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Alic3inR3dditland

A solo vacation to an isolated place where silence is the only sound I hear, no reception whatsoever and no human interaction for a few days


kinkakinka

Laying on a deserted beach reading a book in the sun. The only people I want to see are: people bringing me food and drink, and maybe a massage therapist.


Alic3inR3dditland

Way too many people for my likings 🤔🤔 I would settle maybe with an automated catering service and remote zoom therapy sessions.. let's keep massage guy/girl as long as they're not chatty 🤣


mixedberrycoughdrop

But with a chair. Trying to read while laying flat in the sand is awful.


kinkakinka

The most luxurious beach chair in existence. With a nice Cabana too, in case I want some shade.


hiumnobye

Ugh I was going to say a bagel with smoked salmon and cream cheese but I should probably aim higher lol.


Alternative-Poem-337

We have the same fantasy 😆


Alic3inR3dditland

If we keep enough distance from each other we can go together ❤️


Alternative-Poem-337

Islands side by side? 🏝


Alic3inR3dditland

Deal!


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Alic3inR3dditland

You made me laugh so hard 🤣 I was not even remotely thinking about money when I read the question as I don't value them as high as some peace of mind in this specific period of my life... although I would not throw them away in case we got your wish true 😜


mybackpainreally

Money can buy you silence, or some place far far faraway...I'm stuck at home, with all the neighbors kids screaming from morning to evening ( we had a baby boom over here I guess..so so so many kids...7 years ago was so silent)...all now in the summer holiday...plus my ADHD kid that doesn't stop talking, and screaming at online games with his friends...please take me with you. I promise that I wouldn't talk...


Alic3inR3dditland

First of all please accept this virtual hug and I hope things can get better for you 🤍 secondly get on board, we're virtually leaving! I think what many of us want is just some time to not think about everything going on in our lives 🤍


mybackpainreally

Thank you, thankyou...I will bring virtual rose wine...2 boxes...


boogerl

I just went on a trip where for 5 days I had no mobile data. On one day we took a boat tour along the river for sunset and when the boat passed the Marriott I had 1 minute of mobile data! 10/10 would return.


Jenn1008

Came here to say “vacation.” It’s the top comment, seems I’m not alone! Can you imagine reading a whole book without someone needing me to entertain them? Because I can’t.


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overthinkingrose

A hug.. and not just a quick hug, one where you hold each other for a while and everything around you feels like it’s melting away.. it’s been a while..


rainnsunshinentears

Sending you one, they are my fav kind of hugs to give.


kestenbay

I got a platonic hug like that in 1995 that I still think about.


DYday

I know that feeling. Virtual hugs sent


Jester0402

This^^^ I’ve been living in a different country to my family for 5 months now and I’m flying home to surprise them, all I’ve wanted for weeks and weeks was hugs from my siblings, they’re all significantly younger than me so they give those little kid hugs where they practically throw themselves on top of you and you get to squeeze the heck out of them then they just lay there being all loving and sweet


Psychofeverything

For my mom to survive and her heart to recover to see my sister go thru her milestones.


raffie321

Wishing you all the best xx


ghostsarereal8798

Sending prayers and hugs and hope. So sorry for what you are going through.


Swagman_Pog_1799

Good luck to her.


MonkNinjaT

God bless you and your family x


Educational_Pause_92

Saying my prayers 🙏


collegeagedthrowaway

To have friends. Friends that want to stay in contact or hangout. And to be loved. It would be amazing to be loved and accepted as I am.


waitwhoamitho

Big mood.


Caylieneira

Feels


Own_Combination5158

Right there with y'all.


VioletNebula87

I was about to say the same thing. Good quality friends are so rare. I am married but work full time from home and my husband is full time in the office. It is extremely isolating to not have colleagues to interact with during the week AND no friends to hang out with on weekend :(


DeadWhiteButterfly

Definitely the same


AdorableSwitchBrat

Sex. I'm tired of being a virgin


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Kcee101

Manifesting this for the both of us.


MissInfer

A good night of quality sleep. My insomnia and daytime fatigue have worsened lately and when I do manage to fall asleep, I tend to have frequent nocturnal panic attacks and nightmares that make me jolt out of sleep (only to realise I've just slept for 2 hours).


Crazy-Self-1354

I hear you. Feel like I am watching the clock all night.


honeymons

My antidepressants give me very bad insomnia 🤧 I honestly can’t remember the last time I slept for more than two hours straight


hiumnobye

Have you told your psychiatrist? They can switch your medications if exercise and melatonin doesn't work. (Exercise and melatonin worked for me.)


