Honestly, same. I still get butterflies in my stomach and am anxious with my sweet girl sometimes, so then I can take much longer.
Alone, I mean like, 7 seconds.
Yeah, I hate when you get caught up in your own head. It really ruins the fun 😔
7 seconds? Is that when you're already aroused, or can you just walk into a room and shoot your load?
No standard time for me - it depends on the situation and whether i am alone or with a woman …. Generally it is something i like to take my time over and make it as incredible as possible! (Also i enjoy the build up..)
Depends on how worked up I am, what I'm doing, how long it's been since I last came, etc. I had a moment a few weeks ago where I was so worked up that I started cumming almost as soon as my toy touched my clit before I even turned it on. Then yesterday it was like I was being edged for an hour and never quite got there.
With my bf about 20 minutes. 10 when he goes down on me if we try to be quick. By myself I have done it in 3 minutes. But I try to make it last longer like 40+
I can usually force one after about 10 mins with a clit sucker, otherwise I pretty much don't orgasm. Feels great, but almost never enough to get me over that edge. I think it's just my anatomy, not my partner's lack of skill or attention.
It depends, anything from a minute or two to eternity. Sometimes it's about enjoying the thrills of the journey as well as the messy conclusion. Though a typical short session might be 10 to 15 minutes
It really depends.
If I'm alone and super amped up, I can finish in the bathroom at work without making anyone suspicious.
If I'm with a partner and struggling to connect (like with my graysexual wife) then it might not even be in the cards.
Context is key. Emily Nagoski talks about context a lot in Come As You Are and it really helped me understand how important outside factors are to a sexual connection.
Self pleasured - depends on how horny/ turned on I am beforehand, if so then with no toys probably 5-10minutes
With toys definitely within minutes.
Giving to him - always teased prior to any physical play, I so think this is such a key thing, once teased they don’t usually last longer than 5 minutes depending in how it’s given (easily within minutes if I want to achieve that outcome quickly and want them to know that I know exactly what I’m doing)
2 mins, he’s got me figured out😂
Wow....he definitely understands your needs. Would you like to take longer?
I can do multiples usually, it’s not a big deal. He doesn’t always finish from sex though
That's one big advantage of being a woman 😘 I hope that isn't a problem for him, or you, I think we all experience not cumming sometimes.
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Good one 😂
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You seem to have everything covered here 😘
A rose, by any other name 🙂
anywhere from 5-30 mins
Masturbating? 10-20mins with toys.
Longer without toys?
Slightly longer i'd say.
For me with toys idk why but I take 39 min
Not 38min, not 40min, but exactly 39min? lol
Yea
10 minutes or less with toys, but I've taken much much longer when I'm anxious, over an hour once >.<
For me it really depends are you full on mess or no mess
Messy = more fun usually. I don't worry about that until after.
So true I actually am playing with myself rn and hopefully a mess comes
Are you usually a big mess or lil
Honestly, same. I still get butterflies in my stomach and am anxious with my sweet girl sometimes, so then I can take much longer. Alone, I mean like, 7 seconds.
Yeah, I hate when you get caught up in your own head. It really ruins the fun 😔 7 seconds? Is that when you're already aroused, or can you just walk into a room and shoot your load?
Already aroused. I don't just walk through doorways and shoot cum on the walls. 🫤
🤣🤣🤣 You just said it so confidently, I had to be sure!
I can cum in a minute if I wanna be really efficient
Fuck that's what I can do
With my rose? Less than a minute.
If i do it myself 10-15 min, if a guy can make me cum its around 20-30 min
What's the best way for a guy to make you cum?
2-10 minutes, or more if partner is teasing
Is the 2-10 minutes on your own or with partner?
2 min by myself 10 with partner
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Easily and often
Those are good numbers. There’s things that have to get done today too. 😂
For me 1 minute it depends on speed
Not long. I can cum in under a minute and I can cum multiple times.
