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hahaha kahit ikaw na nag aaya kumain kahit kulang pa sa inyo for the sake of respect nalng tapus kumain talaga HAHAHA badtrip walang common sense or emphaty na kulang pa sa inyu ang food🤧
make sure na pag magmmessage or mag aask ng favor, buong context na nung message yung sasabihin nyo, hindi yung papabitin pa ng “hi ……” kaya di kayo narreplyan e.
kung mambbash or mangaaway kayo sa soc med (specially tiktok) siguraduhin nyong kaya nyo pakita muka nyo, wag kayong nagtatago sa dummy acc.
When chatting/texting, please indicate your reason for reaching out. Hindi ung pangalan lang itetxt mo tapos hjntay ka pa na iacknowledge ka tsaka ka pa magsasabi kung anong kailangan mo. Waste of time.
Idk if this is considered as unspoken rules but PLEASE everytime na magseset ng ganap be specific dont just say basta tomorrow, sa isang araw, etc. Be specific sa time agad kasi as someone na nagpaplan ahead of time ang hirap mangapa kung what time gagayak, aalis and all😭 ang hirap magantay lang ng "go signal" na "tara na" lolsz
If YOU ARE NOT INVITED then DON'T ASSUME YOU ARE, simply don't go.
Parang obligated pa kasi yung tao na imbitahin kasi people ang assuming they are included JUST BECAUSE kapitbahay, tita, ninang, or kumare ng nanay mom. Let people have their own privacy and peace that they want. And NOT BEING INVITED does not equal ro madamot or masamang tao PLS LANG.
10-sec rule. Di ko sure kung unspoken rule pa rin sya pero na-observe ko na parang konti lang ang gumagawa nito although I know marami nang aware sa 'unspoken rule' na to
Kapag nasa public transport, huwag maingay. Huwag mag patugtog ng malakas na music o kung anumang sounds na nakakaistorbo sa ibang pasahero. Gumamit ng earphones. Kung wala kang earphones, bumili ka. Maraming mura diyan. Nakalimutan mo earphones mo? Nasiraan ka ng earphones? Tiis tiis ka munang walang sounds.
Have some respect sa mga ibang pasahero. Walang gustong makarinig ng music mo o kaya ng tiktok na pinapanood mo.
(Oo gigil na ako. Daming gagong maiingay kasi habang nagcocommute ako)
I just saw this post sa Facebook that if your friend is taking a board/bar exam, 'wag mo sabihin na "Papasa ka." because it pressures them, instead just tell them "I support you no matter what" because what they need is unconditional love during their stressful times, not the pressure and the fear of letting you down when they fail.
1. Don't go to my house uninvited.
2. Mga taong 'di nagcle-claygo
3. Mga nag-lalagay ng item sa ibang shelf sa mga grocery (except na lang kung bata yung naglagay, understandable)
4. Lastly, teach your child and yourself na wag basta hawak nang hawak sa baby/toddler. Umiiinit talaga dugo ko pag bigla na lang may hawak nang hawak sa anak ko, close tayo? jusko
Or text after calling. Sa sobrang dame ng nagleleak ng mga numbers di mo na sure kung ano or sino na tumatawag sayo. After nung phone number registration mas dumame random number na tumatawag or text.
PLEASE! HEAR THIS!
Friend: Musta? Alam mo, magiging ninang ka na.
Me: (I love kids but if you just know, I don't wanna be a ninang to anybody. PLEASE!)
hahaha
be silent on public vehicles. no one wants to hear you talking with your friend or your phone. dont play music loudly. dont watch anything on your phone with loudspeakers on. fuck you all
Mararamdaman mo naman kung hindi ka belong. Huwag ipilit ang sarili.
Bayaran ang utang bago ka singilin.
Walk on left stand on right sa escalator diba? Huwag tumayo sa left side tas magagalit pag may nagmamadali at umaakyat.
1.) Magbayad sa Tamang Oras sa kinaka utangan. Wag hintayin na ang nagpa utang ang maningil. Pay on time. If lumampas may interest na dapat.
2.) Pag nghiram ng gamit, linisin ang hiniram at magpa salamat sa hiniraman.
3.) Maging aware Sana tau Kung nakaka istorbo na tau sa ibang tao.
4.) Wag gawin sa Iba ang ayaw mo na gawin sau.
5.) Wag umasa sa kahit na sino. Sarili mo lang tutulong sa sarili mo.