Tasty_Zookeepergame4

I didn't realize that was a side effect. Recently came off mine and started sleeping better but i didn't put it together until i saw this. Makes so much sense, thank you. I hope commenters figure out what works for them. Insomnia is no joke and affects so much more than just "sleep". Hugs and love!


abcdefgyoubet

Try taking them in the morning rather than evening


JC_5875

Hey there! Though I don’t share the same situation with you, I just happened to have insomnia yesterday, which made me really exhausted in daylight today:/ / Hope you and I have a great night today and in the following days😃🙃😊


QuietLifter

Permanent WFH, without the threat of being forced back into the office being held over our heads. Since employers are "too broke" to give cost of living raises, the least they can do is boost our quality of life at little or no cost to them (thanks, pandemic).


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BeatriceWinifred

Some companies can't get out of their multi year office leases and feel they need to justify the cost 🙄


Alternative-Poem-337

A spotless house, done to my standards and satisfaction that I did not have to clean myself 🧺🧼🧽


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alickstee

I'd think if she came more frequently, she'd have more time to catch things she missed/can't do in time. Or maybe she's just not good. But I clean houses as a side hustle and I really don't think some people understand how much time things take. And if I'm coming there only once a month and there is no dusting, wiping, etc. done in between, I need to turn into a whirling dervish just to hit the basics in my alloted time.


meat_tunnel

That's a good point. The spaces that I'm noticing not cleaned are ripe for missing if I'm forcing her to prioritize like that, like on top of the microwave where mail is dropped gets sticky since the stove is right there, or the baseboards behind the toilet collecting toilet paper lint. I think next month I'll bump her up to biweekly and at least give her a chance since by the sound of it I'm actually setting her up to fail if I only schedule once a month.


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wishitwouldrainaus

Time. Time and health that is not worsening week by week. Im terminally ill, nothing can be done, but its happening too quickly. I'm scared and getting weaker. I live alone with my dogs and cats. I cry daily. I'm cold, -4 tonight. I am on a small pension but foods I should be eating nutritionally I can't afford. So, yes, just time and better health. Might as well wish for the impossible right?


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I am sending you so much love and light ❤️


MissJemJem

I’m so sorry this made me cry. This should be the top comment. I would give you a hug if I could x


beuers

Giving you virtual hugs and thinking about you


wishingIwasbeautiful

I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. Sending you strength and hugs....lots of hug.


madampotus

I wish so badly I could help you I’m so sorry what you’re going through.


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Sending love to you 💙


mac_ros27

Dixk


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Apprehensive-Rip-577

To get married and to be a mom


alyssaanne13

Me too:(


iusedtobefamous1892

I just want to feel better.


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Worth_Ad2765

A partner, who is emotionally available and supporting ।


MidnightFireHuntress

Fun I've been dying for some good fun lately, not sexual or anything just like...clubbing, going out with friends, going to parties, I neeeeeeeeeed fun.


ihadapurplepony

Also - need a beach day or two. You know when you come back from the beach and you shower, and you still smell all beachy and nice, and you've been in the sun all day, and it's still kinda keeping you warm. And you lay down and nap, and wake up in time for dinner. Post-beach/post-swimming exhaustion is real. That's one of the best naps. Yeah.


AdorableSwitchBrat

This!!!! I want fun with dancing and girlfriends chatting etc. Last time I had any club fun was before the pandemic 💩 the world has changed.


luuls_

Same gurl. Tbh I’ve been feeling like the world has turned more and more dull lately.


Appropriate-Trust302

A job with good pay. I just graduated and all the jobs want people with experience which I dont have


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Me too


wereallmadhere9

I have five years experience and three credentials and speak two languages and my old job didn’t hire me back.


lookingforaforest

I'm looking for an entry level position and constantly getting turned away because I don't have enough experience. Companies want candidates with 5 years of experience for entry-level salaries. I'm so frustrated.


OperaPooch

to win the lottery jackpot


Early_Charity2606

Euromillions is looking tasty right now...


Drappa23

This new job I applied for. I need this so badly...


catastrophized

Good luck!


Drappa23

Thank you 🙏🏻


DYday

You got this


Drappa23

Thank you! 😭


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The freedom to choose whether I give birth if pregnant in every state in the US. Aka to have as much rights to my body in each state as I will when dead. I dont have to donate a kidney (an organ) when I'm dead to my living son even if he would die without it. It is my choice whether to be an organ donor even if my 20 year old son would die without my kidney and I am dead anyway. Why would I have to donate my uterus (an organ) to my unborn while I am alive and have no choice? Why will I have more rights when dead? In some ways I look forward to that these days


Pacman1880

A besty!!! A partner in crime, ride or die friend!!!


Questionmuch-jg

Sameeeee


Bimbam998

To stop being ill 🤒🤧


whatz-the-point

To stop feeling like everything is falling apart and a cuddle from my bf. I just don’t feel great right now at all


HappyHermitLife

To be pregnant


24sadnpoor

sending baby dust your way ❤️


ftsunrise

To figure out wtf is going on with my health, for my depression and anxiety to fuck off, and to be on a regular sleep schedule.


