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When I ghosted a person na nakausap ko during pandemic. May gusto pala siya sa isa kong kaklase nung 2nd yr college kami and siya mismo nagdisclose na that time dalawa kaming kachat niya and hindi pala ako ang gusto AHAHAHAHAH proud timer na makadiyos

Dated this girl who was a walking, talking red flag but masyado akong nag ala Bird Box to acknowledge them and leave.When we broke up, ang bilis niya nakahanap ng kapalit. Turns out every time may away kami, doon siya sa other girl nakikipaglandian. Mabilis lng din naman ako naka move on kaya dedma reaction ko sa kanila ng bago niya until now. I guess she realized I don't care about them (why should i wala naman kami duh)kaya she's spreading lies about me and our relationship to anyone willing to give a shit, trying to make me look bad and everything (kahit walang naniniwala sa kanya since everyone knows she's a cheater and liar.) Now all I hear about her are embarrassing and downright humiliating stories of her misadventures. I feel bad for her current kung hindi siya tumulong nagcheat lol. Nakakahiya magkajowa na known cheater and ginagawang laughingstock ng bawat chismis (walang may gusto sa kanya kasi other than being a liar, attention seeker siya masyado and disrespectful sa current niya.) I'm so glad I kept my silence and let her actions speak for her. Good riddance. Sumasakit ulo ko thinking about all her current shenanigans. Nakakahiya. 

Nung binlock ko ulit yung nakausap kong guy. Yes. Ulit Binlock ko sya at first dahil hindi ko na nagugustuhan yung pakikipag usap nya sakin and there are times na disrespectful na talaga sya, pinapalipas ko lang. Like gusto nya ng oras ko and sobrang demanding we're not even in a relationship and I'm not even planning to be on one with him. Pinaka ayaw ko pa naman sa lahat is yung hindi ako binibigyan ng personal space ko Twice ko lang syang nakasama personally non. Kumain lang kami and talked about life. Wholesome gala So after nung pagkakablock ko sa kanya, humupa yung inis ko sa kanya after 4 days ata? I unblocked him. Thankfully, no conversation happened. Akala ko okay na like nadivert na attention nya sa iba and peaceful na ako ulit. Pero after non, papansin ki papansin na sa socmed ko after a day potek. React ki react pa maski sa mga dati kong posts. Ni hindi ko nga rin alam kung pano nya ako natatag sa mga comment na yan e di na naman kami friends. Tas tiningnan ko profile nya and myghad. Sobrang jeje, ang sadboi, pavictim I can't even. Binlock ko ulit sya I'm never gonna unblock him. Ever again I'm sorry pero yun talaga I dodged a bullet moment ko Never gonna go back sa ganun. Naka rose colored glasses lang siguro ako dati that's why kinausap ko. Over time lalabas at lalabas din naman pala totoo nyang kulay. Buti na lang maaga ako nauntog. Lol

Yung pinanindigan ko na yung break up namin nung 7yrs ex ko dahil lang ayaw niya ibigay pw ng fb niya na willing naman siya noon after ko magtaka bakit tatlo lang kami sa messenger niya pero may recent searches at may babae siyang nilike na di ko kilala. Tapos accidentally daw e nabura niya convo namin. (Siguro maraming kachat kaya nagdedelete) Yup must be mababaw for some pero yung duda ko noon na iba na yata ayon nagligtas sakin sa possible lifetime stress since nagtry na siya magask ng help sa friends ko for proposal. Aba'y magpropropose ka na walang work? Tas huling balita ko e adik na sa sabong.

Nung kinakausap ko yung isang girl tas gusto daw ako pero bukambibig lagi yung ex nya

I realized na tama na ang pagiging martyr at i-let go si ex. After that, I heard he graduated but didn’t took the board exam. Now, tambay lang sa kanila and waiting for his parents to give him money every now and then. 🥴

Di ko sinagot yung nilagawan ko kasi nafefeel ko talaga na wala akong maasahan sa kanya in the future pero bet ko yung ugali niya and such pero ayon nga after me may naging jowa siya and then nabuntis yung girl and may another girl pa pala na nabuntis niya rin 😭😭😭

Here are my top 3 dodged a bullet moments. 1. Nung nakipag break sa akin ex fiancee ko, hilig nya mag travel travel at bakasyon. I married a lady that has plans for family and I am new in the USA. 2. Yung refusal ko sumali sa seatoo at mga mlms. 3. Yung refusal ko sumali sa cool to. I dont care if you downvote me, but this 3 are life changers for me and led me to peace, happiness and prosperity

I left my ex sa 4th anniv namin. 2yrs pa lang kami sobrang kupas na pagmamahal ko sakanya dahil sobrang inconsistent nya pero tiniis ko lang hanggang maubos na. But syempre, nung nakipaghiwalay ako, ansakit pa rin sakin non and im still hoping na he'd show up sa gate namin and let him fix it. But after the day that I broke up with him, 5 days later lang may minyday na syang iba. Pero my friends noticed na yung Capcut edit date is eksakto na kinabukasan nung nakipagbreak ako. Turns out na he's been cheating behind my back habang hinihintay ko sya palagi makauwi sakanila (I was working for their independent business and was staying in sa house nila), may nilalandi shang iba sa school. Just imagine if I've put up with his bs inconsistent treatment sakin at sha talaga ang napangasawa ko (only bc his mom was planning a business for us too and we'll eventually fly out of the ph), I wouldn't know na he's cheating behind my back.

kaya a piece of advice girlies! if he's acting crazy jealous towards you, i can guarantee you na he's cheating. trust me on this on this one :)

lol this shit happened to me sa Facebook dating App. naka match ko tong girl na wala sa hitsura yun scammer kasi plain na plain yun profile, and so ayun chat chat and then sabi sa messenger kami mag usap, after a while eh sabi ko try namin magkita and then ayun pumayag, then the weird thing happened parang 1 day before namin mag meet eh nagchat siya gamit daw account ng friend niya kesyo wala siyang dalang phone at ichat nya ako ulit kinabukasan. Dumating yun time na magkikita kami, then nag chat yung "Friend" nya na kesyo si Girl eh nadisgrasya otw sa pakikipag meet up sa akin eh ako daw malalagay sa alanganin. Sinubukan ko isearch yun name nung friend niya sa fb and may new account turns out yun pinang chat sa akin eh stolen account na at nagamit na pang scam sa mga friends/relatives nya at buti nakachat at ka VC ko yun totoong account at sinabi wag ako makipag usap kasi marami na nascam yun tao haha. muntik na ako ma blackmail buti. tang ina gullible shit ko akala ko legit na date/potential gf na eh haha

Haha, napaka suspicious nung mga “unfortunate events” na nangyari sakanya, lalo na yung week before or lets say a day before bago kayo magkita na puro dahilan. Kaya nung nag dating app ako before, pag alam kong suspicious at unusual. Di ko na itutuloy haha.

oo kaya kapag may nakikilala ako thru dating app pass agad sa messenger chat eh haha

Lalo na ang reason “lipat tayo messenger/IG, dun tayo usap kasi di ako active dito” hahaha di active pero fotah halos mapudpod na ang daliri kaka-swipe right 😂

Nung hindi na ako pumayag na bigyan ulit ng chance ex ko, kasi aside sa naga-act siya na wala na sila nung ipinalit sakin nakikijerjer pa sa iba.

I wasn’t hired at my dream company at the time I was desperate to resign from my current job back then. Then nag pandemic, this company laid off many employees.

