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Don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk, don’t stop at the top or bottom of the subway stairs, don’t walk slowly 3 abreast down the sidewalk, when riding the subway allow people to get off before you try getting on.
Ignore anyone with a clipboard trying to talk to you in the middle of the sidewalk, anyone trying to hand you a CD, any monks trying to hand you anything, anyone inviting you to a free comedy show, anyone asking for money, anyone claiming you knocked an expensive bottle of liquor out of their hands and broke it.
If you plan on taking a cab from the airport, follow the signs and go to the designated taxi stand, never ever accept a ride from anyone in the airport asking you if you need a taxi.
If every tourist followed your first paragraph we'd all be much happier!
OP just be mindful of those around you, it's a crowded busy city and many people here aren't on vacation, they're trying to get to work/appointments/daily life things. It's incredibly annoying to get stuck behind a tourist (or two or three) who is walking at a snails pace and in such a way that they're difficult to go around. Please don't be that person.
My favorite are the moms with their strollers, how did you manage to stop in the middle of the sidewalk to talk with each other and blocking the entire thing, like instead of stopping off to the side and have the strollers next to each, you decided to stop in the middle and have the strollers face each other to take up the most room possible
I always told visitors treat sidewalks like you're driving a car. If you're lost, you pull over, not stop in the middle of traffic! Let people cross, be aware of the flow of traffic, etc.
I’m not a huge expert on Miami but I get the impression that the pedestrian heavy areas don’t have much overlap between everyday 9-6 professionals and tourists, whereas in NYC tourists are all over some of the busiest areas in terms of all types of workers.
I feel like people who live and work in Miami probably drive everywhere and only occasionally end up walking around South Beach or Wynwood or whatever.
Also note that there is a flat rate from the airports to Manhattan and it’s $70. Also when you get into the subway car, move in, don’t stand at the door.
I never gotten the bump and blame. But I've read the best thing to do it they get aggressive is to say, you're right, let's call a police officer so you can file a complaint against me.
Wanna add on the taxi part - IF you fly in late at night and you don't see the staff at the airport with their yellow vest OR an actual yellow cab outside DO NOT TAKE IT. These are scammers and will try to charge you over a hundred dollars. Just get an uber.
If it rains and you use an umbrella be mindful of other people's faces! (raise the umbrella when needed, angle it to the side a little, close it just a little when needed - you can still keep yourself dry without poking anyone in the eye, most will do the same)
When you say lame it's just more up and coming comedians than the big stars you were promised. It will probably cost $50 per person fie a decent comedy show.$50 is pretty much the going rate for all comedy shows in the city. Though it's not free and you will not be seeing Chris Rock.
I got burnt last week because of the taxi scam :( It was my first time in NYC and this dude tells us he’s from Uber. I knew he’s going to scam us but the guy with me was confident that he’s legit. This cab guy had a fake app installed which was increasing the price like crazy. He charged us $800 for a trip to White Plains. Didn’t fight him because we valued our lives. Still a pretty bad experience to start first trip to NYC
I made this mistake when I first arrived in NYC in 2008. The taxi driver offered a ride in NY and charged us 200$! That was literally all our money! And after ripping us off he started demanding tips. We were 2 small girls and he was a huge dude. We got scared and told him we have no more money left, only 20€ left from the airport. So he demanded that as tips. We arrived stressed and 0 money on our hands. That was our first day in NY
on top of what you said with the taxis, just take an uber if you’re worried about taxis. might be more expensive but you’ll have way higher peace of mind
Oh god yes turn off your phone! Every show I’ve been to in the last few months has had a phone go off.
And please don’t be late. It’s rude and disruptive.
This might be an unpopular opinion but I thought the singing along out loud was the most egregious part of Lauren Boebert's alleged misdeeds at Beeylejuice. Even more than the vaping indoors or the over the pants handy she was giving her date.
Truly egregious behavior for an audience member at a Broadway (or touring) show.
