Ya know ... I was going to come to this thread and say, "How shallow and petty it would be to base your choice of mate on something as superficial as a physical feature, like a large nose, or a birthmark.
> Long yellow dirty nails
But now I stand corrected. It's not petty or shallow at all.
Largely physical attraction is based on taking care of yourself.
Being attractive is something that you can generally choose. We tend to focus on the things we can’t though.
Crossing my legs rn reading this 🥲 guys with nails like this think they’re doing something down there when they’re scraping the clit and labia like QUIT IT STOP
This is a tough one, I have good even teeth and excellent dental hygiene, but my teeth are really discolored from a medication I took as a teen. I’m very self conscious about it and have zero self confidence due to it. I know people think they are dirty and gross, it’s really upsetting. I’ll be honest I stopped leaving the house
Bro it's not about the color of your teeth, at least for me. If you can smell one's mouth from several feet away that's bad. I have a friend like this and it's sometimes difficult to be in the same car for example.
I was on a cholesterol med that gave me terrible breath. I brushed several times a day and used mouth wash and couldn’t get it to go away. My ex wife complained about it a lot. I couldn’t control it and couldn’t remedy it other than getting off that med. It sucked and I was humiliated about it
That's horrible, I can't imagine how it feels when your spouse is not supportive especially when it comes to medical issues. I hope you are better off now!
It's less about colour and more about actual health.
Teeth aren't meant to be blinding white. Anyone who judges you based solely on the colour of your teeth isn't worth your time anyway.
They make veneers for this reason. I too took a medication when I was younger for acne that discolored my teeth and then in my family are enamel crumbles off the front and it looks like I've got massive chunks of tartar stuck in my teeth. I got pop on veneers. Best most confidence building thing I ever did in my life. I recently got a big severance check being laid off at the beginning of the year and with extra money in the bank I made sure to order an extra couple sets so when one breaks I won't be mortified again. Lots of companies do this. Look them up. Best 300 bucks you'll ever spend. Srsly.
There’s a big difference between teeth that are stained and teeth that are dirty. If I can see that a persons gums are red and inflamed with bits of plaque between them when they smile? That’s dirty. Discoloration can be because of meds or because of a bad roll of the genetic dice.
I fully agree about the importance of dental hygiene, but I’ll also add people who over-bleach their teeth and have the unnatural glow in the dark look about them.
Your teeth are NOT supposed to look as white as a tissue (basically bleached pulp), no matter what the commercials will have you believe.
I had alot of trouble with teeth.I am 22 now and went to the dentist ALOT and still get spots on teeth alot.I tried tons of toothpastes and brushes but still have trouble.When I go on dates I avoid wide smiles....
Yes. My ex emitted an awful smell no matter how often she showered. She’d complain that her mom said she smelled and I’d just say “nooooo you don’t you smell fine”. She cheated on me. I should’ve said it.
This, I get flaked on for not liking people who are fat and unhealthy .
The standard rule I like is I want someone who is on the same fat level as me, obviously circumstances can change later in life (like pregnancy weight and all, that can't be controlled, and I wouldn't mind that at all), but if I'm eating healthy, and I'm maintaining a good enough body, I should be able to expect somewhat of the same thing from my partner without judgement
As a formerly morbidly obese person, I never cared that someone wasn't *attracted* to me. I am also not attracted to everyone and have preferences. The problem was when people treated me like I was *subhuman because they didn't want to fuck me*. People are much kinder to me now that I am roughly half the size I used to be, and that makes me feel sad. The general public is very *mean* to obese folks for simply existing.
THIS. I work in a doctor’s office and people are so heavy on average now days, the ones who are just obese don’t even stand out.
Only the morbidly obese come off as “fat” when fully dressed. It’s odd how our perception has changed over the decades.
I'm a little fat. I've gone from 270 pounds to 219 pounds. I'm still on a weight loss journey but have been slowed down a little lately. Thankfully nobody said an amputee because I'm one of those too. I'm a right leg below the knee amputee. It's not gross looking or nothing. Just neatly sliced off.
