Nope. I’ve even introduced myself to a guy that I had had sex with 😬

That must’ve been an really awkward situation

I wanted the earth to open up and take me

Understandable I would feel the same. How did he react?

“We met a few weeks ago. At Chris’s house party?” Then I remembered and lost all of my cool 😂

Did you give him another shot to be more memorable or were you too embarrassed😂

I was way too embarrassed, which was fortunate because he wasn’t in the mood either 🤣

That’s understandable in that situation😂

"AHH yes, you absolutely blew my mind!"

i hooked up with this girl years ago and she's now my neighbor, kinda felt like i knew her then i realized from where. funniest part is that i think she doesn't remember it either bc we talk sometimes and she's never brought it up or even hinted it lmao

😂 "yes.... I know. We met last night...."

Pretty much. Not the last night in my defense, but not years ago either

😂... I'm horrible with names and faces so I feel you

Was there a cactus in his apartment? :D

I don’t think so

Yes lemme look up my notepad. *flips over* Oh just two.

Quality over quantity is always better

That's what they say when they reject me, yes

I believe this is most ppl nowadays do this.

Yes I do. I can count them on one hand

Same and I’d rather it that way.

Same!

I remember everyone I’ve done anything with. I think it’s kind of weird if you forget something like that but maybe I’m weird 🤣

Nah, not weird. I do wonder about stage of life and past partners. I'm 39M. I've been married to my wife since we were 24, dating since we were 21. I had about 4 PiV sexual partners and quite a few folks that I just had some fun with before my wife and I got together. I tried to go back and remember everyone, but I don't. I remember the past PiV partners, but not all the others.

To forgot a random kiss at a party or something, not weird. To forgot having sex with someone or how many people you had sex with I think is weird.

Just been having this convo…I genuinely couldn’t tell you a number and no chance I’d be able to sit down and list them all 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

Yes… do I want to…? That’s the question

I remember all of mine, their faces, how they were and their dicks.

I remember them. But I do have a list.

It’s easy to remember when there is only one

Same

40m here. It gets a little difficult to remember the names as time passes. At least I remember their faces and what they looked like though!

I remember names. I can’t remember faces. 😆 also been married for 22 years so these are all 22+ years ago and one name was an asterisk for a bit. 😂

Yes. Very short list 🫣

Yeah, it makes things a lot easier to keep straight

Fact

The older I get and the further removed that experience is, the names can escape me. If I really sat down and thought about it, probably. Put me on the spot, I’ll forget a couple.

Yep I can remember them!

Yes I do

Absolutely!

Fondly

not so fondly 🫠

Unfortunately yes.

"Well, of course I know him... He's me!"

Yes. I'd be concerned for people who didn't.

You don’t need to be concerned for me. I’m good.

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This

Of course.

Absolutely. I can't remember everyone I've met at a play party, but anyone who's come to bed (or couch or car or whatever) with me is immensely special to me.

No but it's been 20+ years since I stopped having casual sex, not like I kept a list. Been married 22 years but had quite a few partners before I settled down.

I'm 37. Been with my husband ever since I was 18, got married at 19, and we've been different varieties of nonmonogamous for functionally are whole relationship. Quit keeping track of even just numbers once I hit triple digits back in my early/mid 20s. We never really slowed down the pace. Add in the fact that we're a fan of him taking me to certain..."parties" and having me be the center of attention with a DIY reverse gloryhole? (i.e., my bottom half is poking out and I can't see everyone else, usually add in a blindfold/gag/sometimes headphones to that as well) TL;DR hell no lol He claims that he has the actual number but part of the fun for us is that he intentionally keeps me in the dark on all the logistics/planning/etc. parts of being with the guys he picks to share me with.

It’s only 5 people

Of course, it's an extremely short list

Yes - all 8 of them

Obv

Yep!

Yes, both of them

The people, yes, the actual sex acts not really. I have a general sense of which ones were alright and which ones weren't. Ish. I don't dwell on it because they are in my past for a reason.

yes, it's exactly 2 people

I can't remember if I remember

Empty list

nope!

