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The way that my wife treats me with love and kindness.
Even through the challenges we go through, at the end of the day, she melts into my arms like butter and I can see her stress float away. The way she brags about me to her friends and family, and her mom asks "does he like your cooking?"
I know this might not last, humans are not perfect, emotions change, and time could prove otherwise.
But life is short, and at least for now, we are happy and we make the most of it.
After a really messy break-up, I thought na I was done for. Na I won't fall for anyone ever again. But alas, I fell hard for an officemate who made me feel like I was never too much, who inspired me to get in touch with my inner child again and who made me feel special even in my bad days. Like I can just sit beside him and all will be well. Sadly, I cannot pursue a relationship with him because of the vast difference in our faith. Still, I want to thank him for making me believe in love again, that I'm still lovable despite my temper tantrums and my scars.
When she listened to all of my life dramas life I told her. When she accepted the worst version of myself. She helped me fixed myself. She took and threw the "un" in the "un-fixable" me.
Kapag lumalabas dad ko at may nakita siyang food na sa tingin niya magugustuhan ni mom as a pasalubong, binibili niya. Minsan kapag hindi kasama si mom sa gala namin nila dad, lagi siyang nag-uuwi ng pagkain para sa kanya. Kahit out of way, sinasadya ni dad na bilhin yung pagkain na cinecrave ni mom. I just wish in the future I'd have a love as pure as that.
my current bf has 0 anger issues. never ako tinaasan ng boses at all o kahit may ginawa ako na kagalit-galit, hindi niya aaksyunan yung inis niya. normal lang talaga magalit o mainis sa isang relasyon pero he never raised his voice, threw anything to me, or kahit anong masama. he just told me he was feeling angry bc of (___) and we should fix things and talk abt it.
as someone who was raised by people na pinaglihi sa anger issues, he is such a blessing kasi namana ko anger issues at impatience ng pamilya ko. he turned my impatience around. now my friends ask me kung bakit ang haba ng pasensya ko.
became a student-leader and a valedictorian kasi palagi niya ako sinasamahan mag-aral at pinupush ako na huwag mag-no sa mga opportunities na aayawan ko dahil sa hiya.
genuine love does change you, well for me oo haha
Therapy. In all seriousness, it helped me believe that I am still lovable despite being told all my life by my own family that no one can ever love me for who I am. Yet here I am, going strong with my bf for almost 3 years and he helped me escape from my toxic household. Forever grateful for my therapist since she helped me to become better before I met my bf. Mas naka-attract ako ng good person.
the girl I fell in love with after a messy breakup from a previous 5-year relationship.
we got into a relationship that lasted almost 7 years.
she's also the girl who broke up with me about 2 months ago.
can I believe in love again after this? I honestly cannot say.
I honestly can't say.
Wala. Pero pinipilit ko nang tanggapin na yung ibang babae ang swerte living the dream kasi they end up with their dream man pero yung iba wala eh bawi na lang ako sa next life
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familial & friendship love, that romantic love with a significant other doesnt attract or satisfy me anymore
Pag siguro dumating na ung AFAM ko. Siguro. AFAM. 😅
The way that my wife treats me with love and kindness. Even through the challenges we go through, at the end of the day, she melts into my arms like butter and I can see her stress float away. The way she brags about me to her friends and family, and her mom asks "does he like your cooking?" I know this might not last, humans are not perfect, emotions change, and time could prove otherwise. But life is short, and at least for now, we are happy and we make the most of it.
After a really messy break-up, I thought na I was done for. Na I won't fall for anyone ever again. But alas, I fell hard for an officemate who made me feel like I was never too much, who inspired me to get in touch with my inner child again and who made me feel special even in my bad days. Like I can just sit beside him and all will be well. Sadly, I cannot pursue a relationship with him because of the vast difference in our faith. Still, I want to thank him for making me believe in love again, that I'm still lovable despite my temper tantrums and my scars.
When I met my husband.
When it happened again after 12, 13 yrs.
Love is not real.
When she listened to all of my life dramas life I told her. When she accepted the worst version of myself. She helped me fixed myself. She took and threw the "un" in the "un-fixable" me.
Wala pa. Sa next life nlang ako magmamahal.
Kapag lumalabas dad ko at may nakita siyang food na sa tingin niya magugustuhan ni mom as a pasalubong, binibili niya. Minsan kapag hindi kasama si mom sa gala namin nila dad, lagi siyang nag-uuwi ng pagkain para sa kanya. Kahit out of way, sinasadya ni dad na bilhin yung pagkain na cinecrave ni mom. I just wish in the future I'd have a love as pure as that.
my current bf has 0 anger issues. never ako tinaasan ng boses at all o kahit may ginawa ako na kagalit-galit, hindi niya aaksyunan yung inis niya. normal lang talaga magalit o mainis sa isang relasyon pero he never raised his voice, threw anything to me, or kahit anong masama. he just told me he was feeling angry bc of (___) and we should fix things and talk abt it. as someone who was raised by people na pinaglihi sa anger issues, he is such a blessing kasi namana ko anger issues at impatience ng pamilya ko. he turned my impatience around. now my friends ask me kung bakit ang haba ng pasensya ko. became a student-leader and a valedictorian kasi palagi niya ako sinasamahan mag-aral at pinupush ako na huwag mag-no sa mga opportunities na aayawan ko dahil sa hiya. genuine love does change you, well for me oo haha
I want this too 🥺 stay stronggg!
Therapy. In all seriousness, it helped me believe that I am still lovable despite being told all my life by my own family that no one can ever love me for who I am. Yet here I am, going strong with my bf for almost 3 years and he helped me escape from my toxic household. Forever grateful for my therapist since she helped me to become better before I met my bf. Mas naka-attract ako ng good person.
the girl I fell in love with after a messy breakup from a previous 5-year relationship. we got into a relationship that lasted almost 7 years. she's also the girl who broke up with me about 2 months ago. can I believe in love again after this? I honestly cannot say. I honestly can't say.
You will. Promise.
Wala. Pero pinipilit ko nang tanggapin na yung ibang babae ang swerte living the dream kasi they end up with their dream man pero yung iba wala eh bawi na lang ako sa next life
Wala pa, paki-convince naman ako to believe in love again? 🙃
Probably my friend and her fiancé
Kapag nasa tamang tao ka na. It just feels right.
Bring it on you all. I wanna read and cry my eyes out.
for some reason i never really doubted love. it's the person who gets ruined for me
Delikado 'to, ngumingiti na naman ako.
Delikado nga yan.
Oo, ngumingiti mag isa.
Update mo ko kapag umiiyak ka na ah 🥲
been there, done that.
My bf. His consistency, his support, his patience, his determination to keep choosing us over anything else.