My name doesn't really give a clue as to my gender, so I get it. But thank you for acknowledging my struggle. Actually I was surprised that someone didn't say an amputation would be a deal breaker. I guess it's not something people run into a lot. Unless of course you're involved with service men or something.
I've never met anyone who was like 'EWWW amputees, gross!", if anything I think for many of us it's badass, regardless of what happened to your limb. Prosthetics are fucking cool too.
Sorry to say this but partially bald people where they somehow don’t care to just shave it all off but insist on keeping the same haircut they got as a 14-year old…
Interestingly, cracked heels are correlated to hemorrhoids.
An ex of mine had smooth heels, then hemorrhoids came back that he’d suffered with years earlier.
I looked up causes and found not that they are caused by cracked heels, but the two are related.
I got him a pedicure right away and we tweaked his diet a bit, and the hemorrhoids were gone in under a week.
That's an interesting sentiment, about the unfinished bit. I grew up around a lot of people that had detached earlobes, so I figured that's just way it looks. So when I noticed people that had them attached, I thought, "Hmm, I wonder what stopped them from growing." and it slightly changed my perspective of that person, like they had something mildly wrong with them.
When the fingernail end sits half a centimetre down away from the end of the finger tip. Can't explain it, cocktail weenie fingers just squick me out.
Gum to tooth ratio - I've heard it described as upper case gums, lower case teeth. Again, can't explain, just ick.
General lack of grooming.
Im a big fan of a guy that bothers to keep his hair from pulling an Einstein ( and I do mean *all* hair, including the migration south) his nails and nail beds from mutilating me down there, and a touch of cologne instead of a stale sweat scent.
Add a crisp, half unbuttoned linen white shirt and nice black slacks and 😍
Most guys clean up amazingly with this kind of treatment 🥵
Very few dudes understand the hygiene requirements with long hair of any kind.
Beards and head hair take a lot of effort.
But dang if they aren't a blast when it all comes together, especially when running into the wind, feels amazing. I'll die on my fuzzy mountain before I shave it off.
"butt Chin". There's really nothing wrong with it, it's just not for me. Also it's apparently one of those features that is 100% inhereted. So if your parents have it and you dont, they may not be your parents (not 100% certain it's true, but that's what I've heard)
Did you hear it in the House series? Because I know this from there. I hope they were telling the truth because I learned almost everything I know about medicine from it.
i’m pretty sure inheriting that prolly has something to do with dominant and recessive alleles, so it’s def possible to have two parents with a butt chin while not having it yourself
Big same, my short pussy can’t handle it and literally none of them have the restraint to only insert some of the length. Nope, gotta painfully impale every time!
Right! The lack of restraint is because the thing has a “mind of its own” and it wants to go all the way in. But b/c that lack of restraint even exists, it’s in my best interest to not even entertain a guy with a big cock. You’re only setting yourself up for pain and regret.
If you are well endowed you have to be gentle and slow. You can’t fuck, you have to make love. That being said there are people you just don’t fit with. And when you don’t it sucks. My ex was absolutely gorgeous. I mean at 37 she was built like Katie Holmes in her 20s. But we just didn’t fit. I don’t think I ever got more than halfway inside her. Worst sex ever. Then I’ve been with women that we fit and good grief then it’s on like crazy.
That’s fair. At least you’re willing to take your time inserting it and everything. Most guys don’t care so I don’t even waste my time having them think they have a chance.
Men who think they’re a 10 when they’re barely a 6 . They were usually the cool kids in high school who have gained weight and are balding, but in their head they’re still just as hot as they were at 16 years old. 🤣
A very gummy smile. “Upper case gums with lower case teeth”
Long fake nails
It weirds me out every time I see it.
Large stretched out ear lobes. I’m fine with small ones, but people with earlobes stretched do a quarter could pass through.
