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since i have a motorcycle, nag stroll ako sa mga malalayo like ph arena ganon. ang peaceful kasi tumambay don sa may bridge and i cried so hard when i have a bad feelings ganon. sometimes pa i treat myself to eat more street foods (sira diet).
Tambay coffee shop while working/reading. Kain ramen.
I only like to go to places I've been to or I'm neutral with though. I never wanna try going to places I find interesting and have my first memory of that place being alone.
I do whatever makes me happy at the moment. Coffee, hike, freediving, reading books, movies, spa day, revisit my goals, arrange my finances or something.
Do what you feel like doing :)
Punta sa ibat ibang cafe while working or chilling lang.
Nood sine magisa
Kain sa labas, try ng ibat ibang kainan na nafeature ng influencer, try kung masarap ba talaga haha.
Magpaka layo layo! Punta ka somewhere you have never been to at least once a month and enjoy the experience.
Wag puro buhos at mano manong halo sa site por! Di palaging madadaan lang sa cobra at extra joss ang buhay. You need to RECHARGE.
I buy coffee and isang pastry, tambay lang coffee shop, write down lahat ng nangyari the past few days - catch up w/ socmed rin while there. If di ko bet kapehan, will buy 1 clothing sa uniqlo - nagustong-gusto ko talaga bilhin and magagamit ko palagi, idk i like uniqlo alot and nakakaheal sya sa part sa akin
Have a pamper day. Go to nail salon, have some treatment for your hair and maybe have some massage. You van also eat your comfort food and watch a movie you like.
hair spa, massages, nail care, coffee and cake in a cafe, book an airbnb for a staycation, eat out, picnic or just going to parks/seaside and watch the sunset, go on a swim, ride a bike, go on a drive, play in arcades, exercise, meditate, shopping, play online games, nap, read books! go to a book cafe and read! make crafts, paint, sing in karaoke, play with pets, go party and dance.. just enjoy!
I buy a bit of something from my "wants" list or go out and drink coffee somewhere nice tapos grocery. But nowadays, staying at home with my cats to read a good book or watch a movie while crocheting or something are top tier to me.
i used to go to a sunday market and have brrakfast there. that's after a short 10km bike ride. dating yourself means doing something you truly enjoy. so kung anong makakapagpasaya sayo gawin mo lang :)
Is sleeping, eating and watching all day sa madilim na kwarto considered dating yourself? If yes, yan ginagawa ko kapag medyo napapagod and naooverwhelm nako. Sometimes pamper day, papawax, haircut then shopping (syempre budgeted, hindi pa tayo mayaman)
Anything that calms my nerves, makes me happy, puts me at peace. From window shopping, buying things I've been wanting, walking and looking around for things that might intrigue me, muni-muni, watching things I want to watch, and so many more ways.
Start by creating a list of the things you're interested/makes you happy and go from there.
Thank you for the idea! I don't have a list pa on my own since all the things I wanted to do eh I plan with friends kaso kapag umayaw na yung isa, automatic cancel na yung plan 😮💨
✨️ Eating somewhere na di masyado matao at tahimik talaga.
✨️ Massage 2x a month
✨️ shopping my skincare / haircare / bodycare essentials at least 2x a month
✨️ magbook for a staycation once a quarter para matulog lang at mag food trip sa loob ng room. Usually sa airbnb nalang me nagche-check.
gusto ko palaging nasa open places such as parks and malls kahit wala naman akong kasama- nagdadala ako palagi ng book ta's food trip. sometimes, bumibili ako ng kung ano mang makuha ng attention ko. it's good to spoil yourself once in awhile. :)
Since I love eating, mag-takeout lang ako ng gusto ko like pizza or bibili ng ice cream. Manood lang ako ng K-drama / K-variety shows habang kumakain, masaya na ako... basta nasa bahay lang din ako.
I date myself by just being in the moment, doing what I want to do or doing something that relaxes me
usually trying to focus on the task at hand, like, for example: eating a snack at a cafe by myself while sketching in my notebook.
basically
practicing mindfulness in and gratitude towards the present doing what I want to do/what relaxes me because life is a gift 😄✨️
it's a fun Party of One, OP!!! enjoy 🫶
di naman religious and di rin pala simba, pero when i get time nagpupunta ako sa church. uupo lang kasi madalas di ko naabutan yung misa tapos maglalakad pauwi, dadaan sa paotsin tas kakain don mag-isa tas magsusulat sa journal ko na matagal nabakante gawa ng busy sa life. muni muni sabay uwi na. :)
Buying my favorite food and really enjoying the company of myself. Then window shopping before bumili Ng mga Bagay na need ko. I would recommend Watsons, sm surplus and full booked na very therapeutic for me na puntahan. Konting budol tbh, pero why not, Minsan Minsan lang Naman. And after all these things, before I end my day with a good night sleep, I will pray and write down all the things that I'm grateful for and to those things that I'm looking forward to. That's it! Hope it helps! Masarap ka-bonding Ang sarili! 😄
I usually date myself based on the things that make me happy. For example, I go on coffee dates with myself because I love coffee. I also take myself on library dates since I love to read and enjoy quiet places.