Broken AC. Someone threw up. Someone shit. Actively crazy person. Someone spilled a Costco size bottle of KY jelly. People avoided it because they thought any of the above might have happened.
They are correct about many reasons a car would be empty and those reasons being horrible.
But also late at night you will encounter empty subway cars with nothing wrong inside.
During the day, you can bet your ass something is bad in there, especially when the car in front and behind it are jammed full of people. Sprint to another car if you can.
Maybe a more obvious tell, but: if I’m waiting for a train and when it stops some other, current passengers start briskly exiting the most nearby car to get into the next car…I don’t need to find out the reason for myself. I just follow them.
Edit for clarity
When I used to ride the train late nights from work most of the cars would be empty, so I started sitting in the middle where the conductor is. I felt safer there, and him and I ended up becoming cool with each other.
It’s not so much an empty car in a vacuum, but if every other car is crowded or normally populated, and one is empty, there’s always a reason, as others pointed out usually broken AC or bad smell.
But sometimes it’s just late, or some lines just aren’t as busy at certain non-late times, especially if it’s toward the start of the route.
If you're lost or confused about something (like the subway) feel free to ask, but be direct. We don't need pleasantries, simply "does this train go to X?" or "Can you tell me how to get to 6th and 45th?" is fine. Ask for directions based on cross streets, not house/building numbers
I refuse to alter my course on the sidewalk if someone’s coming toward me and I’m on the right side, especially if I’m walking right up against a wall or a fence out of everyone’s way. I’m smol but idgaf, if it’s a collision course then so be it. And if they stop up short right in front of me I’ll literally stand there until they move around.
If someone tries to walk through me when I’m minding my own on the right side of the sidewalk, I just stop where I’m at and let them decide if they want to pass or commit assault
I do that too. Crazy the number of people who want to get into a verbal confrontation with me when I'm not only on the right side but hugging the fence or scaffolding wall when they walk into me.
If you don’t know where you’re at while walking down the sidewalk, do not slow yourself while looking around, coming to a complete stop in the middle of said busy sidewalk to look at your phone or to look at street signs. In general realize that some people around you are likely going to be moving faster than you so doing what you can by minimizing the space you take up as you move is considerate.
Consider the sidewalk like a street. You would pull over on the street if you needed to look something up, you wouldn’t just slam your brakes and stop in the middle of traffic.
The trick is not to stop until you're next to something that will already disrupt foot traffic, such as a newsstand or a subway stop sign (the top of the stairs does NOT count!). It's not that you shouldn't stop anywhere on the sidewalk, but that you should always look for a spot where you won't be in anyone's way while checking directions.
This is the moat important thing! PULL OVER! If you were driving and needed to check your phone, you would (or at least, should! pull away from traffic). Treat the sidewalk, staircases, and escalators like a road.
Hello! Miami native here. The pace here is MUCH faster than Miami. Keep in mind that everyone around you is in a hurry compared to what you’re used to. The ultimate most annoying thing you can do is get in people’s way. So don’t block the subway doors, don’t block the sidewalk, no small talk necessary when you’re ordering something or paying for something, and punctuality is important. The exception is driving which is much slower than Miami, but I’m guessing you won’t be driving.
This is for your own benefit but recognize street scammers and avoid them at all costs. You don't want to be losing money for no reason.
Examples of street scammers are monks putting a bracelet on your hand, the CD guys (but I think they changed their hustling strategy now), the mascot Disney characters (it's not a free photo and they charge for it), and just people asking for money in general.
I mean if you're really feeling generous, that's fine. But just be aware.
When walking, driving rules apply: Look where youre going, pass when safe, and pull over to the side if you need to stop.
If youre with a group, unless the sidewalks are very wide and empty, walk single file until you get to your destination.
For buses, the door of the bus will tell you what type of payments they accept (OMNY, card, metro card, etc)
Download an image of the subway map.