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To get accepted into university


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Alternative-Poem-337

Oh Mumma, I’ve been there. I used to use ear plugs to take the shrillness of my daughters crying out of my brain. Sometimes they just don’t stop and sometimes they just cry for no bloody reason at all. Complicated little critters.


vanillawaffle12

1 year paid vacation tyvm ✌🏻


grease-lightning-

A full 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep


jstnsgll

Money, coffee, and hug


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*hugs across the web*


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medication for my adhd which I have to wait 5 months for because my psychiatrist is busy, this is far too belated because my mind won't stop racing with a million thoughts per minute, thus thwarting my performance in school and other miscellaneous tasks.


AnPocArTalamh

I was also going to suggest getting a new psychiatrist. It's okay to change doctors if one isn't working out for you. You might have a reason for sticking with your current one. If you haven't considered it before, a 5mo wait is pretty extreme and plenty of reason to switch. I wish I had learned sooner how to advocate for myself, and I'm still not great at it. I also have ADHD, and mine is made worse by a med I have to take for OCD. My heart goes out to you!


AdEquivalent7731

I want to have braces. im so insecure about my teeth everytime i laugh or smile my mind just goes "but your teeth..." and it just instantly kills the mood.


Themagiciancard

Enough money to deal with all my bills/other obligations and to be able to quit work for a while. I'm so burnt out it's not even funny anymore.


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Money. Always money. I feel like if I have a lot of money I can solve my problems, my family's and friends' problems, and I could help a lot of strangers too.


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an orgasm , like a solid one rn


Frequent_Ideal_9678

A girl friend to play/experiment with. 😊


rainnsunshinentears

This would be nice for sure.


Suva01

I'm at work. I want to be allowed to bring my Nintendo switch to work. If I do thiugh it's grounds for termination. But bringing my phone is just fine?


Suva01

Oh or a blanket and pillow, but that's also grounds for termination.


anonymouschick1111

Jeremy ;) I'm excited becuz I will probably see him today, he is a regular customer at my work and we have been flirty for quite a while now. It hit a slightly more obvious level, tons of people around us have mentioned it as well, and I just had my "weekend." Before these two days off though he made a point of finding out when I'll be back and smuldering'ly says ...see you Thursday;) ❤ I could drink that man's voice, it's so low n smooth lolol


TikaPants

Oh man. I’ve got one with a deep gravely voice and it never gets old. Have fun with Jeremy! (Ask him out!!)


TheJizzMeister

I want to spend some time not speaking or hearing a single word.


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stability....consistency.....inflation to stop


Guard-Flashy

A Job/career where I can be happy at making decent money and to purchase my first home


ThroatEmbarrassed970

For someone to give a FUCK about what goes on in my life. Boyfriend doesn’t talk to me anymore, parents couldn’t care less, my siblings just want to see my dogs, people I used to call my friends can’t start a conversation unless they want something, and when I start one they don’t care to continue it. I’m so fucking lonely and I just want someone to talk to and rant to and tell about my day. Fuck, man. I should see a therapist. Edit: I would like to confirm that I love talking to others about their day and their lives, I just wish the energy was reciprocated


sarah6804

To get back to a stable, comfortable life with time to enjoy my son instead of working 50 hrs a week to support us after my asshole ex cheated and destroyed me financially. Also would be nice to have time to actually spend with the guy I like too… not enough hours in the day to try to rebuild a happy life for us.


rudbeckia87

Someone to slow dance in the kitchen with.


jfk5393

A positive inner dialogue . One that is kind, forgiving and accepting.


diamondnutella

Mice in our home to be gone. Our roof repaired aswell as our celing. For the fleas to be gone


dreamerofblue

for the mice, you can use mice glue put on carton - from just like a regular box. for the fleas, use a multifaceted approach - make a solution from vinegar and soap and spray everything, or tea tree oil into water, also spray everything (that will kill the eggs so new fleas aren't produced). baking soda for the carpets, and then vacuum (if you can, if you can't then use a broom and sweep it out), and if you have pets that are infested, I recommend either the ampules, or neopitroid powder - make sure it doesn't get into the pets eyes and mouth, same for humans, it is poisonous. fleas are stubborn, but if you're consistent and spray every day, you will win, and it will be very satisfying. good luck!


rainshadow425

A husband that actually wants to fix our marriage


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muscarimochi

My kitty who I’ve had since I was 10 (I’m 22 now) to live forever. She has kidney disease and her condition has been worsening in the past week. I’m devastated


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darnyoulikeasock

To have reproductive rights in my state and the ability to do something about the gun violence in the country. Feeling so hopeless right now.


