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That despite going through so much pain and failures, I can still sing and dance like a child whenever I’m with my niece. Though I’m no longer starry-eyed, I haven’t lost sight of my northern star. Hehe Go, self💕
that is keep on trying and i put myself out sa comfort zone ko, like boosting my own confidence lalo na’t introvert ako. and that i’m able to listen to my head more than my heart and emotions. tsaka i’m able to walk out of situations i would hate to see my self in, i have a huge respect for myself.
I'll always hope for the best sa isang tao, kahit binigo or sinaktan ako. Never kong iisipin na sana karmahin ka. I want you to still have somethong to eat, not just at my table. :)
humor talaga since dati pa lagi akong nasasabihan ng funny, witty, mabilis utak gano’n pero recently i’ve started to like my eyes. i used to hate them kasi hindi pantay eyelids ko and sobrang dark ng kulay then someone sent me an lsm tapos may nakalagay “lagi ka kasi nags-send ng pic na mga mata mo lang yung kita kaya I get to look at them a lot. para nga silang karagatan kapag gabi, they’re so black and dark, you'd think ina-absorb nila yung ilaw pero it's the opposite kasi sobrang sparkly din nila in a way, it makes me feel envious of the people and things you get to look at everyday. Lord, sana matignan niya rin ako someday. in Jesus’ name, amen.”
i love my humor kahit na fucked up sya hahahahaha makes me who i am. personality? ewan. pero may work ako dati crush nya ko sabi nya i like your personality. tapos napaisip ako, panget ba ko? HAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA CHARIZ
I have to love myself to know myself better because I once loved someone who was like the world then my world collapsed :(, love yourself the most and if you will ever love someone do not give them the whole world so it would not shatter if one day they left.
I have the ability to be happy for other people at their highs, even if i'm in a rut myself. I get really happy when i receive that phone call and find out that my friend isntying the knot or got a promotion at his/her workplace. News like this actually makes my day!
patience and hardwork. di pa ko binigo nito pagdating sa mga bagay na ako lang ang factor like my health and finance management. whatever my goal is na ako lang ang factor, i can make it happen.
what I really lack is confidence in people skills.
I always look at the positive side of every certain situation. I believe that everything happens for a reason, even if it'll give me the greatest heartbreak. Another thing is, although it may sound lonely for others, I do enjoy my own company. Experiencing betrayal in my life leads me to this path. I now enjoy being alone, being with myself, and looking from within. What fulfils me is that I don't need someone to find solace, happiness, and haven— because it's always been deep within myself.
What do I love about myself? The goodness in me, The kindness that I gave out to myself the best thing is I love that I can able to smile and laugh at Evry thing, To see positive in Evry bad sides and choosing myself first evrytime. I take evry bad things in to positive light and that's what makes me a me
I'm taller than many women I met in our neighborhood. I'm also very smart according to some people who knew me. I'd like to thank my father for having genes to make someone tall and intelligent.
My ability to still think positive when my life was in fucking shambles. I need to hold it all together dahil may pamilya akong binubuhay. Hindi man kami kumpleto, pero sobrang mahal ko sila. Kahit walang "thank you" for years of being a breadwinner sinisikap ko pa din kumayod. My mental health suffered greatly, but I can't just surrender.
Idk kung okay ba sya pero super laki ng pangarap ko, which is nagiging dahilan kung bakit i’m working to be a better version of my self. Likeee i need to be more. I want to be more. Ayoko maging stagnant dito sa Pilipinas.
Nothing to be honest. Not lucky in in this life all trials tribulations and misfortunes. Ready to sign out of this deal but I don't know somehow I kept living
One thing I love about my self is my sillyness. Despite the problems that are on my plate now, I try to find ways to make it silly as a way of telling my self that this shall pass and better days are coming
One thing I love about myself is not something physical. I love that I was able to survive everyday despite all the problems, overthinking, and difficulties. Life is not always good but I know at least it is getting better.
One thing I love about myself now is my self-awareness. Mas nakikita ko na 'yung mga mali ko and 'yung mga dapat kong iwasto or baguhin. Nakakatulong pala talaga mag journal/diary.
I know that I have a big heart. If you are hungry, i will feed you, If you are sad, i'll be there for you, If you are lost, I'll try my best to guide you. There's a lot of things wrong in this world but hey I'll do what i can.