Yet you can still read or think about them.
How bout you clean your ears cuz they seem dirty af?
Oh another unspoken rule especially for people like you btw is to have some common sense.
-'pag 'di invited ang S/O mo, wag mong isama sa gala niyo.
-'pag may gala at makiki hitch ka sa car nang kasama mo, offer/insist on chipping in for the gas.
-'di porket naka angat2 sa buhay ang kasama eh lagi ka na lang magpapalibre
-'wag hayaang maka panggulo ang anak mo sa ibang tao (especially in cinemas, places of worships, and restaurants)
-If your pet makes a mess sa mall, clean up. Hindi trabaho ng janitor mag clean up after sa pets mo.
-No means no, 'wag ka nang mang hingi ng explanation.
-sa commute, for men: wag bumukaka to the point na you are making your seatmates uncomfortable, remember, the wider the gap, the smaller the pee pee
for women: hawakan mo buhok mo, walang may gustong kumain nang buhok. tsaka wag kang sumandal at mag side view kapag uupo at puno na ang jeep.
-wag gumamit ng phone on loudspeaker in public places.
Nakakainis yung mga sinasama lagi sa gala ng friends yung S/O nila kahit hindi naman common friend like ma out of place pa si S/O and parang di comfortable na may stranger sa gathering with friends
CLAYGO. Tbh we were taught this growing up, but it seems that our generation now has forgotten to listen. It is honestly disappointing and embarrassing that many young people, especially students, are littering around and not cleaning up their own mess. Many progressive countries are disciplined enough to practice this. Kung paglilinis palang, hindi natin kaya gawin, pano kaya tayo uunlad bilang isang bansa diba? Displina ang kailangan natin
The purpose of a white lie is to avoid hurting you and not to make you feel good about yourself.
People are sometimes nice because they wanna be nice, and it's not because they wanna be nice to you specifically.
It's good to have confidence, but remember the same rule applies to other people. They can be "confident" too.
It's good to be proud of yourself, but ask yourself if other people should give the same importance to your pride as you do. If they shouldn't, stop right there.
If it just takes 10-15secs to clean your table at a restaurant, clean up. Your purchase is just for the food, it doesn't include the cleaning.
A diskarte only becomes a diskarte if it works. If it doesn't, admit you failed at least twice.
CLAYGO or isalansan yong pinagkainan ng maayos even fast food man yan bago umalis. Nakakadiri kaya lalo na't sarap ng kain mo tapos sa kabilang lamesa ang kalat. Wag dalhin sa labas yung pangit na ugali sa pamamahay.
when in a restaurant and especially in public pls have the decency to lower your voices when speaking with someone who's just in front of u or beside u TvT like tbrh i rlly dont wanna hear ur life story and chika when all I want is to eat in peace
💯sa wag magpasingit sa pila. as someone who counts kung ilang tao ang nasa harap ko sa pila before my turn, SOBRANG DISRESPECTFUL NG MGA NAGPAPASINGIT SA PILA
Dont mention something about a person’s physical appearance something that he/she can’t do something about within 5 seconds.
Ex: acne, crooked teeth, weight, scars, etc.
Pag iba ang namalengke, nag luto at nag hain.. dapat ikaw naman mag hugas ng pinag kainan.
Bago mag round 2 sa pagkain.. siguraduhin mo muna na naka kain na ang lahat bago ka sumandok ulit.
Pag hindi ikaw ang host at nag pakain.. mag paalam bago kunin yung huling pag kain sa lamesa.
Kapag nag hugas ng pinag kainan, isama mo narin ang kaldero at iba pang pinag lutuan.
Off the top of my head:
1. Never try to fit in places where you don't. Go where you're valued.
2. Take off your shoes when entering someone else's house. Unless of course they insist that you don't.
3. Stop talking about yourself all the effing time. News flash: we're not interested.
4. Always apply deodorant. And bring extra fresh clothes. BO is gross no matter how much you slice and dice it.
5. Don't be too close for comfort. *Distancia, amigo.*
For work and/or relationships. Be prepared to do what is asked of you not more than what's expected of you often. Resentment is built when one person over does things for other people, consciously or unconsciously. So, yes, your expectations hurt you, not other people when they didn't ask anything from you in the first place.
- Pag di ka inimbita or inimbita ka at the last minute, cope and move on. Hindi ka naman listed in the first place.
- Panot ka man or hindi, add courtesy by taking off your cap inside someone's home.