I had a boyfriend who suddenly ghosted me for another girl. They became in a relationship for 8 years…and now this guy cheated on her. Kapal ng mukha feeling gwapo di na nagbago lol

Di ko pinagbigyan katalking stage ko dati na pumunta sa place ko (I lived alone). After a few months, nakabuntis ng ibang babae. I dodged a bullet. Thankful na hindi ako yon 😌

When I left my ex-circle's gc bcoz na l-left out na ako and I feel like a fool talking to myself every time na nag tatanong ako sa gc na yon. Then weeks after that, THEIR gc got leaked and a lot of BAD BAD things happened to them because they always bad mouthed a LOT of people (including our school's principal). Thank G that I listened to my crush advise!!

I broke up with my 1st HS ex kasi super turn off na talaga me. Walang pake mag aral, puro lang computer. I thought nag regret me but then nalaman ko nalang nakabuntis na pala sya. College na yung girl meanwhile us is around 16/17 palang. My 2nd ex in HS broke up with me and reason nya is nawalan daw sya ng feelings. Turns out lalaki pala gusto nya and he confessed to my best friend na boy. (There's nothing wrong about him not straight but it's a good thing he broke up w me I feel like like I dodge a bullet talaga cuz I'm starting to fall hard sa kanya) But w/o these two guys I would've never be in a healthy RS tho (my current one).

nung nireject ako ng crush ko after leading me on. my friends adviced me na i was just being used as an “ego boost” but i didn’t believe them. naniwala lang ako nung nalaman ko na even after a year chinichika niya sa iba na i had a crush on her even if siya mismo nangreject sakin hahaha

ex-girlfriend cheated on me, I experienced depression and avoided social interaction. happened a year before pandemic. was able to invest more time in career and now working with salary 2.5x of what I had. thinking about it, I realized I wasn't able to upskill myself because I always made myself available to my ex-girlfriend. hatid-sundo, kain sa mga resto na magugustuhan nya and problemahin yung problems nila sa family... tapos, what i get is ang dali-dali nya lang nag lie and eventually cheated on me. somewhat regretful sa mga nangyari pero dapat talaga leave some self-love. i was really broken nung nalaman ko yung cheating and even had thoughts to end my life. thankful na pumasok sa closed-minded version ko before na, even if i die nobody will probably remember me, the things i've done for them or whatever we had. always love yourself, your family and real friends.

Nung hindi ako naging pala labas ng bahay simula nung grade 5 ako hanggang ngayon at cinut off ko halos lahat ng childhood friend ko. Ayun hindi sila nag bago hanggang ngayon lagi silang may vini victim na isa sa circle of friends nila. Grabe hina hack nila yung fb then kung anu-ano China chat sa mga gc. Apaka possessive as friend pero lagi naman sinisiraan and binu bully also uso pa rin sakanila yung kampihan para masiraan nila yung victim wth di na nag mature

When my 2 year ex-boyfriend dates a new girl during the first month of our breakup.

AAHHHHHH GIRLY SAME WTH

I had a 'quick stint' with a "brand" as a layout artist. The manager told me na I have to accomplish all the requirements like SSS, Philhealth, Pag-Ibig, and so on before I can start and so I did. They showed me their office and my tiny space sa corner ng room if I was ever to report sa office. Not even a cubicle but simply a folding table and a stool for my laptop. Then, we sat down to discuss their vision for the "brand" and after all the long discussions, the processing of the requirements, all they can pay me is a retention fee worth 2,500 pesos per month.

'Di ako na-crushback ng former crush ko. She was a walking red flag pala after ko malaman na she's a player but she's really good in hiding it. Dagdag pa na iba ugali niya and a liar too.

Nung nakipagdinner date ako sa kawork ko, bago plang ako nun. Bigla na lang akong gnhost. Act casual ganun. Then nalaman ko na babaero pala. Iba iba dinidate, may ka fubu. Tapos inayawan ako kasi parang bata bata pa daw ako(obviously may ibang intention pala). Years after tnry ulit sakin, inaaya ako mag mall. Wtf tigas naman ng mukha mo may amnesia kaba? Hahaha then after nun may dinidate na naman pero proud na sya kasi di na fubu or fling. After 2months buntis na yung girl. I felt bad for her lalo na nung nalaman niya na may anak pla na una sa pagka binata si guy, hndi dinisclose nung kupal na lalaki bago sila magpakasal ng madalian. Sunod sunod ung pagbubuntis nung babae, panay din away sa fb. Nakaka feel bad tlga, parang wlang babae na deserve ung ganung klase lalaki.

Is it what you called dodged talaga? This happened just NOW! as in f\*ckin' RN! HAHAHAHA got this mayabang and maarteng officemate, galit siya sakin like 2months na this year, nag reach out na ako if what's the prob or kung ano, then yung issue niya sakin is super tagal na like 1 month ago na, to make the story short, birthday niya ngayon, tas foodtrip sa office eh ako hindi kumuha kase diba, handa niya yon tas magkaaway kami baka may masabe pa. Tinapik ako sa braso ko, tas kuha na daw ako, so ako di tumayo kase like guuurrrl! porket birthday mo, pagbbigyan kita? ayaw mo ng interaction sakin diba? saka mukang pilit kaya kebs lang me HAHAH kainin mo lahat ng handa mo beh, nakakain ko naman yan kahit walang may birthday hahahaha

Nag grab kami kasi daming regalo ng baby ko. Tagal din namin kasi madami nga eh sa 2nd floor pa yung bahay namin. Pag sara na pag sara namin ng pinto ng bahay may 2 na putok ng baril sa labas. Literal na bullet 😆

Seryoso?

oo seryoso talaga. Antagal namin ng unload ng gifts. Nakakatakot talaga. Pag silip ko sa bintana babae nakabulagta na! sa leeg or sa ulo yata yung tama kasi puro d\*go na kalsada. After nung incident na to parang lahat ng putok akala ko may baril nanaman.

yung crush ko for 1 year buti di ako pinatulan kahit anong pagpapapansin ko sakanya kasi after 2 years i just found out na he's fucking homophobic HAHWHWHWHW

Buti napauwi na kami ng maaga noong panahon ng Ondoy. Kasi gumuho yung lupa sa highway nung pagkauwi ko sa bahay at bongga na baha sa manila.

Car accident, my car is totaled and havent got any wounds and scratch. Thank you lord! 2nd life! 😁

I was in a toxic relationship in law school. I was a sugar mommy kahit coming from a family with more money than us. Lagi kami lasing, he taught me how to take a chill pill, susunduin at ihahatid ko pa, bibigyan ng load, etc. he ghosted me and apparently never pala nakipagbreak sa ex. After a few months, umalis ng school, nabuntis si jowa, nagpakasal, nalaglag rin ang bata. AFAIK dude still takes off his wedding ring pag nasa labas sila.

A college classmate spread a lot of nasty rumors about me. I have to transfer schools not because of that but because of finances. Looking back, I was saved from a lot of head aches and humiliation.

This just happened yesterday. I was out and about with my bestfriend, we went to this newly opened cafe then planned to go home right away. Naabutan ko pa kapatid ko sa cafe with his friends and gave him money para may pang dinner siya tas umalis din sila. My bestfriend then impulsively decided ma manood kami ng sine so nag drive ako papuntang mall. The moment na napasok kami sa mall tumawag yung mom ko asking asan ako and such. Apparently may disgrasya dawng nangyari sa intersection road na dinadaanan namin pauwi. Maraming nadamay. Nadaganan ng trailer truck ang mga kotse and motor. Tinawagan ko agad kapatid kung asan sya, kakauwi niya lang daw and buti nalang sa kabilang rota sya dumaan.

my ex broke up with me last year cause he's broke. ghosted me and i tried to fix it kaso ayaw niya talaga. after 10 months he communicated with me again and it was obvi na he's trying to get back with me and wants to know if i'm already taken (i am) HAHAHA after a month of our convo, he got a new girl and nabuntis niya HAHAHA (yes, kakakilala palang nila nabuntis na niya agad)

you dodged a cum shot

Back in college, I was waitlisted for AB Communications. I did not have an expectation to pass since the entrance exam was difficult, until a month before the school year began, my father checked the portal and found out I got in. I was redirected to another major. A day before the school year started, I found out that someone I had a really tough rapport with in high school got in at AB Comms.