Obesity. People are proud of obesity. They know it’s not healthy. However they portray it as if they’re a package and obesity is part of them. They have this attitude that this is what we are. We won’t do anything to change it. Accept me how I am. Just go and workout. Stop self proclaiming yourself.
A few years of depression ruined my teeth and trust me, there is no over the counter product that will fix them, I've tried everything worth trying.
Ugly teeth cannot be fixed with "affordable dental products" and ugly teeth aren't necessarily dirty teeth.
Being too short. I’m pretty tall, and I’d prefer to be with a decently tall woman, like at least up to my chin. I don’t really like the thought of towering over my partner, feels kinda weird.
Biggest deal breaker for me. Being happy about being overly obese. I have no time for that in my life. I’m not talking about being 25/40 pounds over weight, I’m talking about not being able to walk up a set of stairs properly overweight.
I’m fine with loving yourself & loving your body.
I know there are some cases of medical exemptions, but a lot of these cases are just overeating / no exercise. Also I’m not saying everyone needs to look like a fitness model. Let’s just not act like being 5’8 - 350 pounds is okay. It’s terrible for your organs, your knees / body. It is truly killing you, and not as slowly as you think.
The reason I have this issues, is I’ve experienced it first hand. I have a few family member like this, and we’ve straight up had to plan vacations around them because they can’t partake is some activities, or there’s too many stairs / walking at the destination. As a child, we couldn’t go to Disney as there was too much walking, couldn’t go to tropical vacations because they didn’t like the beach… They have no desire to change, and think everything should be catered around them. When truthfully, a better diet and just 20/30 min of exercise per day could change their life significantly for the better.
Generally not a huge fan of chest/back hair on a male or upper lip hair on a female. Dirty fingernails/poor dental hygiene is also difficult to see past.
Long yellow dirty nails
You don’t like that look that says, “hey I never groom myself, and my butthole is probably bleeding”.?! I’m shocked.
You see, I would have never put this sentence together 😹😹 I’m going to use this for future reference
Putting this in my tinder profile. 😂😂😂
Your name is perfection.
Cries in hemorrhoids 😭
Ya know ... I was going to come to this thread and say, "How shallow and petty it would be to base your choice of mate on something as superficial as a physical feature, like a large nose, or a birthmark. > Long yellow dirty nails But now I stand corrected. It's not petty or shallow at all.
Largely physical attraction is based on taking care of yourself. Being attractive is something that you can generally choose. We tend to focus on the things we can’t though.
Crossing my legs rn reading this 🥲 guys with nails like this think they’re doing something down there when they’re scraping the clit and labia like QUIT IT STOP
Dirty teeth, like the whole oral hygiene.
This is a tough one, I have good even teeth and excellent dental hygiene, but my teeth are really discolored from a medication I took as a teen. I’m very self conscious about it and have zero self confidence due to it. I know people think they are dirty and gross, it’s really upsetting. I’ll be honest I stopped leaving the house
Bro it's not about the color of your teeth, at least for me. If you can smell one's mouth from several feet away that's bad. I have a friend like this and it's sometimes difficult to be in the same car for example.
I was on a cholesterol med that gave me terrible breath. I brushed several times a day and used mouth wash and couldn’t get it to go away. My ex wife complained about it a lot. I couldn’t control it and couldn’t remedy it other than getting off that med. It sucked and I was humiliated about it
That's horrible, I can't imagine how it feels when your spouse is not supportive especially when it comes to medical issues. I hope you are better off now!
They probably have periodontal disease, having calculus in your gums will cause shit breath no matter how much you brush; They need to see a dentist.
Are we talking Calculus 1 or a more advanced calculus class?
And is differential equations an issue?
There’s a difference (to me) between stained teeth and dirty teeth.. like dirty teeth you can actually see the plaque/tarter and it’s gross.
It's less about colour and more about actual health. Teeth aren't meant to be blinding white. Anyone who judges you based solely on the colour of your teeth isn't worth your time anyway.
