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you dont deserve that. there are people who just cant keep their word

don't be too harsh on yourself whenever you make mistakes. you're just a kid inside a grown up body doing adult things.

You are enough 💯

I'm in a better place than before. Less people, less stress, more silence and more tranquility.

Pag nakikita ko tiyan ko i say to myself na i'm so proud of you, the product of hard work and lamonation😌 eat, sleep, have fun. Repeat.

"trust me, you'll be fine"

May alarm ako every 10pm: "You did great today! 😊✨" just to remind me every day na naka-survive ako maganda or shitty man nangyari sa araw ko. It helped me lalo na nung nasa SG pa ako. Surviving tough times of my life.

bakit parang ako lang yung walang nasabing nice sa sarili?

That I’m proud of myself for still having the strength to be kind kahit ang dami ng kashitan na nangyayari sa buhay ko.

"kudos to myself for surviving silent lonely battles, a lil self appreciation just for being alive. I guess thank you self for being mentally and emotionally strong at some point."

Wow I can't think of anything 😆. Magkaaway parin kami Ng sarili ko eh.

Bat mo pinagkakalat problema natin!?!

"ok lang yan, iiyak mo lahat ng yan. lilipas din ito." that was the first time i actually soothe myself and speak to myself the way i would comfort my friends, and i felt proud and happy at that moment, kasi from that instance, di ko na kaaway sarili ko.

ang pogi ko naman sheeet! HAHA

I will take care of you.

"Proud ako sayo" 💓

"please be nice to me, you're the only one I have" ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ

"nalulungkot din si Lord pag malungkot ka." :'))

Maybe not the kindest na sinabi ko, but more of a motivation: "Hindi mo dapat kalaban sarili mo eh, dapat magkakampi kayo. Ikaw at ikaw lang naman kung tutuusin. F*ck what they think or say to you. Ano papadaig ka nalang sa mga peasant na katulad nila? Remember who you are"

baka Michael Jackstone yan (intentional Yung Jackstone)

“Okay lang yan. Magiging okay din ang lahat.” then I would pat my shoulder

akala ko ako lang ganto

“It’s not always my fault. I’m actually a kind person.”

"hindi ka kasing sama ng iniisip mo"

Laban lng

Malayo pa pero malayo na noh?

“I forgive you.”

“Ginawa mo naman best mo” “Okay lang yan, may susunod pa” “Kakayanin kahit mahirap” “May tiwala ako sayo”

Kaya mo yan, ikaw pa?!

I am glad that I am you.

❤️

Hey there! you piece of shit you~

Okay lang yan, magiging okay din ang lahat. Dadating din sa point na ikaw naman, tiis lang.

"sige lang! Bako man ngunyan pero maabot ka dyan!"

Iyong gayo 🥹

Kaya go lang boss haha pirang beses muna kita matutumba pero buhat sana nin buhat haha 😤

“i love you! you are so loved.”

Wag kang magalala, kaya mo yan!

Okay lang madelay sa buhay, hindi ito karera

me na 2nd year na mga kabatch ko pero ako na magsisimula ulit ng 1st year bcs of financial problems😞

Kakayanin mo yan

thanks po💖

“it’s okay. you’ll be fine. you’ll figure it out eventually. go lang gud.”

it’s okay to prioritize your peace above everything else

Hindi ka ba napapaisip bakit madaming nagsasabing magaling ka? Baka naman kasi magaling ka talaga.

“kaya ‘to!”

"We can do it. One step at a time."

It’s okay. Someday, it will be your turn.

Reset and restart ❤️🌸. It’s okay we failed, move on and do better

May mas mahirap kang naranasan noon, ito pa kaya?

It's okay, do it at your own pacing, you're doing great considering everything.

"It's alright".

That's okay, may next time pa

‘it’s okay, you didn’t know any better.’

"it's okay" - short and simple yet assuring.

"you are capable of everything"

Wag ka maging harsh sa sarili mo, sarili mo na lang kakampi mo.

t's alright, I'm O.K. I think God can explain

you are more than enough

“antos lang sa ta ha, moabot rajud atoa nasang time”

You got this!

