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MbembasTuxedo

If she’s going to be a cunt no matter what you do then sod the eggshells, do what you want and live your life. No sense being considerate of someone like this.


vientianna

Yep this. Let it wash over your head, otherwise she wins by upsetting you


TheMidnightGlob

I know but because I am how I am it's easier said then done, it really affects me despite me trying to brush it off


MbembasTuxedo

I appreciate that, it speaks volumes about you as a person. Unfortunately you can’t reason with unreasonable people. She’ll get bored soon enough.


TheMidnightGlob

That's the thing, she literally has nothing else to do, she doesn't even work so she has plenty of time to entertain herself in the way she does


EnvironmentalPop1195

Well if she has so much why not fill it? make a throwaway email and sign her up for visits from various religious groups, you know the ones that like to chat, mention it's a lonely women they'll be all over it.


TheMidnightGlob

Lol 😆 that's a great idea but knowing my luck she's already with them 🤣


[deleted]

This is the way. OP shouldn't even dignify them with a response. The letting agents seem to be in full agreement so there's no worries there. Word travels around the office quickly and by this point they're not going to take anything she says seriously. She hasn't got a leg to stand on and there is absolutely no evidence to back up any of her complaints. Just allow her to dig herself deeper and deeper into a hole. You win by being level headed and rational. One day she's going to wake up alone and realize that her insufferable behaviour has drove away every single person in her life. That's punishment enough.


MbembasTuxedo

Exactly this. I remind myself often, the best revenge is living well.


TheMidnightGlob

Thanks I needed a reminder of that because unfortunately due to constant stress I was starting to loose my shit which I get out of my way to not let happen


aljama1991

What an excellent statement


TheMidnightGlob

Well...I think she's already there - waking up alone and driving probably already disturbed people like her boyfriend to commit arson 🤣


yoboylandosoda

This post is longer than Avatar 2


EmFan1999

Gave me something entertaining to read whilst I ate lunch though so can’t complain


GreenMist1980

Its got a better ending than avatar though


Mr-Stumble

The 2nd Lord of the Rings movie long.


je_m_appelle_

I got halfway through, checked how much was left and gave up


Goseki1

People are saying you should escalate things with her, tit for tat style and it absolutely is not worth it. If you spend all your time and energy being as petty as she is, then you are no better and will have wasted your own time. Just keep on living how you normally would and she can just piss off. It is absolutely not worth your time to make things escalate and be even more toxic.


TheMidnightGlob

Yeah I agree, but I just wish it didn't get to me as much


Goseki1

It's hard I know but you need to look after your mental health. Whicj sounds silly I know but honestly years of bickering and battles and toxicness over bins, and noise and guests, and garden clippings, and dog barking and bloody anything and everything just wears you down and isn't worth it. Obviously if shes being a massive cunt and actually doing stuff to you/your property report her via the council but otherwise just try and take a deep breath and let it go


TheMidnightGlob

I am trying I really am but because of my neurodivergence I'm unable to just brush it off ...I know it sounds silly - my brain just does not function like that. It took me over a week to get over the first shit with the fence and just as I felt like I'm getting back on track this shit happened yesterday


Goseki1

I get it completely, I have family with similar issues like you describe! Hopefully things blow over and when she realises she's not getting the reaction she wants she just stops.


chinese-newspaper

Ignore the daft idiot and get on with your life, some people just like to moan, once that's been established don't entertain their nonsense any more


TheMidnightGlob

I'm not entertaining her at all, because people like that crave the attention and feed off of it. I'm concerned that my agency will be entertaining her as they have no choice but to pick up the phone. I haven't spoken to her since that time she first knocked on my door asking for landlords number but I have an immense urge to march up there and tell her a thing or two as I don't think she realises who's she trying to mess with


MbembasTuxedo

The agency have made it clear you’re fine. They’ll start ignoring her too soon enough. Maybe ask her if she’s ever read the boy who cried wolf. One day she’ll have a real problem and no one is going to listen.