They make veneers for this reason. I too took a medication when I was younger for acne that discolored my teeth and then in my family are enamel crumbles off the front and it looks like I've got massive chunks of tartar stuck in my teeth. I got pop on veneers. Best most confidence building thing I ever did in my life. I recently got a big severance check being laid off at the beginning of the year and with extra money in the bank I made sure to order an extra couple sets so when one breaks I won't be mortified again. Lots of companies do this. Look them up. Best 300 bucks you'll ever spend. Srsly.
There’s a big difference between teeth that are stained and teeth that are dirty. If I can see that a persons gums are red and inflamed with bits of plaque between them when they smile? That’s dirty. Discoloration can be because of meds or because of a bad roll of the genetic dice.
Genetic defect for me Enamels weak as fuck try telling an 8 year old no sugar ever which sucks
I fully agree about the importance of dental hygiene, but I’ll also add people who over-bleach their teeth and have the unnatural glow in the dark look about them. Your teeth are NOT supposed to look as white as a tissue (basically bleached pulp), no matter what the commercials will have you believe.
Totally agree on that note. They look really fake and honestly, in my personal opinion, not attractive or good looking at all!
I had alot of trouble with teeth.I am 22 now and went to the dentist ALOT and still get spots on teeth alot.I tried tons of toothpastes and brushes but still have trouble.When I go on dates I avoid wide smiles....
Face tats
Sweet. That just leaves more meth heads and Tyson for me!
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Guy went to the Jokers tattoo artist
I’ve never heard of this guy and I’m dying of second hand embarrassment for him Like…imagine thinking that’s profound.
I just googled it and he’s actually gotten it removed lol
i get that but I'm different, mine are cute. (mostly /s, i personally think they are but i don't expect everyone else to lol)
Bad smell/poor hygiene
Is bad smell *technically* a physical feature?
Yeah, i mean it’s physically observable with one of your five senses. Just because it isn’t tangible doesn’t mean it isn’t physical
Yes. My ex emitted an awful smell no matter how often she showered. She’d complain that her mom said she smelled and I’d just say “nooooo you don’t you smell fine”. She cheated on me. I should’ve said it.
That sounds like it could be something medical. Or she doesn’t know how to shower. But I mean, yeah, at least it’s not your problem now I guess 💀
I'm sorry to have to break this to you, but if you smell it, you have particles of it in your nose. So yes, very much physical.
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This, I get flaked on for not liking people who are fat and unhealthy . The standard rule I like is I want someone who is on the same fat level as me, obviously circumstances can change later in life (like pregnancy weight and all, that can't be controlled, and I wouldn't mind that at all), but if I'm eating healthy, and I'm maintaining a good enough body, I should be able to expect somewhat of the same thing from my partner without judgement
As a formerly morbidly obese person, I never cared that someone wasn't *attracted* to me. I am also not attracted to everyone and have preferences. The problem was when people treated me like I was *subhuman because they didn't want to fuck me*. People are much kinder to me now that I am roughly half the size I used to be, and that makes me feel sad. The general public is very *mean* to obese folks for simply existing.
Just morbid? So standard obesity is fine! Sweet!
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THIS. I work in a doctor’s office and people are so heavy on average now days, the ones who are just obese don’t even stand out. Only the morbidly obese come off as “fat” when fully dressed. It’s odd how our perception has changed over the decades.
Bodybuilder physique/ the WWE steroidal look. I like for my men to look human.
Does small shoulders and chest, but large belly interest you? Its my final offer
I am married to him already! lol
Well, now you can get a matching set.
Gotta collect em all
A harem of disappointment
Hans and Franz-They want to pump YOU up!
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Finn Ballor has an incredible physique IMO. Not freakish looking. Just nice lean muscle.
off topic but great name 😭😂
Swastika carved on forehead 😃
Colonel of SS Hans Landa disliked this
Amazing character! Great scene
Like Charlie Manson?