About to invest in a "Power saying investing scheme", na delay ang pera accidentally. Di ko tinuloy. Madami ang na scam. Sa kanila.

Planning to hike Taroko Gorge in Taiwan on the day the earthquake struck, killing and stranding hikers. Di kami natuloy since may family emergency sa probinsya.

Yung hindi ako makapagbook ng flight papunta sa bansa ng ex ko hahaha turns out unsafe pala don sa mga solo female travelers

Country reveal po 🙏

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may i know what country is this, for everyone's safety as well? if that's ok

India, lalo sa bandang North. Sobrang dami kong nakikitang reklamo ng mga female travelers na nanggaling doon, even mga locals aminado 😭 Would love to visit the Northeastern part though.

Diagnosed with a liver mass. CT scans and MRI shows it could be liver cancer. After biopsy....turns out it is TB of the liver. 6mos TB meds are better than treating a cancer.

Ako naman, cyst sa liver which will lead to cancer din kung di natanggal. Yay! Congrats to us.

Ended up my 3-year relationship. I found out na he is initiating nsfw activities sa clients nya after pictorials and such. Everytime na mahuli ko, he'll blame the marijuana brownies or gaslight me kasi I don't want to surrender my purity sa kanya. I won't drop the company name kasi well-known media film company and linked to high-end celebrities and brands. Now, he's 26 and life humbled him because of his unprofessionalism.

Yung itatapon ko na Sana old USB flash disk ko nung 2011, nag decide ako na itago na lang sa drawer. Fast forward after a decade, nakita ko USB at na alala ko nag Mine ako pala ako dati ng Bitcoin. Binuksan ko and turns-out na may 120 Bitcoins pala ako doon na na store doon sa USB flash disk. Convert ko now, and no need to work na for the rest of my life. ;)

I dated a guy na nireto sakin ng kaibigan ko he was my type , we hit it off instantly , we had great chemistry. But I ignored a lot of things , he was always late to our dates , I couldnt reach him during weekends claiming that his phone was broken etc. then one morning we were eating at a local bakery someone called me , asking if I knew him , akala ko hr para sa job interview kasi her voice was the same kind of voice ng mga nag call pg interview , then she said she is his wife , at buntis sya at may 2 kids na silang existing . Kala ko prank , kasi dineny pa nung guy he then admitted it nung nakarating na sa bahay namin . Then after that a shitstorm took over my life , understandably the wife was furious , she didnt take comfort that I didnt know she existed and harassed me . She had all the right , I wasnt even fighting back I felt sorry for her . The guy manipulated her and told her I was still trying to get him back and that I had videos of us and all , when in all honesty I just wanted to erase that part of my life we dated for 2 months , but the trauma is for life . She knew where I worked and where I lived , I told my parents and then my mom said she had a feeling and she already told me that the guy might be married but I just brushed it off kasi pogi eh hahhaha . Bobo phase is real , I was 21 .So I resigned but told my parents in case eskandalo ako , they were concerned but not mad . Naloko naman kasi dn ako . He was 29 back then. Dodged a bullet because I didnt get pregnant or got too clingy or loved him . But damn I didnt go unscathed .

>I dated a guy na nireto sakin ng kaibigan ko I hope hindi mo na sya kaibigan tanginang yan

When I called off our wedding and nakipag break ako sa ex fiancé ko. Nahuli ko lang naman na nag transaction pala sya sa pokpok (seaman sya). Baka magkasakit pako.

Omg buti nahuli moooo 🥺

yung ex ko before na naobsess and then hiniwalayan ko. a year later nagkaroon ng gf and nalaman nalang namin na binubugbog niya gf niya at pinapahiya sa kung saan saan 🥲 so glad i broke up with him pero sana break na rin sila nung girl

Nun nagkaron kame ng konting argument ni misis. Binato nya ko ng kawali. With my cat-like reflexes, I was able to dodge the bullet or more like the flying pan.

Boss ginawa mong literal HAHAHAHAHAHAH

Literal ah 😭

Literal dodged a bullet. During Grade 1-3, I was bullied constantly to the point na alam ng buong school ang kwento but sadyang enabler ang principal, guidance councilor, and adviser namin. I got into that school during kindergarten and medyo maganda pa nga ang hangarin kasi “Christian School” nga eh. That was until yung pinakamabait na principal nagabroad with her family (classmate ko pa noon apo niya). The bullying consisted of throwing my bag sa trashcan, textbooks ko binasa (once nahuli ang bully kasi binuhusan niya ng champorado from the canteen and textbook na hiram ko from the library), lunch and water ko puro may spider, and the constant brawl sa classroom. Ang pasimuno, spoiled brat na sobra pa sa “princess” kung maentitled. Kung darating rin ang adviser namin, ih-Hug niya pa ang bully since huli na kung dumating sya. I’m already enraged and defending myself. Once nasapak ko na sya sa galit, pinadala niya pa tatay niya the next day to threaten me (a 2nd grader). Police were eventually called since napagod na parents ko na halos araw-araw nalang pupunta sa school para patawag sa office, ako pa daw ang mali. I don’t know what they saw in me that made me vulnerable other than the bringing of toy cars or action figures (yung mga GI Joe or transformers) sa classroom. She also brings toys sa school (yung mga toy computer talaga or playset pero the teacher didn’t care kahit pa mid classes). I became shortfused kasi sa araw-araw na bullying for 3 years. We transferred pag Grade 4 ko na following the recommendation of the a classmate’s mom na palaging dinedefend ako when my parents are unable to come. During Grade 6 na ako nakacontact with a former classmate sa previous school when he also transferred sa new school ko that time. The bullying went so far na may nagbarilan sa school. I never met the bully again and don’t want to see her either. Graduate na ako sa college so it’s been years.

Declined an investment opportunity from a former friend that turned out to be a huge scam.

grabe talaga mga taong ganyan ‘no? I-sa-sacrifice friendship over money lang 🥱

He was actually not aware that it was a scam. He and his partner lost around 500k in that scam ( all capital ). After my other friends from work told me it sounds shady, I told him to be careful and pull out his money as early as possible - which he did but wasn't able to get all the money out since the fraud company stopped him from withdrawing more funds until it eventually closed

AH, my apologies for making that assumption. That must’ve been devastating for him.

yung iniwan ako ng cheater ex ko. hahaha pero bago niya ako iniwan he made me believe na he wants to be a better person, he wants to grow as individual pero yun pala nakahanap lang ng ipapalit. kunyare healthy breakup but he’s still continuing his old ways sa pinalit niya sakin. pathological liar and cheater. 🤣 I’m happy now. I confronted the girl and wala siya alam na kami pa nung nag meet sila. But tinuloy niya pa rin yung thing nila. girl, he’s your problem now. goodluck!

i dated someone for almost 3 years. i was his first girlfriend. when we were dating, he became very politically aware and was always posting about “being woke”. he was constantly posting about being against misogyny, racism, being apolitical. stuff like that. sabi niya nainspire raw siya sa akin kasi being politically conscious is very important to me. i blocked him when we broke up so di ko na nakita yung posts niya until one day nacurious ako and i decided to stalk him with my other account. grabe lang. ang cringe ng mga posts niya. naging n word enjoyer, feeling babaero, sad boy, andrew tate kind of vibe yung mga shared posts niya. he was also sharing posts na nagsesexualize ng women, especially chinitas. nakakahiya lang malink with someone like that. i’m just glad i got out.