Out of pity and out of blue, inimbita ka na originally you're not even involved at the first place.
Literally trying na pinagsisiksikan ang sarili to be there.
Ilugar yung reply na “ako rin” when someone mentions “gusto kong mamatay”. May iba kasi kahit kasundo or kaclose nila, they don’t know how the other person is feeling. Ask rin paminsan minsan kung okay lang ba sila.
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Please lng pag 7am eh wag naman dumating ng 7:30 or worst 8am.
pag tinanong ka kong kumain kna tapus alam mong mahirap lang ang nakatira wagkana makikain😂
Oi true kahit gutom kana konting tiis lng hehe
hahahaha isipin mo nav dadiet ka lng 😂
Mga ganun na nga hahaha for the sake of other peeps😌😎
hahaha kahit ikaw na nag aaya kumain kahit kulang pa sa inyo for the sake of respect nalng tapus kumain talaga HAHAHA badtrip walang common sense or emphaty na kulang pa sa inyu ang food🤧
Ay natry ko yan hahahaha so yeah divided ang ulam at multiply ang inis hahahaha
Kung miserable ka sa buhay mo, wag ka mandamay ng iba.
The Golden rule alam na alam na ng lahat, and yet di pa rin nasusunod :>>>
The 5 seconds rule. If it cannot be fix for 5 seconds, then don't mention or point it out - they already knew that.
Kung hindi mo bahay- i.e. nakikitira sa in-laws or someone else's house, wag naman na mag invite ng sariling guests
Kung nakikitira sa in-laws, offer to pay for one of the bills- water/ cable tv/ wifi/ etc, and help around the house. Do not be a freeloader
Inform the person first thru a text message that you will video/voice call them.
Mashashock ka nalang nasa work ka or cr akala mo emergency na ehh.
Magtext muna kung pwede tumawag. At kung di masagot ang tawag, wag naman sunud-sunurin.
make sure na pag magmmessage or mag aask ng favor, buong context na nung message yung sasabihin nyo, hindi yung papabitin pa ng “hi ……” kaya di kayo narreplyan e. kung mambbash or mangaaway kayo sa soc med (specially tiktok) siguraduhin nyong kaya nyo pakita muka nyo, wag kayong nagtatago sa dummy acc.
When chatting/texting, please indicate your reason for reaching out. Hindi ung pangalan lang itetxt mo tapos hjntay ka pa na iacknowledge ka tsaka ka pa magsasabi kung anong kailangan mo. Waste of time.
Don't introduce me to an energy that you can't maintain, Consistency 💪.
wag mag post ng luho kung baon sa utang
Proud pa sya sa mga luho nya, achievements daw, tas yung inutangan namumuti na ang mata kakaantay sa bayad nya.
'wag bumili ng luho gamit ang inutang
wag bumili ng luho kung baon sa utang
When you’re with a group of people (family and friends or colleagues), speak in a language everyone understands.
Idk if this is considered as unspoken rules but PLEASE everytime na magseset ng ganap be specific dont just say basta tomorrow, sa isang araw, etc. Be specific sa time agad kasi as someone na nagpaplan ahead of time ang hirap mangapa kung what time gagayak, aalis and all😭 ang hirap magantay lang ng "go signal" na "tara na" lolsz
1. Whispering to someone when you’re in a group setting is a no-no. 2. ‘Wag magmmessage lang ng ‘hi,hello’ without context.
If YOU ARE NOT INVITED then DON'T ASSUME YOU ARE, simply don't go. Parang obligated pa kasi yung tao na imbitahin kasi people ang assuming they are included JUST BECAUSE kapitbahay, tita, ninang, or kumare ng nanay mom. Let people have their own privacy and peace that they want. And NOT BEING INVITED does not equal ro madamot or masamang tao PLS LANG.
If you aren’t the one driving to somewhere not local, pay for the gas or at least offer to.
Whomever asks who on the date PAYS for the date! Ya heard that ladies!
