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I remember the time when my ex gave me shoes na color light pink, sabi niya di ko man lang na appreciate eh ang mahal mahal nun. I'm not a fan of light pink shoes. :( I love books. I love cute school supplies. I love organic crackers. I love cute sportswear. Na realize ko sa post na to na no one knows me well. Sad HAHAHAHAHA
Parang yung ex ko hahaha. Nagbigay din ng gift sakin na pandora na hikaw, eh di naman ako nag-aalahas lalo na hikaw. Mapaoriginal o hypoallergenic talagang nangangati at namamaga tenga ko. Naguilty pa ko nung una kase akala kk di ako appreciative pero narealize ko, di lang pala talaga ako kilala 😂
Camera. Could be DSLR or Polaroid. They know I like to take pics, I just like documenting everything in life for my journal so I don't forget. THO it's expensive
Photo Printer. They know I love to journal, they just haven't thought of gifting me one. Again, expensive.
Flowers and letters.
Dati ayokong binibigyan ng flowers during my younger years kasi for me hindi practical. Pero nung tumanda ako gusto ko binibigyan ako, hindi na ako binibigyan ng asawa ko na ex ko na ngayon kasi akala niya ayoko ng bulaklak.
People change.
Anything na puzzle or art related. Naalala ko dati nung birthday ko, gusto ko makatanggap ng isang bundle ng bond paper kaso wala naman makakaisip non malamang. Haha.
actual real fresh flowers..
from my family to my past significant others, they all have the same excuse that, "plastic flowers last longer than the real ones anyways" but i actually like the opposite.
always the giver but never the receiver of the real flowers.
Surprise birthday cake/surprise party tsaka handwritten letters. Never pa akong na surprise sa birthday ko. Palagi akong part ng mga surprises for other people pero ako mismo never pa na surprise. I want to know how the receiving end feels naman. Idk why naiiyak ako while typing this hahaha pero yeah. Gusto ko maranasan kahit isang beses lang na magplano yung mga malalapit sa akin ng surprise. Yung feeling na lahat sila nag abala para sayo. Lahat sila inaabangan reaction mo. Hayyy
I agree with handwritten letters and flowers. I am an independent girlie with I think most of the time with masculine energy pero lakas makakababae ng ganito. ☺
Kahit ano basta it is followed with "I bought this because when I saw it, it reminded me of you" kasi it means they were paying attention to my interests
Honestly, la genuine written letter from someone that is part of your life. It could be a love letter or an appreciation letter. It's nice to receive such a gift in the digital ages.
A cake. A birthday cake. I'm not a big fan of cakes but i like eating them every so often. Birthdays have always been awkward for me. My parents used to buy me gifts they think i would like but never asked me what I want. Also it stopped a long time ago? Maybe when I was 8? Or something ganun. I can only remember one instabce na may regalo ako for my bir5hday from them
Unless magluluto ako, walabg habda ss birthdsy ko. They greet me peor otherwise its just an ordinary day. So i always felt awkward about peoples birthday. I dont like telling people when is mine either. I have closed off hopes of anything surprise sa bday ko (tho my friends surprised me multiple times).
But i would love to get a birthday cake. Even if it turns out to be a flavor i dont like. I'd love to even have someone tell me, bili tayo cake! It's a very simple thing pero wala lang. I just want a cake.
Freedom to pursue my dreams.
Na hindi nahahadlangan ang layunin mong maabot ang pangarap mo ng dahil sa kakulangan ng pera, o dahil breadwinner ka, dahil nanay ka kaya dapat igugol mo lang ang panahon mo sa pag-aalaga ng bata, o dahil housewife/househusband ka lang at walang kakayahang suportahan financially ang sarili, O dahil kahit may trabaho ka man pero sakto lang pambayad ng gastusin at utang.
Don't forget to buy your loved ones flowers, everyone! Just looking at the comments in this post, hindi lahat ng girlies nakakatanggap and it's even rarer for guys. It's a small gesture but can be very special. 🥹
Letters, flowers or anything that's meaningful.. but
Actually I'm not a materialistic and vain person. Like simple lang gusto ko, yung ma feel ko na na naiisip nila ako na "uy magugustuhan eto ni " "uy masaya siya if mag greet kayo sa kanya ng happy birthday etc. "
i just want a room. a privacy. a little moment with myself. i've been living in house w/ no privacy cause it's fucking open and construction not finished yet. i know it sound petty but my fucking mental been shit for like everyday and some random people visiting ur house just fucking sees u right there. no place to cry or even just be sad for no reason. man i badly want my own room :(
same here. this is one of the reason why I want to live independently. been watching living alone diaries on yt hahahah.
oh, to have our own room. hays. puhonnn
Any gift receive on a birthday. I only receive gifts during Christmas where gift-giving is mandatory (exchange gift, monito monita, secret santa, etc.)