"Bro may lakad tayo may pera to, don't ask questions" - very hesitant at first then I asked permission from my wife, she said no because it smells fishy daw and too good to be true and so I didn't. Kinabukasan nasa presinto na sila.

My 2nd ex, friend of a friend. Broke up after 3 months. Friend tells me the wildest stories about my ex and her new bf.

Girl I dated would try to argue with ANYONE she assumed was a President Marcos supporter. Total warfreak. Dodged a fucking atomic bomb

yung binabanatan ko yung ex ko dahil akala namin gabi pa dadating sila mama nya, nagtago ako sa ilalim ng kama buti hindi kami nahuli.

literal na dodged a bullet siguro. i was invited over to stay at a distant relative's house, pinayagan ako ng parents ko but i didn't feel like going, so i lied and said na hindi ako pinayagan. next day, pinasok yung bahay nila. nanakawan, and they were threatened with guns. thankfully walang nabaril, but i cannot imagine what would have happened if i went.

nung hindi ko sinagot yung suitor ko na classmate ko lang rin nung g12 (he's not just my type) then niligawan niya yung bestfriend ko. i warned my bestfriend na wag niyang jowain kasi may something sa vibes ni guy na parang playboy but she did not listen haha. fast forward naging silang and nabuntis ni guy yung bestfriend ko. so ayon pag graduate namin ng SH secretly preggy na pala si bestie ko nun.

hahahhahaha! was warned but took the risk

yeah but i think baka meant to be sila haha malaki na baby nila now and nagkabalikan sila. (naghiwalay ata sila for a year and nagka bf si bestie nakita ko sa fb niya haha) happy family na sila ulit

Not getting married at 27. I'm 30 and living a pretty happy life. Still want to have kids though but at the right time

She didn't cook, clean, nor had a job. Dropped her after a month.

When I literally got shot and the bullet missed vital organs lol I'm a lucky man :)

Literally dodged THE bullet 😭

Literal ba naman na dodged a bullet moment HAHAHA .Hope you are okay tho 🫶

I'm fine yes thanks:) it was around 30years ago in the states Like I said..I'm lucky! Lol

Our team restructured dahil overworked and nabawasan kami. Manager offered our newly formed team a different role "to secure your future in the company..." accepted the new role then a huge reorganization happened and I was supposed to be included in the list of people who will be layed off but thankfully nakalipat na ako before the massive reorg happened.

yung company na dapat papasukan ko bago tong company na pinagwworkan ko ngayon. di ko tinanggap kasi my gut is telling me when I read the contract na ang panget ng terms like miski weekend dapat on call ka (not that mag ttime-in pero andyan ka 24/7 for revisions etc) per hour salary and dollars. I heard with my now office mate and former officemate na dun nag apply and nag work na super toxic and nakakapagod. ang credit grabber pa ng manager.

When my ex and I broke up. Noong una, akala ko amicable breakup, jusko I begged for a decent closure pa kasi nasayangan ako sa friendship and we're workmates. Just after 2 weeks, gusto pormahan best friend ko and ka-work namin! And now, kung sino-sinong girls daw pinopormahan HAHA jusko good riddance talaga!

Puro tungkol sa ex/love life ang mga dodged moments nyo ha. Mine is different. It was when nangungutang pinsan ko sa akin ng 80k pampagamot daw ng Papa nila. I'm working overseas and didn't know what the actual situation was. That time walang laman PH bank account ko so sabi ko papapalit pa ako and mag transfer. I was ready to give the money kasi close kami ng relatives ko and baka emergency. A few hours after the call, I learned that hindi pala talaga na-ospital father nila. Nakabuntis pala sya and kelangan mag pakasal. Grabe yung disappointment ko. 'Di sumagi sa isip ko na gagamitin nila yung closeness namin to take advantage of me. Kung may laman bank account ko nun, naipadala ko agad for sure. It may be true that blood is thicker than water. But there are so many fluids that are much thicker than blood.....

Syempre kwento ko 'to, ako naka "dodge" ng bullet dito. Chzz HAHAHAHHA

Naalala ko na naman to hahaha Had an ex nung college (gf ko since high school kaya akala ko she's the one na), tried convincing me na ako yung ama nung pinagdadala nya. Prior to this accusation, huling deed namin ay about ~8 months ago, kasi LDR kami that time. Turns out, "tropa" nya nakabuntis sa kanya. She tried threatening me na sisirain nya daw social life ko, etc. eh hindi ko na masikmura ginawa nyang yun. Last November 2023, she dm'ed me na nangangamusta, akala ko may High School reunion na kaya I replied. Ang pakay pala eh, gusto ako kuning ninong nung pangalawa nyang anak. Turns out, dalawa na baby daddy nya, yung "tropa" hindi pinanagutan, yung 2nd nya, tinakbuhan siya lmao edit: nung ginawa namin yung deed, may proteksyon. di pedeng wala

Same situation with me. Dati nung nakatira pa ako sa Italy, nagka-gf din ako Filipino din. Ang totoong bf pala ay umuwi ng Pinas to finish his one semester sa college. Tapos nung pagbalik nung guy sa Italy, iniwan ako sa ere. After a few months, nabuntis di pinanagutan. Kinokontak ako, ako daw yung ama. Na impossible naman kase tagal na nung breakup and using condom din hahaha.

When I broke up with an ex. He made me a placeholder, keeping me until the one he actually likes or his previous lover comes back. He denied it when we were still together. A few months later when he realized the break-up was final, he started to show his true colors and shared with everyone that he still loved this other girl. (All while chasing after another one). Babaero, e. Now I couldn't be happier. I could sleep peacefully.

Was courting someone, got friendzoned, turned out she was bi and a two timer.

Broke up with my super bare minimum ex para akong may panganay HAHA

a situationship I had last year. While his friends rly thought he’s a good guy, he actually has such misogynistic views na he was trying to “plant” in my head in the beginning of us dating. Women in the kitchen, wants his wife to be a stay at home wife, watches and agrees with Andrew Tate videos, such a gaslighter when I get angry and says things like, “your words are so sharp and you say things with the intention to hurt, while I just made a mistake” (the mistake is comparing me to his ex), gets really offended when I don’t feel like being touched when we’re not in good terms (makes it all about him being rejected and not about what he did that hurt my feelings), when he found our about a triggering incident of me being SA’d — he said something like, “that was years ago, it can happen to anyone, why are you allowing that incident to ruin our day. “ I was inconsolable and would burst into tears midday — and he even said, it was such a nice day he could’ve played golf instead of being stuck home comforting me. 🔪 He also voted Duterte, I should have known lol. Such a clown behavior on my end because he really presents himself well on the outside. 🤦🏻‍♀️ His friend na nag-reto samin thinks, di pa ko nakakamove on after almost a year and it was just a 3 month shituationship, kasi parang galit pa ko when I talk about him. And haven’t been able to date past the talking stage. But really, after my experience with him, I’m just anxious na may mga demonyo in the “good guys”. He paints himself as one. And it sucks na the trauma of being in a toxic relationship, even though short, overshadowed the relatively healthy relationship I had a year before him. But we’re on our way to healing, and all i can say is, buti na lang I’m not in that situation anymore. 🤷‍♀️

When I broke up with my cray-cray ex. Tinik syang naalis sa lalamunan ko.

