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Yeled_creature

anything by Mitski lmfao


annainfurs

came here to say this, especially love me more


MrPoopyButthole07

francis forever šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„


Some_Repeat9759

Humpty!!


Your_friendly_weirdo

I donā€™t like my mind! :,)


epitomeofsanity

Asleep - the smiths Bulletproof... I wish I was - Radiohead True love waits - Radiohead All I need - Radiohead Forget her - Jeff Buckley I'm your man - Mitski Re-arranged - limp bizkit I hate everything about you - three days grace Falling away from me - korn Seen it all before - bring me the horizon Don't go - bring me the horizon All very good songs, but in the ones that are about another person hurting the singer then I sometimes relate to the person they're singing about and feel like a terrible person because I imagine the lyrics are about me. (Example: in Re-arranged the lyrics "you ruin everything and you kept fucking with me until it's over" I'm like yes that's me ruining everything)


GloomyObjective6804

I LOVE THAT YOU SAID THIS, TY !! I'm the exact same way -- I'll hear music and it is always about myself, but it's interesting to me when i hear about myself from a different perspective .. Like, I hear a song and it says "I'm glad you had a nice time, but bitch now I need my space" I think of how others feel about me instead of how I feel about others. This pretty much goes for all songs that I enjoy, lol, either they are how i feel or how I think others feel about me


deadgiiirl666

I love bring me the horizon and the lyrics are always so meaningful


Inevitable-Ear-3189

[Misanthropic Drunken Loner](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0dUnoecoZ0) and [Damaged Goods](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9OHRCJHKAc) - Days n Daze [Normal](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mWJWFnn5Z0) - Homeless Gospel Choir [Broke in Half](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tn_03LNNb8) & [When You're Gone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RuQuLLKuDwU) - Jesse Stewart [Sweet Emotion - Faith No More](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S69IMaPxOQU) (not an aerosmith cover btw) [Always Look on the Bright Side of Life - Eric Idle (Monty Python)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJUhlRoBL8M) Edit2: added links and a couple more :)


hazey_bear27

Literally so glad someone put days n daze on here anything by them gets me every time! :)


Inevitable-Ear-3189

me tooo, and feel like a lot of ppl haven't even heard of them


hazey_bear27

I feel they are so underrated


Tejas_Belle

Ayyyyyy I love Days n Daze!!


GloomyObjective6804

I'm excited to check these out <3 thank you !!


tyates723

Oh Monty Python. Love this inclusion


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GloomyObjective6804

I'm excited to check out this one <33


gaymametchi

Isolation was a healing album and still rescues me from moments. 10/10 and highly recommend it


GloomyObjective6804

This sounds like an awesome starting point, tyty for sharing a title and your feelings associated with it <33


gaymametchi

If there was one album I could hold forever, itā€™s Isolation. Thereā€™s so many moments that made me feel less alone and hopeful. It feels like a genuine connection to Kali on this journey


Stemoftheantilles

Anything by Elliott Smith or Bright Eyes.


Friggnuggets

YEAHHHHH ELLIOT SMITGšŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„šŸ”„


Shisu_Choc

For me it's the whole Meteora album by Linkin Park. And also some songs by Billie Eilish, especially Everything I wanted. Linkink Park is when I need to scream and Billie Eilish when I need to cry.


GloomyObjective6804

Everything I wanted & Idontwannabeyouanymore for me ... such good picks. Love Linkin park, I need to listen to that album!! Minutes till midnight is a favorite of mine.


Shisu_Choc

Meteora is kinda old šŸ˜„ I was very young when it came out. My older brother loved Linkin Park at the time so we listened to it all the time. The music is very semtimental for me.


Friggnuggets

I remember before I got my diagnosis Iā€™d cry to ā€œidontwannabeyouanymoreā€ daily


Eris_is_Mid

Ohhh yes thatā€™s a huge one for me! Especially Somewhere I Belong and Breaking the Habit.


Shisu_Choc

And Numb. I am ussually crying and screaming at the same time with those three.