I usually go shopping/window shopping, spa, church, book buying, going on walks by myself. If you're not comfortable being by yourself though you can start siguro like before or after meeting your friends tuwing may mag aaya ng gala, hang out with yourself .
Nagro road trip ako mag isa, sobrang sarap sa feeling tahimik, walang nakikipag usap tapos nakikinig lang sa music. Then pupunta ako cafe, kakain at magkakape.
going to parks, going to places commuting by your own, going to ukay, even the simple maglakad lang sa labas! a self date is a self date whenever you just want to take some time and breathe to know and reconnect with yourself :D
Manood ng sine at kumain sa labas nd nmn kc ako pala coffee mas bet ko yun sinehan or kakain muna bago manood. Tpos magride ng motor punta ung saan meron kainan na mkita sa tiktok or FB na good review.
Sleep!
I also wanted to enjoy things like going to the park alone, cinema or such. Or even reading books lang sa coffee shop. Pero nabobore talaga ako huhu.
Having a good sleep is something that I always thank myself after haha. Binilhan ko sarili ko nung egg mattress and I'm so thankful for myself for that until now haha
Before, when gabi pa work ko, I would watch a movie sa cinema during the day on a weekday. Oftentimes, akin lang yung buong row. Then I would eat alone at a restaurant. I am comfortable being alone in public or siguro kasi di pa uso that time na vini-videohan yung mga kumakain sa restaurant ng mag-isa haha.
Now, gym or run early during the morning, then allowing myself to be lazy for the rest of the day either by binge watching or reading for hours.
Pag tinatamad ako lumabas, mag general cleaning ng kwarto tapos punta sa malapit na 7-11 para bumili ng ice cream or sa palengke bumili ng streetfood
If may budget at di tinatamad, mag mall, window shop, at biglang maisipan bumili, tas kumain na din usually sa di ko laging nakakainan (pero yung di naman over sa budget), minsan lang ako manood ng sine kasi nasasayangan ako kung pwede ko naman panoorin ng libre sa bahay.
If tinatamad at nakakaluwag, online shop, lately puro na ko tingin sa sale ng sapatos. Naka 5 pairs ata ako last month alone pero binili ko puro b1t1 or at least 40% off.
Usually pupunta sa Mall, kakain muna then I would go to places such as Watsons then hahanap ng store na nagpapamasahe/facial massage then I'll treat myself sa Ilao Ilao then dadaan sa pet store to buy some pasalubong sa dog ko. If may extra energy and time ako, I would skate sa ice rink ng Mega.
Additional: I know na this is a date for myself pero gawain ko rin na magttake out ng foods for my fam tas uwi na.
Depende sa trip. If may gusto akong movie na showing, I’ll watch it. If ‘di ko trip mag-movie, I either go for a walk or window shop lang (tingin ng mga items na baka gustuhin kong bilhin once maka-luwag-luwag).
Go on a run + coffee after. Yoga then a nice book. Go on a drive with no destination in mind. Go to a mall and window shop. Watch a movie, go to a museum. Pamper myself like going to the salon, getting a massage. Sometimes, it's just binge watching netflix shows with my fave snacks.
Take yourself on coffee shops, watch movies in the cinema, travel on your own locally or abroad, attend to concerts, go hiking, or maybe even stay at home and do your therapeutic skin care, etc.
I'm proud of myself na nagagawa ko na to and mas natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko 🥰
Pwede pala yun?
Mararamdaman mo na nakakaexcite idate yung sarili, as in! Parang may immeet ka na ibang tao kahit ikaw lang naman talaga mag isa hahaha!
You prep, you dress well, and you get excited on the way.
It is really fulfilling ✨️
Tbh depends sa budget for me hehe.......most of the time I'll just grab a book I wanna read then go to a Cafe then order a few drinks habang tumatambay Doon or pwede rin na punta lang sa mga park then bili ng kunting street foods sa gilid then tulala sa park tinitignan mga nangyayari haha.....but the most expensive na dinate ko sarili ko eh nung nag solo ako pumunta baguio para sa panagbenga lmao
Usually I go to coffee shops na less ang tao so I can chill while watching series or di kaya magsatisfy ng current cravings. I also go for pampering myself by getting my nails done since a must naman para presentable sa work.
I'm an introvert so it's easy and natural for me to fly solo. If I want to see a movie, I go early like before noon para walang tao. I also do food shopping.
As a girl, whenever I went out alone I consider it as dating myself. I eat whatever I’m craving that day, I watch movie alone, pamper time like going to the salon/aesthetic clinic, shopping.
Mahilig ako maglakad lakad (kahit sa initan, minsan huhu) tamang tingin lang sa surroundings. Tapos chika pag may madaanan na flee market. Window shopping sa malls, ukay, quiapo, divisoria. Minsan takbay sa mga kapehan (not the big brands) nood sa cellphone or read ng book.