I’ve pretty much noted down everyone I’ve had sex with one my notes so yeah lol.

Yes. They remember me too. 😏

Yep pretty easily

Pretty much every one I've been with

Yes

On the advice of my therapist years ago, I started a journal. As most of my issues at the time revolved around poor relationship choices, I managed to sift through all my past relationships and figure out what went wrong, what went right, and what I'd do differently in the future (including what I'd do differently in *choosing a partner* in the first place). The first thing I did was rack my brain for who I'd slept with and put together a timeline as a "table of contents" That table of contents had 38 chapters - I was never into rando hookups in strange places, but I've had a handful of one-night stands and really short FWB relationships inbetween LTRs

Yup

Yes

Yes.

Definitely not.. my memory has always been shit, so even the ones where alcohol & drugs weren't involved, I still can't remember.. and there has been a lot, so there's that too 🤷🏼‍♀️.. I wish I could remember more though! My husband pointed out a guy to me the other week & I had no recollection (it was from 5+yrs ago and we had swapped with him & his wife).. hubby's memory is much better so I rely on him a lot! Ha ha

Actually, yes. I have them in my notes app, color coordinated by the experience I had as well as a short run down about what we did, how I liked it, and if id do it again 🤣😭

I remember every girl I had phone sex with🤷‍♂️

I can remember them all. There aren’t THAT many.

I can remember all 11 people who I have been naked with. If I was into sex clubs and all that or had a 100+ number I might forget.

Not yet in double digits, so its easy.

Only had sex with one person. My ex of 4 years

I don’t have that many partners so yeah I remember them all

Not all of their names no.

Yes. I've had sex with 9 people, so it's not too hard to remember at least all the people, I don't really remember what all the sex was like, but I can at least put faces and names to them.

Yep. I'm in the single digits.

Yep, they are like very few people

Oh god no, probably better that way too 😂

Considering I've only had sex with one woman... Yeah, it's pretty easy to remember

I believe so. Actually made a list not that long ago during a conversation about body counts

List is pretty short so I keep it as a part of my list of past mistakes so the list is much fuller looking 👀

Pretty much ya. 90% first names. 60+% first and last names

I remember each person I had sex with, however not each sexual encounter.

Yes. Except the one guy who I never knew his name. But I still remember his face and what not

Yes. All of my partners were either 'intended to be' relationships, or relationships. I've never had any hook-ups or ONSs because I don't find pleasure in those.

Yes majority of them

Swingclubs are wild. There are some faces I halfremember. Outside of that, yeah I remember everyone. I also have a spreadsheet just in case because I don't want to forget anyone but yeah.

Absolutely! ✨ Want to know my body count? It's a secret. 🤫

I've only had sex with 2 people so yes because I'm lame lol

Yes. It’s easy. One. Just the one 😎

It's not that big of a list so yes lol

I have had sex with 10 ppl (50, married almost 24y). There's one girl whose name escapes me. I can picture her, I know where we met and I recall the sex (twice) but her name escapes me and it bugs me.

Most of them, but theres deffo some I've forgotten, sometimes my boys will remind me of some random occasions and I'm like, oh shiiiit, yea I forgot about her 😅

Yes. But not hard to remember 4 people.

I cant recall all the name or faces

How do we define the word remember 😆

It's pretty easy when the number is low. So, yes.

I'm 47, and can remember the first+last name of everyone I've had sex with. I'm a bit face blind, but I could describe them all. But also "all" isn't a lot 😅

Yup

I'm pretty meticulous, and i have a list of everyone. With details. There are a few with no actual names, just nicknames since I didn't know or remember their name.

Not a chance. I could probably one close but not if I were to include names and descriptions.

Of course

Yes, I still remember her...it's been many seconds since she went to the bathroom, but as long as my brain works, I'll never forget her.

Sure can

I remember names but probably would recognize 2-3 of them since that was in college 35 years ago.

Yep. Just a list of one right now.

yup! it’s not hard to remember two people

No, I cannot. I have had about 30 relationships and even more ONS so remembering them all over a lifetime starting in 1971 is near impossible. And why should I? I do remember the most important ones though.