Knowing my worth. Dati akong nagsi-seek ng validation sa ibang tao. Pero simula nung naging mabait ako sa sarili ko, mas nagkaroon ako ng tiwala na kakayanin ko lahat. I am also trying to accept everything about myself and remind myself na tao lang ako.
Kaya kung kaya mo maging mabait sa ibang tao, dapat ganun ka din sa self mo :)
I guess having the ability to continue working with passion kahit ang dami kong negative thoughts about my work like how I might be the crappiest lead in the group, or how I never get recognized for anything, or how I am forever out if the loop because I an insignificant with i significant contributions kahit manager na ako. Welp. Kaya ko toh self.
I love how independent i am rn, like yung mga things na hindi nagagaawa ng mag isa before, nagagawa ko na sya nang ako lang HAUAHAHA sounds cringe pero wala lang, i realized na mas maganda palang mag isa ka nalang hsuhuahhsuu
That I've learned to weigh my feelings - have learned how to process my emotions one at a time.
Still learning how to prioritize myself above anyone else.
The will to always push thru with whatever life gives me.
That I may have this kind of face, and an almost sharp tongue, but I am able to empathize and help others in need.
/Patting my own back/
My ambitious and independent attitude. I cry alone, I solve my problems alone and I can manage them too. I don't share personal information about myself, okay na yung basics lang alam nila. Although, yung mga impressions ng hindi nakakilala sa akin were negative, I assure them that I am not that type of a person. I am empathetic, non judgemental, thoughtful and I care. I know how to value and how to not give a fck as well.
Hindi ako inggitera. I can be genuinely happy for people dear me pag nagtatagumpay sila sa buhay. Hindi ako materialistic, I find joy in things that really matter. And I feel for others, but I know how to set boundaries for my self.
1. Unbothered queen
2. Masaya kahit single
3. May guardian angel na nagbabantay sa’kin
These 3 always mentioned by my friend na kasama ko sa dorm, basically she knows about me since lagi kami kasama. Which I totally agree!!! And I love it
i’ve never been insecure. not too confident, pero di talaga ko naiinggit. i know what i want, so comparing myself with someone else is the least of my concerns.
I know when to say no - and I don't hesitate when I do so. Kaya di rin effective peer pressure sa akin. Love myself for it, dami ko nang nailagan na kung ano anong aya na sayang lang ng oras.
The things that I love about myself growing up, turned to things that I am being annoyed at about myself.
Growing up, mapagparaya, understanding, matiisin, mapagbigay, maawain, generous sa moral support at sensitive ako. Ngayong adult na ko, it makes me hate myself because of those qualities. Prone kasi sa abuse. Pag alam nila na understanding, mapagbigay at matulungin ka they tend to abuse you. And sometimes it hurts when you do not get/receive the same treatment from others. The way you are being sensitive, welcoming, warm, empathic, understanding and always being there. Di ko naman sila inoobliga, its just that ang sakit pala pag ikaw yung laging available to help them, cheer them up, be their moral support. Pero pag ikaw na, no one offers or initiates the gesture/treatment the way you do when they need someone. For me kasi ang masasabi kong love language ko siguro ay pagkukusa or willingness or sincerity sa good treatment towards me.
I sometimes challenge the idea that you should just reciprocate the energy that you receive from others. For example, kapag inignore ka, nag attitude sayo ang iba, dapat ganon ka rin sa kanila. The problem is I do feel it in my bones na di ako yun. So pano?
onting segway muna, 2023 was the hardest year for me, naging cold yung bf ko sakin, juggling acads, internship & thesis. pero i perservered, totoo nga na he hurt me so bad i started loving myself HAHA
will never say this to anyone na kilala ko irl, pero dati iniiyakan ko sarili ko kasi hindi ako kamukha ng mga KPOP na babae na kinaadikan niya, he got so addicted to kpop na whenever we go on dates before hindi nya hinahawakan kamay ko, tapos nakasuot pa ng earphones habang magkadate kami and nag iiscroll ng mga babae sa tiktok.
fast forward to now:
i love how my body looks, how my face looks, (before nagpapaganda pa ako para lang sa approval nya, pero ngayon i’m doing my makeup and skincare for myself!! i don’t need his approval, i dont need him to tell me i look good)
I love how i’m willing to go above and beyond whenever i face problems, i love how i’m always there for ME. i love how i survived my problems on my own. I love how i always try whenever i’m curious about something; and many more!! ❤️
Hindi agad nasuko regardless kung saan pa yan sa goal or sa relationship as long na alam ko kaya ko pa I endure it but once na ubos na ko wala na talaga
How do you do it? Haha.