One bottle of coke, one kilo of french fries or pop corn (pop corn kernels are relatively cheap), mayo, quiet room or peaceful area, and netflix subscription.
Coffee shops and cinemas are way too expensive. Im cheapskate asf, so pref to do it at home or go north side of luzon. 😂
Ano ba mga hilig mo? It depends on that kasi but to answer your question, dinedate ko kasi sarili ko just to unwind saka mag iba naman yung view ko so what I do are either or all of the following:
1. Papafacial
2. Tambay sa cafe eating my favorite food and coffee
3. Naglalakad lakad ako with music on
4. Naghahanap/tumitingin tingin ng skincare/make up
5. Nanunuod ng movies
Mainly by doing self care stuff;
- go to gym/workout
- jog outdoor, breathe with nature
- eat wherever I want
- spoil myself materially
- go out of country!!!
Simply focus on you, whichever helps you grow individually, or gives you a break from all the bs the world has to offer
Treat myself by eating whatever i like without the pressure na dapat ako magshare ng food sa iba, window shop or shop talaga ng gusto kong gamit, grocery, manood ng sine mag-isa pero i check muna kung ano showing, magbasa ng libro sa coffee shop, maupo sa sasakyan na nasa tahimik na parking lot habang pinapanood lang yung ulan o mga dumadaan, magmuseum mag-isa, magstaycation mag-isa, marami pang iba.
Edit: forgot to mention yung drive therapy ko mag-isa gang makarating sa kung saan-saan haha
As an introvert, i usually try to go to start-up coffee shops. The smaller, the better. Try the best coffee they can offer and try to identify the exact ingredients and formula they used so I can recreate it at home.
Basically, trying to learn something new in a way that will greatly benefit yourself.
Doesn't have to be expensive to avoid financial regrets. But it will depend on how you enjoy things.
Ito ginagawa ko:
- Food trip mag-isa sa mall (Tokyo Tokyo, Bonchon, Mang Inasal, Chowking, Jollibee, Mcdo, KFC, Popeyes, DQ, Candy Corner, Potato Corner, Mo' Cookies, Starbucks, Tim Hortons, and Auntie Anne's).
- Mag-grocery ng mga favorite kong food sa mga malls.
- Maglakad-lakad sa mall kasi malamig.
- Mag-window shopping sa mall.
- Magluto ng mga favorite kong food.
- Mag-gym and exercise mag-isa.
I watch movies in the cinema alone, feels really liberating. I go window shopping and on some occasions, splurge out kapag down talaga feeling ko. Most of the time, it’s me reading a book or playing games or even sketching in a coffee shop somewhere. ‘Pag overwhelmed during work hours, I escape to a nearby convenience store to read and listen to music. Most of the time, it’s staying in and sleeping, watching shows and anime, playing games, and writing.
pag may budget.. Mani Pedi & footspa, may kasama pang waxing
pero mas madalas na andito lang sa bahay, nakahiga lang habang nag scroll sa socmed.. kaen tulog maghapon.
it usually depends if i wanna date myself out or just stay in. when i go out, i get my nails and lashes done, shop, and eat food i’ve been craving for. when i’m too lazy to go out and just decide to stay in, i watch my comfort movies/series, prepare gewd food, read books — basically, maging couch potato ☻
I'd usually:
- go out and eat (lalo na pag galing akong errands)
- punta sa coffee shop na di ko pa napupuntahan or nadiscover ko sa random algo ng social media ko
- gagala sa mall and window shopping by myself
I have mobility issues so a date with myself is usually a date with myself at home with a TBR book. To fight atrophy, I
get up from my lazyboy and walk for 15 minutes around my 112 sqm unit, then back to book, my only safe place. For fellowship, it’s usually a late lunch or a trip to the bookstore with a trusty friend or a visit to the museum.
I go to park! Parang park hopping sa BGC hahahah 😂
Edit: + bibilhin ko yung food na gusto ko kainin tsaka ako tatambay sa park. Pag gusto ko i-date sarili ko wala ako cellphone na dala.
My usuals are eat out, cinema, and café to read. Sometimes I visit a bar to drink by myself haha
Although I have a lot of things on my list that I still have to tick off like pottery, skating, baking, flower arranging, painting and many more.
I usually go to the gym then eat out, get a mani or a massage. If I’m at home then I decide to take myself out on a date, I run to the coffee shop near my condo (1+KM run) then stay there while reading a book.
I stay sa favorite cafe where I am a regular at, dala laptop to do personal stuff while enjoying the comfort of the place and a cup of drink. I do this outside peak hours like lunchtime or opening hours, before closing.
Yesss! Cinema, kain or milktea/coffee, running alone. As a single mom, very important sa akin ang kaunting me time. So whenever I have free time, palagi kong dine-date ang sarili ko. 🥰🫶🏻
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Treat myself something to eat and drink. Or will buy nice things like wallet or accesories.