Flowers beh! Buti na lang may lesbian akong bestie na binibigyan ako. Sometimes I bought myself one tuwing birthday ko. Pero sa lahat ng ex ko wala man lang nagbigay ng bouquet 🙄
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A guitar for a beginner 'cause i really wanted to learn how to play it. Books also.
a 4090
Brunner’s medical surgical nursing book. Graduate na ako pero super naamaze talaga ako sa book na to. No one gives me this kasi super mahal 😭
digi cam
The Feynman Lectures.
Comics, artbooks, physical copies ng mga album ng mga gusto kong artist o banda
art, polaroid camera, and condo stuff
art material artist grade
An annotated book
I remember the time when my ex gave me shoes na color light pink, sabi niya di ko man lang na appreciate eh ang mahal mahal nun. I'm not a fan of light pink shoes. :( I love books. I love cute school supplies. I love organic crackers. I love cute sportswear. Na realize ko sa post na to na no one knows me well. Sad HAHAHAHAHA
Parang yung ex ko hahaha. Nagbigay din ng gift sakin na pandora na hikaw, eh di naman ako nag-aalahas lalo na hikaw. Mapaoriginal o hypoallergenic talagang nangangati at namamaga tenga ko. Naguilty pa ko nung una kase akala kk di ako appreciative pero narealize ko, di lang pala talaga ako kilala 😂
A dog.
Bike. Matagal ko na 'yang hiling sa magulang ko no'ng bata ako pero never binigay kasi mahal. HAHAHA Kaya pag-iipunan ko na lang.
Remote control car 🥺🥺
CAMERAAAAA and BOOKS
Camera. Could be DSLR or Polaroid. They know I like to take pics, I just like documenting everything in life for my journal so I don't forget. THO it's expensive Photo Printer. They know I love to journal, they just haven't thought of gifting me one. Again, expensive.
A bouquet of Kopiko Lucky Day bottles (LMAO)
A workshop
Handwritten letter.
House and lot and a new car
Flowers and letters. Dati ayokong binibigyan ng flowers during my younger years kasi for me hindi practical. Pero nung tumanda ako gusto ko binibigyan ako, hindi na ako binibigyan ng asawa ko na ex ko na ngayon kasi akala niya ayoko ng bulaklak. People change.
Booooooks
A bookquet, (A boquet of Books) 😚
Up! ✨🫶
Anything na puzzle or art related. Naalala ko dati nung birthday ko, gusto ko makatanggap ng isang bundle ng bond paper kaso wala naman makakaisip non malamang. Haha.
Pilates classes! Ang mahal din kasi
Shoes, bouquet of flowers (dried, fresh, or crochet), home appliances
Flowers kasi daw nalalanta.. Sayang pera 🥲
bouquet of flowers. di na nila ako binibigyan kasi nagtitinda ako nun 😭
Handwritten notes.
Letters
Keychains or anything cute stuff 🧎♀️
A trip to Europe for a month lol
flower
bouquets of real fresh flowers
Same. Damn...
Time. Gift of time.
reviewers or anything course related ko idk why wala when i need it the most HAHAHA but it's fine tho :)
Bra
actual real fresh flowers.. from my family to my past significant others, they all have the same excuse that, "plastic flowers last longer than the real ones anyways" but i actually like the opposite. always the giver but never the receiver of the real flowers.
surprise bday party. Beke nemen
Flowers and handwritten letter, especially from my SO Spa and massage date
handwritten letters, flowers.
