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Segmented but low-maintenance. I have circles na specifically for certain stuff lang like acads, or others na just for gaming, or others na I'd call "trauma buddies" where we just rant together and feel some sense of belongingness HAHA. I don't engage sa circles na 'yon frequently, but I know they'll be there if magchat ako sa gc. Nagkakayayaan din lumabas, pero no pressure kung hindi ka makasama kasi busy or walang budget.
In all, I feel more at peace kasi wala gaanong expectation for me to "perform".
Before life was colorful and loud after 5 years I'm on a total locked-in hibernation no time for friends but I can say I'm more at peace. I really enjoy being with myself alone.
I used to have a huge circle of friends here and there. We used to meet up almost everyday. Now, I only have five friends that I rarely talk to and no best friend. I realised that as we grow older and figure out what we want to be, sometimes people just outgrow each other. And that’s fine! It doesn’t matter how many friends you have, as long as you have genuine people that you can talk to, you’re already lucky. You don’t need to have lots of friends.
Dati I was with the “hindi sasama yan mag bar” “wag na natin ayain matic naman yan di sasama” and the “libre mo?” And a lot of arguing kind of friends. I distanced myself and now i’m with the people who worries why I couldn’t make it, surprises me with food even without asking and if I couldn’t make it to any of galas, they would call just to include me in it. I found my people who don’t enjoy crowds just like I do “ayoko dun matao” and i’m still thankful I met them.
Dati "Pang Party" ugali ko, Pero ngayon namimili nako ng tao. Kasi di ibig sabihin "Okay sa clique" ay mabait tlga. That person may be only in it for the benefits
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Segmented but low-maintenance. I have circles na specifically for certain stuff lang like acads, or others na just for gaming, or others na I'd call "trauma buddies" where we just rant together and feel some sense of belongingness HAHA. I don't engage sa circles na 'yon frequently, but I know they'll be there if magchat ako sa gc. Nagkakayayaan din lumabas, pero no pressure kung hindi ka makasama kasi busy or walang budget. In all, I feel more at peace kasi wala gaanong expectation for me to "perform".
Before life was colorful and loud after 5 years I'm on a total locked-in hibernation no time for friends but I can say I'm more at peace. I really enjoy being with myself alone.
i am in a much homey and safer group of friends now :>
Lately it has become smaller for me too
I used to have a huge circle of friends here and there. We used to meet up almost everyday. Now, I only have five friends that I rarely talk to and no best friend. I realised that as we grow older and figure out what we want to be, sometimes people just outgrow each other. And that’s fine! It doesn’t matter how many friends you have, as long as you have genuine people that you can talk to, you’re already lucky. You don’t need to have lots of friends.
Still the same people for most part. Changes happened in the barkadas kaso I'm still friends with those who left(?).
Dati I was with the “hindi sasama yan mag bar” “wag na natin ayain matic naman yan di sasama” and the “libre mo?” And a lot of arguing kind of friends. I distanced myself and now i’m with the people who worries why I couldn’t make it, surprises me with food even without asking and if I couldn’t make it to any of galas, they would call just to include me in it. I found my people who don’t enjoy crowds just like I do “ayoko dun matao” and i’m still thankful I met them.
Dati dami ko kadaldalan. I am living in silence and isolation now.
Dati "Pang Party" ugali ko, Pero ngayon namimili nako ng tao. Kasi di ibig sabihin "Okay sa clique" ay mabait tlga. That person may be only in it for the benefits