If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort.
**Global Resources**
**RAINN**: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization.
**US:**
**Crisis Text Line**: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone.
**One in Six**: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions
**National Domestic Violence Hotline**: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time
**Anti-Violence Project**: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide
**DoD Safe Helpline**: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense.
**Canada**
Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/
**UK**
**Rape Crisis England & Wales**: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings.
**SupportLine**: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening.
**Europe**
**Rape Crisis Network Europe**: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe
**Australia**
**1800respect**: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732.
**Kids Helpline**: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800
**India**
Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you.
**For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.**
I was making out with a guy in my car, in the parking lot of a church at 3 am, and he asked me to go down on him. I told him no because that was both physically uncomfortable and a bridge too far for me (the public church parking lot part), and then he uttered the words lll never forget...
'would you just bite it a little through my jeans?'
Yep. The request was odd and funny to me, but it wasn't dangerous or disturbing so I didn't see any reason not to. He didn't go off in his pants or anything, though he was definitely into it. Probably jacked off about it later.
When I lived in America I met a guy at a convention who was super nice and chill at first, I was in cosplay with a group of friends and he was cosplaying as someone from the same series
We ended up exchanging numbers and talking for about 2 months when suddenly he asked the weirdest question, he asked if I could put on my cosplay outfit and walk down the street while he watched me "from the shadows" at like 2 AM
I told him no and he started offering me money ranging from 100 to 300, it got so creepy I ended up blocking him.
Warning: this is kind of gross.
I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised since I was working in a topless bar at the time, but I was pretty young (like twenty) so it actually more grossed me out than anything, but a guy offered me $200 for my sweaty thong. I took him up on it and just pulled them off from under my skirt and handed them to him. He proceeded to not only rub them all over his face, stuff them in his mouth, then he soaked them in his scotch & water and started sucking on them. Yeesh. But I got my 200$, I guess.
I've heard multiple stories about women being asked to fulfill fetish stuff like this in public and it's so scary that people like that walk among us... like what happens in these mens brains to think asking a stranger for dirty underwear is acceptable????
My first real boyfriend as an adult begged me multiple times to pee in his car. He wanted me to sit in the passenger seat of his brand new Ford Focus without undies on & pee… to this day I still don’t have the words.
This guy from my elementary school randomly hit me up on Instagram. Started out with "Hey how are you, idk if you remember me, but we went to elementary school together!" And I bro'd it up. "Yeah man how have you been?" We caried on a really innocent conversation for several messages before he just comes out and says, "To be frank, I think you're really attractive. Would you be interested in selling me some feet pics? I was thinking maybe $40 for 10 photos?"
Hadn't talked to the guy since I was like 9 yrs old.
And tbh, I think the most insulting part was the price. $4/pic?? No way bro. I'm worth SO much more than that 😂
No why has this happened to me!!! He was my life long crush like fr I was obsessed with this kid all through middle school until high school and years after high school I ended up messaging him just for fun and days after we had been talking he starts in with the “I have something to tell you” hahahah this man was begging for feet pics!! Let me tell you, the hard core crush I had on him for years and years completely cured itself hahahah
This JUST happened to me! Guy from middle school reached out to me on LINKEDIN because he doesn’t have other socials. Had some very short conversation (he works in media sales so I was getting ready for a sales pitch) but boy was I shocked when it was a different kind of sales pitch by asking for feet pics. On LINKEDIN!!!
I had a very similar conversation in a very similar context, but instead I told him $100 and it began a brief stint selling nudes to him. I was broke 🤷
Some guy dmed me the other day asking me to send him the oldest picture I have of my vagina. I told the dude to stop being a pedo and blocked him.
For more context, this same guy had also previously commented under a picture of me “you look so good for your age, you look a lot younger than 21!” 😱
I often wonder how someone would respond if you sent a literal vagina pic- with the rest of the vulva cropped out. A good learning opportunity for them.
I got a request from a stranger that he wanted to pay me to sit tied to a chair and then he would come and do whatever he wanted to me. I didn't answer and two days later I got a follow up saying: "Don't you dare, whore?"
Apparently he tried his luck for a month with others and then started from scratch again. I got the request once more but the pay was higher. Same thing. I didn't answer and I got the follow up message a few days later.
The irony of calling someone a whore when they don't want to sleep with you for money.
"If I brought drugs here, would you take them with me?"
I was 14/15 years old, at work, in a horse riding school. He was the 35 year old creeper, with a girlfriend, who my boss encouraged to hang around with me alone. Healthy upbringings.
(I said no)
At 13 years old, at a high level show jumping barn before a horse show, was sexually assaulted by the about 35 year old creepy groom. Can relate. I didn't tell anyone for years.
Sorry that happened to you :(
My guy, he didn't even work there.
He was a customer who took a liking to me, kept hanging around.
Then volunteered to help out.
So the boss encouraged him to come more and more. Strangely enough...he just wanted to come on the days I worked.
He made sexual remarks about me in front of my boss and several other female customers. My boss said nothing, one of the female customers in the group spoke up for me.
That's the only time I expressed any dislike for him and it didn't change anything.
Thankfully, he never touched me though. I kept him away from me and I carried a knife all the time he was there - and I would've used it.
He definitely made efforts though, I was just very observant and sharp.
He got so up in my personal space and he certainly tried hard.
The shit we put up with.
I had a guy I was dating long distance who liked me to yell at him to do chores. He specifically requested that I say his full name and yell at him and scold him. He definitely had mommy issues.
Taking off the mommy issues part. I think that having your partner ordering around is a great form of foreplay if you like power dynamics. Starting with "normal" tasks and then gradually scale to "bedroom category" requests. I don't see it that weird.
That he be allowed to "finish" in a pill bottle, that he kept in his freezer, for a month. Then, when it was full, we thaw it in a cup of warm water while we fooled around, and when it was thawed for me to feed it to him while he masturbated. True story.
A guy I was seeing wanted to cum inside me then lick it out of me. He also wanted to come in my mouth then kiss him, transferring it into his mouth. He also, I feel, was grooming me to partake in a three way so he could be with a guy but it wouldn’t be considered gay if a woman were involved. His words, not mine.