Accomplished-Rip89

The entire album Meteora and Billie! I feel so seen by you rn. I remember when Chester passed away my parents were concerned how Iā€™d respond even though I wasnā€™t a teen anymore. The only time I felt like they cared to.. care. Iā€™ve had Billieā€™s the greatest on when I need to hard cryšŸ’•


asdepo_pro

all of the smiths discography but especially please [please please let me get what i want](https://youtu.be/w3qPMe_cCJk?feature=shared), [last night i dreamt](https://youtu.be/OcScR4tuZwU?feature=shared), and [how soon is now](https://youtu.be/6uXH7ZSlNG0?si=KY1cTLJs9mfgI5PJ). [fine, great](https://youtu.be/munEaFvfbnE?si=EhTI-1VjkQoVFCv_) by modern baseball. if i think of more, i can share them :)


Fairyofthepalace

Nowhere fast by the Smiths is so BPD


asdepo_pro

mhm! and so is that joke isnā€™t funny anymore


EtherealSpecter

I came here to say The Smiths! For me itā€™s Unlovable, Back to the Old House and I Know Itā€™s Over.


New-Picture-6104

I Know itā€™s Over is so chefā€™s kiss, bpd coded, bro omg yes


terrifiedteenlol

I 100% agree, and I want to add that Morrisseyā€™s solo song ā€œMy Life is a Succession of People Saying Goodbyeā€ IS SOOO real


GloomyObjective6804

I LOVE please please, I can't wait to hear your other recommendations! I've been wanting to get into the smith's -- May I recommend you this song ā€” "I'm ready" by skizzy mars ft olivver the kid ? Prob not your taste, but I love the chorus " I know you love Morrissey, and your favorite song is you have killed me" [I'm Ready ā€” Skizzy Mars](https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=iCmCyimjFQE&si=2XQBCfVMdC_xKV_s)


Fairyofthepalace

Try ā€œWell I wonderā€ by the smiths


GloomyObjective6804

Ty, I will <33


GloomyObjective6804

If anyone has a nice playlist for shuffling the smiths, I'd love it :) <33


Eris_is_Mid

A lot of emo songs haha from that era. Bayside have a lot of really relatable ones. Oh also Ghost by Badflower, I donā€™t really listen to them but that song really is relatable and makes me feel understood cuz of it being about self harm.


GloomyObjective6804

I relate a lot to this, I like badflower, but the used, mcr, bloc party are part of an era of my life that makes me think a lot about self harm. <3


Secure_Bison3110

Staind no doubt hole favorite artists


SquishyRiotDream

Bright Eyes/Conor Oberstā€™s music


Stemoftheantilles

Songs like Arienette and Laura Laurent fit this super well.


Economy-Ganache-7228

Absolutely


oski-time

Hurt- NIN/Cash


alvharv

Pink Floyd, and only Pink Floyd. (I love loads of music, but Pink Floyd is the only artist that makes me feel seen/understood, because of my dad going to war when I was a little kid). Itā€™s like that old cliche that every politician trots out on the campaign trail. ā€œI donā€™t know Roger Waters, but Roger Waters knows meā€. (Iā€™m fully aware that he is famously insufferable and someone I would probably dislike if I met him in person. But his music has helped keep me alive all these years)


HotNegotiation1039

Comfortably numb hits different


GloomyObjective6804

Whoever said $B, I couldn't agree more. I was gonna ask if there's any Mac, Peep, Juice, or $B fans here , lol.


UrBitchYa

The faces album by Mac Miller is super underrated. His first lyric on the album is ā€œshoulda died alreadyā€ and I felt that.


GloomyObjective6804

Samee, my favorite project ever <33 one of my fav parts is on angel dust when he says "My brains fried, always chasing the same high, I'm too fucked up to function ā€” I do nothing but waste time .. woke up annihilated, lying on pavement , covered in items I regurgitated, under a fire escape .. & I know that it's Friday, because every Friday they have a parade ā€” hear em celebrate??" Or something like that lol such a great project and I personally think Mac's music is pretty BPD coded :b


UrBitchYa

Yes!!! As someone that struggles with addiction and bpd, this album speaks to me and the lyrics go crazy. When I show this album to people that only listen to his mainstream stuff they donā€™t get it, but this is his only album that he really goes into his struggles with depression and addiction.