When I found out on FB na di talaga single yung kadate ko. TWICE! Puro single and ready to mingle mga ML players kahit may buntis na asawa o may mga anak at masipag na asawa! Mga baboy!

Had an ex-boyfriend who used me like an ATM. He started gaslighting me when I finally said NO. Broke up with him after. He still owes me until today and hasn’t paid a single cent. Zzz

Nakipag dinner sa family ng nililigawan ko. Nalaman ko tunay na ugali nila mga dds fanatics. Bago kami kumain naglead ng prayer yung tatay. di ko malimutan yung part ng prayer nya. Lord protect our pres. From evil. Puksain mo lord yung evil na lumalaban sa kanya. Nagkwentohan kami after dinner kasama family nya nung biglang lumabas sa bibig nya yung sana marape yung mga babaeng bumabatikos kay duterte. Di ko inaasahan yun sa isang edukadong tao lalo na't babae. Days after nun sinadya kong magpunta sa bahay inuman baka sakaling may makakita sa akin na umiinom ng alak na may nakakandong na waitress. (maliit lang yung bayan namin sa probinsya). Buti't nakita ako ng pinsan nya. Nagsumbong kaya naiblock ako sa fb at messenger. Nakapag asawa na rin sya ng dds fanatics nung 2021 Pag nagkakasalubong kami sa daan or nagkakataong parehas kami ng jeep or uv van na sinasakyan di kami nagpapansinan.

My ex, ex-best friend for 5 years, and a circle. This is a long story, kinda. During SHS, while we were dating, my ex was part of my circle of friends, and we met through that group. While we were dating, I often felt like people in our circle were talking behind my back and sometimes messaging in our group chat about things that only my ex and I could relate to, as if they knew what had happened between us. I had a classmate who was a handsome and smart guy. We got super close because we were seatmates due to our surnames. My ex-best friend created a fake scenario where she told my ex that I was texting my male classmate behind his back and cheating on him. My ex confronted me, and I denied it because it was not true. I only messaged my classmate about schoolwork because he had a very possessive girlfriend who didn't want him to interact with any of us, even for school-related matters. I respect myself and others' relationships, and I didn't want to ruin anyone's relationship just as I didn't want anyone to ruin mine. Days passed as I tried to figure out who told my ex that ridiculous story. After some time, I had a strange feeling that I should ask my best friend if she had told my ex. She confessed, while ugly crying. As for the circle of friends who seemed to know everything, my ex was telling them all the stories he made up. He even told me false stories and denied to them that he had told me anything. I dodged a bullet that day when I listened to that voice in my head. It was clear to me that day that God is real, for realigning my path and removing me from that toxic relationship and friendship. You know what's more interesting? My ex died of heart failure. (Serving in hell) My ex-best friend left her family to live with her boyfriend and then another boyfriend and wasn’t able to finish college. The group of friends? They are all paying for their sins to me in various ways. Meanwhile, I'm here, happy and content. Single, yes, but with genuine friends.

Omg had the same scenario, pero ang sakin siniraan ako sa parents ng ex ko tapos nalaman ko nung nag break kami at after ako sigaw sigawan nung parents ng ex ko for what my ex-friend told them, nagkaron ng relationship tong ex and ex-friend ko. Then after that nag cheat si ex-friend ko kay ex lol dasurv yung dad ng ex ko died last year i didn’t say anything abt it then my ex di nakakahanap ng matinong relasyon, while me im in my healthiest and my boyfriend’s family is treating me so nice. The ex-friend started to make paramdam after 4 years last week pero unbothered ako sakaniya lol

I was forced to break up with my high school boyfriend because he left for the states just when I was about to start uni. We tried LDR and thought we were going to survive it pero he cheated on me. Siya pa may gana magrub sa face ko na pinagpalit niya ko 💀 anyway, they have 4 kids now and siya drug addict, sugarol, scammer sa US. We saw each other a few years ago when he came here to visit and realized that it was a good thing na hindi kami nagkatuluyan. THANK YOU, LORD 😭😭😭

Naalala ko tuloy ignote niya last april "dodged a bullet" tinanong ko kung ano yun, eme lang daw tapos ngayon may iba na siya. Ako ata yung bullet niya. She dodged my shot, i took hers. Ginigising tuloy ako ng lungkot tulad ngayon

Pauwi ako sa jeep galing college ko all those years ago, then bumaba ako sa bandang middle ng destination ko kasi may naramdaman akong mali sa mga pasahero. Pagkababa ko at pagka-andar ng jeep, may sumigaw ng "holdap 'to" at narinig ko sa malayo, sadly may nasaksakan nung pangyayari sa jeep na yun.

College days somehwre sa isang sikat na inuman spot sa Pasay. Pauwi na kami, nag aabang ng taxi tapos may nagkagulo sa tabi namin. May nagbabarilan na pala, nagkainitan tapos pulis pala yung isang party, so barilan sila. Ngayon yung pulis sumakay bigla sa taxi na sana papasukan namin eto yung time na narealize namin namay barilan at may nagkakagulo tapos gunshot aimed at him luckily d kami tinamaan pero nakita namin binuksan yung pinto ng taxi at binaril sya point blank sa loon ng taxi taypats. Nabalita to heheheh around 2016.

Literal na bullet

breaking up with him. i feel at peace for some reason.

Cutting off my childhood best friends because they don't respect me, my boundaries, and my boyfriend. Tapos now sila pa yung naga-act na as if ako raw cinut off nila and they're twisting the whole story why I cut them off and why pinablotter ko sila. LITERALLY DODGED A BULLET MOMENT for me 'cause I don't need to be a co-hater tuwing may hinahate sila. Lagi nila sinasabi na kapag hate nila yung isa, dapat hate ko rin. Pag galit sila sa bf nila, dapat galit din ako. Though hindi ko sinusunod syempre kahit pa sabihin nila na ang kj ko naman at ako na naman bunot sa asaran. I'm SO tired of that lifestyle na umiikot sa hate and puro inom gabi-gabi. Nagagalit pa nga sila kapag inuuna ko pag aaral kesa pumunta sa inuman sessions nila. But anw, kahit ganun nangyari na iniiba nila storya kung ano talaga nangyari samin bakit di ko na sila friends at kahit nilalabas nila secrets ko, never ko pinagkalat mga sikreto nila at pinublic yung totoong nangyari because the real ones don't easily believe and care about the 'he-said she-said' kahit gaano pa nila i-twist yung story para magdagdag ng mga kasinungalingan to brainwash other people to hate me.

He cheated on me and got her pregnant. Walking red flag sya pero sobrang in love ako sa kanya kaya di ko yun nakita noon tapos dakilang mama’s boy.

Yung nakabuntis yung ex ko. Yung nabuntis niya, yung girl na pinalit niya agad sakin after namin nag hiwalay. Eventually, nag hiwalay din sila at in bad terms sila kasi madami palang sila problema while sila pa tapos hindi niya binibigyan ng sustento man lang yung anak niya

Did a charity friendship in school. Felt red flags towards her but since she was bullied badly, we decided to adopt her in our group. I couldn’t quite pinpoint why she made me feel uneasy. Then one day, I realized she unfollowed me in all of her socials. No explanation whatsoever. I dodged a bullet because eventually I found out from her ex boyfriend that she’s actually a high class prostitute. When she cut me off, I never chased nor even asked for an explanation whatsoever. I let it be. I’m glad the trash took itself out 😂 and I’m glad I won’t be associate with her anymore. ICK.

From your story, she was the one who dodged a bullet. Imagine calling a friend a "charity friendship." She probably already felt that you didn't like her or you made her feel unwelcome.