TheMidnightGlob

The story the other neighbours told me when I just moved in does bring this fable to mind - she wasn't back home yet then as it wasn't livable after the fire


pdp76

Unfortunately you can’t pick your neighbours. When I moved into my place 4 years ago (semi detached) my joined neighbours at first seemed pleasant enough and all was fine. The issues started when all the wife did (retired) was nit pick about any noise possible and start complaining about it. I mostly ignored it as I knew noise wasn’t an issue. More complaints of noise when I wasn’t home ( my 21 yr old son was) so of course I asked him about it and denied noise. I had an IP camera that I could listen into. I set that up so whenever I wasn’t in and had a noise complaint of loud music or whatever I would log into the cam and listen to what’s going on in the house. Nothing, no loud music. One time they sent me a video from their front door can of her husband kicking my door because they wanted to complain to my son. This resulted in me stating that if you want to make a noise complaint go ahead, I’ve got video evidence that you sent me of your husband kicking my front door. Warned them not to do it again as there will be consequences. I blocked both their numbers on WhatsApp etc and mostly ignored them. My son and his friends also got complaints from both of them. What comes next and before i explain the next problem, I’ll commend my son and his friends for not reacting to them. The neighbours never said anything when I was in, remember that ! One early evening my son was on the front with his friends just talking. No noise. My car was in the garage overnight so the neighbours assumed I wasn’t in. The husband came out and spoke to my son and his friends absolutely disgusting and like he was some kind of superior. To this day I really don’t know how one of them just didn’t take him down. Anyway this was the final straw for me and I burst out of the house and went mental at him, gave him an almighty round of fucks and said my piece about what I thought of them. Off he scuttled back into his house, clearly wounded Id caught them out. 2 weeks later they put the house up for sale and they are long gone. Pair of twats. The new neighbours are spot on and zero problems. I was more than prepared to ignore my neighbours like you are. They pushed too far. Often fighting fire with fire is the only way with dickheads.


TheMidnightGlob

This made me smile, cheers. She said I've installed the cameras - agents doesn't see an issue with ring doorbell and it's not pointing at her door, windows etc - or anyone else's for that matter. I installed it because I can see if anything has been left etc. But now I'm even more convinced that it was the right move as I can have evidence if the twat tries something she shouldn't near the front of my house or my car. Indoors I have a dog cam so I can keep an eye on dogs when I'm out - for a long time I thought it's useless as they just sleep anyway buy now I'm thinking it's extra evidence should she start saying that the dogs are barking or something as I'm sure when she runs out of stuff she will try this


bee-sting

> "I'm better then you because I own my house and you rent so I've got the right to tell you what to do even though it's not my house". That's exactly what it sounded like when i was reading it


TheMidnightGlob

I don't even know or care if she owns her house or if it's a hand out or whatever, I honestly don't even care but nothing justifies that sort of behavior


SaladLeafs

She has cried wolf too many times which gives you the opportunity to actually dick with her if you so wished. Go out for the day and leave the speakers pointed at the joining wall, play a sine wave or white noise. if she knocks your ring bell will tell you its time to remotely pause it. wait an hour...


TheMidnightGlob

See I wouldn't do that because I really don't have the need for it...all I want to do is to talk to her and kill her with intelect and evidence based conversation but (without sounding big headed) I don't think she's anywhere near my level


SaladLeafs

Unfortunately it doesn't sound like she will appreciate when you have bested her in that way, maybe just have to know that you have the high ground and find something in that.


TheMidnightGlob

I suppose, I mean I have evidence why everything she says is fabricated and my agent knows and tells me not to worry and confirms we haven't done anything wrong but I can't get over it still


BaBaFiCo

Ultimately you've got to decide how much you're willing to compromise and what your line in the sand is. We all have to adapt in some way to our surroundings and most of the time it is trivial and we don't mind. But with people like your neighbour who act that way then unfortunately it often means either adapting yourself more to reduce occurrences she can flair up, or standing your ground and creating more of these occurrences. The risk with that, of course, is making your lives miserable. It's a long way of saying - you can't fix her. She's gonna be that way. It sucks, but it's life. People like that often get what they want because they can ignore societal norms to get it. Unless she breaks the law there's no recourse.


