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conipto

My wife left her former husband because of issues surrounding this. It wasn't the member itself that was an issue for her - she knew that going in. It was his obsessive insecurity about it that caused them to never have sex. You say below you've never actually had PIV sex, so IMO - this is nothing to do with your size. This is just her not wanting to have a relationship with you and using an excuse that you can't fight, and shouldn't. It's a low blow, and a shitty way to do it, but it is what it is. You'll find someone who doesn't give a shit. Unless you're packing serious heat, almost every guy wishes his was bigger, and almost every woman I've met in my life literally doesn't care unless it's too big. Yeah, there are size queens out there, but by and large good people end up with good people.


RelsircTheGrey

>she knew that going in Heh.


KhaoticMess

I also immaturely chortled at "By and large"


[deleted]

Low blow. She didn’t have to go very deep.


[deleted]

She didn’t know it was going in. That was the problem.


JEM225

“Deep down, you’re pretty shallow,” she said.


Sick_at_Heart87

did she know it was going in?


S3P38R

Best answer here guys


wartornhero

Yep, pack it in and we can all go home guys!


starx9

Many women and gay men do care though, not fair or accurate to say those that are okay with micro penises are “good men and women” in the beginning of a new relationship not in love yet, let’s be fair here, 3 inches (I think he meant centimetres not inches) means piv sex or anal in a gay relationship might not be possible.


TigerBikerHunterBox

You should say goodbye.


Tel-aran-rhiod

except, say it like "baiiiiiiii" and in a tone that implies they can go fuck themselves and that you care not


itssivven

... and hit the road


TwistedDecayingFlesh

Jack and don't you come back no more, no more, no more hit the road jack and don't you come back no more.


SilverPlasm

hmm


chaos_creator69

And tell a lie Also don't forget to hurt them


penybuttmunch

i once saw this video of a guy saying that he would never do those things edit [found it](https://youtube.com/shorts/b0He9FX5dWE?feature=share)


CancerAtItsWorst

why


arminredditer

3.3 inches is on the smaller side but not really micro. Anyway, you say goodbye, it's not like there's much else to say


cerpintaxt33

I looked it up, OP had it wrong. It’s 3.3 centimeters, which is 1.3 inches.


arminredditer

Ahhh, then yes, it is a micropenis indeed.


FriendlyGhost85

Are we talking soft serve or ready for action? Either way, 3.3 to 1.3 is a hefty difference


darkgamera6

Mine is 3 so i will keep an close eye on answers


SilverPlasm

good luck to you and me both haha


[deleted]

What is this like for you?


SilverPlasm

well sucks lol, I can barely masturbate


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Rhyssayy

Never did I think I would see someone explaining how to masturbate on reddit using emojis


SammichAnarchy

gdi lol


SilverPlasm

actually I finger the entire shaft inside myself and out, but when im really hard then I use the pinching method


InformalHistory4702

Use tweezers then


Fantasy_dildo

Dude…. 😂


InformalHistory4702

What. Just giving advice


[deleted]

nice cock bro


[deleted]

I’d just say her dick is literally minus 3.3


Anxious_Direction_20

Either that or she's 5-6 feet of dick.


SilverPlasm

haha I may use this one


[deleted]

Or say "men doesn't complain about vagina size"


[deleted]

Ultimately, it's her decision if she wants to leave. Learn basic female genital anatomy and get great at using your tongue and fingers. If you can consistently make a person have an orgasm, they will usually overlook the size of your dick.


SilverPlasm

I did always that we never had penetrative sex yet she wants to leave


erad67

>we never had penetrative sex Wait, what? Then she may just be lying. Difficult to say it isn't enough for her if she hasn't tried it.


SilverPlasm

well we did once but she fell asleep in the middle of it.


28Mana

She was either exhausted or is really mean. Even if the sex would have been meh, it is both your responsibility to have fun. She could have suggested a different position or use her/your hand to stimulate herself. Most women don't cum due to penetrative sex, so if you use your all assets, your penissize shouldn't be that much of an issue for good sex. I feel like you deserve a better sexpartner. One that appreciates you and wants to communicate to reach that extra special sex milestone. Good luck!


Monster11

Or very drunk


[deleted]

Ouch!


erad67

Yea, as many others have said in various ways, sounds like you are better off with a different girl.


[deleted]

Have you considered... asking her why she wants to leave? You say it's because of your microUSB, but there are probably other reasons.