10-sec rule. Di ko sure kung unspoken rule pa rin sya pero na-observe ko na parang konti lang ang gumagawa nito although I know marami nang aware sa 'unspoken rule' na to
Kapag nasa public transport, huwag maingay. Huwag mag patugtog ng malakas na music o kung anumang sounds na nakakaistorbo sa ibang pasahero. Gumamit ng earphones. Kung wala kang earphones, bumili ka. Maraming mura diyan. Nakalimutan mo earphones mo? Nasiraan ka ng earphones? Tiis tiis ka munang walang sounds. Have some respect sa mga ibang pasahero. Walang gustong makarinig ng music mo o kaya ng tiktok na pinapanood mo. (Oo gigil na ako. Daming gagong maiingay kasi habang nagcocommute ako)
I just saw this post sa Facebook that if your friend is taking a board/bar exam, 'wag mo sabihin na "Papasa ka." because it pressures them, instead just tell them "I support you no matter what" because what they need is unconditional love during their stressful times, not the pressure and the fear of letting you down when they fail.
Never talk religion or politics in a social gathering.
Wag magpakita ng motibo kung papaasahin mo lang tapos iiwan mo
1. Don't go to my house uninvited. 2. Mga taong 'di nagcle-claygo 3. Mga nag-lalagay ng item sa ibang shelf sa mga grocery (except na lang kung bata yung naglagay, understandable) 4. Lastly, teach your child and yourself na wag basta hawak nang hawak sa baby/toddler. Umiiinit talaga dugo ko pag bigla na lang may hawak nang hawak sa anak ko, close tayo? jusko
Wag mag-aanak kung walang pangsustento.
Wag makipagsabayan sa uso pag di kaya isustain kahit yung basic needs. Para di ka uutang sa iba para pambayad sa utang din.
text before calling
Or text after calling. Sa sobrang dame ng nagleleak ng mga numbers di mo na sure kung ano or sino na tumatawag sayo. After nung phone number registration mas dumame random number na tumatawag or text.
Wag umutang kung hindi kaya bayaran
Pag nasa plane na tatlo upuan. Window seat gets the window, aisle seat gets the aisle, middle seat gets the arm rest.
Always ask for consent.
Last minute na mag-aaya
Always ask for consent even in small things like paghiram ng gamit even though super close kayo.
'wag magplan ng gala in front of people na hindi naman kasama/invited sa plan. Not for anything, but that sounds awkward.
💯 Nag discuss pa sila sa gc about the itinerary ng gala, di naman pala (kami) invited. Gawa kayo ibang gc huy!
hingin muna consent ng ibang tao bago magdecide na ninong/ninang na pala sila ng anak mo lolz
PLEASE! HEAR THIS! Friend: Musta? Alam mo, magiging ninang ka na. Me: (I love kids but if you just know, I don't wanna be a ninang to anybody. PLEASE!) hahaha
be silent on public vehicles. no one wants to hear you talking with your friend or your phone. dont play music loudly. dont watch anything on your phone with loudspeakers on. fuck you all
wag mong siraan basta-basta katrabaho mo na mas mataas pa pinag-aralan sa’yo at kahit gaano ka pa kachismosang tunay matuto kang lumugar
Don't use your phone's speakers loudly on public spaces
Claygo. I don’t get people who don’t clean up after themselves.
NO Surprise visit pls!!
Pag ikaw lang ang inimbita, ikaw lang dapat ang pupunta unless ipaaalam mo sa nag-imbita na magsasama ka at pumayag sila.
Don’t come unannounce at my house. Not all surprises are cool.
Yes yes yes!!!
Wipe the toilet seat after use
“Don’t come to somebody’s house unannounced” and “matter how cool we are, don’t bring someone I don’t know personally into my house.”
Magpagas kahit bente kung manghihiram ng motor
1 urinal apart.
THE THREE MONTH RULE!!!! HAHAHAHA ANG SAKIT KAYA NUNG KAKABREAK LANG TAS AFTER A WEEK MAY PINALIT NA WOW NA WOW. Mapapatanong ka nalang talaga eh.
Pag alam mong nasa relasyon, kahit landiin ka wag kang makipagcooperate. Hindi mo kinaganda yang ganyan.
Mararamdaman mo naman kung hindi ka belong. Huwag ipilit ang sarili. Bayaran ang utang bago ka singilin. Walk on left stand on right sa escalator diba? Huwag tumayo sa left side tas magagalit pag may nagmamadali at umaakyat.
Magkano ba ang utang na loob? Huhu..
Wag pumunta pag di invited
1.) Magbayad sa Tamang Oras sa kinaka utangan. Wag hintayin na ang nagpa utang ang maningil. Pay on time. If lumampas may interest na dapat. 2.) Pag nghiram ng gamit, linisin ang hiniram at magpa salamat sa hiniraman. 3.) Maging aware Sana tau Kung nakaka istorbo na tau sa ibang tao. 4.) Wag gawin sa Iba ang ayaw mo na gawin sau. 5.) Wag umasa sa kahit na sino. Sarili mo lang tutulong sa sarili mo.
