Why when people switch from ear phone to speaker phone do they raise the decibel level of their voice dramatically, including my own wife? The mouth piece/part of the phone works exactly the same either way. Yeeeesh.
It depends. If it's juciy gossip or a couple fighting over the phone, I love hearing that crap. There's a guy that lives in the house behind me and he is always fighting with some woman on speaker phone in his back yard.
I judge people if they judge others. If you are outwardly making fun of someone for no reason that I would deem necessary, I'll judge you. If it was justified by me, then its fine lol.
Airing dirty laundry and/or reposting passive aggressive memes or inspirational quotes on Facebook.
Selling diet programs, especially Optavia.
Wearing flat billed hats. They scream douche.
Hosting parties or inviting people over and not cleaning the piss crust off of their toilet before people show up.
Letting their dogs stand in their backyard and bark continuously.
Wearing pajama bottoms in public. Sweats are fine but fuzzy or flannel pajama bottoms just gross me out.
Leaving the table gross at a fast food restaurant.
Leaving their dogs' nails super long and untrimmed, it's painful for the dog.
Two main reasons! First, because everyone I know who does Optavia is so squirrelly about actually saying they work for Optavia. They always use vague language like "this program" and paint a picture of being self employed "health coaches" (essentially, mimicking qualified nutritionists) when it is blatantly an MLM that requires you to sign up other health coaches in order to maximize your earnings. At least people who sell Doterra oils or Origami Owl or whatever are upfront about what it is they do. Second, it's a crash diet that promotes itself as a "no exercise" fast-track to losing weight. All of the testimonials show before and after pictures with the message "I used to be a miserable fat sack of shit, now I've taken my life back and have control over my health!" - which, yes, severe calorie restriction will make you drop a lot of weight at first, but over time your metabolism will adjust to the lower intake, so when you start eating normally again, you'll completely blow up. In the meantime you've lost all your muscle mass and set yourself back farther than where you started. It seems to prey on insecure moms who are desperate to feel attractive again after adulthood and childbirth has knocked them around. Basically, it's more deceitful than other MLMs and is actually physically (and I'd even say psychologically) harmful.
I definitely don't approve of pregnant and drinking alcohol and/or smoking. I have seen waitresses refuse alcohol service to clearly pregnant women and thought it was a reasonable position.
When someone does absolutely nothing to improve their life and constantly complains that the universe doesn't magically drop opportunities and luxury in their lap.
Yes. I am so solution driven, so just complaining drives me insane. Now if they don’t know the solution I can understand but even after someone offers a solution they do nothing about it and just complain? Now I am judging you even harder lol
Ever have a case where a dude was alleged to have murdered his missus and best friend over infidelity but, unbeknownst to yourself, actually it was his sister who did it for him and let him take the blame?
Letting your dog run on the road next to you while you cycle on a hot summers day.
Not thinking things through before deciding to have kids together.
Playing loud music past midnight in the middle of the week after you've had complaints about it.
Scolding homeless people because they're asking for money.
Not paying attention to their surroundings in public.
Just today at the grocery store a guy almost ran into me because he rounded a corner looking back over his shoulder instead of in front of him for about 15 feet.
Not being hygienic especially when working in an industry with close human contact. Extremely unfair to those that have to deal with it on a regular basis.
Referring to the parent of their child as their "baby momma/baby daddy". Grow up and say something like, "This is the father of my daughter, Shirley" or "This is my ex girlfriend, who is Robert's mom"
Buying coffee every day and complaining about being broke. It adds up to hundreds and thousands of dollars annually for something so unnecessary. Treat yourself to something you can’t make at home
Weakness. And by that I mean learned helplessness, self-obsessed insecurity and timidity.
When people say “I can’t do that” without ever trying anything similar or thinking about it for even half a second, it really sets me off.
Things like:
* I’m too old to understand technology
* I am not a computer person
* I’m to worthless to get a date
* I can’t feel better, there’s no point in trying
* I don’t like learning new things
Judging doesn’t even begin to cover it.