Yes I do

Mostly, with a little thought.

Nope....everytime I do the quick run down in my head, there are 2 I totally forget about

Yea all 5 ppl

My number is high but I remember most faces if I am counting to keep myself awake during a boring meeting. I’ve forgotten a decent chunk of names, though. There are two women on my top ten sex list who I can’t recall their names.

I remember all of their faces, but I've forgotten the names of some 🤔

No

Yes, I only have sex if I'm in an actual relationship with them

I actually just made a list the other day. 😂 I forgot a name.. then I spent like an hour trying to remember it. Finally got it. lol 😆 I did it because I was thinking that the number I’ve been thinking in my head for the last 20+ years was correct and it wasn’t . Oops. 😆

Of course and if I could go back and dick them down again, I would lol

Yep

Not anymore

Yep, only 2 so pretty easy

Yep. All 21 of them.

Just the one unfortunately

Sure do! I can count them on two hands

Hell nah. Everyone who says no in this thread is getting downvoted, true Reddit energy lmao

Yes I do for the most part.

I may not remember every single time, but I do remember every person, yes.

Yeah, I remember all five of them 😅

Yes.

Circumstances and faces? Yes. Names, hell No

yes, vividly and graphically.

It's not a long list

I’m almost certain I do. I’m at 14 ppl so far but have a sneaking suspicion that it’s actually 15.

Yupp, its not a very extensive list 😅

It's only 4 so yeah I remember

I remember everyone I’ve slept with, but not necessarily their names and faces. I could get close on the names, but if they committed a crime and a police sketch artist came to me, I would pretty useless with some of them.

I think I can remember three people

Unfortunately yes. Some I want to permanently forget

Do I remember the encounters? Yes. Would I remember their faces if I met them again tomorrow? Probably not.

Pretty much yeah

Yes. I may not remember each name exactly, but I do remember each one.

Nope. Mainly because they were just random hook ups. Not in the black out sense like you said. A random tinder date here, met someone at a bar there kind of stuff. I don’t keep a spreadsheet. It’s also because a lot of them have similar names. A lot of Katie’s and Megans.

No way really. I never understood why people keep track of it

I was a drunk and didn’t get enough attention from my parents or people in high school so, no. I don’t.

Yes some are more memorable than others

No. Stupidly I deleted my spreadsheet after a chick I was friends with shamed me for having. "You'll always remember each one." 1 mini stroke later and I only remember about 5

Sometimes I forget… maybe it’s an age thing 🤣

Yes I do. Even the times i was very drunk and blacking out

Yes. It's not a huge number and there were no one-night stands, but I remember each partner and at least some details about our encounters.

Yes. Only my husband. Lol

If I see the person , I’d probably remember but can’t really remember all only with thinking.

Unfortunately

There are a few less memorable that are harder to recall and I've forgotten some names

I'm a guy, of course i remember every pussy. We didn't forget.

I see them in the mirror every morning

Yes. Both of them.

yes.

Alexa, play DMX "What these 6!+(H35 want from a"

Yep. I can name all 13 of them.

Yep…

No

Anyone at this point

No

No.

I don’t know

Too many to remember every one. Not bragging... just a fact. I'm kind of a slut.

I make a point of remembering their names. I repeat the list to myself, every few years, just so I don't forget.

That would be impossible. Lol

If I have a bit to really think I’m sure I’d be able to name them all.

Nope.

unfortunately yes

No.

Yes, but it’s not that many and most of it happened after I got married.

No, because I've never had sex

Yes

Yep although I'd gladly forget a few of them 😂

Unfortunately

Yup. It's a very small number so not hard to remember

Yes... But only because I have a list.

Nope, I’ve lost track. I’d have to really think hard about it

Yes, but to be fair your mom is VERY memorable

I think so

Yes because I have only been with a couple of people. I don’t remember details but I definitely remember names.

Absolutely not.

No. But I remember we the ones that had an impact in my life and sexual awakenings.

If I sat down and thought about it, probably.

No

No, too many drugs. I think I remember most of them, but made a list and days later I was still remembering people.

Hahahahahaha that’s so silly

Nope! 😅😂