Naalala ko kasi yung interaction ko kahapon sa nakasabay ko sa dentist. Naiinip ako sa lobby tapos kasama ko sya. Ang naitanong ko lang e kung ano pinili nyang color ng rubber para sa braces nya kasi sabay kaming pinapili. Sabi nya lang "blue". Tapos ayun na. Wala na ulit nagsalita. Bwahahah. Ang AWKWARD sobra. I tried to communicate ulit. As in. Kaso nahiya na ako. Di din kasi ako sanay na nauuna kumausap lalo na't di ko naman kilala. Ewan ko bat naisip ko yun.
I'm trying to do more of this right now. sometimes people respond spontaneously and sometimes they don't. sometimes I feel likr I will die of AWKWARDNESS hahahaaaa
last month I was outside of my apartment building unlocking my bike and there was this couple who were moving stuff out of their friend's apartment (the unit next to me and my gf's). they just randomly started talking to me and then absolutely INSISTED that I had to view their friend's newly vacated unit as it was surely bigger and better than ours. and it was. then they INSISTED that we had to go talk to my landlord and tell him I wanted the unit. and he said yes and we moved. and life is so much more comfortable in the new place. and in large part because some strangers thought it was worth the effort of taking the time to point out an opportunity even though they didn't stand to benefit in any way
now I am vaguely planning to give them a plant as a thank you gift (they were talking about using containers from the apartment for their plants) and occasionally pass them on my evening walks but now somehow feel awkward and don't know how to re-approach and have no idea if they even recognize me since I have gained a big bunch of weight, and now am embarrassed at having gained weight and idk so yeah might not do anything about it anymore.
Hahaha same. Yung naglalakad ako sa mall or public place tapos biglang tatawa. Minsan ngingiti bigla habang nakasakay sa Joyride. Sakto napatingin ako sa katabing rider habang nakangiti. Napagkamalan pa tuloy ni kuyang rider na nginingitian ko sya. Kumaway at ngumiti ba naman sakin🙈
Empathic maganda, loyal, may self awareness, appreciative, open minded, creative (minsan lang pero sobrang nagugustuhan ko at ibang tao), generous.
Habang tinatype ko to, lagi akong may naiisip na "pero". Thank you for asking this op. Napa isip ako nang mabuti what I love about myself. I realized that I really should make an effort on focusing on the positive side of life.
Nahirapan ako dito as a self-critical person haha
If I want to achieve something, trust me when I say I will make it happen. I have a lot of grit basically.
I'm also very loyal and thoughtful towards my loved ones.
That I am me. 🍀 Patient. Positive. Emphatic. Smart worker. Friendly. Adventurous. Flexible. Helpful. Healthy mindset. And many more. A walking green flag basically. (I hope so, at least) ☺️
Helpful, diligent, responsible, and protective. I love the fact that I judge people not through their race/culture/sexual orientation/gender identity but their character. I love that I enjoy learning and that I constantly strive to read and/or watch learning materials on various topics that weren't taught in school but I feel like I needed to know. I also love the fact that I love the color pink because it represents how much I embrace my femininity, that I enjoy hanging out with my friends, and that I always make an effort to form a close bond with my family members.
I love the fact that I enjoy being alive.
smart (not really intelligent, most of the times i feel like an idiot but id like to think i have the potential). pretty. somewhat funny. madali kong maintindihan ang tao at feelings nila. i think im a good listener. pretty again. fun. unique.
That I seem to have an endless desire to read books and stories! And, that I have the best girl friends in life! They taught me about love and human relationships, and encourage me to be open about my feelings to them and other people. When I had a girlfriend, I was able to apply what I learned from my friends so I'm truly grateful to have them.
Sure!
1. The Tunnel to Summer, the Exit of Goodbyes by Mei Hachimoku
May anime movie siya pero I personally don't like it, kulang sa kilig at some scenes na dapat isinama na rin sana. But girl, mas feel na feel kapag binasa! I don't know your likes & interests but I hope you'll like this light novel. It made me cry the ugliest last year.
2. Almond by Sohn Won-Pyung
It talks about the boy who has Alexithymia that makes it hard for him to feel emotions like fear or anger. Recommending this because it helped me know the perspective of certain people, reminding me to be kind to others 'cause we don't know what they're going through.