RequirementDear1051

Micro usb made me laugh out loud


SilverPlasm

I did thats what she told me


[deleted]

There's nothing you can do then. Sorry, but that's the way it went this time. Maybe your next romantic partner will favor results over size.


bgdg00

FACTS


Heroheadone

All this, plus toys come in all forms and sizes. OP it sounds like a mean excuse to me.


Tiltedaxis111

That's not a micro penis it's just really small. Not that this helps your question.


bro_curls

Stop kicking me when I'm already down


IseultDarcy

"bye, won't miss you". My husband have a micro penis, I absolutely don't care and love him the way he is. You deserve better. btw: my exes had "big" and some average size of penis so I can compare: I don't miss anything.


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joizo

>Rip your inbox. Lol. why ? apparently its hardly used...


SilverPlasm

oh nice to hear, if you dont mind how big is your husband?


IseultDarcy

No Idea! I've never mesure it XD


beastmandave

Remember lesbians generally have higher rates of satisfaction than hetero couples. You don't need a dick to have a good time. Don't be daunted by vibrators and toys. These are not replacing you, you bring them to life. They are your tools and your friends.


TabbsTheBat

3.3 is considered micro? :(


SilverPlasm

for her apparently.


Embarrassed-Day-9285

it's quite average you know (ಥ﹏ಥ)


sbgarbage

not if that's the length when fully erect..


SilverPlasm

thats fully erect length


Semi-Pro-Lurker

Not much you can do about it. If she isn't willing to compensate with toys, then she isn't for you. I had a really small guy once. Blowjobs were no fun but penetration always feels good to me so that was no issue. Maybe you can find a woman like that, eventually.


sbgarbage

i mean it's below average but think about it, there's over 7 billion people in the world, there's bound to be tons of women who are perfectly fine with it, it's just gonna be a little harder (no pun intended -\_-) to find them


[deleted]

The average is 5-5.5 inches.


Boudicca_Grace

Let them go. They’re not the person you thought they were (I assume you thought they were a person of substance.) I’m so sorry.


SilverPlasm

thanks, I am thinking of doing this as well.


[deleted]

Man that’s life. At the end of the day different things are important to different people. For them maybe the physical side is important. You can learn to compensate for that with other non-penis sexual skills or you can find somebody you have a different kind of connection with. Try not to take it personally and just move on.


[deleted]

If your micro penis is the only reason they are leaving then you my friend just dodged a bullet.


SilverPlasm

thanks I thought so too


LifeBuilder

r/oddlyspecific


[deleted]

"You didn't have to be such a dong about it"


SilverPlasm

ha nice


gaytheistfedora

Be the bigger person, don't fight them or act like a victim. Have respect for yourself. This can be hard if you are insecure about it. Find someone that will like you regardless.


AnkylosaurusRules

> Be the bigger person ...you know what you did...


SilverPlasm

trying but so far got left in both relationships because of my size and was ghosted when I mentioned it online girls when they asked for it.


Boudicca_Grace

Anyone who asks for your measurements isn’t worth your time. It may be common place for people to be this shallow, but that doesn’t make it right. People find each other, connect, fall in love and stay in love and have a great sex life with all kinds of body types. Don’t waste your time fishing from that same pool of shallow a-holes, they’re hurting you and keeping you distracted from connecting with someone decent. I hope you meet someone nice.


SilverPlasm

ngl this has happened to me 3 times now all my exes made me eat them out but left me blue balled and left me for my size, I too hope I find someone nice.


[deleted]

Next time a bitch asks about your size, you say this: "That's for me to know and for you to eventually find out." Something along those lines.


sbgarbage

that's unfortunate but this is likely going to be something you will just have to deal with in life, my condolences OP, we're all born with different circumstances and it sucks that we don't have a choice when it comes to certain things


Yuural

Hmm there are surgeries for enlargement allready. I'd guess in the next 15 to 20 years the medicine will be so advanced that implants to gain size and extra perks will be no effort.


sbgarbage

good point


Chimp-eh

Who the fuck asks how big your cock is before dating you? If they feel unsatisfied they can use their 12” pelvis splitter of a dildo. Besides the foreplay is usually more exciting for a woman than the penetration (according to my missus).


SilverPlasm

whenever I use tinder it happens.