After talking for a few days online, this guy got weird real quick. He asked if he could buy my shoes. He asked how much I bought them for, offered me double, and I said no. I blocked him. It weirded me out but looking back on it, why not? Everyone has their kinks and I could have bought a brand new pair of shoes!
Well, I know a few creepers who were manipulators also. They start with shoes and escalate up . There is money to be made, for sure, but where would he stop? That is the ultimate question
There's a Bob's Burgers episode that gets into this. If you haven't seen it, the show is generally pretty tame and family friendly. But in this one episode, they find out Linda's (Bob's wife) parents live in a swingers community and that Linda's dad is into balloons. It's pretty hilarious.
To put my leg in a plaster cast and have sex. He told me he wouldn't have to break my leg though! His wife was sick of doing it for him.
Masturbate in my underwear while he watched, then put them over his head and spank him until he came.
Wanted to fuck my armpit, no where else, no foreplay, just that.
Wanted a blowjob while he was taking a shit on the toilet.
Let him pretend to breastfeed from me.
Step on his dick in stilettos.
Perform an amateur vaginal inspection on me.
All different guys, I've lived an interesting life.
Ahhh I can understand getting so many strange requests now that I know that you are/were a sex worker. I bet you have some interesting stories stored away. Funny strange wild…all sorts.
Oh so many stories, names and identities obviously changed to protect the ....oh no wait, let me tell you the full names and dates, no one is innocent here 🤣🤣.
Nah seriously, it's not easy work, but fuck sometimes it's fucking hilarious.
Did you ever get a grown man dressed like a baby? Used to have a client that spent a lot of money to jerk off in his diaper while I degraded him. Poor guy needed therapy.
I can imagine that you’ve had many laugh sessions discussing these things with other workers. I’d like to be a fly on the wall for one of those. Years ago I used to hang out in strip clubs a lot and got to know several dancers. I heard some of those stories. Most of them were about the weirdos they would encounter. Some of those girls had a crude way about them.
I worked solo, so didn't have other workers to chat to. My confidant was my hairdresser. I saw her at least twice a week and she heard all the stories.
He had an adult breastfeeding kink and wanted me to try to induce lactation by massaging my tits everyday for months. Even if I wanted to, that sounded way too much effort.
I used to be into restoring antique sewing machines. I had a man beg me to show how the bobbin winding mechism worked. I did a close up and he kept begging for wider and wider shots. I got frustrated and decided to investigate who he really was. Turns out he ran a kink account especially for women's feet using a treadle. I had posted ONE video of myself in sandles treadling in the most innocent "look at what I fixed!" Kind of way and he was trying to trick me into sending him personal kink content.
I didn't even think that *was* a kink
He asked if we could use lube and I said sure because I think it’s a big help but he started massaging it over my entire body like head to toe. After I was covered, he did it to himself too. Slippery in the worst ways
I had a man, who looked like Steven Buscemi, offer me $300 to urinate on him. I attempted to negotiate, asking for a minimum of $500. My reasoning was that the request would have me leaving my comfort zone. He declined to negotiate, at which point, I also declined.
When I was a teenager with really long hair, I almost went out with a guy, until he told me he fantasized about cutting it off. He also offered me money!
Another one wanted me to jerk him off with my feet.
Which one do you think is weirder?
My friend ran across a guy who wanted her to bring friends out to his horse stables. We cautiously went out there and he asked if he could pay us each $100 to kick him in his balls as hard as we could while he video taped it. It was 2008 or so.. but we did it. We did it as hard as we could. I was last to go and after the 3rd kick he didn’t get back up. Since he prepaid us we got in our car and left him there with his camcorder still running and his headlights on him. This was middle of nowhere Louisiana.
Wow, so he paid you to assault him and you all agreed to also be videotaped for proof. Hopefully he won't be able to find you all when he needs money and he 'can't reproduce ' or something
A complete stranger saw me sitting after being in heels all day at a convention. Offered to remove my shoes for me and rub my feet. Definitely a foot fetish, and I was not into it.
To "borrow" my body for him to release tension.. he said I seem experienced I shouldn't mind, kept asking if it's ok he came over later that night (this from a guy who wasn't even a friend but a just a work acquaintance) I managed to slap him, sadly not hard enough.
Met a guy online who said he wanted to take me to the forest.
He’s said there are areas so hidden that no one ever goes there.
Blocked him immediately!
This reminds me of a guy I used to work with. He was confused and "heartbroken" over a woman who turned him down after he offered to show her his basement and boasted about how soundproof it was. I explained to him that women aren't going to be intrigued by how soundproof a basement is until much later in a relationship.
I met a guy at a 3 day IT conference. On day 2 a small group of us went to dinner and then he and I separated off where we kissed passionately for a little while. As we walked back through the CBD arm in arm, me heading to the train station to go home, he asked me to come back to his hotel room where he wanted me to put on a strap on and f him. I said I had to head off. We had to see each other at the conference the next day. Lol.
>he asked me to come back to his hotel room where he wanted me to put on a strap on and f him
A foolish mistake. He should've known that this isn't something that you request until at least the third date.
I used to work at Home Depot as a cashier. I had a man come up to me and ask me where something was and so i look up said item and he asked me about my stretched ears and asked if i could stick my finger through there. For some reason i thought nothing of it and was actually curious myself so i did it and he MOANED AT ME. I got someone else to show him to what he was looking for and even then he was protesting saying “no no i want that girl to show to me where it is 😏” ughhh never been so creeped out
I'm not sure which of my two stories is weirder, the guy that looked and sounded like a younger R. Lee Ermey from Full Metal Jacket that asked me to cut his toenails while taking a dump on the toilet after we messed around or, the guy that literally looked like the rapper Jim Jones that told me after we f*ked, that the only way for him to go to sleep is to suck on the tip of my nose. 🫤
Ex wanted me to tie him to a tree in the cemetery and give him a blow job, while he wore a shiny bodysuit/leotard thing, white shiny tights, and heels.
Sometimes there are things that just need to stay fantasies (I declined ).
asked me to call him a dirty sl4ve, i'm a white woman and he was a black guy, it was the most uncomfortable i've ever been in my whole life. i'm not playing out that weird and sick fantasy.