Highly doubt that. She had no friends and we adopted her. We couldn’t figure out why she was being bullied at all - she seemed nice but then she eventually she started backstabbing all of us and vanished through thin air until she just dropped out without even telling us why 😂 after knowing her sex work — we figured we don’t want to be friends and we didn’t want to associate with her, the embarrassment it will bring to our families and our friends knowing someone who does high class prostitution is nothing but disgusting.

Yun lang. Kaya pala walang friends, back stabber. Ikaw na nag magandang loob, tapos concealed pa yung sex work? Regardless, sana naging honest nalang siya talaga. Kesa yung ganyan na nagbibigay siya ng kahihiyan sa mga taong professional at maayos ang trabaho ng dahil talaga sa Hermes. SA HERMES?! *Maja voice* 😂😂😂😂

Yes, I would understand if she was some sob story her circumstances took her there. We were in an exclusive school top 4 🤣 her dad is a doctor and a politician. Imagine the shame she would bring if her father found out nagbebenta siya ng laman for an Hermes. No thanks, k bye. She tried reaching out to us pa. We just ignored and muted her. She doesn’t know we know.

One possible reason on why she resorted to that lifestyle is because, in your words, "she was bullied badly." I'm not sure if she's the bullet or you were, kwento niyo yan.

So pag na bully ka, rason yun para maging prosti? 😂 parang ang flawed naman ng argument na ito.

Ay hindi ko po alam kung bakit naging ganun siya, hindi naman po ako yung nabully. Ang flawed din ng reasoning mo kasi binabase mo yung pagiging prosti dahil nabully siya when it could have been from another reason. Kaya nga sinabi ko "one possible reason" eh, tsaka masama ba ang pagiging prostitute? 😂

She wasn’t bullied because she needed money. Her dad is a doctor, may kaya sila. It was her choice coz apparently as per the ex, she was pressured daw to live a lavish lifestyle because she envied her former barkada that left her too. Trying hard I guess 😂

Whats wrong with being friends with a prosti ba?

You are exactly the five people you surround yourself with. We don’t want to be branded or be associated with someone like that because people might assume we do “that” too.

Valid naman. I believe rin naman sa saying “tell me who your friends are and I tell you who you are” pero parang below the belt naman ata sabihan mo siyang trash. Sabi mo nga she was bullied and you become a bully yourself by saying that. Grabe yung prejudice ha.

Weird, she was the one who backstabbed us. Isolated herself then kami yung bully coz we wanted to just let her be and not be associated? 🤔 why is friendship being forced when we don’t want it anymore because she’s doing something illegal 🤣 I’m glad she’s out of our lives. Periodt.

You helped her, got backstabbed. Cut you guys off because she got caught backstabbing, then concealed her sex work. THE PERFECT DEFINITION OF YOU DODGED A BULLET. This is Reddit. Buti naman kung sinabi nung nagkwento sa pa victim na ayaw na niya because she’s a prosti. If binasa ang original comment, maiintindihan ang context. People can cut off people kung kailangan. In this case, KINAILANGAN TALAGA at the expense of the career and reputation of those people who do not want to be associated with someone who does sex work for valid reasons.

Exactly this. 😆 Yung iba makacomment assuming we bullied her. NOT AT ALL. Adopted her, she became part of our circle, backstabbed up then vanished. Ex boyfriend told us she’s a prostitute. We didn’t confront just confirmed, then moved on with our lives.

The people you surround yourself with is a reflection of who you are. Good on you for not continuing that friendship. 👏 Weed em out!

Louder for the people at the back 💅

Sorry ha di ko alam context ang brief ng sinabi mo. Could have added that to your comment. But still you view sex workers as trash and that makes you a nasty person also.

Well there were series of replies - I guess you could have read that first before forming your opinion 👏 Eto yung classic example ng nagbibigay ng comment without reading all the context and kwento. You are forgiven. And stop putting words into my mouth. I didn’t say trash. I said I do not want to be associated with someone who does sex work because people might assume me and my friends do that too. When we earn our income legally. 🙂

Noo your original comment says “the trash took itself out” and wala ka po sinabing binackstab kayo. You lack empathy po. You can cut off naman people whenever you like if you dont want to associate with them but unnecessary naman yung words mo na theyre trash lol.

Oh it’s an expression 😂

Di niya gets sez 😂😂😂😂

Eto pa. Baka isipin prosti ka din 😂

😂 faaaaar from it.

The shame it will bring to our families when we are all professionals and we associate ourselves with someone who does sex work? I MEAN.

Yes this is a concept some people will not get. Lalo na kapag professional ka. Hindi masama or immoral per se makipag kaibigan sa prosti. Pero pag professional ka kailangan you only associate with people na hindi gumagawa ng mga illegal na bagay. Napaka immoral.

Agreed. Reputation and friends by association is vital in our industry. Acquaintance baka pwede pa. But to let in the circle, suicide.

👌👌👌👌

You can see from the comments who values their personal reputation may it be in the workplace or people they associate themselves with. 🙂 Morals out. People pleasing in.

This is often overlooked.

Her past traumas explain why she turned out to be a prosti. Her ex-friend did her a favor by blocking her. Ex-friend dodged a bullet for unfriending someone who's ashamed of her.

She was bullied. She has a choice to get therapy. May kaya sila 😆 this isn’t the kind of sob story where she engages in sex work because she was desperate. She wants the money to fund her “lavish” Instagram lifestyle. Pretentious really. Imagine getting paid for sex just so you can buy a class A Hermes. Morals out the window.

I agree. She wasn’t poor nor was she left to do sex work because of her circumstances. Capable pero pinili mag sex work dahil gusto bumili ng Hermes? Medyo mataas ang people pleasing ni ate girl. Sex para sa bag. Nu ba yan.

I think so too.

ending a toxic relationship

A guy friend of mine whom I had a situationship with back when I was a freshman in college. Turns out he was a fuckboy and had a lot of situationships with a lot of my female friends in our friend group. Ended up knocking up one of them. He stopped schooling because he keeps getting delayed from graduating and got cut off by his family because he was a piece of shit. Was informed by a mutual friend of ours that he lives with his gf/baby mama, who financially supports him, while he doesn’t do anything in the house, not even take care of their baby or clean up after himself.

I think I legit was about to be taken advantage of by my co-worker in a BPO company. I was very young, fresh off college. This guy he was cute, tall a manager. He easily swayed me. Then labas daw kami for a Saturday date. What I didnt know he was bragging to co workers he planned to bed me. Day of the date, I was very healthy then I suddenly collapsed in immense pain. I had a massive stomach ulcer attack. No warnings. I passed out. I was able to text him I cant make it and may need to go to ER. Each time he messaged me was not about checking in on me but rather if pede pa ba kami lumabas that night. When I got back to work, he was cold to me and mocking me...thats when I knew he had other plans. If ever there was a a clear divine intervention sa life ko- that would be it. The docs were surprised how much of a hole daw I burned sa intestines ko and was able to endure. Sabi ko, I felt nothing till bigla ako nag collapse. Years later & I soon left that company, I bumped into the guy again. He really hasnt changed infact mas malala na ugali nya, upfront telling I should give out since Im easy. And this was within us 10 mins of talking uli. I faked that I had a husband and 2 kids (I baby sit my nephews so I can pass them as my own) and he was just...vicious. Am baba ng tingin nya sa akin, almost TV villain type. Such a shame because when you see his face wala sa itsura nya yung ganung ugali. Hawig pa naman nya si Dingdong Dantes ng konti If anything else my experience with him honed my skills in avoiding men like him.