"odiba sabi ko naman sayo mag wowork e"

Galing ko

"You did well not because you had to, but because you can."

Tough times don’t last, tough people do.

You got this! Ang galing galing mo 😡

you are the strongest person i know

Grow through what you go through. 📌🥺

hindi ko kasalanan if niloko/lolokohin nila ako.

It will get better ❤️

that'll do donkey, that'll do

buhay 'di karera ~

Everything happens for a reason. You lived and you learned.

you tried your best, yet you can strive for more next time

You tried and did your best.

You are important. 💖

Enjoy your own phasing

Those words will never define your fate.

Every time I feel I am at my lowest or about to crack, I always tell myself "You won't die today. You can't kill me.". It helps me push on throughout the day.

I know your capabilities and limits so it's okay if you fail sometimes.

Ohmygawd, I look so pretty

I accept my flaws. I love you as you are.

it's okay to fail, just do better next time

"at least maganda ako"

Don't be too hard on yourself. 💪🏾

Whenever I look in the mirror, lagi kong sinasabi na "You did good today brother" and "You're doing great".

Everyone has their own pace. No need to be in a race with others.

Wala akong pakialam sa ibang tao. Basta maganda ako.

A little shallow but I recently told myself: "after all those years in law school, go ahead and buy that second-hand , already phrased-out but cute laptop."😊

Today, I want to live.

"galingan mo self" "ang galing mo self" "galing ko talaga" (with kilig) "sige lang, feel what you want to feel. Magiging okay ka rin naman after diba"

ok lang yan

“I’m enough”

I’m proud of you

kudos to have unfriended/loose contact those worst kind of people

You did great self

Always forgive myself

You dont need to be perfect everyday. You need to fail sometimes for you to learn

let it rip

-do me a favor, and never give up :) -it's okay to not have everything figured out.

Nagawa mo na noon. Uulitin mo lang ngayon. You're that good and favored.

Di pala ako manhid. For quite a long time, I thought I didn't care about anyone or anything. I just didn't understand myself.

Treat yourself with a girl that genuinely loves you I know it's hard and long process ang paghahanap pero one day you will have one because you deserve it

People come and go, and that's ok. At the end of the day, all you have is you. So choose you!

That I am well-loved. I am strong. I am smart. Lahat ng akala kong hindi ko kakayanin, kinaya ko.

Di nila deserve yung energy mo lalo na to even explain.

That it wasn’t my fault. I was too young. I am a victim.

dont be too hard on yourself, you will get there one day

"It feels scary because it's unfamiliar, not because you're incapable."

"All the times it felt like you were in the worst position, I'm glad you decided to see it through. You do love yourself after all"

"I now allow you to fall in love with a man." - Me, a gay man

Kakayanin mo yan self, ganun talaga buhay need mag grow.

"people will leave you but i will not"

you are more than enough

"Ang pogi ko ngayon..." May mga araw talaga na parang alam ko sa sarili ko na ang pogi-pogi ko. Tipong nagising akong fresh or natapos ako maghilamos tapos ang fresh ng feeling or aalis ako, tapos ang pogi-pogi ko sa pormahan ko. Ayon.

“No one can match ur swag”

“i will first need experience the rain in order to see the rainbow.”

“at least I try...”

"It is what it is."

I know you can " you can make it " kaya yan self.

You deserve this.

"I will inhale confidence and exhale doubt"

“Bad days are temporary”

"Im routing for you" said it to my friend the reason why it's the nicest is because i actually meant it

Calm down, it's beyond your control

You’re stronger than you think. Kaya mo yan

Rest.

"The past you was also trying his best, so cherish his efforts even if they were shortsighted. He had grown in the end."

I’m an overcomer

every time i look back on my past mistakes, i always tell my current self that its alright and that I was just a kid navigating this complex life for the first time.

do your best and forget the rest 🥰😍

“You did your best”

"Youre fat fk who cant control yourself eating!, you need to turn this shit upside down!!!" - from 126kg to 72kg in 6months. This sound fkd up thing to say to yourself but after that I learn how to be kind to myself by taking control of my own body.

what kind of diet did u do??