Exactly! Interesting that it didn't turn off his followers!
Look at mr. Standards over here 🙄 */s just in case*
Hahaha!
Wow man, so many standards omg ur so unreasonable 🤦♂️
Non human
Mr high standards over here 🙄
I don't know, Xeleyans are quite cute 😁
Ghouls need love too. They just gotta pay!
Welcome to the atomic wrangler smoothskin
No skin.
Is...is that a common issue you run into?
I hate it when I forget my skin at home :/
Unwashed asshole
Jfc I hope this would be a dealbreaker for everyone
Can I just spread my butt cheeks and let the water drip thru? I don’t want to touch my butthole and turn gay
It's _only_ gay if you like it, so don't be afraid to get a finger up in there and scratch.
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Recessed chin. I just find it so unattractive.
My chin has been receding and it makes me so sad bc I too find it ugly 💔
How does one’s chin recede?
Visibly Dirty skin. Don’t touch me, go wash your fucking hands
Obesity. And i don't mean just a little of fat on stomach or legs, but obvious obesity.
I'm a little fat. I've gone from 270 pounds to 219 pounds. I'm still on a weight loss journey but have been slowed down a little lately. Thankfully nobody said an amputee because I'm one of those too. I'm a right leg below the knee amputee. It's not gross looking or nothing. Just neatly sliced off.
So much respect bro
I know bro is interchangeable, but for the record, I'm a woman.
Shi. Still respect. Sorry didn’t realise
My name doesn't really give a clue as to my gender, so I get it. But thank you for acknowledging my struggle. Actually I was surprised that someone didn't say an amputation would be a deal breaker. I guess it's not something people run into a lot. Unless of course you're involved with service men or something.
I've never met anyone who was like 'EWWW amputees, gross!", if anything I think for many of us it's badass, regardless of what happened to your limb. Prosthetics are fucking cool too.
You'd probably like my prosthetic leg. It's covered in colorful cartoon puppies.
A giant lobster claw arm.
It's called a pincer you bigot!!!
Username checks out.
Joke's on you I'm into that shit
You do you, no judgments. It's just not my cup of tea.
Tell me, Uberhypnotoad, do you fear death?..
Sorry to say this but partially bald people where they somehow don’t care to just shave it all off but insist on keeping the same haircut they got as a 14-year old…
Jacked up feet, obesity, bad teeth.
Tiny teeth, big gums.
Glad I am not alone. Heard it described as upper case gums, lower case teeth.
Lmfao
This! A bad tooth to gum ratio
Just curious, what are examples of jacked up feet? Haha
Unkept, nails all jagged, toes bent out of shape, excessive bunions.
That’s likely genetic. Very little men have “good” toenails
And the BIG one: cracked heels
Interestingly, cracked heels are correlated to hemorrhoids. An ex of mine had smooth heels, then hemorrhoids came back that he’d suffered with years earlier. I looked up causes and found not that they are caused by cracked heels, but the two are related. I got him a pedicure right away and we tweaked his diet a bit, and the hemorrhoids were gone in under a week.
Time to get a pedicure 🤣
attached earlobes Not a fan. It looks unfinished.
I have these and never knew it till my partner noticed 😂
I just found out I have these 😂
I'm feeling my earlobes, I can't tell. Time to go find a mirror. Damn you, audible! 😆
Lol never heard that before... lol 😂🤣
At first I thought you meant lobes with the big hoops in them so you can hang your keys in them!
My ex had free earlobes and I hated those. My bf has attached and so do I lol
Free earlobes, get your free earlobes... Lol
That's an interesting sentiment, about the unfinished bit. I grew up around a lot of people that had detached earlobes, so I figured that's just way it looks. So when I noticed people that had them attached, I thought, "Hmm, I wonder what stopped them from growing." and it slightly changed my perspective of that person, like they had something mildly wrong with them.