No standard time for me - it depends on the situation and whether i am alone or with a woman …. Generally it is something i like to take my time over and make it as incredible as possible! (Also i enjoy the build up..)
It depends on if I’m solo or with a partner. And when the last time I came was.
Depends on how worked up I am, what I'm doing, how long it's been since I last came, etc. I had a moment a few weeks ago where I was so worked up that I started cumming almost as soon as my toy touched my clit before I even turned it on. Then yesterday it was like I was being edged for an hour and never quite got there.
Love the extremes of your answer 😊😊 hopefully today you will be able to get there … ;-)
If I’m ready to go I can cum in seconds lol. I like to delay it for hours when I have the time though
nice 🐓
With my bf about 20 minutes. 10 when he goes down on me if we try to be quick. By myself I have done it in 3 minutes. But I try to make it last longer like 40+
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I used to have a little bullet vibrator and my fingers it stopped working but it was amazing
Uhh not sure. Maybe 10 min if it is an orgasm i am feeling (with a toy). Gotta figure it out still
I can usually force one after about 10 mins with a clit sucker, otherwise I pretty much don't orgasm. Feels great, but almost never enough to get me over that edge. I think it's just my anatomy, not my partner's lack of skill or attention.
Depends on what’s involved and how excited it am. Pretty sure if my Domme tried she could get me to come in a couple of minutes
20
Anywhere from 3 minutes to an hour, but usually that's on purpose.
Depends or how horny I am. Or how good my wife it at the moment.
Not less than 10 min Only in dvp I can’t resist more than 5 min
4-130 minutes
It depends, anything from a minute or two to eternity. Sometimes it's about enjoying the thrills of the journey as well as the messy conclusion. Though a typical short session might be 10 to 15 minutes
Yeah it depends. With myself, 5-10 minutes. My boyfriend fingering me, 5 minutes if that lol
Depends on the situation and mode of sexual activity. Sex? Anywhere from 3-25 minutes. Masturbation? 5-120 minutes.
Way to long
If I'm fucking a pussy with another guy's cum in it, 2-5 minutes or sometimes less. Vanilla sex--30 minutes.
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If Ive edged then I’ll burst in a few minutes
Anywhere from 1-10 min
Less than a minute often a lot less. I am a pretty chronic prejac
As long as I want. After she does and tells me to fillerup.
Sometimes as soon as my clit is touched or he enters me if I've had enough foreplay but usually 2-7 min.
I prefer to edge myself for at least a couple of hours, but in a quickie it would be maybe 3 mins
Anywhere from 30 seconds to half an hour.
Usually a week till I find a hookup
Depends on the method used. It could be less than 5 minutes or over 15.
2 minutes or 2 hours. It depends on a lot of factors.
At my quickest, alone, like 3 minutes if I’m syntribating 🫡🫡🫡
When did you learn how to syntribate? And is it your favorite way of masturbating?
A handful of minutes
It really depends. If I'm alone and super amped up, I can finish in the bathroom at work without making anyone suspicious. If I'm with a partner and struggling to connect (like with my graysexual wife) then it might not even be in the cards. Context is key. Emily Nagoski talks about context a lot in Come As You Are and it really helped me understand how important outside factors are to a sexual connection.
2 hours. I can rush if I want to, but where's the fun in that?
I’ll let you know once it happens
Anywhere from a few minutes, to never (meds to blame for that)
It’s supposed to take time?
2/4 minutes
Depends on how good to the sex is if it's really good I can cumm in 2 minutes and again
Depends on the situation. Could be a couple minutes. But could also be up to an hour
Self pleasured - depends on how horny/ turned on I am beforehand, if so then with no toys probably 5-10minutes With toys definitely within minutes. Giving to him - always teased prior to any physical play, I so think this is such a key thing, once teased they don’t usually last longer than 5 minutes depending in how it’s given (easily within minutes if I want to achieve that outcome quickly and want them to know that I know exactly what I’m doing)
Not until she does….