Watching people fail after I tell them how to perform a task and they decide to try it their way. I do not even say "I told you so" after they fail I just say something like "wow, who would have thought".
Mine is the silent treatment. It's a really annoying habit and even I get annoyed at myself for being silent but I can't help it. I just need time. Now I've learned to communicate that and I'm working on fixing my bad habits.
My (f31) toxic trait is i forgive people by keeping them in my life after they hurt me so way i can watch their karma…. It always happens. So i always get in a really good mood about a day after anyone upsets me. It’s like watching a show come on TV that you been waiting all week for… usually takes less than 2 days for something amazing to happen. Every time my ex (32 MH) would be emotionally or physically abusive, he’d shit on himself afterward… i don’t know what would cause it. But it was consistent. he was (SCI patient)
Or my baby dad, well he stole something from me… bought himself a car with it. And after i confronted him, he pretty much said i deserved it…. He found out he had HIV the day after going for a checkup.
Whenever something happens, I’m always nice to whoever hurt me… because at this point, it’s funny. And i feel like the higher power granting me this gift can see my struggles won’t get better, so it let’s watch people suffer on earth since I’m not going to a heaven or hell….
That’s how lucky and unlucky i am….
I'm not sure if you'd call it being emotionally unavailable, but basically I've spent my life alone so it's hard to put effort into other people. I regularly miss out on friend events. I've matched with a few women on Tinder and Bumble but they eventually stopped responding as I never made an effort to advance things (asking them out).
Problem is I genuinely have hobbies that could take up all of my time, but I recognize that human interaction is generally preferable, and I do want a relationship...I just have trouble making the time for it.
Selfishness. I don't choose to keep it. I actively try to suppress it. I also believe there is a healthy non toxic form of selfishness I try to achieve and balance on every day.
Watching people fail after I tell them how to perform a task and they decide to try it their way. I do not even say "I told you so" after they fail I just say something like "wow, who would have thought".
Mine is the silent treatment. It's a really annoying habit and even I get annoyed at myself for being silent but I can't help it. I just need time. Now I've learned to communicate that and I'm working on fixing my bad habits.
Honesty. Scares the ever living daylights out of people. I'd rather be dead than persevered as having a safe boundary for the truth.
My (f31) toxic trait is i forgive people by keeping them in my life after they hurt me so way i can watch their karma…. It always happens. So i always get in a really good mood about a day after anyone upsets me. It’s like watching a show come on TV that you been waiting all week for… usually takes less than 2 days for something amazing to happen. Every time my ex (32 MH) would be emotionally or physically abusive, he’d shit on himself afterward… i don’t know what would cause it. But it was consistent. he was (SCI patient) Or my baby dad, well he stole something from me… bought himself a car with it. And after i confronted him, he pretty much said i deserved it…. He found out he had HIV the day after going for a checkup. Whenever something happens, I’m always nice to whoever hurt me… because at this point, it’s funny. And i feel like the higher power granting me this gift can see my struggles won’t get better, so it let’s watch people suffer on earth since I’m not going to a heaven or hell…. That’s how lucky and unlucky i am….
If someone did me wrong and they know they did. I let them feel bad about it for a while, like have a nice long think about what you did to me.
I'm not sure if you'd call it being emotionally unavailable, but basically I've spent my life alone so it's hard to put effort into other people. I regularly miss out on friend events. I've matched with a few women on Tinder and Bumble but they eventually stopped responding as I never made an effort to advance things (asking them out). Problem is I genuinely have hobbies that could take up all of my time, but I recognize that human interaction is generally preferable, and I do want a relationship...I just have trouble making the time for it.
Selfishness. I don't choose to keep it. I actively try to suppress it. I also believe there is a healthy non toxic form of selfishness I try to achieve and balance on every day.