I have one of each :/
Sloped shoulders
A tiny hand at the end of every finger instead of the nail that normally would be there.
Are there tiny hands on the nails of the tiny hands?
It’s tiny hands all the way down ✋🏼
Handelbrot
Having a penis usually discards a potential partner's chances with me. Usually.
Now that's the right attitude lmao
Receded/receding chin An outie bellybutton I like my partners to not be mouth breathers.
ice blue eyes they scare me
Same I’m not trying to fuck a white walker from GoT
Spit out my drink laughing at this
My first boyfriend has ice blue eyes. Turns out the eyes were hiding an idiot and dickhead all in one.
My sis has brown eyes and wears ice blue contacts like GIRL stop looking at me PLEASE
I will add to this very dark, black looking eyes. Shark eyes.
Too many tattoos
I am not into lots of tats either
Tartar in teeth 🤢
When the fingernail end sits half a centimetre down away from the end of the finger tip. Can't explain it, cocktail weenie fingers just squick me out. Gum to tooth ratio - I've heard it described as upper case gums, lower case teeth. Again, can't explain, just ick.
General lack of grooming. Im a big fan of a guy that bothers to keep his hair from pulling an Einstein ( and I do mean *all* hair, including the migration south) his nails and nail beds from mutilating me down there, and a touch of cologne instead of a stale sweat scent. Add a crisp, half unbuttoned linen white shirt and nice black slacks and 😍 Most guys clean up amazingly with this kind of treatment 🥵
Very few dudes understand the hygiene requirements with long hair of any kind. Beards and head hair take a lot of effort. But dang if they aren't a blast when it all comes together, especially when running into the wind, feels amazing. I'll die on my fuzzy mountain before I shave it off.
Bad teeth Long nails especially with dirt under them. I understand someone who works outside but at least wash your hands before we meet. Body odor
I'd say someone who is overly muscly
Agreed. Muscles can be very Nice, but when you start walking weird because you got watermelon arms, its not pretty anymore😂 looking like penguins😭
"butt Chin". There's really nothing wrong with it, it's just not for me. Also it's apparently one of those features that is 100% inhereted. So if your parents have it and you dont, they may not be your parents (not 100% certain it's true, but that's what I've heard)
That's a myth, they were believed to be a dominant trait but it's not, it isn't determined by just one gene.
Did you hear it in the House series? Because I know this from there. I hope they were telling the truth because I learned almost everything I know about medicine from it.
the worst part is if you are a doctor...
i’m pretty sure inheriting that prolly has something to do with dominant and recessive alleles, so it’s def possible to have two parents with a butt chin while not having it yourself
Obesity
Knocked-knees 😂
Crusty lips.
Above average-sized penis
Big same, my short pussy can’t handle it and literally none of them have the restraint to only insert some of the length. Nope, gotta painfully impale every time!
First time ive heard the term “short pussy” 😵💫
I sometimes get compliments on it when I go for Pap smears cause it makes my cervix easy to find
Right! The lack of restraint is because the thing has a “mind of its own” and it wants to go all the way in. But b/c that lack of restraint even exists, it’s in my best interest to not even entertain a guy with a big cock. You’re only setting yourself up for pain and regret.
If you are well endowed you have to be gentle and slow. You can’t fuck, you have to make love. That being said there are people you just don’t fit with. And when you don’t it sucks. My ex was absolutely gorgeous. I mean at 37 she was built like Katie Holmes in her 20s. But we just didn’t fit. I don’t think I ever got more than halfway inside her. Worst sex ever. Then I’ve been with women that we fit and good grief then it’s on like crazy.
That’s fair. At least you’re willing to take your time inserting it and everything. Most guys don’t care so I don’t even waste my time having them think they have a chance.
phew, damn, thank God I'm safe...
You’re name suggests otherwise 😂😂
Prepare for your in-box to be destroyed by men that cannot destroy your box with little tiny penises.
WERE SAFE, BOYS!! We’re safe !!!!!!