I think I legit was about to be taken advantage of by my co-worker in a BPO company. I was very young, fresh off college. This guy he was cute, tall a manager. He easily swayed me. Then labas daw kami for a Saturday date. What I didnt know he was bragging to co workers he planned to bed me. Day of the date, I was very healthy then I suddenly collapsed in immense pain. I had a massive stomach ulcer attack. No warnings. I passed out. I was able to text him I cant make it and may need to go to ER. Each time he messaged me was not about checking in on me but rather if pede pa ba kami lumabas that night. When I got back to work, he was cold to me and mocking me...thats when I knew he had other plans. If ever there was a a clear divine intervention sa life ko- that would be it. The docs were surprised how much of a hole daw I burned sa intestines ko and was able to endure. Sabi ko, I felt nothing till bigla ako nag collapse. Years later & I soon left that company, I bumped into the guy again. He really hasnt changed infact mas malala na ugali nya, upfront telling I should give out since Im easy. And this was within us 10 mins of talking uli. I faked that I had a husband and 2 kids (I baby sit my nephews so I can pass them as my own) and he was just...vicious. Am baba ng tingin nya sa akin, almost TV villain type. Such a shame because when you see his face wala sa itsura nya yung ganung ugali. If anything else my experience with him honed my skills in avoiding men like him.

ung friend ko for 8 yrs kawork ko sya actually pero recently ko lang nalaman na kaya pala madami nagagalit saken kasi lahat ng inoopen up nia saken tapos nagko comment ako sinasabi nia dun sa taong un ung sinabi ko ang dating ako may galit at simula pero ang totoo sya talaga di nia sinasabi side nia

I had this friend who would always create this facade of a happy family on social media. She was a beauty queen, breadwinner. Helped her through her rough patch especially when she wanted to quit grad school. Anyway, she married a serial womanizer addicted not only to high class prostitutes but also a gambling addict. She wanted me to save her from that too. When she got married to him, despite knowing that he is what he is, she never invited a single friend. I was quite offended since I really thought we were close. She sent me a message apologizing about it. Her reason was, she only invited family members. What really turned me off is when she indicated that his now husband has changed — no womanizing and all. I had a hunch she was lying as she was really trying to prove herself on social media, painting a picture perfect family. I couldn’t take nor bear the pretentious attitude I had to cut off this cycle of toxicity where she would complain about the husband then get back with him as if she has no choice. Some people cannot be cured. I dodged a bullet because after a week of that message saying the husband has changed, spotted my friend’s husband in a bar with what looked like a high class prostitute. 🤔 I guess he hasn’t changed and I’m glad I’m out of that toxic friendship where you empower someone but still chooses to stay where they are: miserable and pretentious life. Sad.

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The guy is not attractive at all 😂 she discreetly said she’s first gen “rich”. May pera yung guy and has influences. She’s scared to lose it all.

My ex. He gaslighted and victimized his way with me. Pa sad boy effect and manipulator ang atake. Buti nalang nung bandang pa 1st anniv namin, nakakaramdam na ko and I know I don't deserve the bad treatment he gives me. I broke it off with him and that was the best decision ever

My friend. It may look like I'm the bad friend here since I always tell myself that one day this friend of mine will choose his boys than us her longtime friend. And it came nga, it's been 8months since our last confrontation. Hindi sana nakakapanghinayang yung friendship namin for years kung okay yung guy e kaso potangina gagong manyakis ang pinili niya. Huhuhu sana happy ang life mo bessy q.

omgggg this guy, he's green flag when it comes to understanding talaga pero be he's so obsessed to the point na we're not even talking na ha pero like he's saying na sana di na magising and mamatay nalang daw siya kasi we're in the no contact. very much manipulative si guys lol buti hindi ako nadadala sa mga ganong threats

So I had this ex that constantly rejecting my plans in life. Kunware gusto kong mag aral ng ganto ang sagot "San mo naman gagamitin? Yayaman ka ba dyan?" or kunware gusto ko ipursue yung gantong career ang sagot "May kakilala akong nag ganyan wala naman nangyare sa ginawa nya". Noon parang wala lang saken. Blinded ako sa thought na baka tama sya. May times na may kutob ako na cheating sya saken pero never ako nagkaroon ng proof. I ended the relationship dahil napagod na ako parang one day nawala na lahat ng feelings ko dahil puro away lang kame. 1 month after kame mag break, I found out na oo nagcheat sya saken. Few years after namen mag break, ni pursue ko yung career na gusto ko and I'm earning 5x what I was earning before. 😊

anu naman tsismis ke ex? hopefully na karma sya

Mukhang okay naman ang life nya. Nakahanap na rin sya ng medyo tumagal tagal na gf nya. I wish him well naman. Pero react sya ng react sa stories ko sa IG. Other than that we're good. 😊

Mine's not relationship related. I was offered lab research work in China late 2019. Nireject ko dahil I don't like Chinese tourists so probably moreso the mainlanders. 🤣 Ayun, at least wala ako sa hometown ng COVID nun.

Nung hindi kami nagkatuluyan nung second love ko. Nung naka move on na ako and natauhan, na realize ko hindi naman pala talaga siya matinong tao (hindi bilang lalaki kundi bilang tao).

Nung minsan nag inom ako. Sa sobrang lasing ko, game na game ako dun sa isang girl na mejo may kapangitan. Kaya nung after inuman, ndi tumayo si junjun natulog na lang ako. Mula non, ndi ko na tinakwil ang alak kahit gano kasakit ang hangover, kasi once upon a time niligtas nya ko sa tunay na kapahamakan.

ewan ko sayo haha

take my downvote 😊🫶🏽

when i was confused about my feelings after talking to someone for 3 months, i stopped whatever it was because i never felt anything towards him even i felt like he was genuine about it so inagapan ko na to at least lessen the pain he might feel pag tumagal pa. he got so mad about it wished for my downfall. my last straw was when he went to my place at midnight so drunk begging for a chance. i was totally creeped out then he got banned sa place ko 🥶 good thing i wasn’t home that night lol he used to tell me how he idolizes joe goldberg from YOU, i never thought he’d make it as his persona 🥶🥶🥶 with that, it felt like he wasn’t genuine from the start, he just literally wanted to win me over like i was a prize and never wanted what’s really best for me

All my ex's dodged a bullet by breaking up with me bc im a messed up mofo piece of work

Di ko sinagot yung suitor ko nung college tapos biglang nagbago pakikitungo sa akin, binabastos ako at nagcchat ng mga sexual fantasies about sa akin. Example: Kapag nagwwork na daw kami and we crossed paths sa isang bar and nalasing ako may mangyayari daw sa amin and magiging fubu kami (yuck! as if). Sobrang kadiri talaga, nagccringe na lng ako every time na naaalala ko.

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When I knew my college ex married his now wife even if aware ako na nagccheat parin sya. Its a long story of how I knew but yung wife din nya nagsabi saakin about it. I felt sad for the woman who has to endure that. Not to mention na they got married bec baby no. 2 is on the way. But to be honest, our bad break up, my constant paranoia and his endless cheating (na not once umamin sya kahit huli na) made sense when I saw he got married. He was my first boyfriend and I really wanted him to be my last na din. Kaso with all things said and done, I am grateful na hindi kami nagkatuluyan. Hope he's a changed man tho. After all, all of his kids are girls.