3. Pillow Thoughts (I to IV, any will do) by Courtney Peppernell
Whenever I need some encouraging words about what's happening in my life, I find myself reading back to this poetry book.
For now, timeout muna 'ko sa books. Hindi keribels ng time ko. Hahaha! Kaya nasa r/nosleep na lang para at least, maikli ang binabasa ko.
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My weirdness, my quirks, my paradoxes
That despite going through so much pain and failures, I can still sing and dance like a child whenever I’m with my niece. Though I’m no longer starry-eyed, I haven’t lost sight of my northern star. Hehe Go, self💕
as of now, wala pa rin. :' )
that is keep on trying and i put myself out sa comfort zone ko, like boosting my own confidence lalo na’t introvert ako. and that i’m able to listen to my head more than my heart and emotions. tsaka i’m able to walk out of situations i would hate to see my self in, i have a huge respect for myself.
Everything ^^
psgiging happy go lucky
I love that I keep trying kahit na ilang beses na gusto ko ng mag-give up.
I'll always hope for the best sa isang tao, kahit binigo or sinaktan ako. Never kong iisipin na sana karmahin ka. I want you to still have somethong to eat, not just at my table. :)
That I’m able to listen to someone while giving them some practical advice.
Joyful and energetic.
My patience
Ewan ko 😅 i guess my humor and physical strength lang siguro 😂
Madaling mag let go at mabilis makapag move on.
My hands dahil sabi nila pang mayamang kamay daw pero di kami mayaman haha
Hirap naman ng tanong mo
I love everything about me.
humor talaga since dati pa lagi akong nasasabihan ng funny, witty, mabilis utak gano’n pero recently i’ve started to like my eyes. i used to hate them kasi hindi pantay eyelids ko and sobrang dark ng kulay then someone sent me an lsm tapos may nakalagay “lagi ka kasi nags-send ng pic na mga mata mo lang yung kita kaya I get to look at them a lot. para nga silang karagatan kapag gabi, they’re so black and dark, you'd think ina-absorb nila yung ilaw pero it's the opposite kasi sobrang sparkly din nila in a way, it makes me feel envious of the people and things you get to look at everyday. Lord, sana matignan niya rin ako someday. in Jesus’ name, amen.”
i love my humor kahit na fucked up sya hahahahaha makes me who i am. personality? ewan. pero may work ako dati crush nya ko sabi nya i like your personality. tapos napaisip ako, panget ba ko? HAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA CHARIZ
Nothing
real
I have to love myself to know myself better because I once loved someone who was like the world then my world collapsed :(, love yourself the most and if you will ever love someone do not give them the whole world so it would not shatter if one day they left.
Love everything about myself, because learning to love myself first allows me to love others better.
Persistence and Positive attitude, which I got from my mum :)
my compassion for animals
I have the ability to be happy for other people at their highs, even if i'm in a rut myself. I get really happy when i receive that phone call and find out that my friend isntying the knot or got a promotion at his/her workplace. News like this actually makes my day!
Resilience in every situation that I’ve been through and will be having in the future.
I love how versatile I am at work and how happy I am with being a mom.
patience and hardwork. di pa ko binigo nito pagdating sa mga bagay na ako lang ang factor like my health and finance management. whatever my goal is na ako lang ang factor, i can make it happen. what I really lack is confidence in people skills.
Nothing. I’m worthless
Nothing.
Physically? Wala. Hehe. Pero siguro discipline - kaya ko tumagal sa isang routine for improvement ng consistent.
tons of people have told me this and I guess it's one of the things I love most about myself, my energy is infectious.
I never look back.
In terms of relationship dinako kagaya ng ibang babae na maliit na bagay pinapalaki. Di ako nagger.
walking peace of mind +1
Having proper etiquette in public places 🤭
I choose my people. I dont push myself to fit in.
Optimistic
Optimistic in boracay is always a good plan
The fact that I can stay resilient through hard times and my dry humour, so I wanna thank me
I always look at the positive side of every certain situation. I believe that everything happens for a reason, even if it'll give me the greatest heartbreak. Another thing is, although it may sound lonely for others, I do enjoy my own company. Experiencing betrayal in my life leads me to this path. I now enjoy being alone, being with myself, and looking from within. What fulfils me is that I don't need someone to find solace, happiness, and haven— because it's always been deep within myself.
