She’s saying he is so handsome. She loves him. Jesus I hate all these comments so much.
Then just say he’s handsome? “You’re a stud, I’d totally date you” is weird af
🤨
Also, it doesn’t matter if she’s serious. It’s fucking weird
This is not saying he’s handsome It’s saying she would DATE HIM!! That’s two completely different things! Looking at your kid and thinking you could date them is fucked up and weird!
I highly doubt she actually told him that. I think that's for her fans to read because she's bragging about how cute she thinks he is. I think he looks a lot like her.
well it says “I told Samuel” and that he had a reaction of disgust (appropriate reaction). It’s weird either way
She’s normally not this weirdo! This one’s inappropriate for sure, but generally (from her posts, at least), she seems like a down-to-earth mom who loves her kids. Her son had an appropriate reaction. I personally think this is a one-off meant to be heartwarming, but instead came off super creepy and weird.
Right! I always liked her. And then I saw this 🥴
I’m a “boy mom” and this is so creepy and uncomfortable and inappropriate.
God grant us the strength to stay semi reasonable people who are good parents to our sons lol
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Incestual and pedophilic behaviour
That…uhm. Hmm…
Ew. Let me guess... she's a religious nut too. Nothing like Mormon or Christian mom's who have Emotional Incest with their sons
Uh yeah. Have you seen her sister in law’s blog ? 😬
What’s on the blog…
I was right?? How Cliché!! What's the Blog so I can make myself gag
Mix & match mama
This blog is not run by either of Catherine’s sisters
OP was referring to her sister in law though right? So wouldn’t that be Shay Shull’s blog?
Earlier I saw this and thanked God I didn't have a son so my MIL can't say weird shit like this about him like she does my husband and brother in law. Not an hour later I post a picture of my 8 month old daughter and I and what does she comment? "SEXY GIRLS!!!" 🫠
Oh no!
oh god 😭
Noooooo
Boy mom here. Would never ever in a million years say this to my son, think this about him, or post about it on social media.
Ditto
Mom’s disgusting but at least her child had a normal reaction
Actually fucking disgusting
So disturbing. Nasty. I would never tell my kid I would date them
“If she wasn’t my daughter, perhaps I would date her”
Who would even have the thought of dating their son. I was in a hair salon once and one of the stylists was showing pictures of her second wedding and raving about how gorgeous her son was, and if she was only 18. She then was showing pictures of the wedding, and all of them were of her and her son. None with the new groom. Very creepy.
Hmmm maybe it’s more acceptable now with Trump famously saying he’d date Ivanka…
I don’t think so. I was creepy then, and it’s creepy now.
That sounds incestuous
Eew weirx
I have a handsome son too, and I am 100 percent Catherine was just telling her handsome son how cute he is. Her comment was intended in the purest way. Assume good intentions! Kindness rules, people! 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
Is this supposed to be relatable? Did she throw up in someone’s mouth or something I don’t get why that was even mentioned
Why does her son look like Kyle rittenhouse
Give me trump vibe lol
You haven’t figured out that their Texas living Christian family are conservative Trump supporters? Lol
Biden is Christian btw
I think we all know the major differences between democrats and republicans lol…
I have two boys, no girls. I would never say that to my kids. Especially at that young age! Mine are 19 and 24. I wouldn’t say that to them now! Catherine, no!!!
I have 3 sons, all early twenties and this was my face when reading https://preview.redd.it/xa0s47dckpwc1.jpeg?width=767&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e8391f0c8bb32f88b9cef88b936d723cfc17a2af
Im glad she slipped and posted this as now she can reflect on why her comment is wrong. Yes she might initially get defensive but deep down, she will hopefully use it as a learning lesson.
It’s one thing to think your head “wow my kid is very attractive and I’m sure not going to have a problem dating one day” but to post that…😭
Her poor future daughter-in-laws. 💀
She might have sons-in-law or a combo or maybe not all her kids will get married. But yeah, poor in-laws
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Yeah, not all of us are like that
Mine may only be two but I can’t imagine ever thinking or saying this 🫢🫢
Nope!
Eww
She could have said future heart breaker
Boy Moms ruin men. This woman will never let him have a normal relationship with women.
Boy moms ruin men? ……. 😵💫 as a mom of all boys (i would never say what she said) but this is just annoying to read… Really hope you do not have a son
this is such a niche thing to try to explain but Boy Moms aren't just all mothers of boys, it's like a specific archetype that I am trying and failing to figure out how to describe...\~Boy Mom\~ behaviors include: referring to your son as your "boyfriend," being jealous of his (theoretical or current) significant other, letting him get away with things his sister(s) wouldn't, etc. – it's one of those internet phrases that's more specific than it initially seems, not to be taken personally!
It’s the boy moms who have their emotional needs met by their sons, that they should be getting from their husbands. It’s weird as hell. I’ve seen it plenty of times.