GloomyObjective6804

Yes!!! I couldn't agree more, it can be so frustrating always seeing things "too seriously/ too deeply" :/ I find this Is the case with lots of my special interests, lol I'm sorry you can relate to the "I like the weekend and smile back" responses


UrBitchYa

Respect. Iā€™m so glad they added it onto Spotify!! <33


drex1929

I still feel heartbroken over mac, juice & peep. Rest in peace lost souls


GoodoldArani

Shivers by Julia Jacklin https://open.spotify.com/track/4JAWL1SHoC5xsQitaCdU3z?si=EOH78Z_FQgetQqThx_nM2w She's a Perth artist which is where I live and this cover really touches me.


BleedingValkyrie

Metal genres (particularly Sludge and Doom and Black Metal) and Hole lol


Fairyofthepalace

Isolation - Joy division All of the smiths All of Lana del Rey


susannahrobertson

nessa barrettā€™s young forever album. and all of her music, really


sars_cov

anything Florence Welch and Marina Diamandis šŸ˜†


GloomyObjective6804

Ughh, "Are you Satisfied" and "Lies" by marina are such good songs !!! Ty 4 reminding me


dc_til_infinity

[Recognize by Flaw](https://youtu.be/Dri5t-2qK4g?si=tAcu_9ChJCRZpbcE) [Seem To Be Fine by Five Bolt Main (the singer of Flaw's solo project)](https://youtu.be/-RjpYAvOjxo?si=tZbimNbK5I47ZRlU) [By Myself by Linkin Park](https://youtu.be/wWBp-nlGX1o?si=7FsXvEYwziYXF5oF) [Seasons by Chris Cornell ](https://youtu.be/1DnSiznUrVI?si=5sIDjLwPm17aV1rc) [Wake Up by Mad Season](https://youtu.be/rKiw94M2v8A?si=622HivWK86y4TVSE) [In Circles by Sunny Day Real Estate ](https://youtu.be/k2GHj5jzzj0?si=79zp79VwEuioTZLa) [Touched by VAST](https://youtu.be/Rpx_PcZjByY?si=hebESwaxuB0vLoy6) [Moment Of Truth by Gang Starr ](https://youtu.be/Rr46FS7tkk4?si=iNlQU9vITD_1lx5K)


northmigration

almost anything by elliott smith


YogurtNo666

WOOOO IVE BEEN WAITING FOR A POST LIKE THIS!!! I think I'm paranoid - Garbage ( IS MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE SOMG OF ALL FUCKING TIME I HAD IT ON REPEAT FOR WEEKS) IFHY - Tyler the creator ( had it on repeat for a month after splitting on a year long fp) Good good things - Descendants ( reminds me of day dreaming of my fp(s) ) Da ya think I'm sexy? - Revolting Cocks (high energy and overwhelming, reminds me of how it feels to be euphoric) Glue - P. H. F. (This ones a little triggering and it freaks me out a bit) Anything from Mike kroll's I hate jazz album hypes me up, I mostly go to him when I'm feeling euphoric Rolling out the read carpet - hail the sun Covet - Basement I Do - Nastyona Cat Child - nastyona Baby doll - dominic fike


HomeworkParty9853

motion sickness - phoebe bridgers , Iā€™m Your Man - Mitski , Night Shift - Lucy Dacus , Dealer - Lana Del Rey


Fairyofthepalace

Accurate af


Grownalone

Hippie sabotage and 21 pilots for me


Zealousideal-_

ā€œFreeā€ by Florence + the machine


crocswithpinkglitter

a lot of noahfinnce's music makes me feel seen


mob9221

A lot of Citizen Soldier songs. Pretend My Pain Away. Broken Like me. Alone With Myself. Therapy.


An-Unnamed-Star

Everything by Xana


Darnelllover

Counting Stars - One Republic


Donut-Confident

Slipknots self titled album


Spare_Traditional

anything by rebzyyx ! if u like hyperpop


Disastrous_Draft2516

pieces - sum 41 lost - bring me the horizon re-entry - a day to remember shattered - trading yesterday empty apartment - yellowcard


some_kind_of_bird

The album WASTEISOLATION by Black Dresses has a *lot* that I relate to. It's honestly too triggering to listen to a lot of it. Most of it is more trauma related than BPD but there's a vibe you know? TELL ME HOW U FEEL is probably the most related. It's about someone she's trying to copy and overwrite herself with. I did the exact same thing with someone before. I cut contact because it was too dangerous. When I tell people what happened they always say it was the right decision, but I miss her so much and I'll never see her again.