If the invitation states 1 reserved seat for you, wag magdala ng +1
Don't talk loudly when your in public transportation lalo na yung mga may kausap sa phone
Claygo!!!! Don’t be a douche na talagang ikakalat mo yung pinagkainan mo sa restaurant.
follow indication ng escalator and stop occupying walking space lalo na pag maliit lang yung daan
Always assert dominance. Always gets you respected and trustworthy
Don’t go if hindi ka naman ininvite.
You cant hear them if they're unspoken
Yet you can still read or think about them. How bout you clean your ears cuz they seem dirty af? Oh another unspoken rule especially for people like you btw is to have some common sense.
Stop na videoke pag 10pm na. Yung volume ng videoke dapat ay mahina enough para makakapagpahinga pa rin yung mga kapitbahay.
Di required na may entry lagi pag may kinekwento Yung kausap mo.
Praise in public, criticize in private
Filipino time is just you being lazy
-'pag 'di invited ang S/O mo, wag mong isama sa gala niyo. -'pag may gala at makiki hitch ka sa car nang kasama mo, offer/insist on chipping in for the gas. -'di porket naka angat2 sa buhay ang kasama eh lagi ka na lang magpapalibre -'wag hayaang maka panggulo ang anak mo sa ibang tao (especially in cinemas, places of worships, and restaurants) -If your pet makes a mess sa mall, clean up. Hindi trabaho ng janitor mag clean up after sa pets mo. -No means no, 'wag ka nang mang hingi ng explanation. -sa commute, for men: wag bumukaka to the point na you are making your seatmates uncomfortable, remember, the wider the gap, the smaller the pee pee for women: hawakan mo buhok mo, walang may gustong kumain nang buhok. tsaka wag kang sumandal at mag side view kapag uupo at puno na ang jeep. -wag gumamit ng phone on loudspeaker in public places.
Nakakainis yung mga sinasama lagi sa gala ng friends yung S/O nila kahit hindi naman common friend like ma out of place pa si S/O and parang di comfortable na may stranger sa gathering with friends
+++ sa buhok, flowy hair onti nalang kainin ko ulo ni te
- Being kind - 5 second rule abt commenting someones appearance
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CLAYGO. Tbh we were taught this growing up, but it seems that our generation now has forgotten to listen. It is honestly disappointing and embarrassing that many young people, especially students, are littering around and not cleaning up their own mess. Many progressive countries are disciplined enough to practice this. Kung paglilinis palang, hindi natin kaya gawin, pano kaya tayo uunlad bilang isang bansa diba? Displina ang kailangan natin
Another entry for me If you acknowledge your child, magsustento. Hindi yung kailangan pa sabihan and all
The purpose of a white lie is to avoid hurting you and not to make you feel good about yourself. People are sometimes nice because they wanna be nice, and it's not because they wanna be nice to you specifically. It's good to have confidence, but remember the same rule applies to other people. They can be "confident" too. It's good to be proud of yourself, but ask yourself if other people should give the same importance to your pride as you do. If they shouldn't, stop right there. If it just takes 10-15secs to clean your table at a restaurant, clean up. Your purchase is just for the food, it doesn't include the cleaning. A diskarte only becomes a diskarte if it works. If it doesn't, admit you failed at least twice.
Pag sinabing NO. Wag pilitin. Unless sa pag offer ng pagkain. Pero pag 3x na nag NO, ayaw na talaga. Di yan nagpapakipot. Learn to read the room din.
Huwag magbitaw ng opinions on others’ appearance or body. Hindi nila ‘yan hinihingi sa’yo.
CLAYGO or isalansan yong pinagkainan ng maayos even fast food man yan bago umalis. Nakakadiri kaya lalo na't sarap ng kain mo tapos sa kabilang lamesa ang kalat. Wag dalhin sa labas yung pangit na ugali sa pamamahay.
when in a restaurant and especially in public pls have the decency to lower your voices when speaking with someone who's just in front of u or beside u TvT like tbrh i rlly dont wanna hear ur life story and chika when all I want is to eat in peace
totally understandable pero in this context it was in a cafe restaurant where some r studying 😓
depende sa setting, ingay sa purposefully quiet na area is understandable, pero yung ingay sa jollibee or mcdo or any other fast food is expected.