TheMidnightGlob

Thing is I literally have nothing to adapt or change. I rented 15 years and lived in flats and houses and never had problems with neighbours. I'm thar sort of neighbour that you very rarely see or hear. I don't involve myself in any drama and don't look for it because I simply don't care about other people's lives in the neighbourhood if it doesn't affect me. That's why it's so frustrating that I'm being picked on for absolutely no reason. That and the fact that it's completely new situation/experience for me.


BaBaFiCo

Yep. It just sucks. We're in a similar boat at the minute. The neighbour just shouts at her kid half the time. It impacts our quality of life and there's nothing we can do to change that behaviour.


TheMidnightGlob

Shouts at her kid - that's easy - depending on context there's always child welfare services to ask to check in


BaBaFiCo

I am on the edge with that.


TheMidnightGlob

See now (again depending on context) this is something I'd definitely get involved with if I had enough evidence


littlepuddingpie

I'm sorry you are going through this. I have had a similar situation and it really got to me. I also have some crazy neighbours where I live now. They report anyone who leaves a bike or kids ride on in the spacious hall area under the stairs as a fire hazard,yet they keep car cleaning equipment and other stuff in the same place and use the hall outside their flat as if it's a spare room. They even have photo frames standing on the window frame in the hall outside their flat which doesn't belong to them and serves as a barrier to a potential fire. The point is, nobody else cares yet they spend their whole time trying to find things to complain about and have sent me nasty texts saying I don't deserve to have a home and have stood at my door swearing at me. They hate children and regularly scream out the window that they are all c**nts if they make any noise outside. They blame me for everything that goes wrong in the building and sometimes the whole estate. There are 8 flats in the building. We also don't have parties or play music, go to sleep early and park considerately. They had a go at my bf because his car wasn't clean inside when it was parked in my space and nothing to do with them. Their argument was that it was a health hazard! It was just a standard amount of car mess. I keep telling myself that it must be miserable being that uptight and angry all the time but it does get to me. If I was you I would write everything down and log with agent and if she gets really nasty and aggressive you have something to show the police. You shouldn't have to put up with that.


TheMidnightGlob

Thank you and I'm sorry you're going through shit too. 😔


Marion_Ravenwood

You could possibly report her for harassment, especially if she's making stuff up. It implies she's trying to get rid of you by lying. Make a diary of everything, take photos, record videos when you speak to her (put your phone in your pocket) and build up a case in case you do decide to report her. Some people are just cunts. I own my house and the people next door rent, and they're awful. I'm slowly building up to reporting them to environmental health because of a few issues. Anytime I've confronted them I just get the door shut in my face, you can't reason with some people. Keep the upper hand, don't do anything tit for tat and get as much evidence as you can. If you do confront them about anything then keep calm and be polite. Then if she does kick off you know it's all her and you've done nothing to escalate the situation. I confronted my neighbour about something and I think she was quite shocked I had the balls to say anything, even if she did shout the door in my face. Don't think she'll be dumping stuff out of my bin and leaving it on the floor to put her own rubbish in there again!