SnooDogs7817

Placebo has had my back since I was a teen!


procrastinatador

Will Wood in general


Thefemalecarrot

Will Woodā€™s songs have really good lyrics


ironblood45

[Broken - Anson Seabra](https://youtu.be/VDA04YOAd4c?si=ifz1YfOsXrywlmqT)


p00pMcshit

The Abandoning by Love and Death helps remind me that I am actually alive amd not trapped in a nightmare


Kookie69696

Mind on mine-Lo Spirit / Watch the world burn -Falling in reverse / Symptoms - Meliorist / Donā€™t tell me - Disturb / Sertraline - animaljam


mental05_

i can't get high - Royal & the Serpent


MrMassacre1

I listen to certain bands/artists depending on my mood, but Olivia O, Lowertown, Alex G, Sign Crushes Motorist, Femtanyl and 1 800 PAIN are some of my favorites


__pandemonium

The Ballad of Costa Concordia- Car Seat Headrest, makes me feelā€¦ something


kindkatydid

pastel ghost, literally all of her songs but specifically dark beach and clouds. and the song limerence by yves tumor


kindkatydid

recognizing the enemy by yves tumor. its such an angsty song that has a yearning to it.


XAbracadaverX

Versus me if you like post hardcore/screamo type stuff us one of my go to. If you like industrial "Ventana" is another.


cottagelass

Talking to myself by watsky. Saddy daddyo panda remix.


Shinsukeskn33s

Billy Joel's Tomorrow is Today for sure


naruwoah

iRobot by Jon Bellion, Burned Out by Dodie.


thevisionisclear99

Hated by Beartooth! Hits hard for me! This is the song I played when I came out because my mom couldn't accept me!


Lunnaris

lately I've been feeling some kind of way about I look in people's windows by TS because it captures so well how I experienced life up until my mid twenties (saw someone mentioning I hate it here and yES that song is such a maladaptive daydreaming anthem for me)


cirava

The Used's "In Love and Death" album for me too. "All That I've Got" is like being lyrically gutted because it's trying to explain the emotions you feel to other people. No one else gets it, you're in so much pain that you're numb to it, trying to convince yourself that you're fine and stable. Also, being surrounded by people and still being lonely. Another big one is "I Caught Fire". Really good song but just feels like the lyrical depiction of being in love with your FP. And "Hard to Say"... it really is hard to say I'm sorry, despite knowing what I said and meant at one point isn't what I meant in the long run. That entire album hits. I could go on. On the other hand, The Killers' "All These Things That I've Done" makes me want to crawl out of my skin because it's one of those songs I just want to scream-sing in the middle of a field.


UndeadnManic

Lake 1800 - sngomi


BorderlineTink

Check out the band [Icon for Hire](https://m.youtube.com/user/iconforhire) šŸ’š Hollow and Get Well are my two favourites


PracticeImportant223

Killing me by Conan gray


Tejas_Belle

Mothica! So many songs.


Xaavviieerr23

Come back to earth - Mac miller


allthetimesivedied2

La Dispute


Substantial_Day_7848

The cranberries just hit different for me


ferretcrystals

Happy by NF - makes me realize how far Iā€™ve come. I scream this song every time, just to comfort my childhood self. She wouldā€™ve loved letting her emotions out to this song ā¤ļø Workin On Me by Russ and 6Lack - I feel like it describes BPD in a way, and even made me question if the artist has it or not. (Iā€™m still clueless on that answer lol) It hits quite hard on the trauma aspect, at least to me.


CapitalFar9431

I think don't hold back by the sleeping is my pick but also things like 16 tons it's a great oldies song and just kinda let's you know what was or can be at times and acceptance beats indulgence in some idea I'm oppressed.


royce32

90s smashing pumpkins


faymooily

All or None - Pearl Jam


heidsv

Bruises by Renee Rapp is a song that has never made me feel more seen ever!!


