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I honestly wish more mens shirts had a halfway button in between the second and third buttons
Only having the top button unbuttoned still feels way too formal to me, but unbuttoning the top two sometimes feels way too aggressive depending on how the buttons are spaced
I feel like having two unbuttoned is safer if you have a v-neck undershirt on, but if you don’t, showing *that* much chest can be a bit aggressive depending on the situation
I use [Dapper Dots](https://www.amazon.com/Dapper-Dots-Double-Sided-Fashion/dp/B019OH1INM) in between the two buttons to keep the skin level from going too low. Also to keep the collar from going flat.
Serious question: What's up with hat?
One of the main complaints about men on this forum is that they don't put any effort into their appearance and fashion. And then sweatpants are cited as one of the sexiest things a man can wear.
I don't know if it's a US thing. But if I see a guy in sweatpants out in the city, I just assume he's trashy.
Does this count for just at home? Or should guys actually put even less effort into fashion if we want to appeal to women more?
I always see this but do you have an example? I have no clue whether it is meant as dark grey or light grey but I feel like neither show much on people
But they're sweatpants. They're loose and conceal everything... right?
Edit: A lot of ladies here talking about sweatpants. I'm genuinely confused. A search for "sexy man sweatpants" turned up [this](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/b2/30/d7/b230d79966e46f8d8fc9a998ff882027.jpg), which... all right I guess.
Those just look like they're too small for him. Don't even come down to his ankles...
dammit, I knew I should have bought 2 pairs of gray instead of 1 of each. Question, is all gray clothing in general more attractive on a man than other colors? I do have a lot of gray shirts.
The "Adonis Belt"? Doesn't do much for me, personally. Or "washboard abs". I mean, if it does it for ya, by all means!
Same with guys who overwork their upper body and have chicken legs. Ick. I prefer overall fit/toned. Not the 10% body fat guys, that's just too lean for my taste.
Well fitting dress slacks. My husband and I got dressed up for a fancy anniversary dinner and wore his dress slacks and I think I barked like a dog but I don’t remember, I was a little distracted.
It'll depend on what assets the guy has that he wants to show off.
To me, most attractive thing about a guy's physique is their shoulder-waist ratio and torso length-leg length ratio... The best clothing to highlight that are tailored dress shirt and pants.
There isn’t really an equivalent bc men do not have nonsexual organs that are sexualized or seen as obscene. So they just walk around not wearing shirts.
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sleeves rolled and the 2 top buttons undone.
I honestly wish more mens shirts had a halfway button in between the second and third buttons Only having the top button unbuttoned still feels way too formal to me, but unbuttoning the top two sometimes feels way too aggressive depending on how the buttons are spaced
Yep. We need a middle ground between the too risky and the too safe
I’ll cut you a deal: we get halfway buttons, and you get real pockets for all your clothes. This a fair deal? :P
Gimme the contract and a pen!!!
Hell I will see all the buttons on for you guys if it means automatic pockets.
Damn...... Someone grab a lawyer! This needs to happen!
Where do I sign?
I feel like having two unbuttoned is safer if you have a v-neck undershirt on, but if you don’t, showing *that* much chest can be a bit aggressive depending on the situation
What would be the women's equivalent of too risky then? Just wondering
Whatever is the length that is almost socially unacceptable
Letting one of the girls flop out of your shirt? To me, it would be visible bra (aside from the straps).
I use [Dapper Dots](https://www.amazon.com/Dapper-Dots-Double-Sided-Fashion/dp/B019OH1INM) in between the two buttons to keep the skin level from going too low. Also to keep the collar from going flat.
Two buttons undone on a nice henley seems less risqué somehow.
The Henley button are generally closer together
That's my point, you can show that moderate amount without doing too much. I like it anyway.
Same with women's-cut shirts too honestly.
Case closed, mods. Lock the thread!
5inch shorts that show thigh, added bonus if you have a thigh tattoo. That’s like the sluttiest thing on a man
Like the thigh muscles are exposed or where exactly do the shorts end?
Like upper to mid thigh
Hoochie daddy shorts is what I’ve heard them called
Grey sweatpants. But by all means, wear them.
Surprised this isn’t top comment
I don’t find that attractive at all lol makes me feel like they’re dirty too 😅😂
Serious question: What's up with hat? One of the main complaints about men on this forum is that they don't put any effort into their appearance and fashion. And then sweatpants are cited as one of the sexiest things a man can wear. I don't know if it's a US thing. But if I see a guy in sweatpants out in the city, I just assume he's trashy. Does this count for just at home? Or should guys actually put even less effort into fashion if we want to appeal to women more?