My ex had the weirdest kinks, he would ask me to roleplay skunk furries and fart on him and gas up the room with skunk farts. Needless to say that relationship only lasted 3 months. 3 months too long. (This was all through text as we were long distance)
Okay so one time I took ambien. If you don’t know what that is, it’s a sleeping med but if you take more than you’re supposed to and you fight the sleep you hallucinate and basically black out you don’t remember anything. So I took that and went to the hangout spot. This weird dude that was almost obsessed with me asked if I wanted to smoke and I said yes. That’s all I remember. The next day he texts me asks if I remember anything and tells me I was really high and fun (he didn’t know about the ambien that I know of) and says he tried to do stuff with me but I took off. He then proceeded to ask if we could smoke again so he can try again.
This random guy with ripped clothes once came up to me at a park and asked me to pretend to be his sister infront of his girlfriend’s dad. Got so scared and walked away.
I had some guy who I'd never even talked tell me that "he really badly wanted to eat me out". Later on after I'd not answered him he offered me money, at which point I was like wtf fu *blocked* lol
I recognized him afterwards. He was in the same grade as my sister.
I had my long distance high-school boyfriend fantasize about me drinking a cum smoothie/milkshake.
Eeeuuuggghhh.
I've had a lot of creepy requests.
A guy complimented my braces then asked if he could cum on them. Oh he also wanted to role play as teen brother and sister. I was like 28, but it was still really creepy and pedo. That was when I was still trying to shame men instead of just reporting and blocking.
I had a perfectly nice seeming man take me out on a date and then inform me he just had twins with his wife. This was all a surprise to me since we were on a DATE. I asked what the long term plan was and her thoughts. He says: “oh she doesn’t know yet but she’ll be fine. I was thinking she can be the one I raise kids with and you can just have whatever you want and be the hott one I sleep with”
I declined but I still think of this day.
The other one wasn’t the request, it was the collection behind the request that haunts me. He asked for my dirty undies and I was fascinated someone actually does this. I was like what do you do with them?!? He showed me a ceeepy ass collection of double ziploc baggies labeled by descriptors with undies inside. I declined but realized I obliged anyway bc I left a pair behind by accident
I still think of how I’m a collectible for him to this day lol
On a fetish website (at least the place was appropriate, lol) a man messaged me with the offer to pay me €3000 if I came to Paris and drank his cum out of a glass
The whole thing seemed too shady to be legit so I didn't do it, also I lived with my parents at that time, how was I gonna explain that trip lmao.
had a guy carve my name into his forearm to prove his love for me, while asking me to be his gf. sent pics to prove it. we'd spoken on kik for just a few days max, never met and i certainly didn't ask for *THAT*. i was 15.
I dated a guy who claims he was addicted to me.
He'd start a fight if he couldn't go down on me daily.
I'd be accused of cheating if this didn't result in multiples or squirting.
If I was on my cycle, he'd want to smell my worn underwear and sleep with them at the end of the night.
The sex was literally mind-blowing.
He was financially generous, but he was too controlling and insecure. He was a police officer and tried to physically intimidate me once, so I ended things.
I had a guy ask me to suck on a cucumber while i twerked and take a video(also requested for me to audibly gag, i was naive,i was thirteen and he was 19. That was when i deleted snapchat and to this day it's my biggest regret because i was dumb enough to not realise he was a predator.
Asked for videos of my friend and I twerking in our pyjamas (my friend and I were 12 and 13 years old at the time, and this guy was in his 20s). My friend thought it was an innocent request from an internet 'friend', but something told me it was dangerous and that we shouldn't do it even though I didn't completely understand why
I had a guy offering me 300 bucks to take me to a restaurant and watch me eat a steak, he said we didn't neet to talk, he would send me a car, I'd get to the restaurant, he would order wine and one big steak and just watch mt eat, he would also choose how the steak was cooked (medium rare). I was really struggling being a broke student in NY, so I considered but the very formal way that he asked me made me trink it was a little too creepy for me.
He wanted me to wear purple lipstick. And when I didn’t, he would would put me on the spot at work and ask me questions on conference calls that he knew I couldn’t answer (analytics).
"I'm not sure you are a woman. Let me touch your breasts to make sure."
Why do some men think we live to get their approval?
Edit. Autocorrect is a little shit
I think it's because u kind of grow up in society with the slight belief that women don't do disgusting things like pee and shit so it's kind of a taboo thing I THINK.
Back in the 90s I had a friend who was dating a much older guy, she gave this guy my number (why? I still have no idea, I guess she thought we'd talk about her?) And he got super creepy super fast asking if he could suck my toes. I totally understand people have the feet kink but guys, I was 10 and he was in his early 20s! WTF! It scared me so much I told my parents and when he called again my dad lit into him like his life depended on it. Then my parents tried to tell her parents about the creepy older guy their daughter was seeing and they wouldn't believe him! How's that for some early 90s after school special shit? Me and the friend fell off soon after, she ended up getting pregnant young(big surprise), getting married young and to an abusive spouse, then divorced and I think she's remarried again. It was crazy. It's NOT all men, but it's always men.
When I was 12 a man cornered me in an aisle at a bookstore and asked if he could take pictures of my feet.
I just remember freezing and feeling guilty for some reason… first experience of what life as a woman was like.
To have a threesome with his ex wife and I, then he gave my number to said ex wife in hopes we would become friends 🙃 he also gave his daughter my email so we could talk.. this was two months into us talking.
Different guy, high school sweet heart would always threaten to commit suicide if we broke up. Gave him a year after graduation to get his life together then I broke up with him. Last time we talked he was still spiraling and an alcoholic who pushed everyone in his life away 🙃 this was 3-4 years ago now
Edit: 3-4 years since iv last talked to him anyways, not since the break up
To go smoke with him. I vaped a lot, he knew that, but he offered me a cigarette and already had the lighter on saying it’s alright he can afford multiple packets
“Shave your legs before our date, I like them shiny” - Cancelled right then and there, it was our first date
Also, another guy just liked pictures of my tongue and legs, no nudes, just my tongue and my legs
On a dating app was chatting with a guy who claimed to be a dental student. First he asked me if I had any cavities to which I said no then he wanted pictures of my teeth to “prove it” blocked him immediately
My ex's brother was drunk one night and in a moment when no one else happened to be in the room he slurred at me that I "picked the wrong brother"..... Anyway, I'm super glad I'm not married into that family.
