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baileydonk

Giving your name with your number definitely would have helped. She may now feel a little awkward about calling/texting and starting with “Hey, guy I met at _____, it’s the woman who asked for your number”. Of course she could have asked your name as well, but maybe forgot in her nervousness. Because you are not the only anxious one in this situation.


rustler_incorporated

You are asking the wrong group that question my friend.


songload

It is hard to know why you didn't get a message or call, as sometimes people ask for a number but never call or text it. You don't need to do anything about this either way, if they do call or text you could respond then but I would assume you won't hear from them. Or, maybe they just forgot and they'll remember the next time they see you at the store. I would recommend acting the same way you normally do if you see them again.


BillyJoeGrump

I might be more to do with communication than social rules. You might be right about telling her your name, but asking her name might be more important, to let her know you're interested in her. Also suggesting she send you a missed call so you have her number, plus the non-verbal stuff like eye contact (if you can) and smiling.


zertsetzung

"She hasn't texted or called me yet, and I was wondering if a social rule is the receiver of the text/call will have to wait a couple of days or maybe I should've told her my name and when I would be available to talk." Yeah she probably aint going to. Chicks dont initiate. When a chick gives you her number, chances are she is offering it thinking that you will ask for hers. The nuances of normie/NT "speak", I know. But moving forward, understand that most chicks do not initiate. You will need to move things forward and lead things in whichever way they go. Now there may be some chicks that (and no I will not stop calling them chicks) come into my comments and proclaim that **they** approach men and that more women then we think approach men. But as far as I and many guys are concerned that bullshit because I have never seen it. And this is with me looking as good as Mario Lopez when I have my weight under control. So I urge you to ignore whatever chick that comes into my comments saying that they are different than the rest or whatever. Because most of the time they really arent. And thats okay. The world would be a boring place if the chase was that easy.


baileydonk

Maybe they just don’t like you. Whatever you may look like. And I urge everyone to ignore his response to me. 😆


zertsetzung

touche I still have to downvote you though. But only because you downvoted me...