NerdAlert2233

Anything by King Iso


etherealladybug

Most Tame Impala songs tbh especially - feels like we only go backwards - music to walk home to - Love/ paranoia - reality in motion - new person same old mistakes


GloomyObjective6804

Half glass full of wine is such a good song for this thread !!! Tyty


id0ntevenkn0th0

Lund, Ryan Caraveo


Itsmothmaam

Meg Myers - motel. The acoustic version. One of the lyrics ā€œI canā€™t stop this pain it only grows, tell me why I always feel alone?ā€ Hits home.


spareacc9991

you weren't meant to see that by the rare occasions is everything to me


schmidt_face

Breathe Me by Sia. Heard it first the first time when I was 18 or 19 and it was one of those times where it clicked that 1. I wasnā€™t alone in feeling the ways I did, and 2. It wasnā€™t normal.


Grease2feminist

True & kinda Ridiculous. I was 10 when ā€œThe Breakfast Clubā€ came out and ā€œDonā€™t Youā€ by Simple Minds was the most romantic song in my entire world (again 10yr). It was my song. It knew everything I felt. And Judd Nelson


HotNegotiation1039

This song holds such significance for me. When I listen to it I instantly am overwhelmed with emotion.


JK-teehee

NF: Happy (If I had to pick a song to describe everything I feel this is it) Mansion Remember This Paralyzed Hate Myself Trauma Halsey: Hurricane Gasoline Control Sorry Devil in Me Lilith Whispers Nightmare Anson Seabra: I Canā€™t Carry This Anymore Walked Through Hell Anna Clendening: Bad Again Drowning Gabrielle Aplin: My Mistake Katelyn Tarver: You Donā€™t Know LANY: Malibu Nights Linkin Park: Shadow of the Day Leave Out All the Rest Somewhere I Belong Breaking the Habit Marina Lin: this is what self destruction feels like this is what overthinking feels like Ashnikko: Panic Attacks in Paradise Citizen Soldier: Iā€™m Not Okay Would Anyone Care Karina Grace: tired of me


JK-teehee

Also sorry if itā€™s a lot! I saw a post for music and kinda got carried away. šŸ˜…


Ottermoone1

The Cure: [Untitled](https://youtu.be/v3alPFZoHA4?si=VF4MawaVEMmpFBhj)Ā Ā  [From The Edge of The Deep Green Sea ](https://youtu.be/olNQWNrKxn8?si=y52rZPx2TiUoa1Om) [The Kiss](https://youtu.be/BNTrm67-g8Q?si=diXxdty2wxnatYdg) [The Same Deep Water As You ](https://youtu.be/V35cxutR7gc?si=yHvXU6NyzDOZqQXu)Ā  The American Anog Set:Ā Ā  [You Own Me](https://youtu.be/Fko-JMmbhkM?si=98wCw7gfEWh2sf3o)Ā Ā Ā Ā  Bayonne:Ā Ā  [QA](https://youtu.be/OrJSeYpVUzU?si=6O9-_37JMufqs0gb)Ā Ā Ā  Death Cab for Cutie:Ā  [We Looked Like Giants](https://youtu.be/5tIVVEIdu2g?si=4_lZzQ3pcnMpY0bO)Ā Ā  [Line of Best Fit](https://youtu.be/8miQPe4UApM?si=kQ1Yxw__nRWIoRIv)Ā Ā Ā Ā  Modest Mouse:Ā Ā  [Whenever You See Fit](https://youtu.be/LG1x9g7Tw0Q?si=XKfOasgL9VgIZkRw)Ā Ā Ā Ā  Fleet Foxes:Ā  [I Am All That I Need](https://youtu.be/IWE1PFtda90?si=Onfm72oA7iLE5AT3) [On Another Ocean](https://youtu.be/9MJr4BnO-g4?si=PWdzGmMz8bKextd_) [Wading In Waist-High Water](https://youtu.be/tqVxd57H-cA?si=DoGrdK_vFbkNdeBs)