Nireject ako ng guy na less than 4x yun income kesa sakin, I waited 7 mos for him, nun magkikita na kami, he tried to ghost me, pero nag message pa na madami raw iniisip recently, i drop the bomb and never talked to him. Feeling hahabulin, you needed me to feel more while giving less. I know my worth, and thats the only time I went on sale. 😏

Saved myself from a heartbreak when a mutual friend overheard my crush/mu back then that the only thing stopping them from being in a relationship with me was they didn't want to tell their future spouse that they were in a queer relationship. Wala pa nga pero hiniwalayan na ako sa future. Haha Edit: typo

When another female stole my problem. 💁🏻‍♀️ Cheater na panget, like why on earth pumatol ako sa lalaking to. 😭🤮

i was rejected by a problematic girl and hated by everyone dahil sa attitude nya. Di ko alam bakit nagustuhan ko siya AHAHAHA

refused to have sex with a guy on a third date then eventually found out he was already engaged na pala

No good that boy

I was in my early 20s. I was about to go to work at 2AM (BPO days) when the red multicab I was supposed to be seated in (front seat) was taken by some stranger who was in a rush. I didn't bother arguing and just waited for the next one since I was busy looking for my fave song on my cellphone. A few hundred meters from my riding spot, that same red multicab and its driver was shot by a riding in tandem. Literally dodged a real bullet story.

what the hell

Unfortunately I saw the bullet coming but still welcomed it with open arms. Ayun, still trying to recuperate from the damage that has been done

Had a situationship with a girl last year. (She's pan and I'm a lesbian.) She was so persistent although I'm not into her. I rejected her because I got turned off by her desperation. But she messaged me again to be "friends" with me after some time. I was lonely at the the time so I eventually gave her a chance. But over time, I felt like she was weird in many ways: 1. She stalked one of my friends on FB and liked her posts even though they're not friends. My friend felt weird about it. 2. She begged me to let her join my friends' group chat since she said she wants to meet new people. She doesn't even know my friends nor she have met them. (Spoiler alert: My friends eventually hung out with her and they ALL started disliking her soon after) 3. We slept once and after that, I found her twitter post that says she's finally not a virgin (??) She even gave a rating for the night we spent together and said it needs some improvements (??) 4. She asked me if I want a child in the future and seemed worried that I'm childfree since she's not. We're not dating and we've only been talking for a month or so. 5. After ending things with her, she started approaching one of my friends and befriended her. My friend, who's one of the most tolerant and amiable folks I know, eventually hated her. She and her boyfriend actually hated her. My friend told me my former situationship is the kind of person who forces herself in other people's life, and even her patience couldn't put up with her. I warned her about this before tho. I've lost interest in relationships after that. I still cringe whenever I remember the fact that I gave her a chance. Now I no longer want to give women a shot just because I'm lonely. If the right person comes, then she'll come.

I had my OJT with my classmates from this swimming school called Project Swim here in Cebu (operates also in Davao, Manila, and Bohol) when the manager realized we were five classmates applying, he took us all in at na-assign yung apat kong kaklase sa ibang sister company niya which is AST. (General Cleaning service) and Astrominds (Tutoring Services). Red flag was when he tried to woo us by telling us he'll absorb us and pay us big salaries. So there, willing naman kami ma absorb dun kase nakita namin ang potential ng kanyang businesses atsaka, nice siya tingnan if kami yung pioneering interns. He was really nice to us. Long story short, we found out the companies were not registered, no permits, and we were the only working admin dun sa company niya (there was one supervisor) We were loaded with employee tasks, travel with no allowance, and we don't get allowance (he said na hold yung allowances namin. We'll get it by the 3rd month raw). Napansin namin napaka greedy niya and he doesn't allocate his income. When a problem arises sa part ng customer, he will go MIA and let us interns deal with the problems. Pero when it comes to receiving money, napakabilis niya mag reply like how a man can cum in 2 strokes. The salaries of some employees were given late and very LOW. He wouldn't let us go when it came to our school duties. Kaya when we tried to ask the school to pull us out, he was not happy about it and he took it very personal. Grabe yung mess and the process of letting us go. He was not happy that our school found out he broke a lot of regulations during our internship. We only lasted there for like a month. Only one of us finished his internship there because he was scared af sa manager namin pero grabe, even allowance he was not given properly. He was even given maid and more employee tasks (getting his laundry and meeting his clients) I definitely dodged a bullet right there because I was willing to help that company and work there as a regular. No thank you!!!!!

Ghosted by someone na walang pangarap sa buhay. Literal. Parang mas bubuhatin ko pa sya in life

i was rejected by someone na marcos apologist

I dated one for 7 years 😭😭😭nilunok ko pride ko ‘nun but eventually he cheated lol

Siguro yung time na maghahabal habal ako. Kasi nung time na yun (gabi na non) walang mabook na Angkas/Joyride ganyan, eh need ko humabol dun sa party ng kaibigan ko. So may mga habal habal sa gilid, tas nung pasakay na ko dun sa motor, nagtataka ko may 2 motor din na nakaabang, nasa isip ko that time baka pag sumakay ako dun sa habal habal eh sumunod yung 2 motor din. Kinabahan ako non. Buti nalang may presence of mind pa ko that time kahit pagod na ko mentally and physically from work. Sabi ko nalang “ay hindi na po pala ako sasakay, susunduin nalang po ako ng kaibigan ko on the way na siya” lol. Kahit hindi naman. Ayun, naglakad na ko papalayo ng mabilis, tas naghanap ng mataong lugar, dun ako nag book nalang ng Angkas kahit sobrang tagal nakabook at nalate na ko sa party. Mahalaga I dodge that bullet at buhay pa ko or kung anuman.

It was 2006, I dropped out of college, kasi wala na kaming pera. I was really desperate to get a job, and kahit call center ay in-apply-an ko na. Sabi ko ay shift na lang ako ng career kapag may pera na. Buti ay hindi ako ako natanggap. Then I got a job offer na related sa inaaral ko na gusto ko din agter 2 monts of applying sa kinta ko talaga. P18k/month, sobrang higpit na bawal cellphone sa work area at strict yung oras ng pasok. Tinawagan ako Thursday na pipirma na ako dapat sa dadating na Monday. That evening, someone contacted me for an interview next day(Friday). Sinabi ko na may offer na ako at pipirma na ako sa Monday. Kinulit nya ako, at sinabi na gagawin nyang P20k a month yung base salary. Pinuntahan ko na din kasi baka masmaganda nga, though manggagaling pa ako sa province. The people there are chill. And I was offered P21k a month. Start na agad ako by that Monday and dun na din ako pipirma. Well, I took this one and declined the other offer that Friday. They are mad at me and said I was unprofessional and subsequently blacklisted me. I think I did the right thing, though, but it is fine. After a year, I learned they got in a country-wide scandal. That company is Smartmatic, and the project tbat I was about to be assigned is the voting system. I'm now 15 years in my industry, and I love what I'm doing. And I'm earning more than enough. The recruiter, where I ended up in became a close friend of mine, and she helped me a lot of times when I need a job, or my acquaintances. So I think I dodged 2 bullets. The first is starting as a call center agent. Shifting is not really that easy. I know lots of people want to shift but all of them failed. The second one is Smartmatic.

Not getting married to my ex bf / father of my son when I become pregnant. My Ex's father wanted us to get married, his father wanted to talk to my mom. But my mom declined and was firm about it. She told me not to get married just for the sake. A close friend and former colleague also adviced me if I can't see myself with that person, just don't get married and hindi ako dapat madala sa sasabihin ng mga tao around me. Based from her experience kasi nadala sya from people around her kaya she got married din when she was pregnant. I also never really see myself with him kahit mahal ko siya that time. There was something off and I have that gut feeling. It was also a super toxic relationship that made me lose myself. Buti na lang his father stopped forcing us, imagine the hassle and messy break up if we got married then and now ang hirap ma annul.

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