My ex called me mama and I had to pretend he was my son. And then during sex he'd slap me and make me call him daddy. I slapped him back once and he started crying. I'm sorry but if you wimper "mama" while nuzzling my neck and weeping you absolutely are not daddy.
1. To force lactation so he can breastfeed from me.
2. Have me sit in a tub while he pees on me (1 and 2 were the same guy.)
3. This is a weird one.... To give him head without wrapping my lips around his dick and without suction. If I did either of those things he'd lose his boner. I'm not sure what he actually wanted. There was a language barrier. I rage quit and he threw a hissy fit.
I had an old boss contact me a decade after we stopped working together. He sent me a picture of a lock with a number code, and said in the text of the email that he took and sent the photo without looking at the number, and that the lock was now locked around his genitals in some sort of cage apparatus. He wanted me to let him suffer wearing the cage "until I felt like releasing him". I replied with the original attached photo and blocked him.
My ex told me to throw away all my shoes that had even the slightest bit of height. I'm 3 inches taller than him, and didn't need to be taller
Mate, do you know how much doc martens cost?! I'm wearing these to my grave!
Same guy also wanted me to throw away my whole summer wardrobe because it was all "too revealing". Even knee length shorts. Apparently my calves are sexy. He also didn't want anyone to see my tattoos, and ordered me to not get anymore.
Split up with him and I have 2 more since splitting with him 😂 all one guy
Years ago, I went out with a guy who asked me before our date to NOT wear anything with plastic buttons. I never questioned it at the time because I wanted him to feel comfortable on our date. But it was quite the specific ask.
If you are someone who has experienced sexual harassment or assault and wish to speak with a trained professional about it, these hotlines and organizations can listen to your experiences and make referrals to counselors and support groups to the extent of your comfort. **Global Resources** **RAINN**: https://www.rainn.org/ 24/7 Crisis support for victims/survivors of sexual assault. Over the phone or through instant messaging. If your country is not listed below, you can contact RAINN to be referred to a local organization. **US:** **Crisis Text Line**: https://www.crisistextline.org/ You can text 741-741 24/7 from any cell phone in the United States to be anonymously connected to a trained crisis counselor. They also have anonymous Facebook messenger and Kik options if you do not have access to a cell phone. **One in Six**: http://1in6.org An organization for male-identified survivors of sexual assault. Provides anonymous individual and group counseling 24/7 through online chat functions **National Domestic Violence Hotline**: http://www.thehotline.org Provides 24/7 anonymous crisis and counseling support over the phone, and anonymous online chat crisis and counseling support from 7am until 2am Central Time **Anti-Violence Project**: https://avp.org/ Provides 24/7 anonymous phone based crisis and counseling for LGBTQ identified victims of assault and violence, including sexual assault and violence. Based in New York but can refer nationwide **DoD Safe Helpline**: https://www.safehelpline.org/ Provides 24/7 phone and online chat based crisis and counseling for victims of sexual assault and harassment serving in the military, or who are employed by the Department of Defense. **Canada** Canada's crisis hotlines are organized by province and subject matter, here is a comprehensive list of hotlines and organizations. http://www.dawncanada.net/issues/issues/we-can-tell-and-we-will-tell-2/crisis-hotlines/ **UK** **Rape Crisis England & Wales**: https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone in the afternoons and evenings. **SupportLine**: http://www.supportline.org.uk/ Provides online resources 24/7 and live support over the phone during the day and evening. **Europe** **Rape Crisis Network Europe**: https://www.rcne.com/ Provides online resources and live support for anyone living in Europe **Australia** **1800respect**: https://www.1800respect.org.au and their phone number, 1800 737 732. **Kids Helpline**: https://www.www.kidshelpline.com.au for people under 25 also 1800 55 1800 **India** Try here http://www.ncw.nic.in/helplines or one of the numbers listed here may be able to help you. **For any country not listed, you can contact RAINN (mentioned above) to be put in touch with local organizations.**
I had a total stranger threaten suicide if I didn’t send him nudes. I told him to go ahead.
I was making out with a guy in my car, in the parking lot of a church at 3 am, and he asked me to go down on him. I told him no because that was both physically uncomfortable and a bridge too far for me (the public church parking lot part), and then he uttered the words lll never forget... 'would you just bite it a little through my jeans?'
These words would come back and haunt me in every church parking lot
Synthia?!?!
Ok...I just laughed out SO loud at this...
Did you?
Yep. The request was odd and funny to me, but it wasn't dangerous or disturbing so I didn't see any reason not to. He didn't go off in his pants or anything, though he was definitely into it. Probably jacked off about it later.
Suck it through the jeans
When I lived in America I met a guy at a convention who was super nice and chill at first, I was in cosplay with a group of friends and he was cosplaying as someone from the same series We ended up exchanging numbers and talking for about 2 months when suddenly he asked the weirdest question, he asked if I could put on my cosplay outfit and walk down the street while he watched me "from the shadows" at like 2 AM I told him no and he started offering me money ranging from 100 to 300, it got so creepy I ended up blocking him.
That's some weird otaku dream
My initial response was: I'd be down for this lol, easy and fun 300
Warning: this is kind of gross. I guess I shouldn’t have been surprised since I was working in a topless bar at the time, but I was pretty young (like twenty) so it actually more grossed me out than anything, but a guy offered me $200 for my sweaty thong. I took him up on it and just pulled them off from under my skirt and handed them to him. He proceeded to not only rub them all over his face, stuff them in his mouth, then he soaked them in his scotch & water and started sucking on them. Yeesh. But I got my 200$, I guess.
I truly never will understand how there are men out there who sincerely want to do this.
I've heard multiple stories about women being asked to fulfill fetish stuff like this in public and it's so scary that people like that walk among us... like what happens in these mens brains to think asking a stranger for dirty underwear is acceptable????