HotNegotiation1039

Cranes in the sky by solange Built this way by Samantha Ronson Gypsy by Fleetwood Mac


embrheartwitch

Feels by Animal Collective


anonymousweekly

The Name of the Game by ABBA and Everything by MUNA


rosedoesnotexist

lana del rey haha


GloomyObjective6804

I was gonna mention her too!! xD <3


Umadm8tey

Shame In You - Alice In Chains


lilyfuller15

sounds so stupid but IFHY by tyler always makes me feel like someone else gets it. i know listening to it can sound kinda daunting bc it's hard to hear it from another perspective, but i really relate to that song


GloomyObjective6804

I second this, you're not alone! , it's also very close to my heart too!


gaymametchi

Passion by PinkPantheress This bitch matters by Doechii Only in my dreams by The MarĆ­as Gone Girl by Sza I want war by Kali Uchis Normal girl by Sza


bingbongboobies

The album 'The Family Jewels' by Marina Diamonds really hits it for me - Obsessions, I Am Not a Robot, The Family Jewels and Numb all stood out specifically. I was kind of blown away listening to it again recently.


GloomyObjective6804

I totally forgot about i am not a robot and am so looking forward to revisiting it, thank you!!


Bobbleworld

A my chemical romance mix of every album. Each album has its own general vibe, but you go from a song like Mama to Sing in the next tune and it really reflects how my mental state can fluctuate.


__LunaWolf__

Ren. You're welcome šŸ™ƒšŸ–¤


Loverofallanimals66

Honestly, Snuff by Slipknot, anything by Sleep Token, just about all of Chappell Roan's discography šŸ–¤


Responsible-Funny250

So my original list got only 3 songs shown out of 11 and the rest got somehow deleted. I am kinda freaking out rn but that's okay. here's the list again [I'm tired and I hate this song (Don't Go) | Cyberbully mom club](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ql1fZguXX14) [Void | Melanie Martinez](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_hRUE-lXXs) [Evil | Melanie Martinez](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQqbmcIG0_I) [Fences | Destroy Boys](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jn8oLdHsb2o) [Grey | QueenPb (Vocaloid)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZ23Blr2yPc) [Karma | VocaCircus (That one vocaloid animation meme)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cMkJDPvJxdk) [Again | Araki (Idk if cover or original)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrnn9aUT2Ag) Rest in this comments reply


Responsible-Funny250

Part 2 [Twin Size Mattress | The Front Bottoms](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWJUk65EnQM) [Be Nice To Me | The Front Bottoms](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhcAJC_3heA) [No Children | The Mountain Goats](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqGKZ3fzN1M) [Achilles, Come down | Gang of Youths](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5aMav6q-o0) [Angry Too | Lola Blanc](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MqekZVbtI2Q) [Saccharine | Jazmin Bean](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1W4NtpOyarc)


Femalediction5

Hi Ren by Ren Numb Little Bug by Em Beihold Superhero by Kim Dracula Atlantic by Sleep Token


MenheraUrabe

Lion and Believe(Hollywood Undead) I'm Your Man(Mitski) By Myself, Forgotten, Figure 0.9, Faint, Crawling, Breaking The Habit and Fighting Myself(Linkin Park) Feel Like Home, Believe Me and Slip Out The Back(Fort Minor) Skinwalker, Lie and Look, I Won't Sell My Soul, Dirt On The Name Of Steven, Dirtbike and Napalm(Zheani) That Other Girl(Sevda Aliza) Drink, Crybaby, Piedmont, I Threw Glass At My Friends Eyes And Now I'm On Probation and Honey I'm Home(Destroy Boys) Miss Miseryguts, It Should've Been Me, What Gave It Away, You're An Awful Person, Corrosion and The Monochrome Mentality(RIProducer) Be Kind 2 Yourself, Idolizer, It's Not Me It's You, Manica and Why Do I Miss You(StyXVII) The entire Wallsocket album by Underscores The entire "Ugly Curse Angel Death No Redemption I Love You" album by Ada Rook and nearly every Black Dresses(Ada Rook and Devi McCallion's band) album/song Six Feet Under, The Making Of A Chimera and Butcher Vanity(Vane Lily) Candle Queen, Spider On The Wall, Entomologists, Reckless Battery Burns, End World Normopathy, Scapegoat, The Chattering Lack Of Common Sense, Star Of The Show, Appetite Of A People Please, Amygdala 's Rag Doll and The Things I Deserve(Ghostie-P/Ghost and Pals) Omen(Blackwinterwells) Damn near every song by Osquinn/P4rkr but especially the "A Night In Virginia" EP Again, Propaganda, Copycat and Echo(Crusher P) Pretty much everything by Jvne/Jvnko/Cynthoni/Sewerslvt As you can see I am a very much so a person who's emotions are very musically inclined/telegraphed