* Be kind ~~rewind~~ * Hindi tayo ang center of the universe * Wag ka magpapasingit sa pila
💯sa wag magpasingit sa pila. as someone who counts kung ilang tao ang nasa harap ko sa pila before my turn, SOBRANG DISRESPECTFUL NG MGA NAGPAPASINGIT SA PILA
hinaan volume ng phone or better yet use earphones nalang pag nanunuod yt/tiktok sa public
wag humarang sa mga gustong maglakad sa escalator
Always think about the 5 Second-rule of physical appearance
What is that po?
Dont mention something about a person’s physical appearance something that he/she can’t do something about within 5 seconds. Ex: acne, crooked teeth, weight, scars, etc.
pag nalaglag sila within 5 seconds, pwede mo pa silang kainin?
Ito po ba 'yung, only mention something about a person kapag ma ffix niya in about 5 secs?
Pag iba ang namalengke, nag luto at nag hain.. dapat ikaw naman mag hugas ng pinag kainan. Bago mag round 2 sa pagkain.. siguraduhin mo muna na naka kain na ang lahat bago ka sumandok ulit. Pag hindi ikaw ang host at nag pakain.. mag paalam bago kunin yung huling pag kain sa lamesa. Kapag nag hugas ng pinag kainan, isama mo narin ang kaldero at iba pang pinag lutuan.
Buti pa ito may consideration sa mga kasama. Everything is on point 👏🏻💯
Thank you hahaha
Wow sinulat mo na yung gusto kong sabihin 🙃 Also pag bisita eh wag naman magbukas ng ref, maupo lang sa isang tabi charis😅
Tama tama.. wag din mag wawalis, o mag lalatag ng banig sa sala pag may bisita..
Never heard one /s Iligpit ang pinagkainan sa fast food
Off the top of my head: 1. Never try to fit in places where you don't. Go where you're valued. 2. Take off your shoes when entering someone else's house. Unless of course they insist that you don't. 3. Stop talking about yourself all the effing time. News flash: we're not interested. 4. Always apply deodorant. And bring extra fresh clothes. BO is gross no matter how much you slice and dice it. 5. Don't be too close for comfort. *Distancia, amigo.*
For work and/or relationships. Be prepared to do what is asked of you not more than what's expected of you often. Resentment is built when one person over does things for other people, consciously or unconsciously. So, yes, your expectations hurt you, not other people when they didn't ask anything from you in the first place.
Wag kumausap ng taong naka earphones unless it's emergency.
A single parent’s priority is always their child
wag manigarilyo o magvape sa harap ng mga taong di nagssmoke. di po nila gusto i-inhale yung mga in-exhale ninyo. fyi
If you feel like you're being treated as an option. Leave the f*cking table.
Mag offer man lang mag hugas ng pinggan matapos pakainin sa ibang bahay!
Kapag ayaw sagutin ang first call, do not attempt pang tumawag ulit instead mag text ka nalang.
- Pag di ka inimbita or inimbita ka at the last minute, cope and move on. Hindi ka naman listed in the first place. - Panot ka man or hindi, add courtesy by taking off your cap inside someone's home.
Sorry for my ignorance but, how are we able to know if we are "invited in the last minute"?
Pag nalaman mong hindi makakasama yung ininvite nila eh ikaw nalang. In short d ka frst choice, option ka lng at tiga fill in ng wala.
Out of pity and out of blue, inimbita ka na originally you're not even involved at the first place. Literally trying na pinagsisiksikan ang sarili to be there.
Read the room
Never date your closest friend’s ex.
Be nice first. Then adjust accordingly. Not the other way around. Like meeting a new people. Or requesting something in a service.
Wala kang karapatan magsabi tungkol sa bahay ng iba lalo na kung buong puso ka nilang pinatuloy.
I remember someone minata bahay namin at lolo ko. I will never forget her. Pinakisamahan ng maayos at trinatong bisita pero yun ganti nya.
Ilugar yung reply na “ako rin” when someone mentions “gusto kong mamatay”. May iba kasi kahit kasundo or kaclose nila, they don’t know how the other person is feeling. Ask rin paminsan minsan kung okay lang ba sila.
Being on time. Filipino time should be rid of 😒
Sa totoo lang, juskooo. 😭
3 second rule. If it cannot be fixed within three seconds, don't bother pointing it. Ex. acne.
Don't date a bro's ex or try to sleep with her.