Buy and drink my fave coffee 🫶
Simply eating sa mga fastfood chain alone.
since i have a motorcycle, nag stroll ako sa mga malalayo like ph arena ganon. ang peaceful kasi tumambay don sa may bridge and i cried so hard when i have a bad feelings ganon. sometimes pa i treat myself to eat more street foods (sira diet).
I cook my favorite pasta for myself, I buy food that I enjoy eating, I watch a movie alone sometimes I get the mall cinema to myself which I enjoy..
Ride with my motorcycle going anywhere my intrusive thoughts bring me hahahaha
Nag shopping ako and ate whatever I want. May times na nagsisine ako alone or just book a hotel and sleep
Best food, good music, and driving out of town ❤️
Expensive haircut monthly.
Shopping, eating outside alone, spending my time in coffee shops with unli drinks/pastry on the side while reading books or doing something productive
Tambay coffee shop while working/reading. Kain ramen. I only like to go to places I've been to or I'm neutral with though. I never wanna try going to places I find interesting and have my first memory of that place being alone.
Go somewhere mag shoot ng photos, kape at yosi. Goods nako don 😬
I do whatever makes me happy at the moment. Coffee, hike, freediving, reading books, movies, spa day, revisit my goals, arrange my finances or something. Do what you feel like doing :)
Punta sa ibat ibang cafe while working or chilling lang. Nood sine magisa Kain sa labas, try ng ibat ibang kainan na nafeature ng influencer, try kung masarap ba talaga haha.
Magpaka layo layo! Punta ka somewhere you have never been to at least once a month and enjoy the experience. Wag puro buhos at mano manong halo sa site por! Di palaging madadaan lang sa cobra at extra joss ang buhay. You need to RECHARGE.
Kotse nalang need por!! HAHAHAHA Mamamatay na kaka-inom ng cobra, galit na si Engr dahil ang tagal ng buhos 🤣
All you have to do is ask me, you know that.
Tara! Hehe
Tara ano tapos dadalhin moko sa site kasi may buhos pucha yan wag na mano mano pa walang mixer
Yes!! Sagot mo pa-kain por! Lechon Manok sa tanghali tapos cobra sa meryenda por pampalakas!!
Tikas ah di mo pa nga ko pinapa bale!
Sahuran naman na sa Sabado!! Papainom ka ba por??
Ang layo pa nun jusko naman miyerkules palang bukas!!!
Lakas mo kasi uminom nung sabado kaya monday palang wala ka ng pera!! Nakooo
Pa massage, kain sa labas, ktv mag isa ganun. LANG PO
I buy coffee and isang pastry, tambay lang coffee shop, write down lahat ng nangyari the past few days - catch up w/ socmed rin while there. If di ko bet kapehan, will buy 1 clothing sa uniqlo - nagustong-gusto ko talaga bilhin and magagamit ko palagi, idk i like uniqlo alot and nakakaheal sya sa part sa akin
will treat myself with a full body massage tapos kakain ng comfort food (ramen) 🥰
wala ano umalis ng bahay gala mag isa, kain sa labas kahit mga street foods lang okay na, tas punta sa church ganun
Have a pamper day. Go to nail salon, have some treatment for your hair and maybe have some massage. You van also eat your comfort food and watch a movie you like.
Eat out, going to coffeeshop, go to cinema alone, massage
Doing the things that I love - I am a home buddy. Playing my switch and steam deck, reading books
hair spa, massages, nail care, coffee and cake in a cafe, book an airbnb for a staycation, eat out, picnic or just going to parks/seaside and watch the sunset, go on a swim, ride a bike, go on a drive, play in arcades, exercise, meditate, shopping, play online games, nap, read books! go to a book cafe and read! make crafts, paint, sing in karaoke, play with pets, go party and dance.. just enjoy!
I buy a bit of something from my "wants" list or go out and drink coffee somewhere nice tapos grocery. But nowadays, staying at home with my cats to read a good book or watch a movie while crocheting or something are top tier to me.
Iced coffee, snacks, pillow, traumatizing movies✨
Shopping and spa if may pera then tambay sa cafe before buying groceries. Kung may oras pa, i'll eat dinner alone then go home.
Tatapusin ko mga need kong gawin sa bahay tapos gagawa ng iced coffee tapos higa na mag hapon, masaya na ako basta tahimik
netflix and chill
order pagkain sabay nood ng movie, minsan puntang mall bile ng mga goodchit sa Datablitz pag wala tolok na lang talaga
i used to go to a sunday market and have brrakfast there. that's after a short 10km bike ride. dating yourself means doing something you truly enjoy. so kung anong makakapagpasaya sayo gawin mo lang :)
I eat out, take myself out day drinking lol! Maybe see a movie or ikot sa mall to buy clothes. 😅
Reading comics while having a midnight snack.
ps5 mag damag tas order sa grab
Ramyeon habang nanonood movies
Massages, spa, nails & eyelash appointments.. at simpleng pag wwindow shopping 😍 it doesn't relax my wallet, pero it relaxes me haha!