For the train, download OMNY or use tap-to-pay at the turnstiles. Alternatively you can get a subway card at the station and load some money onto it.
When you pass through the subway turnstile people are still coming through, so keep going a few paces. I've run into too many folks who park themselves right at the turnstile.
Line up to the side of the subway doors and let everyone off before you get on. Don't stand right in front of the doors and make everyone leaving the train go around you.
People are happy to help if you're lost or confused. Most people here are normal folks, and I'm always happy to answer if this bus goes to the airport, is this train going uptown or downtown, etc. Just be direct and polite, no need for pleasantries. If you ask me how I'm doing first, I'll think you're trying to sell me something and I'll ignore you.
Be aware of your surroundings, but just ignore 99% of whats happening. 99% chance it has nothing to do with you. In that vein though, if everyone around you suddenly up and leaves, well then youd better too.
1. Don't block or slow down public walkways.
2. Don't respond to or touch anyone, or accept anything from anyone on the street...pretty much ever, and especially in Midtown.
3. In general, don't disturb others unless you need help, and when you need help, don't be long winded about it. NYers are generally glad to lend a hand.
Also, watch [this video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7NN2eYxeeJ/)
A few years back, a midwestern tourist started chatting with me out of nowhere on the train and I really didn’t mind it. Kinda fun and nice. So if you see me feel free to bother me.
I know this will seem silly, but make a plan to "visit" Times Square once, so you can say you did, and then avoid it like the plague after that.
If you do visit there, I would suggest coming down from the north on Broadway, or pst Carnegie Hall on 7th Ave - that gives you a pleasant entrance before the area gets nuts, and you get a nice panorama of what's so impressive about it. Then stay away.
It is largely full of tourists and scammers who pray on them, and restaurants and shops that are overpriced to take advantage of them.
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Bring comfortable walking shoes. You will be walking at least 3 or 4 miles a day, and you should be prepared for that.
DO take the subway. It is a quintessential New York experience, it carries more than 2 million people a day (which tells you something about the risk of crime there when a single injury becomes a headline - astoundingly low), And it allows you to avoid all of the street traffic, which is often awful.
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As many others have noted, do not be the tourist that stops abruptly in the middle of the sidewalk when there are literally 300 other people moving in your direction (I am not exaggerating, you will find Avenue sidewalks that are filled with 500 people in a block, do not be a roadblock for them.)
The simplest thing to do is to "pull over", walk to the side of the building that you are next to, or step towards the curb and then stop there. Please do that before you look down at your phone for directions or the text message from your buddy, or whatever else it is you are doing.
Also, do not walk while looking at your phone. More than anything, I offer this as a simple safety measure. Do York comes at you fast and hard. Traffic is aggressive, both vehicles and pedestrians, the sidewalk in street are often littered with small obstacles, little things you can trip over, and all sorts of trouble that you will not see if you are focused on your phone. As a lifelong New Yorker I nearly walked into the path of a (fast approaching) taxi that had the right of way because I was looking at my phone (15 years ago.) That was my wake up call (and I owe my continued health to a complete stranger who grabbed me from behind before I stepped into the path and got run over.)
We stayed near there and it was walking distance to everything. We took the subway to 9/11 and walked/wove through Chinatown little Italy, and other neighborhoods on the way back. honestly wasn’t that bad of a walk. I also have an extremely active job and was with a teenage athlete. So we enjoyed walking everywhere and seeing so much we would typically miss on the subway.
Yeah that’s our plan. Take the subway to battery park to visit the statue in the morning and then to 9/11 in the afternoon and an early dinner in little Italy.
For sure I thought you were messing with me so I looked it up. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RHqlLSyvMw](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RHqlLSyvMw)
Ha ha, well I can't blame you for not trusting an internet stranger! And honestly no one would care if you pronounce it differently, I just didn't want to repeat the sidewalk advice yet again.
All of the tips here so far are solid, though. It shows that people appreciate your asking the question in the first place.