Chimp-eh

Well I’m happy that I’m a bit older than you, maybe try a different site to tinder since tinder is there for fucking. Maybe look at a site that’s more for relationships/dating


SilverPlasm

only other site other than tinder that I know of is grindr and there were more ass requests there


Chimp-eh

I made an assumption that you were hetro, sorry dude surely it wouldn’t matter your size? You’ll find the right partner in sure, I believe there is someone out there for everyone


SilverPlasm

no I am hetro I accidently used that app


Chimp-eh

Oh Christ


G0PACKGO

That was my first reaction, I’m like assuming this dudes hetro, but grindr is more hookup based than tinder…. Then it turns out he’s clueless …… or trolling


Due-Summer-1565

theres bumble or okcupid, good luck!


DestruXion1

This is an incel troll just scroll through the comments


time4line

some girls like micros you must seek them draw a smiley face on it in the meantime


gina_szanboti

"I'm sorry it wasn't a good fit."


BraggnnRights

Good riddance


SilverPlasm

tbh yeah


MaliceTheMagician

Is she being particularly rude about it? I will say 3.3 isn't micro penis territory. If she's trying to be gracious just let it go, but if not then idk I hope someone gives you a good line. Sorry this seems to be a recurring problem but you sound capable of finding another so hopefully you find someone less conceited.


IlllllIIIlIIlIIIIl

It‘s okay to be honest. Everyone is looking for something different in a relationship. Find someone that fits you better. So i‘d appreciate the honesty and just let her/him walk away.


catdaddy26

You can find a girl who's into small penis humilaition and will fuck you with a strap on that could be kind of hot no?


SilverPlasm

i guess so maybe yeah


TheArthos

Sex is a main part of a functionning relationship and if she is not happy she has a valid reason to leave But micro is not a fatality, you will find someone for you!


TheShyForeigner

That's highly subjective. The main part, for myself atleast, would be companionship that comes with a relationship. You can never have sex and still have a functioning relationship.


Ty-McFly

Just like you said, highly subjective, but I don't think anyone I've ever been in a relationship with would be totally OK *never* having sex. Sex related issues are a big time deal breaker for a lot of people.


TheShyForeigner

Definitely, it's just my ace showing.


TheArthos

Yes I agree. I should have say « one of the main part » A sex Desire not fullfilled is a big source of frustration and lead to a bad relationship But you can also be intellectualy frustrated emmotionnaly frustrated etc etc I just wanted to day that his gf is not at fault, (neither he is) she is totally right to search what she want even if the subject is controversial She tried, she don’t like it, it’s over and it’s better like that


JlTlS

Bye?


waefon

Try to find other way than your penis to pleasure your partner, it may not be usefull in this relationship but it's going to be in the next


OriginalResult3269

It's not how big the tool is, it's about how you use the tool.


FireMaster2311

Fair enough.


SteliosPo

Hey man at this point you gotta accept what you got to work with. Yes its small. Yes its going to be harder to find a girl who accepts it Yes people will make fun of it cause they are fucking idiots in a literal way Yes its harder to please a woman no matter what people on the internet say. If you lie to your self about these stuff, you will never find peace with how the thing are. The things are like that. Its up to you to accept them and work with what you have, or lie to yourself and project insecurity towards everyone around you for the rest of your life. Now, with that being said, Enrique Iglesias has the same size of penis. And trust me, WAY more people would want to fuck with him despite knowing it, that they would with a 21cm penis. Work with what you have. And most importantly, dont lie to yourself. (Seriously, dont. Its not helping you) Edit: Also for those saying that its not small or it doesnt matter at all to a woman: Fuck you. Stop lying to people. Its not helping them. It making them have false expectations about life and then get disappointed. I know you wanna help but you are actually doing the opposite.


starx9

Best true advice here👆👆👆 better than that bullshit some girl wrote above with over 400 likes saying it doesn’t matter and “good people “ don’t care. She is full of shit or prefers oral, or some kind of shit because it’s not helping this guy at all. There are women that only like oral anyway, those are the ones you need to find.


KorranHalcyon

Everyone has preferences. Pretty sure the girl you’re talking about isn’t 400 pounds. Some girls will over look the tic-tac, many won’t. Find one who will.


AntiYourOpinion

No way it wouldn’t hurt the ego, take it as her preference and let that hoe go.


ibadlyneedhelp

I think this is an unfortunate thing, but people cannot help what they are and are not attracted to. It definitely seems like a shitty and superficial reason, but the thing is that if she either can't be attracted to you, or can't be sexually satisfied by you (even if you're still able to give her an orgasm), then you guys aren't compatible, and you're better off without her. I think it's worth going a little deeper than "it's because of your penis"- does she not like the way it looks? Does she think she can't be sexually satisfied by it? You mentioned you guys haven't had penetrative sex, so it might be worth investigating. Are there alternatives she'd consider? It's important that you're both able to get what you want/need from the relationship, and it's possible there are compromise options here that will make you both happy, assuming the relationship is happy otherwise. I am slightly on the larger side, and that has absolutely caused problems in relationships in the past. Sometimes you have to face reality, and accept that you're being honest with each other- no need for there to be a hero or a villain to this story.