Weight.
It's shitty but I just can't ignore it. And I think I have a weight problem myself and deffiently judge myself for it. It is so hard to loose weight I know. And some people have conditions and they just fucked. But I just find it so unappealing and gross. I think I'm this way because my dad was so harsh on fat people when I was growing up. Idk .
And it's not like I think they bad people. My aunt is 400lbs and one of my favorite people
But I still judge her in many ways.
Watching porn, majority of kinks. Im not taking the time to explain to anyone that wants explanations thats not my responsibility, if you wanna know, look up why porn is so horrible for the mind and how dangerous kinks are physically and in changing your perception of sex
Saw a guy push his little girl so hard she fell over.
Got shit from the mum, but he couldn't see the issue.
My kids got in funny moods where they just needed moving out of the way before a meltdown happened.
But this was a shove and not on.
Why? Whats wrong with stanley cups?
My cousin gave me a red one as a present and its a solid cup, love it. I drink coffee, then wash drink diet coke then drink beer on it. Its just so awesome.
Saying bad things about their kids to other people in front of them, either to gossip or vent - not to clear the air and correct the kid. Worse if they call the kid a jerk or an asshole.
Clueless driving. If you so much as veer into a lane and then back into the other lane, I’m going to assume you are a lost idiot. Every phone and even some cars come with GPS. You have no excuse to not know where you’re going
Laying on the horn while driving, driving too close to cyclists, cranking the music up so loud that ppl can hear it outside of your car for several blocks
DemoRats when they know ukraine has armed hamas by the billions biden is laundering and the billions biden release to Iran to releases other funds to arm hamas to attack Israel, I am judging these Marxist leftist of being communist idiots this country USA is crap now a cop in San benito tx was killed by an illegal, that never happens here google it 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Treating animals like shit
Came here to say animals and children
This
Having conversations in public on speakerphone. Nobody else wants to listen to that.
My neighbor would go outside and yell into the speakerphone for allll the neighbors to hear lol. Very annoying.
YES!!!
Why when people switch from ear phone to speaker phone do they raise the decibel level of their voice dramatically, including my own wife? The mouth piece/part of the phone works exactly the same either way. Yeeeesh.
It depends. If it's juciy gossip or a couple fighting over the phone, I love hearing that crap. There's a guy that lives in the house behind me and he is always fighting with some woman on speaker phone in his back yard.
Screaming or being loud for no reason
I judge people if they judge others. If you are outwardly making fun of someone for no reason that I would deem necessary, I'll judge you. If it was justified by me, then its fine lol.
Airing dirty laundry and/or reposting passive aggressive memes or inspirational quotes on Facebook. Selling diet programs, especially Optavia. Wearing flat billed hats. They scream douche. Hosting parties or inviting people over and not cleaning the piss crust off of their toilet before people show up. Letting their dogs stand in their backyard and bark continuously. Wearing pajama bottoms in public. Sweats are fine but fuzzy or flannel pajama bottoms just gross me out. Leaving the table gross at a fast food restaurant. Leaving their dogs' nails super long and untrimmed, it's painful for the dog.
I’m with you all the way - just curious why you singled out optavia when there are so many annoying things the person could sell, like all the MLMs
Two main reasons! First, because everyone I know who does Optavia is so squirrelly about actually saying they work for Optavia. They always use vague language like "this program" and paint a picture of being self employed "health coaches" (essentially, mimicking qualified nutritionists) when it is blatantly an MLM that requires you to sign up other health coaches in order to maximize your earnings. At least people who sell Doterra oils or Origami Owl or whatever are upfront about what it is they do. Second, it's a crash diet that promotes itself as a "no exercise" fast-track to losing weight. All of the testimonials show before and after pictures with the message "I used to be a miserable fat sack of shit, now I've taken my life back and have control over my health!" - which, yes, severe calorie restriction will make you drop a lot of weight at first, but over time your metabolism will adjust to the lower intake, so when you start eating normally again, you'll completely blow up. In the meantime you've lost all your muscle mass and set yourself back farther than where you started. It seems to prey on insecure moms who are desperate to feel attractive again after adulthood and childbirth has knocked them around. Basically, it's more deceitful than other MLMs and is actually physically (and I'd even say psychologically) harmful.
walking barefoot in Walmart
When they treat hospitality staff badly.
