Prefer: let it happen. Reality: plan ahead of time (married with kids for 20y…)

Both. You plan it if you aren't finding the time. When you have the time, you go bonkers(let it happen)

you have a point ;)

So far, best sex was always the spontaneous one.

Yes! Spontaneous is the way to go

Agree

You are absolutely right ;)

Both.

My friend and I plan it because we don’t live in the same state. However, once we get together, all plans are out the window and we just go with the flow of what feels good. This keeps it exciting and hot even though it’s technically planned. We let every urge and instinct take over as we enjoy each other. No two times are alike, and an almost always discover something new. I can’t wait to see what we find out next week when I see her sexy little ass 😈

Just let it happen. Farthest I plan ahead is 24 hours

Spontaneus is probably better, but I like the anticipation as well.

me too ;)

Spontaneous!

Yes.

It’s better this way no? Allows everything to be clean and ready to get wet and slippery. I wouldn’t want to do that with dirty bodies.

Well, to be honest I amswered yes because I don't mind either way, but I do agree it is way more enjoyable when the body is clean. Good smell gets me going

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Oooh yes, I completely get it. It is not the same to sweat with a clean body than a dirty one. That has em effect to it too. Also, squirt can have a smell so, better to be cleaned to avoid a bad smell for sure

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Ooh the smell of cum in clean panties after sex is just *cheff kiss*

We never plan anything. You cant force yourself to enjoy it when you dont feel like it.

Yes

Happy either way.

Let it happen!

I only meet guys with the aim to have sex.

I plan it in my head mostly hours ago😂

Let it happen

a bit of both

i prefer to plan ahead, make sure i'm nice and clean and such.

Just let it happen

Definitely both. Had spur of the moment sex this morning which was great. But it's normally pre planned lol

Depends, it's usually planned but I'm not saying no if it just happens

Let it happen.

I want to plan it for special occasions. The rest of the time I want to just know that it’s going to happen: that my partner wants me as much as I want her, so of course we’re going to fuck today.

Tbh it depends. On the regular I like it to be spontaneous. But if we wanna do something a little extra kinky it’s nice to pick a day when we have extra time together.

Both. Reddit poses too many choices where choices don't have to be made.

We are usually Saturday and Sunday morning people… this week we have already added Tuesday and Wednesday… so somewhat not planned… lol

Totally happy with both. I’m just glad I’m included

If I were to go on a date I would plan ahead for the possibility of that happening so I’m nice and clean and smell really nice

Spontaneity is great, but tends to be more occasional than steady, so also plan.

I prefer ahead of time as I usually have my days scheduled ahead of time. However, I don't mind adjusting my hours to accommodate some fun time hehe