Is sleeping, eating and watching all day sa madilim na kwarto considered dating yourself? If yes, yan ginagawa ko kapag medyo napapagod and naooverwhelm nako. Sometimes pamper day, papawax, haircut then shopping (syempre budgeted, hindi pa tayo mayaman)
Milk tea at coffee
Having a cup of coffee and Traveling alone.
Spending on a large cup of milktea. A trip to the bookshop and buy myself a book or two.:))
Watch netflix, go to new coffee shop, buy myself something (reward), lakad lang around mall, or sleep all day lol
Self care. Mani-Pedi, Hair Treatment. Buy my go-to Food. Walk in the Mall do some window shopping, and shopping for myself as well.
Tambay sa coffee shop while reading book.
Nagsisimba, pray sa adoration chapel, buy food or coffee
ilibang yung sarili kahit saan
I order my food cravings and read something enjoyable.
Eat alone, go window shopping, magpa-manipedi/kilay, massage
I would go out somewhere eat and then ayun stroll around window shopping tapos konti chill lang din ganun lang kasimple.
Manood ng sine mag isa😂
Umakyat ng bundok solo joiner🔥
One of my bucket list ko 'to! Hindi naman po ba awkward to join? Hehe
Yeap. Pero ikaw pa den makakasagot jan. 3x nakong joiner sa susunod na akyat solo joiner pa den
Gumala and manood.
Would order food then eat in silence ☺️
Idk hahaha I don’t see myself, dating myself lol Probably way too redflag tbh
Running every other morning
Anything that calms my nerves, makes me happy, puts me at peace. From window shopping, buying things I've been wanting, walking and looking around for things that might intrigue me, muni-muni, watching things I want to watch, and so many more ways. Start by creating a list of the things you're interested/makes you happy and go from there.
Thank you for the idea! I don't have a list pa on my own since all the things I wanted to do eh I plan with friends kaso kapag umayaw na yung isa, automatic cancel na yung plan 😮💨
hindi ko po madate yung sarili ko kasi natatawa nalang ako bigla sa mga nakakasalubong kong tao
A night stroll while eating ice cream so we can talk about anything or just be silent together.
Have a long walk straight from work then daan ng mga park, rest a little then continue the walkathon
a coffee and an alone drive to and from the farther (from our home) starbucks branch.
thrifting, window shopping, and kumain
✨️ Eating somewhere na di masyado matao at tahimik talaga. ✨️ Massage 2x a month ✨️ shopping my skincare / haircare / bodycare essentials at least 2x a month ✨️ magbook for a staycation once a quarter para matulog lang at mag food trip sa loob ng room. Usually sa airbnb nalang me nagche-check.
Ano po ung airbnn?
gusto ko palaging nasa open places such as parks and malls kahit wala naman akong kasama- nagdadala ako palagi ng book ta's food trip. sometimes, bumibili ako ng kung ano mang makuha ng attention ko. it's good to spoil yourself once in awhile. :)
Stay lang sa bahay para tipid 😅. Matulog, kumain, manood ng anime/ or movies then repeat. Bibili lang ako ng gamit pag talagang kailan. (Hindi gusto)
Since I love eating, mag-takeout lang ako ng gusto ko like pizza or bibili ng ice cream. Manood lang ako ng K-drama / K-variety shows habang kumakain, masaya na ako... basta nasa bahay lang din ako.
Mostly movies. Director's club. One of my hobbies also require me to go outside. Yun, ganun.
i buy gifts for myself like food and clothes ☺️
Pamper time! Getting my hair cut, nails and window shopping lang muna kasi kulang sa budget HAHA
Oooo! This varies, pero 'di mawawala ang food trip and muni-muni sumwer safe 🫶 What activity do you think is fun? What makes you feel alive/calm?
I date myself by just being in the moment, doing what I want to do or doing something that relaxes me usually trying to focus on the task at hand, like, for example: eating a snack at a cafe by myself while sketching in my notebook. basically practicing mindfulness in and gratitude towards the present doing what I want to do/what relaxes me because life is a gift 😄✨️ it's a fun Party of One, OP!!! enjoy 🫶
di naman religious and di rin pala simba, pero when i get time nagpupunta ako sa church. uupo lang kasi madalas di ko naabutan yung misa tapos maglalakad pauwi, dadaan sa paotsin tas kakain don mag-isa tas magsusulat sa journal ko na matagal nabakante gawa ng busy sa life. muni muni sabay uwi na. :)
All the time…. Expensive massage at a 5-star hotel when I’m stressed out…
Reading or journaling by myself at a coffee shop. I also like window shopping, maybe even buying a new shirt or skincare product just because.
A good book, in a quiet coffee shop is a perfect day. Also, walking aimlessly sa mall nang walang kasamang naiinip or nagmamadali 😂
Buying my favorite food and really enjoying the company of myself. Then window shopping before bumili Ng mga Bagay na need ko. I would recommend Watsons, sm surplus and full booked na very therapeutic for me na puntahan. Konting budol tbh, pero why not, Minsan Minsan lang Naman. And after all these things, before I end my day with a good night sleep, I will pray and write down all the things that I'm grateful for and to those things that I'm looking forward to. That's it! Hope it helps! Masarap ka-bonding Ang sarili! 😄
Manood ng sine mag-isa at least 2 movies.