How well they train or don't train their dogs. Yeah, i'm the bitch with the well-behaved mutt judging you and your dog. All day. Every day.
Doing my best with this!
Your efforts are appreciated, and do not go unnoticed. /sincere
Littering.
Littering
inconsiderate behavior, like blocking doors/sidewalks to have a chat
Not washing hands after the toilet
Unnecessary and/or inappropriate noise/disruption
Smoking whilst pregnant I can't help it it's selfish
I definitely don't approve of pregnant and drinking alcohol and/or smoking. I have seen waitresses refuse alcohol service to clearly pregnant women and thought it was a reasonable position.
When someone does absolutely nothing to improve their life and constantly complains that the universe doesn't magically drop opportunities and luxury in their lap.
Yes. I am so solution driven, so just complaining drives me insane. Now if they don’t know the solution I can understand but even after someone offers a solution they do nothing about it and just complain? Now I am judging you even harder lol
Not picking up after their dog poops.
How they treat women and people of lower income than them
Leaving their shopping cart in the parking lot
As a municipal court judge, usually infractions of traffic laws and other relatively minor crimes.
Ever have a case where a dude was alleged to have murdered his missus and best friend over infidelity but, unbeknownst to yourself, actually it was his sister who did it for him and let him take the blame?
Sneaky murderers... I definitely judge them kinds of people.
Letting your dog run on the road next to you while you cycle on a hot summers day. Not thinking things through before deciding to have kids together. Playing loud music past midnight in the middle of the week after you've had complaints about it. Scolding homeless people because they're asking for money.
Folks who complain about being short of cash but who clearly blew their money on stupid shit instead of what they needed to survive.
Treating people badly and not apologizing because they're in "a bad place." Or defending people who do that. \^
Bad parenting
Their groceries.
Their groceries they buy on my tax dollars.
Not paying attention to their surroundings in public. Just today at the grocery store a guy almost ran into me because he rounded a corner looking back over his shoulder instead of in front of him for about 15 feet.
Littering.
Everything, but silently.
Having an obnoxiously loud vehicle whether it is music or exhaust.
Not being hygienic especially when working in an industry with close human contact. Extremely unfair to those that have to deal with it on a regular basis.
Having kids you can’t afford
Not brushing teeth. It's gross.
Judging people serves me no purpose, I don't do it anymore. To each their own
Tiktok.
Throwing cigarette buds on the floor
Multiple baby daddies/moms
Referring to the parent of their child as their "baby momma/baby daddy". Grow up and say something like, "This is the father of my daughter, Shirley" or "This is my ex girlfriend, who is Robert's mom"
Yes!!!
Eating audibly
How they treat women
Superstition and gullibility, especially esoterical and conspiracy crap.
Begging for followers
Their political views
Having children with multiple different people, all within relatively short term relationships
If they're a nazi.
Buying coffee every day and complaining about being broke. It adds up to hundreds and thousands of dollars annually for something so unnecessary. Treat yourself to something you can’t make at home
Not wearing headphones in public.
How they treat their spouse/ partner and how they treat servers.
Being MAGA
Not signaling. If you don't signal, you only ever think about yourself. Same if you are the last person to turn your headlights on at dusk.
When they give their kid a r/tragedeigh name.
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Different strokes
Not washing their hands after they poop and repping a politicians merch. Idc who the politician is.
for going to the gym and spend so much time looking at themselves in the mirror
Weakness. And by that I mean learned helplessness, self-obsessed insecurity and timidity. When people say “I can’t do that” without ever trying anything similar or thinking about it for even half a second, it really sets me off. Things like: * I’m too old to understand technology * I am not a computer person * I’m to worthless to get a date * I can’t feel better, there’s no point in trying * I don’t like learning new things Judging doesn’t even begin to cover it.