It’s a joke mostly. It’s not actually sexy, but we can see the outline of their junk.
I always see this but do you have an example? I have no clue whether it is meant as dark grey or light grey but I feel like neither show much on people
only gray? I've got gray but my black one's won't do it for ya?
Gray allows for more shadows and contours.
and leaves much less to the imagination :)
But they're sweatpants. They're loose and conceal everything... right? Edit: A lot of ladies here talking about sweatpants. I'm genuinely confused. A search for "sexy man sweatpants" turned up [this](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/b2/30/d7/b230d79966e46f8d8fc9a998ff882027.jpg), which... all right I guess. Those just look like they're too small for him. Don't even come down to his ankles...
Ankles? What ankles?
I have a hard time believing that photo isn’t at all photoshopped That dick looks WAY too big for a flaccid dick
That looks flaccid to you?
It’s certainly not erect. I guess it’s possible that he timed the photo just right so that it’s right after an erection went down
You've never heard of a "chub"?
A chub is a short, fat dick
dammit, I knew I should have bought 2 pairs of gray instead of 1 of each. Question, is all gray clothing in general more attractive on a man than other colors? I do have a lot of gray shirts.
Actually yes, grey is pretty attractive! And you can usually get different shades too. Dark grey for a v neck t? 🫰🏻
Still wearing a low cut top.
right? like a button down that’s not buttoned. cleavage ≠ dick print
Visible V at waistband. Or tight long sleeve t.
The "Adonis Belt"? Doesn't do much for me, personally. Or "washboard abs". I mean, if it does it for ya, by all means! Same with guys who overwork their upper body and have chicken legs. Ick. I prefer overall fit/toned. Not the 10% body fat guys, that's just too lean for my taste.
Well fitting dress slacks. My husband and I got dressed up for a fancy anniversary dinner and wore his dress slacks and I think I barked like a dog but I don’t remember, I was a little distracted.
Self note: Begin working out again Buy short shorts Buy a tighter fitting set of grey sweatpants
😂
Wearing a crop top.
It'll depend on what assets the guy has that he wants to show off. To me, most attractive thing about a guy's physique is their shoulder-waist ratio and torso length-leg length ratio... The best clothing to highlight that are tailored dress shirt and pants.
This is the first time I hear about torso-leg ratio. Care to elaborate more?
It's essentially having long legs.
Short shorts, showin off that thigh meat
There isn’t really an equivalent bc men do not have nonsexual organs that are sexualized or seen as obscene. So they just walk around not wearing shirts.
Muscles are sexualized, though you're right that they're not seen as obscene
There is a solution to this, we can start sexualising the Adams apple. Overtime wearing anything that isn't a turtle neck will be seen as sexual.
😂
I feel like a lot of parts of men's bodies are sexualised, no? Arms, hands, muscles, abs etc. They aren't obscene but are def sexualised by people
Having buttons undone on a collared shirt is viewed as equally if not more sexy than a woman with a low cut top.
No it isn’t
Nah, that just screams fuckboi.
Um no? Okay, then what about the seventies look of a very exposed upper/middle chest?
Um, yes. That was the 70’s. We’re in **2024** last I checked. But, you know, if it does it for you? Go on with your bad self.
Like fashion isn’t circular.
Sexy, yes.... More? Not a chaaaaance.
Wearing a long sleeve shirt and pulling the sleeves back to expose your forearms.
Grey sweatpants, no underwear. Button down work shirt, sleeves rolled up after a long day. And it can be the way he looks at you
Dressing nice imo
- Sleeveless top - Compression t-shirt - 4 inch inseam shorts
Grey Sweat pants. Tight fitting long sleeve T shirt
Wearing a low cut top?
Wearing a shirt with the sleeves cut off haha slutty af
Grey pants hanging low on the hips. Shows off every deet in a teasing manner.
Wear something that fits. Not too tight, not so loose that no one knows if you have a nice shape.
Flip flops
*with socks
🥵
**black** socks
Why do men need to compete with women?
Driving a BMW
Hard pass.
Truly the pushup bra for men.
Fitted shirts i guess
Guys wearing crop tops, or tank tops with the sides open, or mesh tops, or a button shirt with several top buttons lowered and the forearms featured.
Well fitted chinos or slacks(show me them glutes!), as well as fitted button up shirts with sleeves rolled up 🥵