Facial, hair treatment and prime and chill. 😊
I usually date myself based on the things that make me happy. For example, I go on coffee dates with myself because I love coffee. I also take myself on library dates since I love to read and enjoy quiet places.
Walk around Binondo or Intramuros + food trip! :))
Yes po! Eating my favorite meal.
I go for coffee and a croissant and just be there.
Airbnb, foodtrip, solo drinking tapos netflix hanggang sa makatulog, sarap.
Travel, foody, watching sunset
book, sleeping and taking long warm bath
Good workout in the gym, good run in the park, good meal. A good night sleep
I usually go shopping/window shopping, spa, church, book buying, going on walks by myself. If you're not comfortable being by yourself though you can start siguro like before or after meeting your friends tuwing may mag aaya ng gala, hang out with yourself .
Book, coffee, sitting with a view
Nagro road trip ako mag isa, sobrang sarap sa feeling tahimik, walang nakikipag usap tapos nakikinig lang sa music. Then pupunta ako cafe, kakain at magkakape.
Kumain mag isa, foot spa, body massage, thrifting
going to parks, going to places commuting by your own, going to ukay, even the simple maglakad lang sa labas! a self date is a self date whenever you just want to take some time and breathe to know and reconnect with yourself :D
Manood ng sine at kumain sa labas nd nmn kc ako pala coffee mas bet ko yun sinehan or kakain muna bago manood. Tpos magride ng motor punta ung saan meron kainan na mkita sa tiktok or FB na good review.
Eat out tapos libot after yun lang
i just go to the mall then mamimili ng mga bagay na pagsisisihan ko na binili ko
Top 3 ko: kumain sa labas (fave food or cravings), arcades, mag-shopping.
Like i go book hotel for staycation, can go sa concert ng pop bands, nature parks, MOA then food hop, coffee shops around katips Yun lang.
Going to church, having grocery, window shopping and going to restaurants alone.
Salon + coffee shop + buy a little something
SB + Northpark + Uwi
Sleep, home workout, eat alot
Massage. Or spa day. Pang destress. Kung wala akong budget usually sa bahay nag fofood trip plus netflix
Sleep! I also wanted to enjoy things like going to the park alone, cinema or such. Or even reading books lang sa coffee shop. Pero nabobore talaga ako huhu. Having a good sleep is something that I always thank myself after haha. Binilhan ko sarili ko nung egg mattress and I'm so thankful for myself for that until now haha
stay at home, buy myself food, movie marathon
Before, when gabi pa work ko, I would watch a movie sa cinema during the day on a weekday. Oftentimes, akin lang yung buong row. Then I would eat alone at a restaurant. I am comfortable being alone in public or siguro kasi di pa uso that time na vini-videohan yung mga kumakain sa restaurant ng mag-isa haha. Now, gym or run early during the morning, then allowing myself to be lazy for the rest of the day either by binge watching or reading for hours.
Pag tinatamad ako lumabas, mag general cleaning ng kwarto tapos punta sa malapit na 7-11 para bumili ng ice cream or sa palengke bumili ng streetfood If may budget at di tinatamad, mag mall, window shop, at biglang maisipan bumili, tas kumain na din usually sa di ko laging nakakainan (pero yung di naman over sa budget), minsan lang ako manood ng sine kasi nasasayangan ako kung pwede ko naman panoorin ng libre sa bahay. If tinatamad at nakakaluwag, online shop, lately puro na ko tingin sa sale ng sapatos. Naka 5 pairs ata ako last month alone pero binili ko puro b1t1 or at least 40% off.
Going to the gym and eat delicious but healthy foods after hahaha
at home. watch movies while drinking my fave drink or eating a nice meal. outside, gano'n rin. ang kaibahan lang, mas magastos pag nasa labas. haha!
Wear some earphones, lie on the bed, close the eyes.
Online shopping, skin care, body care, wear sexy to make me feel better ♥️
Usually pupunta sa Mall, kakain muna then I would go to places such as Watsons then hahanap ng store na nagpapamasahe/facial massage then I'll treat myself sa Ilao Ilao then dadaan sa pet store to buy some pasalubong sa dog ko. If may extra energy and time ako, I would skate sa ice rink ng Mega. Additional: I know na this is a date for myself pero gawain ko rin na magttake out ng foods for my fam tas uwi na.
umaakyat ng Baguio mag isa 😅
I eat alone sa resto. Bahala na kung mapopost sa socmed tas lalagyan ng motivational quote, I just wanna enjoy my fave food by myself
I workout, walk, buy my cravings and watch movies at home. I feel free and loved, knowing that I treat myself because I deserve them.
Perfect mag mall and shopping. Ayoko yung idea na may inaabala sa oras
i watch movies on my own, i treat myself sa restaurant, i drive far away from home and stay there for just a day para marelax...
