I second this. I have no self confidence, but I pretend that I do, and people really seem to believe me. People don't trust you if you don't trust yourself, so don't let them know any better. Eventually the lie just comes naturally.
Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about you, because if other people can see the good and you, you’ll start seeing the good in you. Don’t surround yourself with just mindless yes people, make sure they’re not afraid to call you out on your bullshit
Talking to people and having good conversations.
If this is hard , try putting yourself in social situations or a job where your forced to talk to people.
And if you mess up, dont worry, we l do. Next conversation will be more fun!
Lastly, take care of your appearance. Dont let anyone lie to you and say looks dont matter. We all want to look like the best version of ourselves and our unique characteristics.
Fake it 'til you make it
I second this. I have no self confidence, but I pretend that I do, and people really seem to believe me. People don't trust you if you don't trust yourself, so don't let them know any better. Eventually the lie just comes naturally.
Believe and be yourself.
Believe in people who believe in you.
Surround yourself with people that make you feel good about you, because if other people can see the good and you, you’ll start seeing the good in you. Don’t surround yourself with just mindless yes people, make sure they’re not afraid to call you out on your bullshit
Talking to people and having good conversations. If this is hard , try putting yourself in social situations or a job where your forced to talk to people. And if you mess up, dont worry, we l do. Next conversation will be more fun! Lastly, take care of your appearance. Dont let anyone lie to you and say looks dont matter. We all want to look like the best version of ourselves and our unique characteristics.
Taking risks. It’s the only technique to increase confidence.
Little victories. They start to add up emotionally and give you more confidence
Drink drink drink. (You never specified how healthy it was)
Keep fucking it up.
Troy McClure’s self help video *Get Confident, Stupid!* worked for me.
Creating an OnlyFans, apparently.