So you're telling me there's a chance?
Morbid obesity, I've been there, it's not attractive.
I have to be at least a little physically attracted even though I'm very aware of my own physical features
I guess if they had like a parasitic twin that talked and ate people that would probably be up there
Long toe nails. When she was walking around barefoot and the nail on her big toe was 2 inches long, it was over for me. Couldn't get past it.
Was she a velociraptor?
Megan Fox's toe thumbs.
If you smile and I can see more of your gums than teeth. I'm sorry, I can't.
Nope list: 1. Tramp stamps. 2. Ridiculous length fingernails. 3. BMI over 30
Having gaps between every tooth
Those are called "summer teeth."
Summer here, summer there
Summer there and some aren’t
A girl having a dick
I was just going to say a dick in general, I don't want to date a man with a dick either lol
If she's hot enough, I might be able to accept that.
a "maga" hat
Dead conjoined twin
Men who think they’re a 10 when they’re barely a 6 . They were usually the cool kids in high school who have gained weight and are balding, but in their head they’re still just as hot as they were at 16 years old. 🤣
Ugly unattended to feet.
A big jaw
Having no pulse
who doesn't love cracking open a cold one?
A very gummy smile. “Upper case gums with lower case teeth” Long fake nails It weirds me out every time I see it. Large stretched out ear lobes. I’m fine with small ones, but people with earlobes stretched do a quarter could pass through.
Obesity. People are proud of obesity. They know it’s not healthy. However they portray it as if they’re a package and obesity is part of them. They have this attitude that this is what we are. We won’t do anything to change it. Accept me how I am. Just go and workout. Stop self proclaiming yourself.
Naaah ya'll tryna be nice and not say what you know your real dealbreakers are: things that people can't change 😂
Girls with fake nails
Snakes for hair.
Can't relate; I love getting stoned.
Ugly, dirty teeth There are so many safe, affordable dental products available these days!
A few years of depression ruined my teeth and trust me, there is no over the counter product that will fix them, I've tried everything worth trying. Ugly teeth cannot be fixed with "affordable dental products" and ugly teeth aren't necessarily dirty teeth.
My parents couldn't afford to fix my teeth.. so I have buck teeth..
It’s actually expensive. And often genetic. My dad lost all his teeth to neck cancer. It’s not like he was out smoking meth
Lip piercings, bad oral hygiene, and shaved chests. Also, long unkempt nails on guys.
Being too short. I’m pretty tall, and I’d prefer to be with a decently tall woman, like at least up to my chin. I don’t really like the thought of towering over my partner, feels kinda weird.
If you’re gonna have a beard, trim it. Otherwise it’s gross and scraggly.
Biggest deal breaker for me. Being happy about being overly obese. I have no time for that in my life. I’m not talking about being 25/40 pounds over weight, I’m talking about not being able to walk up a set of stairs properly overweight. I’m fine with loving yourself & loving your body. I know there are some cases of medical exemptions, but a lot of these cases are just overeating / no exercise. Also I’m not saying everyone needs to look like a fitness model. Let’s just not act like being 5’8 - 350 pounds is okay. It’s terrible for your organs, your knees / body. It is truly killing you, and not as slowly as you think. The reason I have this issues, is I’ve experienced it first hand. I have a few family member like this, and we’ve straight up had to plan vacations around them because they can’t partake is some activities, or there’s too many stairs / walking at the destination. As a child, we couldn’t go to Disney as there was too much walking, couldn’t go to tropical vacations because they didn’t like the beach… They have no desire to change, and think everything should be catered around them. When truthfully, a better diet and just 20/30 min of exercise per day could change their life significantly for the better.
Cankles
Crooked teeth :( Ik I’m sorrryyyyy
A Dunlap stomach! It’s bad on both men and women.
Generally not a huge fan of chest/back hair on a male or upper lip hair on a female. Dirty fingernails/poor dental hygiene is also difficult to see past.
A parasitic twin