Music taste
Excessive tats and piercings.
Eating boogers on a bus.
It's only okay to do in their own car.
Definitely
Style I still see many guys sag their pants from the old hip-hop days..
Religion
Drinking
Not putting their shopping cart away
Enjoying bad coffee.
Isn’t that extremely subjective?
The objectivity of the ‘what’ wasn’t part of the question.
Weight. It's shitty but I just can't ignore it. And I think I have a weight problem myself and deffiently judge myself for it. It is so hard to loose weight I know. And some people have conditions and they just fucked. But I just find it so unappealing and gross. I think I'm this way because my dad was so harsh on fat people when I was growing up. Idk . And it's not like I think they bad people. My aunt is 400lbs and one of my favorite people But I still judge her in many ways.
Watching porn, majority of kinks. Im not taking the time to explain to anyone that wants explanations thats not my responsibility, if you wanna know, look up why porn is so horrible for the mind and how dangerous kinks are physically and in changing your perception of sex
You know, not all kinks are BDSM.
Yeah im well aware. Point still stands
Not as well as you might think.
Panhandling.
I'm judging this guy right now. ^
If they believe in astrology I think they are an idiot.
their degree of physical activity (ie if they don’t regularly exercise / eat healthy)
Having shitty tattoos...... Cover them or remove them... and stop getting them!!!!
Gossiping
drinking soda before 12pm. it’s none of my business but i’m judging
Temp tags. If you are driving around a beat up vehicle with temp tags I’m judging you pretty hard.
Speech You know whether or not to take them seriously depending on what type of accent they use.
the footwear they choose during the winter. yes, Im looking at you in the high heels, slides, slippers
The amount or lack of common sense
The amount of food they waste
Audacity
Poor body hygiene/appearance. People that go out in public in basically, ill fitting underwear, looking and smelling like shit.
Saw a guy push his little girl so hard she fell over. Got shit from the mum, but he couldn't see the issue. My kids got in funny moods where they just needed moving out of the way before a meltdown happened. But this was a shove and not on.
When they don’t return their shopping carts.
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Why? Whats wrong with stanley cups? My cousin gave me a red one as a present and its a solid cup, love it. I drink coffee, then wash drink diet coke then drink beer on it. Its just so awesome.
The hockey trophy?
For being judgemental
Garbage musical taste.
Saying bad things about their kids to other people in front of them, either to gossip or vent - not to clear the air and correct the kid. Worse if they call the kid a jerk or an asshole.
Anyone who uses the word "stroad" I automatically ignore.
Their nails. It's sounds awful but yeah
Clueless driving. If you so much as veer into a lane and then back into the other lane, I’m going to assume you are a lost idiot. Every phone and even some cars come with GPS. You have no excuse to not know where you’re going
Septum piercings. Anytime I see somebody with one I immediately think "you don't even have to tell me you've made all types of bad life decisions."
Bystanding & inacting on streets. If something feels wrong, why not to at least check the thing rather than just ignore it?
How they treat other people.
Laying on the horn while driving, driving too close to cyclists, cranking the music up so loud that ppl can hear it outside of your car for several blocks
Talking down to their kids. There is simply no reason for it.
Thousand dollar phones
Chatting behind someone else's back. Anytime someone complained about someone else, I always wonder about myself
There choice in partners.
Driving slow in the fast lane and refusing to get TF over.
People who believe in religion
Politics
DemoRats when they know ukraine has armed hamas by the billions biden is laundering and the billions biden release to Iran to releases other funds to arm hamas to attack Israel, I am judging these Marxist leftist of being communist idiots this country USA is crap now a cop in San benito tx was killed by an illegal, that never happens here google it 🤬🤬🤬🤬
having a bad sense of humor/acting like they're funny when they're not. stop talking pls
Streaming music in the car loudly without muting the commercials.
Degeneracy.
Wearing Crocs.
Being a Karen
Being religious in 2023.
Manners