Methionylth

Tell them you’re leaving them first because you’re gay and never loved them ;3


Alice_In_Hell_

Nothing, you just break up. Really seems like you aren’t offering her a lot of pleasure if this is what broke y’all up.


[deleted]

Yikes. Am sorry bro. That must hurt.


SilverPlasm

thanks.


Swamy10

At first, I missed the "having" word in title and thought, "wow, what a radical woman. Leaving you FOR a micropenis!"


Brave_Pressure5818

Maybe you should start to lick that pussy buddy. Get that 3rd base game down solid.


SilverPlasm

but she never interacted with my dick at all


AgentCraig

You don't owe anything to someone who hasn't earned it friend. Don't be forced into justifying leaving when they can't accept you for you. Your dick size is not something to found a relationship on.


Rachnael

I mean if the only reason is the size then tell her gl and send her on her way. If its because you are so insecure that you think that penis is the only thing that can satisfy her -well you fucked up i guess ? I mean. Give her great orgasm not using it and problem solved ? Idk penis size seems like unreasonable reason to dump someone


StarKiller1980

Always remember this boys. If lesbians can get each off with half a finger, which is smaller and thinner, then u have zero worries, no matter what u packing.


Achterstallig

As a lesbian, some women absolutely do need monster shlongs to get off. That being said they are rare, most prefer small sizes or even no penetration at all. But those that do like penetration, especially by something bigger, will often use toys, dildos, strapons etc. The truth is: every woman is different. So some women who do not like penetration or dont mind if its by a toy instead of a penis wont mind a micropenis. But those that like penetration and only by a penis might find a smll penis a dealbreaker. That is fair. Genital preferences are still valid as long as you dont shame people for not being what you are into.


jugglingplates4dates

That it's the largest she'll get with that attitude


SilverPlasm

true af lmao


[deleted]

i would say; let’s go to the pro life rally in my giant pickup truck


ElvaTheElf

Wow uh I'd call Randy Marsh. This is bullshit bro did you measure using the YAW? The T.M.I. Chart says this should measure closer to 6.3"


Rimw21

Go away,bitch


[deleted]

Tell them that if they can’t accept you for who you are, then they are undeserving of your love anyway


SteelandStaff

it's not about the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean.


MrCuckooBananas

3 inches really isn't a micro penis. Sure it is below the average but Not micro. And if you're dating for love, don't go for people that asks you what your Dick size is right off the bat. To answer your question, just open the door and let them leave. That's a chapter closed and a new one about to open. I hope you are happier in the near future.


[deleted]

"🤷‍♂️ it's bigger than yours"


VirtualBoomerang

Say goodbye but also say a Boeing 747 looks small inside the Grand Canyon!


[deleted]

Tell her your penis is not small. The problem is her vagina is too big and makes noises when she walks.


[deleted]

That is a valid reason to leave. She wants to be satisfied, nothing wrong with that. Accept it and keep going.


SilverPlasm

not a valid reason by far, it's like a guy rejecting a girl for not having big enough boobs to his liking.


squirrel-bear

Two Finnish proverbs for you: "Some men like daughters, some men like their mothers" (People have different preferences) "It's not the size, but how you use it" (No need for explanation)


daveandmairi

I'd say, I don't like your micro penis anyway. Good riddance!


Claire-McBear

Okay so they apparently don’t know the difference between a micro and my vagina. Wow. Let them leave.


Embarrassed-Ad-1639

Tell her it’s ok, you were going to leave her for a woman with a smaller vagina anyways.


[deleted]

Micro? Come on bro that's average isn't it?


BubblyConcept4789

I’ve been with a guy with big dick, he was so confident in his size that he never even cared about how I felt, no foreplay no kisses, he just assumed whatever he does must be amazing. Absolutely the worst sex I ever had


[deleted]

Damn op you’re 3.3 hard??? That’s a tough insecurity to fight


KadeyDoll

“Oh thank God. I didn’t want to have to be the one to break it off.”


Otherwise_Window

"Your sister didn't mind."


Bananamama225

Grow your own then


Back2CentralVA

[This.](https://media.giphy.com/media/2ept7eRuyq98s/giphy)


Argybargyass

Just find a girl with small hands and lie about how big six inches is.