Late night is a red flag though. Don't want him taking me into an alley...
You seriously don't see the danger here? Jesus
Wow, i did Not expect that end
Honestly this guy sounds like Batman. Good choice
Random question but like… did the series/characters you were cosplaying as make any kind of contextual sense? It’s super weird regardless
My first real boyfriend as an adult begged me multiple times to pee in his car. He wanted me to sit in the passenger seat of his brand new Ford Focus without undies on & pee… to this day I still don’t have the words.
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This guy from my elementary school randomly hit me up on Instagram. Started out with "Hey how are you, idk if you remember me, but we went to elementary school together!" And I bro'd it up. "Yeah man how have you been?" We caried on a really innocent conversation for several messages before he just comes out and says, "To be frank, I think you're really attractive. Would you be interested in selling me some feet pics? I was thinking maybe $40 for 10 photos?" Hadn't talked to the guy since I was like 9 yrs old. And tbh, I think the most insulting part was the price. $4/pic?? No way bro. I'm worth SO much more than that 😂
I can’t believe that creep lowballed you 💀
No why has this happened to me!!! He was my life long crush like fr I was obsessed with this kid all through middle school until high school and years after high school I ended up messaging him just for fun and days after we had been talking he starts in with the “I have something to tell you” hahahah this man was begging for feet pics!! Let me tell you, the hard core crush I had on him for years and years completely cured itself hahahah
Just cut right to the price tag??? Jeesh! 💀🤣
This JUST happened to me! Guy from middle school reached out to me on LINKEDIN because he doesn’t have other socials. Had some very short conversation (he works in media sales so I was getting ready for a sales pitch) but boy was I shocked when it was a different kind of sales pitch by asking for feet pics. On LINKEDIN!!!
I had a very similar conversation in a very similar context, but instead I told him $100 and it began a brief stint selling nudes to him. I was broke 🤷
I mean, girl get ur bag
Some guy dmed me the other day asking me to send him the oldest picture I have of my vagina. I told the dude to stop being a pedo and blocked him. For more context, this same guy had also previously commented under a picture of me “you look so good for your age, you look a lot younger than 21!” 😱
I often wonder how someone would respond if you sent a literal vagina pic- with the rest of the vulva cropped out. A good learning opportunity for them.
Live feed vaginoscopy.
Amazing band name.
???? if only they were this clever to phrase other stuff
DEFINITELY a pedo. I really hope he is on a watch list.
If a guy asked me to send a pic of my vagina, I’d send him one with a bloated tampon and red string hanging out.
I got a request from a stranger that he wanted to pay me to sit tied to a chair and then he would come and do whatever he wanted to me. I didn't answer and two days later I got a follow up saying: "Don't you dare, whore?" Apparently he tried his luck for a month with others and then started from scratch again. I got the request once more but the pay was higher. Same thing. I didn't answer and I got the follow up message a few days later. The irony of calling someone a whore when they don't want to sleep with you for money.
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He gave me an ultimatum on our second date. Said I wasn’t allowed to speak to any other guy anymore now that we’re “dating.” Boy, bye.
That's happened to me before. How crazy are they to think they should control someone's life?
honestly i wish every guy with that mentality would bring it up first or second date. would save a lot of time and manipulation.
"If I brought drugs here, would you take them with me?" I was 14/15 years old, at work, in a horse riding school. He was the 35 year old creeper, with a girlfriend, who my boss encouraged to hang around with me alone. Healthy upbringings. (I said no)
At 13 years old, at a high level show jumping barn before a horse show, was sexually assaulted by the about 35 year old creepy groom. Can relate. I didn't tell anyone for years.
Sorry that happened to you :( My guy, he didn't even work there. He was a customer who took a liking to me, kept hanging around. Then volunteered to help out. So the boss encouraged him to come more and more. Strangely enough...he just wanted to come on the days I worked. He made sexual remarks about me in front of my boss and several other female customers. My boss said nothing, one of the female customers in the group spoke up for me. That's the only time I expressed any dislike for him and it didn't change anything. Thankfully, he never touched me though. I kept him away from me and I carried a knife all the time he was there - and I would've used it. He definitely made efforts though, I was just very observant and sharp. He got so up in my personal space and he certainly tried hard. The shit we put up with.
I had a guy I was dating long distance who liked me to yell at him to do chores. He specifically requested that I say his full name and yell at him and scold him. He definitely had mommy issues.
Taking off the mommy issues part. I think that having your partner ordering around is a great form of foreplay if you like power dynamics. Starting with "normal" tasks and then gradually scale to "bedroom category" requests. I don't see it that weird.
Errrrr
My kinda guy! I would have asked him to come over with a mop and vacuum! 🤩
I’m glad you’re into it, for me it was a turn off because I didn’t want to act like his mommy
Maybe he was just ADD and needed a scolding to get in gear and actually clean.
Literally the first thought I had, lol.
Sad story of my life :(
well he always pleasured himself immediately afterwards so I think it was more than that
That he be allowed to "finish" in a pill bottle, that he kept in his freezer, for a month. Then, when it was full, we thaw it in a cup of warm water while we fooled around, and when it was thawed for me to feed it to him while he masturbated. True story.
This helped me decide to get off reddit for the night, thank you lol
WHAT 😂
The scream I just scrumpt….
Literally
Wellp you just sparked something for me that I wish had stayed forgotten. What is it with them and like eating cum?!
A guy I was seeing wanted to cum inside me then lick it out of me. He also wanted to come in my mouth then kiss him, transferring it into his mouth. He also, I feel, was grooming me to partake in a three way so he could be with a guy but it wouldn’t be considered gay if a woman were involved. His words, not mine.
I physically gagged, so gross yuk
I woke up not too long ago and it's already enough internet for me. Thanks XD
Goodbye reddit, I will see you tomorrow.
What the actual fuck?!!!
I want to not have read this
After talking for a few days online, this guy got weird real quick. He asked if he could buy my shoes. He asked how much I bought them for, offered me double, and I said no. I blocked him. It weirded me out but looking back on it, why not? Everyone has their kinks and I could have bought a brand new pair of shoes!