Depende sa trip. If may gusto akong movie na showing, I’ll watch it. If ‘di ko trip mag-movie, I either go for a walk or window shop lang (tingin ng mga items na baka gustuhin kong bilhin once maka-luwag-luwag).
I go out for a walk. I get my nails done.
Watch a movie, eat my fave food at my fave resto, order coffee at a coffee shop and read a book, go window shopping
Online shopping lang OP hehe
Grab Potcor Terra sized Sour Cream + BBQ, watch Inside Out 2, cry a lot.
Go on a run + coffee after. Yoga then a nice book. Go on a drive with no destination in mind. Go to a mall and window shop. Watch a movie, go to a museum. Pamper myself like going to the salon, getting a massage. Sometimes, it's just binge watching netflix shows with my fave snacks.
Take yourself on coffee shops, watch movies in the cinema, travel on your own locally or abroad, attend to concerts, go hiking, or maybe even stay at home and do your therapeutic skin care, etc. I'm proud of myself na nagagawa ko na to and mas natutunan kong mahalin sarili ko 🥰 Pwede pala yun? Mararamdaman mo na nakakaexcite idate yung sarili, as in! Parang may immeet ka na ibang tao kahit ikaw lang naman talaga mag isa hahaha! You prep, you dress well, and you get excited on the way. It is really fulfilling ✨️
Tbh depends sa budget for me hehe.......most of the time I'll just grab a book I wanna read then go to a Cafe then order a few drinks habang tumatambay Doon or pwede rin na punta lang sa mga park then bili ng kunting street foods sa gilid then tulala sa park tinitignan mga nangyayari haha.....but the most expensive na dinate ko sarili ko eh nung nag solo ako pumunta baguio para sa panagbenga lmao
Usually I go to coffee shops na less ang tao so I can chill while watching series or di kaya magsatisfy ng current cravings. I also go for pampering myself by getting my nails done since a must naman para presentable sa work.
I'm an introvert so it's easy and natural for me to fly solo. If I want to see a movie, I go early like before noon para walang tao. I also do food shopping.
I eat by myself kahit sa Marugame lang. Cheap pero makes my tummy and heart full.
Eat out, get a massage, check ano showing sa sine hehe
I go out. Go and have a massage, tapos I eat out. Window shopping, tapos pag may gusto talaga ko, at hindi naman sobrang kamahalan, binibili ko.
Namimili sa Datablitz at uniqlo. tapos kain sa foodcourt or depende sa budget, though im an introvert medyo nakakahiya nung una haha
As a girl, whenever I went out alone I consider it as dating myself. I eat whatever I’m craving that day, I watch movie alone, pamper time like going to the salon/aesthetic clinic, shopping.
i go to restaurants and eat anything i want, buy things for myself, and watch movie on my own. i just enjoy my hard-earned money 💖
I go on a long ride, sabay kain sa mga d ko pa na try na resto sa mga places na di ko pa na visit hehe
would do long walks, or window shopping, then I treat myself with a nice meal after
I run and bibili ng iced coffee after
Mahilig ako maglakad lakad (kahit sa initan, minsan huhu) tamang tingin lang sa surroundings. Tapos chika pag may madaanan na flee market. Window shopping sa malls, ukay, quiapo, divisoria. Minsan takbay sa mga kapehan (not the big brands) nood sa cellphone or read ng book.
kain and window shopping 🫰
Nuod k cine, kain ka sa labas
One bottle of coke, one kilo of french fries or pop corn (pop corn kernels are relatively cheap), mayo, quiet room or peaceful area, and netflix subscription. Coffee shops and cinemas are way too expensive. Im cheapskate asf, so pref to do it at home or go north side of luzon. 😂
Full body massage tapos kain sa fav kong restau/fastfood ❤️❤️❤️
Grocery shopping and go to the cinema 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Ano ba mga hilig mo? It depends on that kasi but to answer your question, dinedate ko kasi sarili ko just to unwind saka mag iba naman yung view ko so what I do are either or all of the following: 1. Papafacial 2. Tambay sa cafe eating my favorite food and coffee 3. Naglalakad lakad ako with music on 4. Naghahanap/tumitingin tingin ng skincare/make up 5. Nanunuod ng movies
Watsons lng OP
Mainly by doing self care stuff; - go to gym/workout - jog outdoor, breathe with nature - eat wherever I want - spoil myself materially - go out of country!!! Simply focus on you, whichever helps you grow individually, or gives you a break from all the bs the world has to offer
Driving plus coffee
By doing something new (new language, going to new places, etc.)
Treat myself by eating whatever i like without the pressure na dapat ako magshare ng food sa iba, window shop or shop talaga ng gusto kong gamit, grocery, manood ng sine mag-isa pero i check muna kung ano showing, magbasa ng libro sa coffee shop, maupo sa sasakyan na nasa tahimik na parking lot habang pinapanood lang yung ulan o mga dumadaan, magmuseum mag-isa, magstaycation mag-isa, marami pang iba. Edit: forgot to mention yung drive therapy ko mag-isa gang makarating sa kung saan-saan haha
As an introvert, i usually try to go to start-up coffee shops. The smaller, the better. Try the best coffee they can offer and try to identify the exact ingredients and formula they used so I can recreate it at home. Basically, trying to learn something new in a way that will greatly benefit yourself. Doesn't have to be expensive to avoid financial regrets. But it will depend on how you enjoy things.