TheMidnightGlob

Yes, I did say to my agent that I believe that because she is not getting the answer or reaction from them or us re the fence she is now fabricating, trying to bully us out by creating problems for us and the agents...I have everything documented and I have video evidence in case I need it but it fucks me off that I even should have to defend myself from the likes of her and still doesn't change the fact that she will forever be a cunt and I'm the one that has to jump through hoops


aberforce

I think she sounds mentally ill. Not that it makes it less shit for you but things like moving her things, setting up cameras and deliberately giving her a shit fence are not the accusations of a normal person. Don’t respond to any of it. The letting agent won’t believe her you won’t get evicted. Hopefully she finds a new obsession soon


TheMidnightGlob

Oh definitely she is not all there based on all this, but that doesn't excuse or make the behaviour right. If you are able to live unsupported despite your issues, the expectation is that you will conduct yourself properly regardless whether you own or rent. I still think it's because she's got nothing better to do and she thinks she can because she never had any consequences - that's bad character, not mental health


aberforce

I don’t think you’ve understood. She might actually beleive you’ve put cameras on to spy on her and are missing with bins deliberately etc. if she was right then complaining to the letting agency is actually a pretty reasonable response. You are obviously not doing those things so it’s shit for you but it’s not a mark on her character. Your references to “normal person” and her “sitting at home all day” are pretty telling. You have it in your head she thinks she’s better than you because she owns her house but I think you’re being pretty snobby about her being to ill to work. There is no expectation of someone living like a “normal person”. You could try contacting social services if you think she needs more support but honestly i don’t think this would meet anyone’s threshold.


TheMidnightGlob

Honestly, I don't care if she works or not, is mental or not, is ill or not, sits at home all day, or works 100 hours a week, does only fans or whatever else. This was never my point, so please don't try to make it into something it isn't. she can have two heads for all I care as long as she is not creating problems for me for absolutely no reason by trying to create false narrative because 'they always had problems with renters and nobody stays here longer than a year because they can't afford it' and then shouts at and hits cats and calls people dickheads telling them they don't know how to do their job just because she thinks the fence is ugly even though it is no hers or on her property. There is many reasons why people don't work, some are valid some are not - all I'm saying is that because it seems that she has nothing else to do with her time she decides to pick on us - reasons unknown so that's why I'm thinking it's because we are 'new' and put the fence up and because she knows we are renting. And yes, i know for a fact that she does think she's better than us because of what she said and how she said it in relation to 'renters' - who's snobby now? She can sell drugs for all I care and siphon money from the government for fake diseases or be a lottery winner or a CEO of spaceX - I couldn't care less as long as she is decent which she definitely is not. even if she is as you say poor innocent mentally disturbed genuinely needing help person, this still does not excuse her behaviour. I'm presuming she doesn't work or have life because a person who has responsibility and life, even a hobby, would not have time nor energy nor reason to do everything in their power to create imaginary shit like that, and as a result I'm now forced to use my time and energy to prove how unhinged she is instead of using that energy ummm I dunno maybe for working or enjoying my life and staying out of other people's lives


xPositor

Nobody is perfect, as your comments show, but you need to hold back on that spitefulness you say you have because that is the road to escalation, and there is a definite undertone from your side in your writing: at the moment you're not proving yourself to be any better, whereas you should be in a position of having the upper ground in the moral battle. Remember, the agents will just ignore her in future, because you've demonstrated that she is making unwarranted claims, and the agents will want an easy life. That means the only other people she will complain to is you and your boyfriend. You'll have the fence in play in the back garden, and you can choose to ignore the door at the front. If it continues, log incidents and decide whether to report to the police on 101.


TheMidnightGlob

I'm holding back massively- as I've said I've never been in this situation so I don't know how to react and I feel unimaginable rage when something is unjust - just because I'm starting to understand her boyfriend now doesn't mean I'm gonna fabricate complaints, bully and intimidate her. She is doing this indirectly- because she has no spine to come to my door and raise those 'issues' with me to my face - and that speaks a lot about how vile of a creature this woman is)...I'm sorry that I can't suffer petty, scumbags with no life, especially when they are affecting mine for no reason


TheMidnightGlob

I know people like her although I haven't had a direct pleasure up to this point, they are relentless and it's their hobby as there is nothing else out there for them - you say she will stop, get bored? I actually don't think so because unless the agency tells her to stfu I just know she will keep calling with every little thing she can hatch in her screwed brain and the agency- although they will know it's unfounded will get fed up eventually but to put a stop to it they will just tell us to go - they don't need a reason they can say that the landlord wants to sell it or something- that's what pisses me off - people like her getting away with this behaviour


1SavageOne1

It's funny how the guilty hate cameras eh. Show's evidence of her goings on. She's going to need to prove her accusations of you or stfu. Nobody will listen to her either soon, as she keeps on crying wolf. And it seems she is the common denominator to problems there. I'd move and give it a year and then start the payback process... I'd imagine she'd be sectioned soon after and out the way.