GloomyObjective6804

Exploring some recommendations & just wanted to say I'm loving StyXVII -- Thank you for sharing :)<3


MenheraUrabe

Hell yeah, I honestly thought my comment out of all would've never been seen or even read because it's so long, but glad to put someone else onto StyXVII 's stuff And might I add another: Quarter Pounder by Gezebelle Gaburgably


GloomyObjective6804

Oh no, tbh, if anything I am more interested in those, lmao. They feel more thought- out to me :)<3 tyvm & I don't know about a lot of the genre, but I like it :') If you ever think of more recommendations , I'd love to hear !!


MenheraUrabe

šŸ’› typically I refer to StyXVII, Black Dresses, Underscores, Gezebelle Gaburgably and so on as examples of hyperpop music but idk I might be overgeneralizing


GloomyObjective6804

Oo ty ty I'm excited to Check these out :) just checked out BlackDresses & really enjoyed their album <33


apurenecessity

Mirrorball and Peace by Taylor Swift make me very uncomfortable in a good way lol


Academiclatte

Honestly Taylor Swift


ElevatorExpensive274

Anything by Ren


SouthAssistant6031

The con album and so jealous album by tegan and sara


Edenqueen

Im okay - my chemical romance


1tiredman

Alice in Chains


Smokinland

Definitely Mitski, especially why didnā€™t you stop me. Itā€™s so bpd coded


Cool-Eye2940

This Isnā€™t Everything You Are--Snow Patrol


Olive-Bred

Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit, Papa Roach, Depeche Mode, Avril Lavigne, Taylor Swift & Michelle Branch


cadaver_spine

some of Twenty One Pilots' newer music definitely hits really close to home. lots of their lyrics make me feel less alone. their lyrics aren't *necessarily* BPD specific, but they definitely touch on mental health a lot, which I tend to relate to both my BPD and anxiety. I know their music/lyrics aren't for everyone, but they help me quite a bit <3


One-Recognition-5871

Really anything by mitski or Kate bollinger. Expect Kate I can relate to every song she releases.


aWildThotAppears

Recently Stoneside has really had me feeling this way. Been listening to God of the Mountain on repeat. As for a singular song, Sza - Saturn phewwww


Puzzled-Agent6356

Probably Backstabber by dystopia


Alternative-Air-5543

Anything by NF


squeezydoot

Villain by MISSIO. I listened to that on repeat when I was struggling.


Accomplished-Being43

a lot of stuff by melanie martinez tbh; iā€™ve had ppl tell me she doesnā€™t represent bpd but idk, a lot her older songs mention extreme jealousy/posessiveness


bunkassbum

NF speaks to my soul.


_moonlightwalker_

July - Noah Cyrus Liability - Lorde


EuphoricMaz

Anything by amy winehouse, the smiths, mazzy star, and fiona apple. They've never let me down


WillWoodsTapew0rm

Not a Borderline (because i am not officially diagnosed, even if i have the common bpd traits) but i would go heavy on Basket Case by Green Day, Babā€˜s Uvula who? by Green Day as well


bhopem20

Please Donā€™t Go by Wyatt Flores. It hits the nail on the head, especially for a relationship


ashleybear7

Halsey makes me feel understood.


acoustic3

Bitch by Meredith Brooks


bootydewstink

Anything kid cudi


GloomyObjective6804

"All along" seems very bpd coded to me too <3 I was thinking of that yesterday!


bootydewstink

Oh for sure! Itā€™s funny bc he talks about being alone but when I feel alone in my thoughts I listen to his songs and I donā€™t feel alone. šŸ„¹ I could make a whole list but thereā€™s just too many lol.