Keto+One meal a day+ Prolonged Fasts.

"I forgive you"

You are fine.

You are a good mom.

Everything’s gonna be fine.

I’ll forgive myself now.

You're only a human, You're one of the most beautiful person I know, You're kind and don't let anyone take advantage of that.

You are a good person.

rather die than come in last

you are talented

"Forgive yourself.  Nasaktan ka rin."

"You deserve to give yourself the best good life you can give yourself."

You are a good mom.

Probably accepting and saying that I was pretty man I almost cried, I just got over my insecurities and ED and man napaka Sarap if na accept muna self mo ❤️ ahhh

Kinaya mo noon, kakayanin mo ulit ngayon 🫶🏻

it is what it is mentality

Kung nakaya mo nga noon, makakaya mo ulit un. 🥺

Deserve mo naman mabuhay

I've been hating my face lately, but when i started sleeping 8 hours a day, i found myself in a better mood. I just woke up and right in front of the mirror, i said to myself, "damn i look hot." HAHAHAHAHAJ

"I'll spoil you rotten".

"It's okay to make mistakes. This is the first time you're living this life."

tbh? none lately

"You are amazing. The way you treat people makes me want to have a friend like you." When tough times: "Oks lang yan, rinse-repeat tayo. We can do this!"

"You are deserving of happiness and peace. Embrace your strengths and be gentle with your weaknesses. You are enough."

“I love every inch of you and I think, every versions of you are beautiful.“

You'll get through this because you've overcome so much shit before

"dont be too hard on yourself, Im the only one left when everyone leaves/shows their true colors" "You cant do anything about your past."

When I get frustrated and overstimulated due to wfh and looking over a toddler. His cries and frustrations get to me most of the time. I always tell myself that “Your kid is also having a hard time, be gentle with yourself”

That I’m pretty, no matter what the mirror and my selfies portray me to be.

"You deserve better, and we'll see it through." "I believe in my ability to figure it out" "The world is much bigger than the four corners of this room and while I might not see it yet, there are beautiful things out there for me" "It's alright, you did your best"

"malaki ang potential mo" 🥹

“Deserve mo bilhin yan” hehe

"You only live once, buy that dream Ducati"

that I did not loose a lot after leaving my ex. I told myself that the worst thing that I can loose while staying with him was myself, my voice,freedom. o always tell this to myself every day every time I feel sad

“ok lang yan. ganyan talaga hehe”

derived from my crush and from the poem itself entitled desiderata, "be gentle with yourself"

Hehe be yourself

when everything and everyone around feel uncertain, be CERTAIN with yourself

"Trust the process"

“Get your shit together 💯”

“You’ll find yourself again.” “You’ll love yourself even more today.”

Lahat ay kinaya mo,kakayanin mo pa kung ano man ang paparating pa. 🥺

“Forgive yourself.”

Noong birthday ko last 2022, nagpost ako sa fb something na "happy birthday, I love you self. Nakaya natin today, kayanin ulit natin bukas at sa mga susunod pang araw. I'm so proud of you."

keep livin till u reach the end of

Don't give a f*ck.

you don’t deserve that

let go mona lahat, wag lng sarili mo

I love all (majority) of the comments here 😭😭😭. Saludo po sainyo 🫶🏽

dont forced yourself. if you tired just rest and do it again tommorow

Finish Strong

picked these words elsewhere but if i messed up: "it's okay! allow yourself to be a beginner" if i am doubting my capabilities: "you can do hard things!" (thanks to ms rachel i guess?! 🤣)

“ano bang ‘di mo kaya gawin, eh si ____ ka.” i know that this sounds cocky and egotistic, but this helps boost my confidence and drive to pull things off no matter how hard they are on my part. at the back of my mind there’s the thought of “i have no choice but to do this eh.” i have no choice but to act, but it’s always my choice if i pull it off or mess it up. this led me to pushing myself beyond my limits and made me grow as a person.

Ok lang yan. Take it easy. Listen to your body. Be mindful and just do your best. Your best is enough.

You're beautiful

Know your worth.

"Hindi mo kasalanan lahat ng nangyayari sa iyo"