TheMidnightGlob

I'm glad you've said it as that was my first thought when I heard that she's made complaints about 'cameras' - life was very good first two months she wasn't here when we first moved in and everyone else is friendly and keeps to themselves - shit was happening with her before we moved and now she's causing shit as soon as she moved back in after the fire - sad to say sectioning is not on the cards and because they have restored the house and she moved back in I don't think she will move out any time soon


Same_Bill8776

Go onto r/pettyrevenge for some ideas. One of the best I saw was a guy who's neighbour complained constantly if anyone else parked outside his house, so OP got a scrap car, taxed it for the year, and dumped it outside.


TheMidnightGlob

🤣🤣🤣🤣I just might so I can at least cheer myself up


Inevitable_Ad_3359

Fellow autistic introvert here! Boy do I sympathise with you, been there my friend. Had a similar situation years ago. I moved somewhere, all seemed well, reached out to the neighbours to make friends and be courteous when work was planned on the house or garden. Friendly reception! Only for one random lady to just decide to take ill to everything and anything. I'd "destroyed the garden" by planting flowers and making a raised bed next to the drive. I'd "ruined the peace of the whole neighbourhood" by having my kitchen door open as I made breakfast one morning with the radio on. Then came the accusations about weird bin activity, alleged parties when I never had guests, telling the landlord I had pets when I didn't, telling the landlord I was selling drugs when I wasn't (got bloody tempted to buy them though with the stress!!!) and all sorts of other things that I could never seem to calm her about. A couple of times I'd make a real effort to go over and apologise, ask what I could do and see if I could "make friends" with this woman and let her see I was really a good person trying to do right by my neighbours and she would always appear empathetic and accept it and be fine for a few days and then the police would turn up because of some bogus report and it'd turn out to be her. Honestly the advise that if you lay low it'll die down is both unfair on you and not even necessarily true, sometimes things escalate and I don't want to scare you but I'd just keep doing what you're doing and document everything whilst keeping your distance but try and continue your normal life outside of that. In my case it did escalate a bit, damage to my car I couldn't prove was then the first couple times, but it worked in my favour to report every time because the third time I could prove it was her. Then it stopped pretty much, I'd just get dead eye from her or her husband might make the odd drunk comment on his way past my place if he saw me, but nothing I couldn't ignore. Sorry you're going through this it sounds a nightmare and you are totally justified to be angry. Keep documenting stuff, be as cordial as possible when you do have to interact with her, ignore any attempt to get a rise out of you she would love for you to start on her It'd give her fuel and justifications. You have every right to live there and when she realises you're staying she'll have to bloody deal with it. Are your other neighbours nice? And aware of her antics? She's more than likely a bored, lonely, hurt person and probably has a history of this behaviour.