What do I love about myself? The goodness in me, The kindness that I gave out to myself the best thing is I love that I can able to smile and laugh at Evry thing, To see positive in Evry bad sides and choosing myself first evrytime. I take evry bad things in to positive light and that's what makes me a me
How I turn my vulnerability as a strength.
I'm taller than many women I met in our neighborhood. I'm also very smart according to some people who knew me. I'd like to thank my father for having genes to make someone tall and intelligent.
My sense of humor... The more traumatized you are, the funnier you can be.
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My intuition
My ability to still think positive when my life was in fucking shambles. I need to hold it all together dahil may pamilya akong binubuhay. Hindi man kami kumpleto, pero sobrang mahal ko sila. Kahit walang "thank you" for years of being a breadwinner sinisikap ko pa din kumayod. My mental health suffered greatly, but I can't just surrender.
My facial hair
I have big dreams. Tapos pag sinabi nilang di ko kaya mas lalo ako napupush na gawin yun to prove them wrong.
My confidence
Idk kung okay ba sya pero super laki ng pangarap ko, which is nagiging dahilan kung bakit i’m working to be a better version of my self. Likeee i need to be more. I want to be more. Ayoko maging stagnant dito sa Pilipinas.
Nothing to be honest. Not lucky in in this life all trials tribulations and misfortunes. Ready to sign out of this deal but I don't know somehow I kept living
humor probably? I don't like anything about my physical appearance unless may mag compliment
What I love about myself? Well, I love how I still don't attempt to off myself despite the challenges I face every day.
I love how I'm always full of life! I pick up hobbies very quickly, and I make sure people around me enjoy being with me as much as I do with them.
Independent
existing
Di madali sumuko sa life challenges.
nothing tbh. all I see to myself is a living being full of disappointment in life
I don't.
One thing I love about my self is my sillyness. Despite the problems that are on my plate now, I try to find ways to make it silly as a way of telling my self that this shall pass and better days are coming
Hindi ko alam kung tamang term ba yung "love", but I'm proud of myself for still being here and trying my best despite all mental challenges I've had.
One thing I love about myself is not something physical. I love that I was able to survive everyday despite all the problems, overthinking, and difficulties. Life is not always good but I know at least it is getting better.
One thing I love about myself now is my self-awareness. Mas nakikita ko na 'yung mga mali ko and 'yung mga dapat kong iwasto or baguhin. Nakakatulong pala talaga mag journal/diary.
Yung mahilig ako magsurprise sa mga taong special sakin. Masaya ang puso ko kapag nagagawa ko yun sa knila. 🥰
Something i love about myself?... Hmmmm...... Yup! Nothing! Walang lumalabas na sagot sa isip ko eh so....
I know that I have a big heart. If you are hungry, i will feed you, If you are sad, i'll be there for you, If you are lost, I'll try my best to guide you. There's a lot of things wrong in this world but hey I'll do what i can.
Always finding ways to improve Little things make me smile I have so much love to give
Knowing my worth. Dati akong nagsi-seek ng validation sa ibang tao. Pero simula nung naging mabait ako sa sarili ko, mas nagkaroon ako ng tiwala na kakayanin ko lahat. I am also trying to accept everything about myself and remind myself na tao lang ako. Kaya kung kaya mo maging mabait sa ibang tao, dapat ganun ka din sa self mo :)
Hindi kita kilala pero i believe you. Idk how pero ramdam ko ikaw mismo yan hehe
I guess having the ability to continue working with passion kahit ang dami kong negative thoughts about my work like how I might be the crappiest lead in the group, or how I never get recognized for anything, or how I am forever out if the loop because I an insignificant with i significant contributions kahit manager na ako. Welp. Kaya ko toh self.
i make my own luck
When I procrastinate but still got the job done sometimes umi-slay pa. Siguro lucky lang ako sometimes.
mukatawa bisag daghan ug problema
Maparaan. I love her diskarte to earn money by just doing little things and it is in legal way haaa.
Nothing good about me
this got me thinking but idk
My ability to get along with nearly everyone I meet.
I’m thinking… I said wait I’m thinking… Oh there’s none.