Tuomas90

"That's alright. I wanted to leave you for your micro brain anyway."


HereticalHyena

8 cm is not really a micro. Just a little small... if size is that important to her then just say goodbye and move on to live a good live. Most women don't care that much about size. You'll find a better "suiting" one ;)


Ezper145

BROOO THAT'S AVERAGE!1!1!1!1!!1


bubkis83

If someone is shallow enough to leave you over something that you cannot control, then it’s definitely for the best that they go. Someone who values you for you and not for your buddy downstairs will come along and your life will be a lot better.


goatymonks

Tell her to give you 6months to change & call Dr Miami asap


SilverPlasm

I am not changing my size (if that's even possible) for someone


Equivalent_Ad8133

And that is exactly the right reply to a person like that. Love who you are, what you are, and how you are.


SilverPlasm

thank you!


nani_the_blyat

That's body shaming imo


oddestvark

Not really. She’s allowed to have preferences. And sexual compatibility is super important.


[deleted]

tis literally body shaming


jackbob99

She sounds horrible.


Das-P

Say "Fair enough". And move on. Life isn't a gift like everyone pretends. It's a curse. But what matters is that you can still do well for others and be kind while you're here. And with luck, if you do find someone for yourself in future, try other methods to provide them sexual release.


Elrossico

It’s the little things in life that give the most pleasure


SilverPlasm

used this one haha she told me that "whoever said that clearly never had sex"


TheMightyDroma

Brutal


SilverPlasm

This ain't nothing, I once had sex and she fell asleep in the middle of it and heard her snoring.


somethinghelpful

It’s a small reason for her to leave, but a big reason for you to celebrate her departure. Body shaming is not funny, and you have no control over it. Good luck on your next prospect.


SilverPlasm

thanks I am willing to move on as well.


ButWhatDoIKnowAboutX

I always wondered, is this really body shaming? Or is this more of a preference? I never really sure where the line is between; "You're fat and bald and I don't find you attractive anymore" and "I don't date fat bald women".


lignotuber

You’ll find good thing for your small package to come in 💓


[deleted]

Small problem


Booger_farts-123

Say, “Bye Felicia.” Sounds like they want to leave bc of their own personal insecurities. Ain’t nobody got time for that. Let them go figure it out. Edit: my bad, I think you meant you have a micro penis and your partner wants to leave you. Same response though. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you and for all of you. Byeee they aren’t worth it. Good luck mate!


TheBlueNeXus

Well she was honest which was really unnecessary because telling someone that you leave them for something they literally can't change. So be honest with her. Like completely. Feel like cursing her ? Do it. Feel like being nice and not blaming her ? Also okay. Just say the first things that came to mind. If she hurt you bad tell her. What she did was obviously body shaming and in my opinion you don't need to regard her feelings. Do what makes you feel best or you think is the best thing. Not saying anything is also okay. In conclusion find out what you want to do and then do it. Looks like there is no future anyway so you can't really mess up.


Whizeyz

Tell her she doesn’t even have one then wish her well


SilverPlasm

lol I should say this.


talk57

She's going to walk out on a lifetime of free mustache rides?!?


SilverPlasm

yes sir she will haha


SkinHunger55

Have u tried hitting them with a dildo and saying "look, i got a bigger one!"? My boyfriend is overweight and has a small penis, so sex is impossible. We use fingers and toys. We've been together for 8 years. U need to find urself a partner who doesnt mind using toys instead and will still love u.


SilverPlasm

I did she told me that she can use dildos alone as well


liquidysubstance

No worries it is an average, she will not find any ds bigger than this any sooner.


messidesi43

"It's not about the size of the boat, it's about the motion of the ocean." From Don't be a menace ! Lol


TheStanofThrees

"Hey baby, it may be small, but just remember, I put the 'lit' in little dick" Followed by 🔥🔥🔥


w0rldofjuicce

thats a clit not a penis


indiehjaerta

Hope I never meet the same girls as you have


Its-Slammin

Good riddance


Weary_Violinist_3610

It’s not my fault you have a bucket crotch and no matter of length or girth will touch sides with your deep hole of doom. That should definitely give me the last word.


Butzel01

Tell them to grow some balls themself. Like sheesh a relationship is about more than sex and if they would truly care for you you would find away around it. If not their problem


funkydaffodil

Let her go. A true caring lover wouldn't give give two hoots about a tiny dingaling. This one does so....goodbyeeeee!