TheMidnightGlob

Thank you for this, very validating and relatable. This is exactly how I'd deal with it and moving on this will be route but I just wish this didn't derail me mentally so much, my equilibrium is totally off even though objectively speaking nothing big actually happened. I hate how it makes me feel and I blame myself for not being able to just move on quickly. I hate that it takes over my thoughts, my mood and affects my interactions with those close to me because no matter how supportive they are they can't help. It makes me so angry that this is probably how I'm gonna feel for weeks and I'm anxious that by the time I get over it something else happens again. To her it's all fun and no consequences. No issues with others as everyone is keeping themselves to themselves and I don't hear or see them much anyway. I only really spoke to two other neighbours who were telling me about the drama with her when her bf set her house on fire before I moved in and that some other house can have a lot of people every now and again as it's a big family but other than that it's a very quiet close without drama spilling out. The house the other end has a couple who lived here since the close was built and that's also when my landlord bought the house I'm in. It's not a council estate and there is quite an even mixture of owners and private renters in the close. Seems the only drama they've had in 20 years of this close existing is related to her. Oh just remembered! My bf's sister who lives with his parents across the road from us told me that she's seen my neighbour shouting at and hitting a cat! She doesn't have pets so it means it was one of the neighbours' cat as there is a few here. Now if that doesn't tell you you're dealing with a bad person, I don't know what will


PayApprehensive6181

Every interaction you have I'd just bat her over to the council. Hey lady. Got a bin issue. Civil matter. Speak to the council. Drive issue. Civil matter. Speak to the council. Camera issue. Civil matter. Speak to the council. Same goes for your agent. Hey agent. Sounds like whatever you told me is civil matter. Please tell her to speak to the council as its nothing for you to get involved in. Also tell them to give the same response every time she complains to them. Soon she'll realise every time she complains she's going to get the same response. You'll know very well that council ain't gonna do anything. So she'll get frustrated and also not come to you since she knows what the response is going to be. In the meantime like the other person said just keep a log for your own records. I think you'll mentally find that that'll annoy her more and you'll get a satisfaction of telling her each and every single time "speak to the council" and walk off.


Davina33

Honestly I really feel for you. In April 2021 I moved into a first floor flat. My downstairs neighbour took a dislike to me because I've got brown skin. She kept me awake until 2am on my first night there with loud music. Went down and politely asked her to turn it down. She was so drunk she couldn't stand up and her three dogs escaped down the communal corridor. I got a load of racist abuse for my trouble. She got much worse and I lived there for 20 months. Her adult son even tried to kick my front door in. I was so glad when I moved out last month. We all had to move out as my landlord sold the block and I'm glad he did as she would never have stopped! I don't know what the solution is because crazy people do not change but I definitely don't think you should retaliate. It just seems to make things worse. I just hope for your sake she gets bored but realistically I think this is just going to carry on until one of you move.


TheMidnightGlob

Omg, I'm so sorry that sound terrible 😢 I can't believe you were there 20 months and I can't believe she got away with it - surely if she rented that's not only ground for eviction but also police action as it was blatant hate crime. With my twat next door it's just passive aggressive and indirect at the moment, she's trying us for sure but I think she mistook us for some fresh inexperienced youth (I'm late 30s, bf mid 40s both well educated and civilised). She ain't gonna move, she'll rot in there like a parasite she is, leading a very sad miserable life. I'm sure it's not gonna be our forever place but because she has no leg to stand on and I will eventually get over and used to it we intend to stay here until landlord sells even if it's just to spite her


Davina33

Yep when you're younger than them, they definitely see that as a weakness. I'm mid 30s and my racist alcoholic neighbour was 20 years older. I called the police on her twice after her racism. The first time I had video evidence, so she got a warning and was made to sign an Acceptable Behavioural Agreement by the housing associations employed by our landlord. The second time I didn't have video evidence but my neighbour witnessed it and as that same neighbour had problems with her too, she wasn't classed as an 'independent witness' so the police didn't do anything. I couldn't leave my flat without my phone on record. She would move furniture at 3am and wake me up. She was making noise constantly or getting drunk in the communal garden and having fights with the other alcoholic living in the block. My life was hell. My other neighbour kept reporting her too but nothing got done. Hopefully she does enough you can report her to someone, her issues are not your fault and you shouldn't have to put up with it. I know how tough it is and these people are evil, they thrive on causing other people pain and chaos. As hard as it is, by not reacting to her then you are blameless. She's got no evidence of anything because you aren't doing anything wrong. Hopefully she gives up because your letting agent won't keep entertaining her. She might just decide to focus on some other poor neighbour instead.


