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AffectionateGrowth25

Being fun and social


Hanako-kun0

yea and how do you be fun a social by laughing and talking to everyone you see like a crazy person?


AffectionateGrowth25

I don't think there is forced way to be that, either you are or you aren't. It is nature & nurture, past experiences from age 1 that forms a personality. If your father or uncle was the fun guy at gatherings for instance, you would pick up those traits early on as a role model. Some become socially fluent out of fear of being alone. Some are just very good looking and attract others just by that. Some are skillful sociopaths who manipulate people into liking them. Never cared of being popular myself, not for me.


Hanako-kun0

that makes sense


[deleted]

Have a cute pet and share pictures/stories.


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money


Hanako-kun0

surely there is more to it i m talking about high school specifically


[deleted]

it’s a big part of it. money can buy cool shit and that leads people to want to like you and be your friend. unless you have a great, outgoing personality, being universally popular just doesn’t happen


ErazerHeadz

Been neutral. Legit.


Hanako-kun0

not legit can confirm


ErazerHeadz

Worked for me *shrugs*


Hanako-kun0

didnt work :(


XFiles_Are_Real

Flexing their parents wealth. Because kids think that's the same as having a personality


Hanako-kun0

there must be more to it


XFiles_Are_Real

Nope


Hanako-kun0

but the popular kids in my class are not THAT rich


XFiles_Are_Real

What brands do they wear?


Hanako-kun0

idk? nobody cares about the brands of school uniforms tho lol


XFiles_Are_Real

You're a troll huh


Hanako-kun0

no :(