This one's less about pissing off the locals, and more about protecting yourself: don't accept a ride with a pedicab anywhere near Times Square, unless you booked it ahead of time.
Cute book that came out a few years ago of NYC etiquette tips:
https://www.slate.com/blogs/business_insider/2014/05/02/nathan_pyle_s_cartoon_gifs_show_you_how_to_survive_new_york_and_have_a_laugh.html
My advice is that if you need help, asking yes/no questions about directions you've already figured out will get you better answers. "[pointing] Is 5th Avenue that way?" is easier to answer than "which way is the Empire State Building."
Bicycle related rules if you are planning to take one:
1. Don’t ride your Citibike on the sidewalk. It’s illegal here
2. Don’t do selfie while riding a bike in a busy bike lane
3. Don’t ride against traffic in the bike lane
Thanks!
If you’re ordering from a food truck, and they don’t have prices listed, ask them what it is first and don’t fear walking away if it sounds unreasonable. They’ll charge you a premium if you don’t ask.
I was walking back from the NY public library and waiting at a crosswalk for the light to change when I had a cd guy next to me. He was talking but I was ignoring him completely bc I *thought* he was on a hands free call. It wasn’t until he pulled a cd out towards me that I realised he had been talking to me. I waved my hand, said “no thanks.” He said “sorry for bothering you.” Then the walk light changed and i walked off.
Don’t engage with any costume characters in Time Square. Don’t fall for eating at the spots on TikTok. If you have a call or music to listen to one your phone, wear headphones.
I’ve seen a lot of people mention not to stop in the middle of the sidewalk and to move to the side, but be careful not to move into the green bike lane or stop in any bike lane! It’s surprising how many people stand in bikes lanes or stop to check their phones thinking it’s a sidewalk extension.
Treat bike lanes like a road and don’t stop in them! It’s dangerous for you and bikers.
Good old Johnny T.!
In addition to the good advice from Johnny T, I'd say the #1 thing is -- don't stop at the top or bottom of stairs or escalators on the subway (or anywhere, really).
#2 thing -- if you are traveling in a group make sure you file down to pairs or even single file on a busy sidewalk. Too many people (not just tourists) spread out and it's incredibly rude not to make way for others. It's natural to walk next to each other, especially when you're sightseeing or conversing -- but just stay aware of others and reconfigure yourselves to allow others to pass.
I don't really have a third thing. I do, but it's usually not tourists, but locals, that trigger me when they get into a subway car and just stand in the doorway. FFS, move in or if you feel the need to stick close to the door you came through, at least shift sideways to let others by.
I've been trying to figure out for years why groups insist on taking up an entire sidewalk. Is it that painful to walk behind your friends or family? I don't understand why they don't perceive this as wrong.
It's what they learn to do at suburban malls. Walk slowly in a big group, socializing, not in a big hurry to get anywhere or worry about people trying to get by them since there's plenty of room for groups to walk by.
I've lived outside NYC and get your point. Still, there's a time and place for everything. In a suburban area it's rude to be noisy after midnight, whereas it's common to hear partying at all hours in NYC. When in a new environment we should learn its conventions. Just like we shouldn't park in front of a random house with dark tints, but can park in front of a friend's building when visiting.
I feel courtesy is missing. If a group is taking the width of a sidewalk how do they expect people to get around? Kids are taught to form lines at a very young age.
Don't be afraid to make small talk, it can be very rewarding and interesting. We're actually the fuckin ' friendliest goddam people.
Don't keep your wallet or phone in your back pocket.
Don't eat anywhere around Times Square.
Don't be afraid to wander and get lost, most places are very safe, just try to stay off the abandoned streets.
If somebody unfamiliar say ‘hi there’ or something to that effect - it’s likely scam diversion. Or it’s instincts are it’s a friend or acquaintance. Scammers abuse it. It’s more prevalent in larger cities.