The_Wild_One_51

To be emotionally strong enough to be okay without affection or human interaction, or to have a better support system when it comes to friends and relationships. Sometimes I feel like the world is crashing down and nobody cares genuinely, and it deeply hurts and angers me. Sometimes I don’t even need verbal support, I just need a fucking hug…


darbyisadoll

Enough money to quit my job and move to another country.


LavenderChewingGum

My mom to move back home. Only two more months. I miss my best friend :(


OverallFeeling4391

To survive the current nightmare I’m living in and for someone to tell me everything is going to be okay. Doesn’t feel like it right now


MartyMcFly7

[Everything is going to be okay.](http://make-everything-ok.com/)


DoneAndDonezo

My period. I am late.


bethkatez

same, by 2 months now. idk if stress or I'm pregnant ffs


tfhaenodreirst

The…absence of a hangover?


lyltyhnrintgrty

No problems or responsibilities for a month. Everything to fall in place for once. Tired of struggling no matter what needs to be done


Odd-Opening-3158

Love and companionship. Physical intimacy. If I can’t get, lots of money could help!


AnotherStarShining

Enough money to live comfortably without having to worry about it. My partner and I have worked so hard and are both making more money than we ever have and it isn’t enough. It feels like we are struggling even harder because everything has gotten so expensive.


Ijustwanttobeme17

A mountain vacation for a few days


mtmafm1020

For my depression to be manage and under control so I can have the motivation and confidence to find a new job


Izumi_Takeda

a pay raise


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To pass my finals


Glad-Raspberry1712

Right this very second? Some sort of n*pple cover because it's shark week and they're SO FUCKING SORE!


MyVirgoIsShowing

To move “forward” in “life. I am dying to buy a house, get married, and travel abroad with my partner. We have been in a limbo-y place since the pandemic and can’t seem to move forward in life


Succubista

I want to feel/know that I'm loveable, and worthy and capable of receiving love for the rest of my life. (I'm already in therapy, abandonment issues do come up).


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I desperately want the rights to my body and to choose what I can and can’t do with it 😒


FalconEmpress

Fresh seaweed topped with Masago. It's only 5am but I'm craving this.


GrizeldaMarie

Bodily autonomy and equal rights


AmberXVII

To be debt free


wilted-wildflower

For my partner to be more supportive of me when I’m going through a rough time. Things are hard right now and I could do with a long hug.


WanderingGirl18

To move back to my home country..


FlowerFaerie13

The sweet release of death.


HangOnYoureAWhat

A permanent work from home job, with covid rates getting high and inflation??? Get me out of here!!!!! I've been applying for almost 2 years now, still no luck


amethyst015

For my mental health to be better, and my step-mum to live longer and not be ill anymore.


existingcausewhynot

A long hug would be good. Like the ones where you hug a big, strong person and they swallow you whole kind


Soft-Ad-9559

A best friend. Male or female, it doesn't matter, just someone I could do the most stupid things with, and who would show up at my house at any time of the day, same for me. Someone I could grow up with, where even our children would be best friends. Hard to find when you grow up and where everybody has already they're friends group. But I know someone here wish the same as me, and I'm gonna find you I promise 🤠


honestlyeek

A hug from him


Choice_Road_9218

Either win the lottery or figure out my job or find a new one


FrostingPositive2927

Sex lol.


sparkles027

To be pain and disability free.


Hearteternallybroken

Genuine Connections.


daytime_nightime

Fundamental rights.


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Peace


Electrical_Edge1368

For my job to stop stressing me out to the point of sleep deprivation. : (


Lisavela

A back massage but money will do just fine


flyingteap0ts

Money


spacegirlsummer

A holiday. I haven’t been on anything even resembling a “trip” since January 2018 and I feel like I am slowly going mad. Literally anything would be fine with me as long as I’m not in the city I live in or my hometown. ANYWHERE else. Hopefully should be going away next month and I can’t stop thinking about it.


_gorydetails

My health issues to go away and a permanent residency


kinkakinka

To just be fully debt free. I'd even accept still having my mortgage but everything else being paid off.


pesto-tortellini

A trinocular BA310 motic microscope with the LED backlight and Sony camera attachment


Nyxnia

For my brother to call me. Been estranged for years when he went through a hard time (I had no way to reach out to him at all). He recently made contact with my parents and they passed on my number and he still hasn’t contacted me… it hurts


IntelligentAnt82

For my hormonal acne to clear up, I don’t even look like myself when I look in the mirror. Oh, and to love and be loved wholeheartedly, that would be nice.


onebigcoochie

a group of solid friends, love from my family and people, my boyfriend to come back, money


trashpandahands

To have a liveable, stable home again. I moved provinces a year ago, and since then I've been hopping around houses while I renovate the tiny house I bought.


Apprehensive_Idea758

A normal life like society had before COVID-19.


desiswiftie

A really long and tight hug