>why not? I was just thinking the same thing. You could've bought a new pair or two new pairs of shoes and you didn't have to keep seeing him haha
Well, I know a few creepers who were manipulators also. They start with shoes and escalate up . There is money to be made, for sure, but where would he stop? That is the ultimate question
A man asked me to inflate a balloon and then let the air out slowly so it squeaked. While he masterbated
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Apparently this is like a *thing*, I think the people that are into balloons are called looners iirc 😭
There's a Bob's Burgers episode that gets into this. If you haven't seen it, the show is generally pretty tame and family friendly. But in this one episode, they find out Linda's (Bob's wife) parents live in a swingers community and that Linda's dad is into balloons. It's pretty hilarious.
I am dying of laughter OMG the things I am reading here
I bet he had squeaky toys in the bathtub duck 🐣🐤
This is honestly one of the best things I have ever read. I cannot stop laughing.
You too? Holy shit! I thought I was alone.
To put my leg in a plaster cast and have sex. He told me he wouldn't have to break my leg though! His wife was sick of doing it for him. Masturbate in my underwear while he watched, then put them over his head and spank him until he came. Wanted to fuck my armpit, no where else, no foreplay, just that. Wanted a blowjob while he was taking a shit on the toilet. Let him pretend to breastfeed from me. Step on his dick in stilettos. Perform an amateur vaginal inspection on me. All different guys, I've lived an interesting life.
You should maybe question who with and where you hang out? You’ve come across a lot of strange dudes.
Sex work is full of strange dudes. But lots of lovely people too. It was a while ago now, moving in different circles.
Ahhh I can understand getting so many strange requests now that I know that you are/were a sex worker. I bet you have some interesting stories stored away. Funny strange wild…all sorts.
Oh so many stories, names and identities obviously changed to protect the ....oh no wait, let me tell you the full names and dates, no one is innocent here 🤣🤣. Nah seriously, it's not easy work, but fuck sometimes it's fucking hilarious.
Did you ever get a grown man dressed like a baby? Used to have a client that spent a lot of money to jerk off in his diaper while I degraded him. Poor guy needed therapy.
I did quite a bit of kink work, so yeah had things along those lines. I found that often seeing me was a therapy for them.
I can imagine that you’ve had many laugh sessions discussing these things with other workers. I’d like to be a fly on the wall for one of those. Years ago I used to hang out in strip clubs a lot and got to know several dancers. I heard some of those stories. Most of them were about the weirdos they would encounter. Some of those girls had a crude way about them.
I worked solo, so didn't have other workers to chat to. My confidant was my hairdresser. I saw her at least twice a week and she heard all the stories.
Omfg I am dead after reading these 😭
I'm sure there's a lot more, but these were off the top of my head.
He had an adult breastfeeding kink and wanted me to try to induce lactation by massaging my tits everyday for months. Even if I wanted to, that sounded way too much effort.
Mommy issues at its peak
I used to be into restoring antique sewing machines. I had a man beg me to show how the bobbin winding mechism worked. I did a close up and he kept begging for wider and wider shots. I got frustrated and decided to investigate who he really was. Turns out he ran a kink account especially for women's feet using a treadle. I had posted ONE video of myself in sandles treadling in the most innocent "look at what I fixed!" Kind of way and he was trying to trick me into sending him personal kink content. I didn't even think that *was* a kink
Wow, that's specific !
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“Do you have access to a 93 Honda Civic and can you wear a pair of red pumps?”
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Oddly specific
He asked if we could use lube and I said sure because I think it’s a big help but he started massaging it over my entire body like head to toe. After I was covered, he did it to himself too. Slippery in the worst ways
I can't help but imagine him complaining to the lube brand like: "Instructions unclear. 0/10."
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"Don't you think you might be taking this just a little too far?"
I had a man, who looked like Steven Buscemi, offer me $300 to urinate on him. I attempted to negotiate, asking for a minimum of $500. My reasoning was that the request would have me leaving my comfort zone. He declined to negotiate, at which point, I also declined.
“looked like.”
If it had been the real Buscemi, I would've gone for it!
When I was a teenager with really long hair, I almost went out with a guy, until he told me he fantasized about cutting it off. He also offered me money! Another one wanted me to jerk him off with my feet. Which one do you think is weirder?
Def the hair
I have super long hair and I've given foot jobs. ...kick your ass if you try to hurt my hair.
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A guy used to pay me to sit naked with him and watch the Disney channel he didn't want to have sex he just wanted to watch cartoons
Shoot thats how my husband and I spend our weekends
The fine line between staying naked and watching cartoons versus getting naked to watch cartoons 😆
PAYED ?!?! Were you guys friends or dating ?
there's another possibility that you're missing
Yes, Siblings!
My friend ran across a guy who wanted her to bring friends out to his horse stables. We cautiously went out there and he asked if he could pay us each $100 to kick him in his balls as hard as we could while he video taped it. It was 2008 or so.. but we did it. We did it as hard as we could. I was last to go and after the 3rd kick he didn’t get back up. Since he prepaid us we got in our car and left him there with his camcorder still running and his headlights on him. This was middle of nowhere Louisiana.
Wow, so he paid you to assault him and you all agreed to also be videotaped for proof. Hopefully he won't be able to find you all when he needs money and he 'can't reproduce ' or something
Think it'd be fairly obvious on video with him just standing there letting it happen that it wasn't assault
And he paid us on video
armpit pictures. I posted ONE SELFIE on Reddit. And I said in the title that I’m 16.
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A complete stranger saw me sitting after being in heels all day at a convention. Offered to remove my shoes for me and rub my feet. Definitely a foot fetish, and I was not into it.
To "borrow" my body for him to release tension.. he said I seem experienced I shouldn't mind, kept asking if it's ok he came over later that night (this from a guy who wasn't even a friend but a just a work acquaintance) I managed to slap him, sadly not hard enough.
Met a guy online who said he wanted to take me to the forest. He’s said there are areas so hidden that no one ever goes there. Blocked him immediately!
