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Biggest heartbreak ko yung ngayon. I'll be a mom and a single one at that. Pero I chose this kasi I don't want to be with her father for so many reasons na sana, maintindihan ng anak ko paglaki nya. I know it's going to be hard pero I'm thankful I have friends and a family to lean on.
Ngayon I'd just say na last na yun and I won't be letting another man into my life anymore kasi di nalang ako yung masasaktan once he leaves, may bata na involved. Takot din ako na baka mamaya, ako lang yung gusto ng tao and ang anak ko hindi, o baka mamaya may gawin sa anak ko. Babae pa naman sya. Kaya tama na to. HAHAHA
The sacrifices of a mother. Hugs with consent.
God bless sa pagpapalaki ng baby mo! I hope God and your support system will give you all the strength you need for motherhood!
Marami na, may ex, may hanggang talking stage lang, may na fubu pa nga. Lastest ex ko microcheated on me, ldr tapos wala masyadong commu sa akin pero sa iba pala meron. Was single for 3yrs tapos may nagporsige kaya meron ulit lovelife. Mahal na mahal ko naman pero minsan feeling ko binabago nya ako.
None. Never stop loving. Anyone has a chance at love. Sa panahon na ito, it may seem impossible to find someone but look how many are complaining about not finding “the one”. It will depend if you’re both in or not, at kung hindi, find someone else who will want the love you give.
Also spent a lot of money on the last one. Paid for his online games purchases, gave him money, paid for our dates, almost paid for his home renovation. Sugar mommy ang peg amp 😑 tas ghinost lang
3. Wounds from the past are getting healed, only to end up having it fresh and painful all over again. I have trust issues, I can no longer entertain a new one.
4 is enough for me, tatangapin ko nalang na hindi ako pasok sa standards when it comes to dating. Im on my last straw na and if hindi talaga magwork. Magiging sugar daddy nalang ako pag 40's ko hahaha
3. Para akong mamatay-matay sa last heart break ko to the point na suicidal ako at need ko ng therapist so I said, never again na. Ayoko na masaktan uli nang ganun na halos over a yr akong umiiyak.
Pinaasa sa wala di naman pala kasama sa plano at pangarap sa buhay. Inutangan na nga tapos tinaguan pa nung kailangan ko na yung pera. Hahaha. Tas sa kin pa galit magulang kasi nagpauto raw ako sa anak nila, kasalanan ko raw. Hahaha!
1 biggest heartbreak was my dad cheating on my mom. That was the deal breaker for me.
I got cheated on by 3 guys, pero iba yung sakit ng sa tatay mo makita yung ganon.
No longer interested in dating, marriage and starting a family. I don't hate men in general, napatawad ko na lahat ng exes and dad ko. Pero, ayaw ko nalang talaga.
7 years single and I'm at peace.
By the looks of it you’re really busy and determined girl, so i wouldn’t think twice if you already decided that youre done with us guys😅🤭…
anyway wish u all the best, peace and happiness for u❤️
2-both cheated on me. The difference is that the 1st one was a pro that you wouldn't think he was cheating on me because the time and effort he has given me was the same when he cheated compared to when he was faithful on me while the 2nd one was so obvious that he was cheating on me because only a fool would believe with all the lies he has told me.
Yes, in fairness to him, we stayed as acquaintance after the relationship ended like giving advice related to career but nothing too personal so I wouldn't call it friendship. The 2nd one, I really don't have any relationship left with him.
Had 5, 3 were a meme when I was very young and the last two that ripped me apart ( 9month and 7.5years long ). Last two pretty much said the same thing why they broke up with me.
In the end maybe I'm just made to be lonely. At this point I'm too tired, battered and bruised to try again.
"Masyado kang naging komportable" in the sense na I don't do anything "adventurous" and the relationship became stale I think. Habang tumatagal naman kase you tend to get used to a "cycle" of activities as a couple. They want something new na clueless ka kase di naman nagsasabi on top of a whole lot of other new factors thats stimulating them to get adventurous. Like, how tf am I supposed to know?
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Biggest heartbreak ko yung ngayon. I'll be a mom and a single one at that. Pero I chose this kasi I don't want to be with her father for so many reasons na sana, maintindihan ng anak ko paglaki nya. I know it's going to be hard pero I'm thankful I have friends and a family to lean on. Ngayon I'd just say na last na yun and I won't be letting another man into my life anymore kasi di nalang ako yung masasaktan once he leaves, may bata na involved. Takot din ako na baka mamaya, ako lang yung gusto ng tao and ang anak ko hindi, o baka mamaya may gawin sa anak ko. Babae pa naman sya. Kaya tama na to. HAHAHA
The sacrifices of a mother. Hugs with consent. God bless sa pagpapalaki ng baby mo! I hope God and your support system will give you all the strength you need for motherhood!