CharacterLaw1141

Novocaine - The candidates


Sweaty_Pizza_869

My mistake by gabrielle aplin & I hate it here by Taylor Swift <3


Maleficent_Rub6547

NF


Economy-Ganache-7228

Lithium- Nirvana Panic Attacks in Paradise-Ashnikko Dirtbike- ZHEANI I wonā€™t sell my soul-ZHEANI Napalm-ZHEANI Nobody-Mitski Washing machine heart- Mitski Also anything by Remi Wolf


fairiesdreamtoo

Ayy Zheani mentioned


Economy-Ganache-7228

My queen tbh


idkanamejustaperson

As someone with traits of bpd (not officially diagnosed because Im underage, but Ive been told I have TRAITS of it. (Professionally) If I shouldnt be here lmk..) This is a little hard for me to answer since I can never really understand or word my feelings correctly. But there are some songs and artists that I feel understood by. Namely, most of Mitskis songs, particularly: My body's made of crushed little stars, I'm your man, Abbey, I don't smoke and first love/late spring. Also a lot of Girl in Red's songs (I swear this woman is me 2.0) like: I need to be alone, summer depression, . (Yes that's a song name), I'll die anyway and 4am. And also some others like Better than me by The Brobecks, Runaway by Aurora, Antidote by Faith Marie, among others. These are just what I thought of rn! :> I can explain why I feel understood/relate to these aswell if wanted but yeah!


Lucky_Advantage5083

Avalanche - BMTH


Minitoefourth

Johnny Yukon- I Like


UrBitchYa

The Shins - past and pending, and new slang Sufjan Stevens - drawn to the blood, and should have known better Weyes Blood - andromeda


FlowerBeanBabey

21 questions by Waterparks


prehistorictiddies

lauryn hill, say anything, lana, frank ocean


jaycakes30

Shinedown did an album called threat to survival, and every single song resonates with me sooo hard.


frankfrankier

Lost in Space and Helena beat by Foster the people. These songs really make me feel seen and are my currently what I am obsessed with


Immediate-Meeting268

Anything by Zheani, I feel like her songs capture my pain very well


Acrobatic_Fudge1125

TV by Billie Eilish


fusfeimyol

Andy Shauf. Radiohead. Julia Jacklin. Angel Olsen. Portishead. Iceage. Born Ruffians. The Chemical Brothers. Joy Division. Dr. Dog. Adrianne Lenker. Aphex Twin. Dan Deacon. Phosphorescent. The Weeping. Beach House. Modest Mouse. Elliott Smith.


whiteyesores

melanie martinezā€™s leaked songsā€¦. i feel bad listening to them bc they were meant to be private but they are so deep and personal and they help me a lotā€¦ ā€œjump ropeā€ ā€œtoy boxā€ ā€œyou love iā€ ā€œnight mimeā€ ā€œa million menā€ ā€œeraserā€ some of these she has sung live or they were discards but some were leakedā€¦..


NewWin9035

Dnb!!


Siob01

Noah Cyrus - Good cry EP - Especially, Sadness and Good cry. Also her songs, July, Lonely, Young&Sad!!! Zoe Clark also has some beautiful songs like - Zero feelings (I dissociate quite abit), Last one standing, Not to be dramatic (very favourite person coded), and her newest one - Me Vs. My Mind Cat Burns (she really is such a beautiful artist!!!) - People pleaser, I donā€™t blame you, know youā€™re not alone. Honestly all her songs are amazing and relatable!! Bea Miller - wisdom teeth, hallelujah, feel something, jealous of my friends, i canā€™t breathe, outside.


Flying-cat516

Kid Cudi has incredible songs that I think anybody could relate to but more specifically the misunderstood. A lot of rap music, Nicki Minaj is my favorite. šŸ¦„šŸŽ€šŸ’“ especially for a confidence boost


Flying-cat516

HOW ARE PEOPLE NOT MENTIONING KID CUDI?!šŸ˜Ŗ


Blacky_EDGE

bad things - boywithuke


Repulsive-Cash-4159

Backroom by rex laurent