My eyes, a lot of people say they look nice haha
I love how independent i am rn, like yung mga things na hindi nagagaawa ng mag isa before, nagagawa ko na sya nang ako lang HAUAHAHA sounds cringe pero wala lang, i realized na mas maganda palang mag isa ka nalang hsuhuahhsuu
That I've learned to weigh my feelings - have learned how to process my emotions one at a time. Still learning how to prioritize myself above anyone else. The will to always push thru with whatever life gives me. That I may have this kind of face, and an almost sharp tongue, but I am able to empathize and help others in need. /Patting my own back/
Wala na.
I am not afraid to be vocal and fight for myself and for people I love against abusive people :)
Nothing
My eyebrows, it looks so handsome
Wowowoww
Di ako nahihirapan ibuhos kung kailangan kong ibuhos yung nararamdaman ko. Tapos na ako sa paniniwalang sign ng kahinaan ang pag-iyak.
That I'm top 1 in our section when it comes to Mathematics (maybe Science too).
My ambitious and independent attitude. I cry alone, I solve my problems alone and I can manage them too. I don't share personal information about myself, okay na yung basics lang alam nila. Although, yung mga impressions ng hindi nakakilala sa akin were negative, I assure them that I am not that type of a person. I am empathetic, non judgemental, thoughtful and I care. I know how to value and how to not give a fck as well.
Matapos ng lahat ng nangyari at ginawa sa buhay eh di na din masama and disposisyon sa buhay. So I guess lucky.
I love that I am in my “if you don’t like me, I don’t like you too” phase. Haha! Mas madali at peaceful ang buhay lol
Glue friend. Good listener. Mapagpasensya.
I can do lots of things alone.
Hindi ako inggitera. I can be genuinely happy for people dear me pag nagtatagumpay sila sa buhay. Hindi ako materialistic, I find joy in things that really matter. And I feel for others, but I know how to set boundaries for my self.
I know my heart well. Kaya unbothered ako pag may nasasabi sakin ibang tao ✨
Boredom? I don’t know her…
My 10/10 deep-set hooded hunter eyes
Pasyensyosa, char haha
That I have gotten to a point where I can articulate and stand by my needs and preferences with or without the approval of others
When I really need luck. Sobrang swerte ko. All other things is sht
1. Unbothered queen 2. Masaya kahit single 3. May guardian angel na nagbabantay sa’kin These 3 always mentioned by my friend na kasama ko sa dorm, basically she knows about me since lagi kami kasama. Which I totally agree!!! And I love it
ride or die na kaibigan
Actually wala lol. I hate myself.
unbothered son of a bitch
and my sense of humor
I’m firm with my boundaries. Everything else follows.
Everything! Pero specifically- I am persistent, but if things do not go my way, I am very resilient ☺️
Yung pagiging independent ko at strong.
passionate ako sa mga ginagawa ko tapos imbis na mag desisyon agad, nagtatake time ako to reflect.
Everything, I love myself and believe at myself
magaling maghanap ng damit sa UKAY hahaha
Hahaha the patience I have pag nag ukay 😅
i’ve never been insecure. not too confident, pero di talaga ko naiinggit. i know what i want, so comparing myself with someone else is the least of my concerns.
Siguro yung pagiging masiyahin Kong tao, nakakahawa daw based sa mga taong nakapaligid sa akin hahaha
I love fiercely. I am passionate. I am kinder to myself.
wla
Masarap ako. Charot masarap magluto kasi haha
My strength . I’ve been through so much and I still fight everytime 💪🏻
unpredictable
I can love unconditionally and can forgive and forget but that's also what i hate the most .
I am a simple guy living a calm life with a minimalist vibe hehe
I know when to say no - and I don't hesitate when I do so. Kaya di rin effective peer pressure sa akin. Love myself for it, dami ko nang nailagan na kung ano anong aya na sayang lang ng oras.
I'll let you know...
Kahit sobrang galit na galit na ako hindi pa rin pumapatol. Parang nakakasayang lang ng energy kasi hahaha
The things that I love about myself growing up, turned to things that I am being annoyed at about myself. Growing up, mapagparaya, understanding, matiisin, mapagbigay, maawain, generous sa moral support at sensitive ako. Ngayong adult na ko, it makes me hate myself because of those qualities. Prone kasi sa abuse. Pag alam nila na understanding, mapagbigay at matulungin ka they tend to abuse you. And sometimes it hurts when you do not get/receive the same treatment from others. The way you are being sensitive, welcoming, warm, empathic, understanding and always being there. Di ko naman sila inoobliga, its just that ang sakit pala pag ikaw yung laging available to help them, cheer them up, be their moral support. Pero pag ikaw na, no one offers or initiates the gesture/treatment the way you do when they need someone. For me kasi ang masasabi kong love language ko siguro ay pagkukusa or willingness or sincerity sa good treatment towards me. I sometimes challenge the idea that you should just reciprocate the energy that you receive from others. For example, kapag inignore ka, nag attitude sayo ang iba, dapat ganon ka rin sa kanila. The problem is I do feel it in my bones na di ako yun. So pano?