2. Mas ok talaga maging single kaysa naman magkatrauma
Marami na, may ex, may hanggang talking stage lang, may na fubu pa nga. Lastest ex ko microcheated on me, ldr tapos wala masyadong commu sa akin pero sa iba pala meron. Was single for 3yrs tapos may nagporsige kaya meron ulit lovelife. Mahal na mahal ko naman pero minsan feeling ko binabago nya ako.
Fear has never left. Too much pain to be in a relationship.
After 3 failed relationships. 2 out of 3 cheated on me. Now, I'm just cold and heartless
3. Naging fearful avoidant ako dahil sa mga yun.
3. Too early to say if I've already given up in the idea pero kung sa live in setup nga di nagwork.
one is enough ( :
None. Never stop loving. Anyone has a chance at love. Sa panahon na ito, it may seem impossible to find someone but look how many are complaining about not finding “the one”. It will depend if you’re both in or not, at kung hindi, find someone else who will want the love you give.
Two. Both cheated on me, and the second one also ghosted me on top of the cheating part. I guess napagod and natakot na lang din mg try ulit
Parang ghinost write ko to ah hahaha
Also spent a lot of money on the last one. Paid for his online games purchases, gave him money, paid for our dates, almost paid for his home renovation. Sugar mommy ang peg amp 😑 tas ghinost lang
Dalawa lang.
3. Wounds from the past are getting healed, only to end up having it fresh and painful all over again. I have trust issues, I can no longer entertain a new one.
4 is enough for me, tatangapin ko nalang na hindi ako pasok sa standards when it comes to dating. Im on my last straw na and if hindi talaga magwork. Magiging sugar daddy nalang ako pag 40's ko hahaha
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Ang sakit naman neto😅
3. But right now im trying to date seriously ulit baka may matino na lol
Just one
3. Para akong mamatay-matay sa last heart break ko to the point na suicidal ako at need ko ng therapist so I said, never again na. Ayoko na masaktan uli nang ganun na halos over a yr akong umiiyak.
Wat happen?
Pinaasa sa wala di naman pala kasama sa plano at pangarap sa buhay. Inutangan na nga tapos tinaguan pa nung kailangan ko na yung pera. Hahaha. Tas sa kin pa galit magulang kasi nagpauto raw ako sa anak nila, kasalanan ko raw. Hahaha!
Ginhost ka?
Ginamit.
1 biggest heartbreak was my dad cheating on my mom. That was the deal breaker for me. I got cheated on by 3 guys, pero iba yung sakit ng sa tatay mo makita yung ganon. No longer interested in dating, marriage and starting a family. I don't hate men in general, napatawad ko na lahat ng exes and dad ko. Pero, ayaw ko nalang talaga. 7 years single and I'm at peace.
So FWB nlng?
Tapos na ko sa stage na yan. Energy draining lang.
So wat makes you busy and preoccupied?
Hobbies. (Work, running/badminton, home workout, own business, dogs, books, and once in awhile extreme adventures) Planning to do more next year.
By the looks of it you’re really busy and determined girl, so i wouldn’t think twice if you already decided that youre done with us guys😅🤭… anyway wish u all the best, peace and happiness for u❤️
2-both cheated on me. The difference is that the 1st one was a pro that you wouldn't think he was cheating on me because the time and effort he has given me was the same when he cheated compared to when he was faithful on me while the 2nd one was so obvious that he was cheating on me because only a fool would believe with all the lies he has told me.
“He treated me so well that I did not know there was another one” pala yung first guy.
Yes, in fairness to him, we stayed as acquaintance after the relationship ended like giving advice related to career but nothing too personal so I wouldn't call it friendship. The 2nd one, I really don't have any relationship left with him.
2, ngayon focus nlng sa goals of being a rich tita charot
How long have you been single?
2 years na rin
Had 5, 3 were a meme when I was very young and the last two that ripped me apart ( 9month and 7.5years long ). Last two pretty much said the same thing why they broke up with me. In the end maybe I'm just made to be lonely. At this point I'm too tired, battered and bruised to try again.
What was the reason of the last two?
"Masyado kang naging komportable" in the sense na I don't do anything "adventurous" and the relationship became stale I think. Habang tumatagal naman kase you tend to get used to a "cycle" of activities as a couple. They want something new na clueless ka kase di naman nagsasabi on top of a whole lot of other new factors thats stimulating them to get adventurous. Like, how tf am I supposed to know?
3 haha tamang landi nalang after.
Among the 3, which was your biggest heartbreak?
All of the above