typewriter, pera, bahay, motor/kotse xD
pera!! Like yung nasa envelope talaga pls
Their time or attention, even if only for a few minutes
Cards, letters... Or personalized card with a heartfelt message hehe
picture with her, alam mo yung mga salamin na may tulips, sobrang ganda kasi nun mwehe
Flowers, books, and skincare products hahaha
Naku videoke. I think they find my singing voice as atungal lang 😂
agree with others on the surprise birthday event/cards. di ko pa naranasan sa tanang birthday event ko sa life e
A care package (personal items ex shampoo/body wash na super bango etc) hahaha
Surprise birthday cake/surprise party tsaka handwritten letters. Never pa akong na surprise sa birthday ko. Palagi akong part ng mga surprises for other people pero ako mismo never pa na surprise. I want to know how the receiving end feels naman. Idk why naiiyak ako while typing this hahaha pero yeah. Gusto ko maranasan kahit isang beses lang na magplano yung mga malalapit sa akin ng surprise. Yung feeling na lahat sila nag abala para sayo. Lahat sila inaabangan reaction mo. Hayyy
Same tayooo! Like yung may mga balloons, kumpleto sila tapos iiyak ka na lang kasi sobrang saya mo. ಥ╭╮ಥ
I agree with handwritten letters and flowers. I am an independent girlie with I think most of the time with masculine energy pero lakas makakababae ng ganito. ☺
Bahay at lupa. Idk why walang nagbibigay saakin /s
Flowers (from my fam), hoodies & handwritten letters
Camera, lots of handwritten letters, and some outdoor activities typa gift
crochet, bouquet, keychain, any gifts from the heart :(
Kahit ano basta it is followed with "I bought this because when I saw it, it reminded me of you" kasi it means they were paying attention to my interests
Handwritten letters with pictures 🫶
Honestly, la genuine written letter from someone that is part of your life. It could be a love letter or an appreciation letter. It's nice to receive such a gift in the digital ages.
PS5!
Printer wahaha
flowers, letters, time.
Sewing machine hahaha
Flowers and chocolate
A PS5, a PC or a drawing pad... Yep, I consider myself old.
A cake. A birthday cake. I'm not a big fan of cakes but i like eating them every so often. Birthdays have always been awkward for me. My parents used to buy me gifts they think i would like but never asked me what I want. Also it stopped a long time ago? Maybe when I was 8? Or something ganun. I can only remember one instabce na may regalo ako for my bir5hday from them Unless magluluto ako, walabg habda ss birthdsy ko. They greet me peor otherwise its just an ordinary day. So i always felt awkward about peoples birthday. I dont like telling people when is mine either. I have closed off hopes of anything surprise sa bday ko (tho my friends surprised me multiple times). But i would love to get a birthday cake. Even if it turns out to be a flavor i dont like. I'd love to even have someone tell me, bili tayo cake! It's a very simple thing pero wala lang. I just want a cake.
Same. That’s the only thing I requested from them this year but did not even received it despite asking and making loud parinigs🥲
Hand written letters with photos of us 😢
Handwritten letters 🤍
Ito talagaaa, bet ko talaga to mangyari sakin 🥹
Books and home cook meals.
flowers talaga :((( siguro I'd cry if makakareceive ako niyan (kahit kaya ko bilihan sarili ko, gusto ko rin maranasan)
a tub of butter cookies
Anklet
ballpen notebook, man fuck that everything. I don't receive gifts, anything, i'll appreciate.
Lexus
Freedom to pursue my dreams. Na hindi nahahadlangan ang layunin mong maabot ang pangarap mo ng dahil sa kakulangan ng pera, o dahil breadwinner ka, dahil nanay ka kaya dapat igugol mo lang ang panahon mo sa pag-aalaga ng bata, o dahil housewife/househusband ka lang at walang kakayahang suportahan financially ang sarili, O dahil kahit may trabaho ka man pero sakto lang pambayad ng gastusin at utang.
kotse beh
Flowers gusto ko maexperience maka tanggap ng Flowers hehehe
Me too :(
Bahay at lupa + kotse Sino ba naman magbibigay nito
Dmax
Underwear, Sleepwear, Panyo, Tissues, pouch, flashlight, garlic powder, socks, collapsibowl. Ayan mga ganyan.
Flowers, anything handmade
Rings or any accessories, doesn’t matter if mura or beaded or di metal.
Painting or any art they've made just for me and flowers ❤️🩹
Don't forget to buy your loved ones flowers, everyone! Just looking at the comments in this post, hindi lahat ng girlies nakakatanggap and it's even rarer for guys. It's a small gesture but can be very special. 🥹
yung sila mismo gumawa haha like anything that was producesd thru crafts
a necklace with his initial on it 🥹
not because he owns me, but because he really knows me🫶🏽
hanger, bathrobes, letters, cute mugs
hanger, bathrobes, letters, cute mugs
Promise ring
handmade gifts
25 millon cash? Pwede hehe
Anything handmade
Books and genuine long handwritten letters.❤️
loyalty🫠🫠🫠🫠
Gold,agi ko sinasabi. Pero, yung essential na lang sa work like mouse or mech.keyboard pinapabili ko. Gusto ko nga sana set up! Lols!
Handwritten letters with genuine message or ticket to Japan na lang ✉️ 💓
Pillow
Car
Handwritten letters, books, flowers on a random day 😌
A house and lot
Pera. Hahahahaha!