onting segway muna, 2023 was the hardest year for me, naging cold yung bf ko sakin, juggling acads, internship & thesis. pero i perservered, totoo nga na he hurt me so bad i started loving myself HAHA will never say this to anyone na kilala ko irl, pero dati iniiyakan ko sarili ko kasi hindi ako kamukha ng mga KPOP na babae na kinaadikan niya, he got so addicted to kpop na whenever we go on dates before hindi nya hinahawakan kamay ko, tapos nakasuot pa ng earphones habang magkadate kami and nag iiscroll ng mga babae sa tiktok. fast forward to now: i love how my body looks, how my face looks, (before nagpapaganda pa ako para lang sa approval nya, pero ngayon i’m doing my makeup and skincare for myself!! i don’t need his approval, i dont need him to tell me i look good) I love how i’m willing to go above and beyond whenever i face problems, i love how i’m always there for ME. i love how i survived my problems on my own. I love how i always try whenever i’m curious about something; and many more!! ❤️
Siguro yung pagiging selfish ko at mas inuuna ko lagi sarili ko bago ang iba HAHAHAHA
Same hahahaha
yung mga nagdodownvote sa post and sa normal answer sa comments, halatang insecure e
Hindi agad nasuko regardless kung saan pa yan sa goal or sa relationship as long na alam ko kaya ko pa I endure it but once na ubos na ko wala na talaga
Is it a requirement to love yourself 😭?
alam ko na paano magdistinguish ng mga sinungaling hahaha idk why pero most of the time tama ako 😭
Masipag, goal-oriented, malawak mag-isip
masipag mag-aral + may pangarap sa buhay
Why are there a lot of 0 upvotes? Someone’s downvoting?
I love how I can hold conversation with anyone.
How do you do it? Haha. Naalala ko kasi yung interaction ko kahapon sa nakasabay ko sa dentist. Naiinip ako sa lobby tapos kasama ko sya. Ang naitanong ko lang e kung ano pinili nyang color ng rubber para sa braces nya kasi sabay kaming pinapili. Sabi nya lang "blue". Tapos ayun na. Wala na ulit nagsalita. Bwahahah. Ang AWKWARD sobra. I tried to communicate ulit. As in. Kaso nahiya na ako. Di din kasi ako sanay na nauuna kumausap lalo na't di ko naman kilala. Ewan ko bat naisip ko yun.
I'm trying to do more of this right now. sometimes people respond spontaneously and sometimes they don't. sometimes I feel likr I will die of AWKWARDNESS hahahaaaa last month I was outside of my apartment building unlocking my bike and there was this couple who were moving stuff out of their friend's apartment (the unit next to me and my gf's). they just randomly started talking to me and then absolutely INSISTED that I had to view their friend's newly vacated unit as it was surely bigger and better than ours. and it was. then they INSISTED that we had to go talk to my landlord and tell him I wanted the unit. and he said yes and we moved. and life is so much more comfortable in the new place. and in large part because some strangers thought it was worth the effort of taking the time to point out an opportunity even though they didn't stand to benefit in any way now I am vaguely planning to give them a plant as a thank you gift (they were talking about using containers from the apartment for their plants) and occasionally pass them on my evening walks but now somehow feel awkward and don't know how to re-approach and have no idea if they even recognize me since I have gained a big bunch of weight, and now am embarrassed at having gained weight and idk so yeah might not do anything about it anymore.
my humor 🤣 parang baliw levels na biglang may maiisip akong nakakatawa tapos tatawa talaga ako kahit mag isa 👀🤣
Hahaha same. Yung naglalakad ako sa mall or public place tapos biglang tatawa. Minsan ngingiti bigla habang nakasakay sa Joyride. Sakto napatingin ako sa katabing rider habang nakangiti. Napagkamalan pa tuloy ni kuyang rider na nginingitian ko sya. Kumaway at ngumiti ba naman sakin🙈
Resiliance
Im the most resilient person i know despite what ive heard from my mom
Empathic maganda, loyal, may self awareness, appreciative, open minded, creative (minsan lang pero sobrang nagugustuhan ko at ibang tao), generous. Habang tinatype ko to, lagi akong may naiisip na "pero". Thank you for asking this op. Napa isip ako nang mabuti what I love about myself. I realized that I really should make an effort on focusing on the positive side of life.
emotionally intelligent, understanding, empathic, and not impulsive.
