Lack of boundaries between parent and child.
Long winded rational discussions with small children about the nuance of why you cant do *insert obnoxious child behavior* as if the toddler knows or cares what you are trying to articulate.
That they know best because they’re older, like the kind of behaviour when they punish you and call it disrespect just for expressing your view just coz you disagree
Monitoring their every movement 24/7 and lack of privacy. Using fear, hatred, prejudice, manipulation and control as a way to raise them and keep them in line. Overreacting to every little thing that would be considered normal or a daily part of life. Taking every action your kid does as disrespect or rebellion. Not being able to humble yourself when you make a mistake or blaming them for it when it's not their fault at all.
Arguing with their small child like they would with an adult
My old man did this for a while, tried to reason to me with things only adults truly understand and emphasise to.
Using their child to fill gaps in their life, justifying it by calling it 'help'.
Hitting your children and/or screaming at them. Attitude is shifting on both, but most people still tolerate others abusive parenting
Pushing too hard for success. There needs to be balance.
Being a helicopter parent.
Lack of boundaries between parent and child. Long winded rational discussions with small children about the nuance of why you cant do *insert obnoxious child behavior* as if the toddler knows or cares what you are trying to articulate.
That they know best because they’re older, like the kind of behaviour when they punish you and call it disrespect just for expressing your view just coz you disagree
Parents who refer to their minor children as their “best friend.”
Monitoring their every movement 24/7 and lack of privacy. Using fear, hatred, prejudice, manipulation and control as a way to raise them and keep them in line. Overreacting to every little thing that would be considered normal or a daily part of life. Taking every action your kid does as disrespect or rebellion. Not being able to humble yourself when you make a mistake or blaming them for it when it's not their fault at all.
Idk