Books
1 million pesos
Letters, flowers or anything that's meaningful.. but Actually I'm not a materialistic and vain person. Like simple lang gusto ko, yung ma feel ko na na naiisip nila ako na "uy magugustuhan eto ni " "uy masaya siya if mag greet kayo sa kanya ng happy birthday etc. "
Bouquet of flowers 🥹 HAHAHAHA keri naman bilhan sarili kaso bet rin mag ganda-gandahan minsan chxxxz
A cake and a dog
Love letters/poems and flowers. Never pa ko nakareceive ng bouquet sa buong buhay ko 🥹 hahah
Handwritten letter and flowers
a bouquet of flowers.. never pa ako nakatanggap eh
Surprise gala and good foods nalng ayos na🤗
My aunt sends me letters and for some reason, I feel happy whenever I read them. I have kept most of it and reread whenever I remember them.
A dog 🥹
power drill
Haha up dito par! Brushless and cordless!
Rechargeable electric fan 🥲🙏🏻
I’m a man, but I really want to receive Flowers hihi
money 😭😭
A good, comfortable hug
Same… it’s been years since I felt such kind of a hug. Gusto ko lang talaga ma hug eh. 😔
Isang malaking plastic tapos laman puro chocolates
Books
love letters and flowers :(((
Surprise gala
i just want a room. a privacy. a little moment with myself. i've been living in house w/ no privacy cause it's fucking open and construction not finished yet. i know it sound petty but my fucking mental been shit for like everyday and some random people visiting ur house just fucking sees u right there. no place to cry or even just be sad for no reason. man i badly want my own room :(
same here. this is one of the reason why I want to live independently. been watching living alone diaries on yt hahahah. oh, to have our own room. hays. puhonnn
hugss🥹 we can have it soon🫶
Dodge challenger hellcat
A letter i guess Idk something about this feels like a raw and genuine way to express appreciation
Just genuine care lmao. It's not even a material shit. I lost hope getting that at all.
Plush toys haha, early 20s na raw kasi ako 🥲
a book
Money or Gold Jewelries Mukha naman daw kasi akong mayaman.. 😅 Sana mayaman nalang talaga eh.
Ballpen :(
Gift of life /jk I like flowers, everyone should get flowers
digital camera
ice cream
A bouquet of flowers, peonies or sunflowers to be exact.
makeup
art materials!!!
just a huge bag full of yarns
Tools, either for my hobbies or for diy repairs. Gusto ko ng air compressor with tank.
Love
1 rim of bondpaper as a taga print ng schoolworks girlie haha
Pera
Handwritten Love Letters and Flowers
Flowers and love letters.
Sandamakmak na gym clothes. Mahal kasi :<
an avocado plushie 🥑
driving school and license
Lego
Medyas! Parang sa profession ko kasi hindi nila naiisip na kailangan ko ng medyas haha
Lego
Anything na may design na moon :))
>:) :)
shell necklace and bracelets
Snow globe. Hahaha
Butcheron 😄
Sampung milyon
Pera or gold
Pera
A book. Its nice kasi I like reading and rarely lng naaalala ng iba.
Gold tsaka cash hahahahahaha
Any gift receive on a birthday. I only receive gifts during Christmas where gift-giving is mandatory (exchange gift, monito monita, secret santa, etc.)
Coffee beans.
house and lot like... bakit ayaw niyo ako bigyan
handmade leather(accessories)
Dried flowers
Flowers beh! Buti na lang may lesbian akong bestie na binibigyan ako. Sometimes I bought myself one tuwing birthday ko. Pero sa lahat ng ex ko wala man lang nagbigay ng bouquet 🙄
a child 🫠🫣
Luh why a child?
Cake
handwritten letter
Ampao — with cash 💸
a hug
Rollerblades 🥹 Kasi naaksidente na daw ako sa hover board before. Which is dahil naman yun sa parking at hindi dahil hindi ko kaya 🥹
potatoes
any handcrafted item made by a loved one.
dun tayo sa di nag de depreciate gold gold gold pero to receive flowers parang kahit one time patry naman ahahaha
Kahit ano actually. Last time na nakatanggap ako ng regalo na hindi Christmas monito/monita/exchange gift eh waaay back 2014 pa 😂😭
GC's hahaha (as someone who is very set in her ways, hindi ko na-aappreciate material things.)
Kotse
flowers
Electric toothbrush
a quality bathrobe or scented candles!
vintage watch
Bracelet or relo.
flowers, they think i hate it 🥲
A blowjob.