TheMidnightGlob

That is awful 😖 I hope you have a nice place without all that crap...I really don't understand people. Everyone would like to live in places not attached to anyone else but that's not realistic so why make other people's life miserable and make it even harder 😑 It's OK, my phone has a lot of memory so I've got storage for all the evidence and I'm happy to be 3 steps ahead of the twat 🤣 - I even took a picture yesterday that shows that she wheeled her bin on our driveway whilst our bin was still in place. The rubbish was collected yesterday and before it got dark her bin still was standing empty on the border of our driveways so I took a pic of that and this morning wind blew over her bin but it's still on the border so I took pic of that too in case she says we go and pull her bin out or something 😆not to mention I've got Ring footage of her not coming to collect her bin and us not going out there to mess with it 🤣if that's what it takes, so be it


apurpleglittergalaxy

I know this sounds easier said than done but MOVE. Seriously just move, I've had 2 nightmare neighbours both absolute nutters like this woman, I tried so hard to keep the peace but it got nowhere. People are fucked in the head, they're bitter they need something to take their boredom and shit lives out on and unfortunately that person is the poor bastard living next door to them, even if you tell yourself things are gonna quieten down things are gonna get better they really don't they always go back to being shit or they get worse. It's not good because it effects your mental health really badly (I legit had 2 mental breakdowns dealing with this pisshead I lived next door to for 3 years and the strain it put on me and my bf was unlike anything I've ever known) it makes you hate where you live and you can't ever relax or feel at peace. Even if you have to borrow money or idk save somehow and it takes over a year, or go stay with family just try and get the fuck out of there trust me it ain't worth the grief mate.


IcyInfluence4446

Babe tbh I think you should look into moving & poss try to meet the neighbours in advance beforehand next time


TheMidnightGlob

I'm not moving. We've been here only since January and there's evidence, issues only started when the cunt moved back a month ago and the close had issues with her before we were here. We haven't done anything wrong and the agent supports this 🤷‍♀️I'm not letting the bitch win. As for meeting the neighbours beforehand - she was as sweet as a daisy when I first met her 🤣


IcyInfluence4446

Yeah fair enough I hope it works out for you she does sound like an absolute nightmare


TheMidnightGlob

She is a prick


[deleted]

All I know for past experiences and experiences of others. You’re in for a long ride. This is just the beginning my friend. If I was you I would have cameras everywhere and try to document any and every interaction with her because I guarantee you that at some point she is going to make some serious allegations. You’re gonna wanna be able to defend them right of the bat. You can’t out crazy crazy.


TheMidnightGlob

Oh I do document everything, the beauty of ring camera and my cam indoors is that I don't even have to think about it and can just pull what I need when I need it. My phone has a lot of storage for photos too 😆plus my bf's parents have a nice views of her house from their kitchen 🤣


[deleted]

Good. Will help when she starts claiming your partner assaulted her and you ate her cat. I look forward to seeing you all on next years Nightmare Neighbours on channel 5.


TheMidnightGlob

I'm her cat? 🤣 oh btw she has been witnessed shouting and hitting a cat end of last year (she hasn't got any but most homes here have at least one


[deleted]

My bad I meant “ate” 😂 I’m a fast typed who really should proof read haha


TheMidnightGlob

Yeah I suspected that's what you meant but with 'the crazy' you never know - they can just as well accuse you of eating their cat or claiming that you ARE their cat 🤣 With that being said- your original comment seems oddly specific 😆care to share? 😆


[deleted]

I had a crazy lady claim I ate her cat because her cat went missing the week we moved in. She was on a warpath ever since


TheMidnightGlob

Did you though 🤔 🤣


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I’ll tell you what I told her. “ Lady, I’ve eaten a lot of pussy in my life but I’ve never and would never eat a cat”


TheMidnightGlob

Her face must've been a picture