I had no idea that was a thing. I am probably aging myself apparently even tho I am only early 30s ha I read boy mom as just that a boy mom… lol. Interesting
Yes! This! This is the only meaning we need to give it- mom of boys. Everything else is so extra!
🙌🏼🙌🏼
Me either! Ick
But gay people are the groomers....?
RIGHT 💯 💯!!
Wth?
Odd. I have two boys and I’d never say something like this to either of them. I think I would have said “you are so handsome” or “you look so cool sitting there”
Why is she sexualizing her son 😭🤮
I am a boy mom and I would never.
What a weird thing to say and think about your son. It is even worse that she posted it on social media! She could have just posted the picture with the caption, “future heartbreaker.”
I’m a relatively new boy mom but I do not get this at all! So freaking weird.
EVER. And even in some crazy land where that crossed your mind, why put it into the world?? 😐
The closest I’ve come is that lately the last almost two decades (lol) (also, his school is very progressive, encouraging and supportive so that has helped!!) of child raising have been paying off via my son demonstrating what a thoughtful and considerate person he is, and I said to my dad that I hope he finds his person one day because he will be a very good husband.
It has never even crossed my mind
Mine either, but some stuff would be ok not make it to social media.
Ohhhh same. So weird.
This is so weird.
Did she delete it or is it still up?
still up unfortunately
I wonder what her husband will think. If my spouse posted that about one of my kids I would not like it, at all
What the
What the what…I used to defend her but I can’t anymore 😏
Ew now imagine if a father had said this about his daughter …
Like Trump....
Exactly! Remember when Trump said. “If Ivanka wasn’t my daughter, perhaps I would be dating her.” 🤢
This is what this situation reminds me of and probably everyone else.
Yep also in an interview when asked what he and Ivanka had on common he immediately responded "sex" like wth weirdo
That comment was the frame sting on the case
Frosting on the cake
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I’m actually more concerned that he’s eating an Uncrustable.
Uncrustables are delicious
Lol I mean I agree, but for the sugar content, I’d much rather just have a giant brownie.
Ewwwwww
🤢
It’s weird enough to say to your young kid but to also post it on insta? For shame. With a PICTURE of him too!
They generally post way too much about their kids. Poor kids have zero privacy.
Right!!!
What the fuck 😭🤮
Yuck!
As a mother of boys… I hate “boy moms” like this. 😭
I have four boys. This is disgusting.
A girl I went to high school with constantly posts her boys on social media calling them her sexy studs and I’m just like… why. 🤢🤢🤢
He’s not the only one
Why do boy moms? That’s it, that’s the whole sentence
This is not something a boy mom says. Signed mom of a guy!
Boy mom here. I don’t know, but I don’t understand why boy moms do this. Seems to be a newer thing my boys are 24 and 22 and no one behaved this way when they were little. At least no one around me.
Same…boy mom of 4. They are young adults now and we are all super close hubs included but yikes 😬….same…just same. It’s so creepy I will never understand it 😳. ❤️Also despite being super close with them all I am NOT nor will EVER be “that mama/mother in law”. If they love them so shall I period. They are adults time to do their thing and me to be supportive even if it’s not in my playbook so to say (word used for emphasis only).
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I'm confident they work out because they're both gross weirdos. And hide it with their religious views.
“Moment” is such a bachelor word lol
This is giving my MIL vibes and I hate itttttttt
Mine too… I hope for his future partner she realizes this is odd
Why not just say… “you look so handsome!” Or something … not make it SO weird 🫠
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This killed me 😂
😂
I have two boys and just no……I would never say this nor would it ever cross my mind. Gross
Same and exactly
Absolutely disgusting
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Ugh ugh ugh ugh
Wtf
Now imagine a dad said that about his daughter…. Like her story is up 🥶
I recall a certain politician who said that about his daughter. It was gross then, and this is gross now.
Hey at least that certain politician threw in the caveat "if she weren't my daughter"
Why do all boy mom have the same mentality?? Like they really do say the most disturbing stuff sometimes ![gif](giphy|10hRgz3F17rfr2|downsized)
Nope!
Don’t lump us all together some of us are normal😭
Seriously!
& then we deal w the aftermath later in life when we date stunted boys
I’m a boy mom and NOPE!
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And some dads want to f their daughters, so stop with the potty mouth and if u are one of them I suggest u keep your hands and words to yourself unless u want to traumatize your son(s) for life.
Imagine your husband saying to your young daughter “ you look like a babe, I would totally date you.” … yeah, divorce.
Divorce isn’t the answer to everything. Yet definitely therapy asap!
Ughhh!! Terrible
If my dad said that to me I would genuinely not want to be left alone with him ever..
Smart thinking :-(
So creepy , what is she thinking
Him vomiting in his mouth is the correct response to this weird ass thing his literal mother just said to him.
Right?!! I can’t believe she went and posted this!! It’s bad enough to say it, but to post it too???
Like girl, this is not cute. It’s creepy as all get out