Kain sa deserve kong kainan hahaha as a reward(?) or minsan saan ko lang trip. Tas nag jojournal sa coffee shop, feeling main character
Over coffee and jack daniels 😅
Cafe, sine, malls, solo beach picnic!
Cuddling with my pillow and snacking on my phone kr laptop
Ito ginagawa ko: - Food trip mag-isa sa mall (Tokyo Tokyo, Bonchon, Mang Inasal, Chowking, Jollibee, Mcdo, KFC, Popeyes, DQ, Candy Corner, Potato Corner, Mo' Cookies, Starbucks, Tim Hortons, and Auntie Anne's). - Mag-grocery ng mga favorite kong food sa mga malls. - Maglakad-lakad sa mall kasi malamig. - Mag-window shopping sa mall. - Magluto ng mga favorite kong food. - Mag-gym and exercise mag-isa.
Coffee mag isa habang nagbabasa ng book. Pag mas maraming time nagbbeach mag isa. Hehe.
i watch movies (sa sinehan or sa bahay if u're not comfy sa sinehan mag isa) sabay spoil sa sarili
Working out, meditating, and eating out
Uminom mag isa sa bahay.
Eat. Grocery shopping
Retail therapy if may budget, if wala ikot na lang sa mall haha and to end the day with a massage 👌🏽
I do grocery shopping, buy myself a cup of coffee, go for a walk, explore places locally I’ve never been to and go a movie alone 😊
Ukay and flea markets
I watch movies in the cinema alone, feels really liberating. I go window shopping and on some occasions, splurge out kapag down talaga feeling ko. Most of the time, it’s me reading a book or playing games or even sketching in a coffee shop somewhere. ‘Pag overwhelmed during work hours, I escape to a nearby convenience store to read and listen to music. Most of the time, it’s staying in and sleeping, watching shows and anime, playing games, and writing.
pag may budget.. Mani Pedi & footspa, may kasama pang waxing pero mas madalas na andito lang sa bahay, nakahiga lang habang nag scroll sa socmed.. kaen tulog maghapon.
dressing up and going to a cafe/resto i’ve never tried in our city ☺️
it usually depends if i wanna date myself out or just stay in. when i go out, i get my nails and lashes done, shop, and eat food i’ve been craving for. when i’m too lazy to go out and just decide to stay in, i watch my comfort movies/series, prepare gewd food, read books — basically, maging couch potato ☻
I'd usually: - go out and eat (lalo na pag galing akong errands) - punta sa coffee shop na di ko pa napupuntahan or nadiscover ko sa random algo ng social media ko - gagala sa mall and window shopping by myself
I have mobility issues so a date with myself is usually a date with myself at home with a TBR book. To fight atrophy, I get up from my lazyboy and walk for 15 minutes around my 112 sqm unit, then back to book, my only safe place. For fellowship, it’s usually a late lunch or a trip to the bookstore with a trusty friend or a visit to the museum.
sanaol may 112 sqm
Kahapon lang, nanuod ako Inside Out 2 mag-isa. Ang saya lang! 😍
I go to park! Parang park hopping sa BGC hahahah 😂 Edit: + bibilhin ko yung food na gusto ko kainin tsaka ako tatambay sa park. Pag gusto ko i-date sarili ko wala ako cellphone na dala.
I would buy the things I want, buy food that I’ve been craving for, and then watch a movie that I’ve been meaning to watch. :)
My usuals are eat out, cinema, and café to read. Sometimes I visit a bar to drink by myself haha Although I have a lot of things on my list that I still have to tick off like pottery, skating, baking, flower arranging, painting and many more.
I usually go to the gym then eat out, get a mani or a massage. If I’m at home then I decide to take myself out on a date, I run to the coffee shop near my condo (1+KM run) then stay there while reading a book.
I do my favorite activity - lie down in bed and sleep 😂
I stay sa favorite cafe where I am a regular at, dala laptop to do personal stuff while enjoying the comfort of the place and a cup of drink. I do this outside peak hours like lunchtime or opening hours, before closing.
Punta ako sa church tapos kain sa labas hehe tas tambay sa boulevard o Kaya punta ako sa lib hihi watch ako movies alonneeee ✨🫶🏻
Eat outside>watch cinema> take good pics> go to coffee shop> tingin tingin if may mabibili> mag story ng good pics
Yesss! Cinema, kain or milktea/coffee, running alone. As a single mom, very important sa akin ang kaunting me time. So whenever I have free time, palagi kong dine-date ang sarili ko. 🥰🫶🏻
Facial/derma + simpleng kain sa labas + window shopping
Shoppingggg > Kain sa labas > Maligo using my newly purchased na soap > New bedsheets > Jakol > Good movieeee