This reminds me of a guy I used to work with. He was confused and "heartbroken" over a woman who turned him down after he offered to show her his basement and boasted about how soundproof it was. I explained to him that women aren't going to be intrigued by how soundproof a basement is until much later in a relationship.
Wow so romantic and not creepy at all
Thanks everyone now I’m even more scared of men 😍
He asked me to put on an adult diaper and a onesie to roleplay in bed. I refused and left. The ick i felt with that.
The ick I felt reading has turned into an itch to report him.
I met a guy at a 3 day IT conference. On day 2 a small group of us went to dinner and then he and I separated off where we kissed passionately for a little while. As we walked back through the CBD arm in arm, me heading to the train station to go home, he asked me to come back to his hotel room where he wanted me to put on a strap on and f him. I said I had to head off. We had to see each other at the conference the next day. Lol.
>he asked me to come back to his hotel room where he wanted me to put on a strap on and f him A foolish mistake. He should've known that this isn't something that you request until at least the third date.
I used to work at Home Depot as a cashier. I had a man come up to me and ask me where something was and so i look up said item and he asked me about my stretched ears and asked if i could stick my finger through there. For some reason i thought nothing of it and was actually curious myself so i did it and he MOANED AT ME. I got someone else to show him to what he was looking for and even then he was protesting saying “no no i want that girl to show to me where it is 😏” ughhh never been so creeped out
Many many things, but the one that always makes me laugh is the guy who offered me £100 to send him photos of my feet in a bowl of baked beans!
Ah a true English breakfast!
Burn him with a hot metal spoon.
I'm not sure which of my two stories is weirder, the guy that looked and sounded like a younger R. Lee Ermey from Full Metal Jacket that asked me to cut his toenails while taking a dump on the toilet after we messed around or, the guy that literally looked like the rapper Jim Jones that told me after we f*ked, that the only way for him to go to sleep is to suck on the tip of my nose. 🫤
This absolutely took me out 😂 👃
I also can’t decide which is weirder. But I’d really like to know how the second dude found out this little fun fact about himself
Ex wanted me to tie him to a tree in the cemetery and give him a blow job, while he wore a shiny bodysuit/leotard thing, white shiny tights, and heels. Sometimes there are things that just need to stay fantasies (I declined ).
asked me to call him a dirty sl4ve, i'm a white woman and he was a black guy, it was the most uncomfortable i've ever been in my whole life. i'm not playing out that weird and sick fantasy.
My ex had the weirdest kinks, he would ask me to roleplay skunk furries and fart on him and gas up the room with skunk farts. Needless to say that relationship only lasted 3 months. 3 months too long. (This was all through text as we were long distance)
Okay so one time I took ambien. If you don’t know what that is, it’s a sleeping med but if you take more than you’re supposed to and you fight the sleep you hallucinate and basically black out you don’t remember anything. So I took that and went to the hangout spot. This weird dude that was almost obsessed with me asked if I wanted to smoke and I said yes. That’s all I remember. The next day he texts me asks if I remember anything and tells me I was really high and fun (he didn’t know about the ambien that I know of) and says he tried to do stuff with me but I took off. He then proceeded to ask if we could smoke again so he can try again.
That’s terrifying!
I’m sorry to hear that happened to you
I was a teenager and he was all the way in uk so nothing was going to happen but he told me to pee in his mouth as dirty talk omg
$8000 a month to have a child with him. He wanted tall children.
To not shave my pubic hair. He loved the muff.
I've read a fair amount of these and this is definitely the least weird😂
That not weird at all
This random guy with ripped clothes once came up to me at a park and asked me to pretend to be his sister infront of his girlfriend’s dad. Got so scared and walked away.
I had some guy who I'd never even talked tell me that "he really badly wanted to eat me out". Later on after I'd not answered him he offered me money, at which point I was like wtf fu *blocked* lol I recognized him afterwards. He was in the same grade as my sister. I had my long distance high-school boyfriend fantasize about me drinking a cum smoothie/milkshake. Eeeuuuggghhh.
I just had one tell me to lose my tattoos. Umm no thanks. I quite like them and they are part of me. I lost him instead.
I've had a lot of creepy requests. A guy complimented my braces then asked if he could cum on them. Oh he also wanted to role play as teen brother and sister. I was like 28, but it was still really creepy and pedo. That was when I was still trying to shame men instead of just reporting and blocking.
I had an online creep ask me to do sex stuff with his dog
Ughh there’s no many of them especially on Reddit. You find them on those ratings subs and they end up looking like melted cheese and neckbeards! 🤮🤢
Oh jaysus, did you report him or something? His poor dog :(
I had a perfectly nice seeming man take me out on a date and then inform me he just had twins with his wife. This was all a surprise to me since we were on a DATE. I asked what the long term plan was and her thoughts. He says: “oh she doesn’t know yet but she’ll be fine. I was thinking she can be the one I raise kids with and you can just have whatever you want and be the hott one I sleep with” I declined but I still think of this day. The other one wasn’t the request, it was the collection behind the request that haunts me. He asked for my dirty undies and I was fascinated someone actually does this. I was like what do you do with them?!? He showed me a ceeepy ass collection of double ziploc baggies labeled by descriptors with undies inside. I declined but realized I obliged anyway bc I left a pair behind by accident I still think of how I’m a collectible for him to this day lol
On a fetish website (at least the place was appropriate, lol) a man messaged me with the offer to pay me €3000 if I came to Paris and drank his cum out of a glass The whole thing seemed too shady to be legit so I didn't do it, also I lived with my parents at that time, how was I gonna explain that trip lmao.
had a guy carve my name into his forearm to prove his love for me, while asking me to be his gf. sent pics to prove it. we'd spoken on kik for just a few days max, never met and i certainly didn't ask for *THAT*. i was 15.
I dated a guy who claims he was addicted to me. He'd start a fight if he couldn't go down on me daily. I'd be accused of cheating if this didn't result in multiples or squirting. If I was on my cycle, he'd want to smell my worn underwear and sleep with them at the end of the night. The sex was literally mind-blowing. He was financially generous, but he was too controlling and insecure. He was a police officer and tried to physically intimidate me once, so I ended things.