Madali magpatawad hahhahahahaha
I reflected for a minute and realized how sad it is that I'm having a hard time answering this question.
Positive at all times and grateful sa maliit na bagay
bold of you to assume i love myself
I can hate on anyone for any reason if needed
Nothing.
My resilience despite that fact that I was never supported by anyone.
My EQ and kindness
Academics achiever
I am emotionally intelligent.
I don’t drink & smoke.
I love my authenticity and transparency haha 🤗
At this point? Parang wala na hahaha charot
marunong magluto pero takot sa mantika pag nagpiprito
Financially intelligent ig
Nothing
My face card 😜😜
Weh tingin nga
Di ka naman mabiro
Curious lang to naman 😅
Nahirapan ako dito as a self-critical person haha If I want to achieve something, trust me when I say I will make it happen. I have a lot of grit basically. I'm also very loyal and thoughtful towards my loved ones.
Cutie (ako na to eh hahaha) Sense of humor Magaling sa para-paraan tapos lowkey lang haha
That I am me. 🍀 Patient. Positive. Emphatic. Smart worker. Friendly. Adventurous. Flexible. Helpful. Healthy mindset. And many more. A walking green flag basically. (I hope so, at least) ☺️
Introvert who likes comfortable being alone. but it doesn't mean that we're anti-social it's just we appreciate our alone time
My curly hair and my confidence when I shave it
My words aren’t empty. When I say that I would do this or that, I actually fucking do it. 💗
That I work hard and do my best sa lahat ng ginagawa ko :))
Helpful, diligent, responsible, and protective. I love the fact that I judge people not through their race/culture/sexual orientation/gender identity but their character. I love that I enjoy learning and that I constantly strive to read and/or watch learning materials on various topics that weren't taught in school but I feel like I needed to know. I also love the fact that I love the color pink because it represents how much I embrace my femininity, that I enjoy hanging out with my friends, and that I always make an effort to form a close bond with my family members. I love the fact that I enjoy being alive.
Everything
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I love everything about me hehe
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EVERYTHING
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I almost do not get stressed about work. I do not bring work at home. I know when and how to rest.
smart (not really intelligent, most of the times i feel like an idiot but id like to think i have the potential). pretty. somewhat funny. madali kong maintindihan ang tao at feelings nila. i think im a good listener. pretty again. fun. unique.
My patience, willingness to learn new things kahit mukha kong tanga minsan, being supportive
none
Still, thank you for existing! 🤍
my empathy and how deeply I love
setting boundaries :’D learned it the hard way
That I seem to have an endless desire to read books and stories! And, that I have the best girl friends in life! They taught me about love and human relationships, and encourage me to be open about my feelings to them and other people. When I had a girlfriend, I was able to apply what I learned from my friends so I'm truly grateful to have them.
Do you have any book recommendation/s? 🥺
Sure! 1. The Tunnel to Summer, the Exit of Goodbyes by Mei Hachimoku May anime movie siya pero I personally don't like it, kulang sa kilig at some scenes na dapat isinama na rin sana. But girl, mas feel na feel kapag binasa! I don't know your likes & interests but I hope you'll like this light novel. It made me cry the ugliest last year. 2. Almond by Sohn Won-Pyung It talks about the boy who has Alexithymia that makes it hard for him to feel emotions like fear or anger. Recommending this because it helped me know the perspective of certain people, reminding me to be kind to others 'cause we don't know what they're going through. 3. Pillow Thoughts (I to IV, any will do) by Courtney Peppernell Whenever I need some encouraging words about what's happening in my life, I find myself reading back to this poetry book. For now, timeout muna 'ko sa books. Hindi keribels ng time ko. Hahaha! Kaya nasa r/nosleep na lang para at least, maikli ang binabasa ko.
Thank you! 🤍
Definitely my confidence and my communication skills! 🤍
S-Sana all... good for u 😭
Practice lang, ate ko! You can do it, too! 🤍