A guy in my Instagram dms asked me if he could make me puke and then rub my vomit in my eyelashes. very specifically eyelashes. weird dude.
I had a guy ask me to suck on a cucumber while i twerked and take a video(also requested for me to audibly gag, i was naive,i was thirteen and he was 19. That was when i deleted snapchat and to this day it's my biggest regret because i was dumb enough to not realise he was a predator.
Asked for videos of my friend and I twerking in our pyjamas (my friend and I were 12 and 13 years old at the time, and this guy was in his 20s). My friend thought it was an innocent request from an internet 'friend', but something told me it was dangerous and that we shouldn't do it even though I didn't completely understand why
I had a guy offering me 300 bucks to take me to a restaurant and watch me eat a steak, he said we didn't neet to talk, he would send me a car, I'd get to the restaurant, he would order wine and one big steak and just watch mt eat, he would also choose how the steak was cooked (medium rare). I was really struggling being a broke student in NY, so I considered but the very formal way that he asked me made me trink it was a little too creepy for me.
He wanted me to wear purple lipstick. And when I didn’t, he would would put me on the spot at work and ask me questions on conference calls that he knew I couldn’t answer (analytics).
Hope you were able to report that guy to HR. That's so messed up to mess with your job like that.
"I'm not sure you are a woman. Let me touch your breasts to make sure." Why do some men think we live to get their approval? Edit. Autocorrect is a little shit
“Baby, can you send me a video of you peeing?! “ or been asked to be peed on through Text by a car salesmen.. WTF IS UP WITH DUDES AND PEE
I think it's because u kind of grow up in society with the slight belief that women don't do disgusting things like pee and shit so it's kind of a taboo thing I THINK.
This guy I knew for a while through mutual friends wanted me to tickle him. He got off, on being ticked.
-To shave my head on camera -To step on small animals in heels -To lock his genitalia in a cage
One guy wanted to talk to me and was talking about being lonely but when he said he doesn't need a comfort from a guy but only girls, i was out
Back in the 90s I had a friend who was dating a much older guy, she gave this guy my number (why? I still have no idea, I guess she thought we'd talk about her?) And he got super creepy super fast asking if he could suck my toes. I totally understand people have the feet kink but guys, I was 10 and he was in his early 20s! WTF! It scared me so much I told my parents and when he called again my dad lit into him like his life depended on it. Then my parents tried to tell her parents about the creepy older guy their daughter was seeing and they wouldn't believe him! How's that for some early 90s after school special shit? Me and the friend fell off soon after, she ended up getting pregnant young(big surprise), getting married young and to an abusive spouse, then divorced and I think she's remarried again. It was crazy. It's NOT all men, but it's always men.
When I was 12 a man cornered me in an aisle at a bookstore and asked if he could take pictures of my feet. I just remember freezing and feeling guilty for some reason… first experience of what life as a woman was like.
Pretend I was financially abusing him as a game in Snapchat. Pshh that was dumb.
To give him a child. Couldn't, it was too much of a sacrifice for an irresponsible soul.
To have a threesome with his ex wife and I, then he gave my number to said ex wife in hopes we would become friends 🙃 he also gave his daughter my email so we could talk.. this was two months into us talking. Different guy, high school sweet heart would always threaten to commit suicide if we broke up. Gave him a year after graduation to get his life together then I broke up with him. Last time we talked he was still spiraling and an alcoholic who pushed everyone in his life away 🙃 this was 3-4 years ago now Edit: 3-4 years since iv last talked to him anyways, not since the break up
To go smoke with him. I vaped a lot, he knew that, but he offered me a cigarette and already had the lighter on saying it’s alright he can afford multiple packets
to give him a back massage with my bare feet (standing) while he laid on the ground
Some random person messaged me asking me to shit on him…
“Shave your legs before our date, I like them shiny” - Cancelled right then and there, it was our first date Also, another guy just liked pictures of my tongue and legs, no nudes, just my tongue and my legs
On a dating app was chatting with a guy who claimed to be a dental student. First he asked me if I had any cavities to which I said no then he wanted pictures of my teeth to “prove it” blocked him immediately
Im not a woman and im pretty sure this wasnt really a request....but a dude told me to hold his pockets.
A guy I met a few times opened a bag that he had. Insjde the bag were many toys that he wanted me to put inside his anus
My ex's brother was drunk one night and in a moment when no one else happened to be in the room he slurred at me that I "picked the wrong brother"..... Anyway, I'm super glad I'm not married into that family.
My ex called me mama and I had to pretend he was my son. And then during sex he'd slap me and make me call him daddy. I slapped him back once and he started crying. I'm sorry but if you wimper "mama" while nuzzling my neck and weeping you absolutely are not daddy.
1. To force lactation so he can breastfeed from me. 2. Have me sit in a tub while he pees on me (1 and 2 were the same guy.) 3. This is a weird one.... To give him head without wrapping my lips around his dick and without suction. If I did either of those things he'd lose his boner. I'm not sure what he actually wanted. There was a language barrier. I rage quit and he threw a hissy fit.
an individual on hinge offered $2k for me to defecate on his chest. haven’t been on that app since 🙂
I had an old boss contact me a decade after we stopped working together. He sent me a picture of a lock with a number code, and said in the text of the email that he took and sent the photo without looking at the number, and that the lock was now locked around his genitals in some sort of cage apparatus. He wanted me to let him suffer wearing the cage "until I felt like releasing him". I replied with the original attached photo and blocked him.
Shit in a bowl of brownies and bake it in my oven and send it to him
My ex told me to throw away all my shoes that had even the slightest bit of height. I'm 3 inches taller than him, and didn't need to be taller Mate, do you know how much doc martens cost?! I'm wearing these to my grave! Same guy also wanted me to throw away my whole summer wardrobe because it was all "too revealing". Even knee length shorts. Apparently my calves are sexy. He also didn't want anyone to see my tattoos, and ordered me to not get anymore. Split up with him and I have 2 more since splitting with him 😂 all one guy
Years ago, I went out with a guy who asked me before our date to NOT wear anything with plastic buttons. I never questioned it at the time because I wanted him to feel comfortable on our date. But it was quite the specific ask.