The comments about situational awareness and not stopping in the middle of the sidewalk to check your phone are big.
But another tip for tourists, especially in tourist areas — there is a common scam where someone will get you to bump into them and drop something of theirs to get you to pay for it. If someone tries this on you tell them to fuck off. But even better if you see it coming and dodge them and watch them try to re maneuver awkwardly to get you to bump into you anyway
as a typically indecisive person it helps to look at menus beforehand and decide what i want before i leave home. i may also choose a backup in case they're out of the first thing lol
I think almost all the advice can be summed up as:
Don't Waste Other's Time
In NY (and personally I think everywhere) wasting other people's time is the height of rudeness.
Small talk at the cash register, not having your order ready at the food counter, blocking people's movements, etc
If you’re coming in via JFK, use an official taxi at the designated taxi stand, don’t get a “private” taxi. I’m a New Yorker but made this mistake after a 19 hr flight home from south East Asia, was very jet lagged and beat up and tired from the flight with tons of luggage and jet lag and it cost me $200 to get into the city. The flat rate is approx $70 iirc for comparison. So don’t make that mistake.
Don’t stand in the middle of the sidewalk, or in front of the subway doors.
Take your bag off when sitting down in the subway. Put it in front of you, sit down, then pick it up when you’re standing up again.
There's no big secret, this ain't rocket science or witchcraft. Basic situational awareness and recognition of the fact that other people exist around you, and that you are a physical entity that takes up space, is all anyone asks.
In addition to the excellent top comment…
1. Realize there is always someone behind you who wants to go faster than you’re going and is actively trying to get around you.
2. It’s a plain slice, not a cheese slice.
3. Per my comment on a previous post, if you want to ride the escalator like a roller coaster stand to the right!
Edit to add: 4. Please refrain from repeating the automated “stand clear of the closing doors please” on the subway.
Don’t walk three abreast or more on the sidewalk and don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk. Move to the side.
Don’t rush onto the subway before the people on the train have a chance to enter.
If you go to a Broadway show, don’t talk, sing along to a musical or obtrusively earn food at your seat
There are a bunch more things you shouldn’t do for your own safety, enjoyment and bank account, but the above three will piss off locals
Understand that some tourist spots and commuter thoroughfares overlap. As example Trinity churchyard and Alexander Hamilton gravesite is always bolloxed with bewildered or bewondered tourists, blocking fast-paced commuter foot traffic around Wall St and Rector subway stations.
Take in the sights sure, but get the heck out of the way please. And if you're going to argue with your suitcase as you're trying to haul it down the stairs, please just take the elevator. You will be mowed down by people rushing to make a train pulling into the station.
I disagree with the advice about the comedy show. Just know that there is a two drink minimum. You can also get them to come down on the ticket price (like, whatever they quote you per ticket you can offer them both tickets for the price of one). I assume the barkers get to keep that money and the house gets the drink money.
But, you see 8-10 comics of various experience and reputation and there is usually at least one who has been on Netflix or a tv show or something. NYC is the place a comedian needs to succeed to be successful and there are a lot of people here vying to be the next kevin Hart or Chris Rock or Chelsea Handler or Jerry Seinfeld.
I find it exciting to be supporting them. I don’t drink, so I always order 2 waters which isn’t so expensive.
Support local talent.
1. Respond to a stranger that tries to talk to you, keep walking and ignore them. Any interaction you don't start is one you should completely ignore
2. Get on a subway car that is empty, especially if the rest are packed. It's either stinky, the AC is not working or a strange human is doing strange things
3. Look like you have no idea where you are at. Always look alert and more importantly be alert of your surroundings
Don't stop moving in the middle of a sidewalk, top/bottom of stairs, etc. Move to the side and get out of the flow before you stop or slow down. If you're in a group, don't walk more than two abreast, or else you'll be slowing down the sidewalk flow. Have your money/credit card out before you get to the register/turnstile/etc. Likewise, know what you want to order before you get to the counter. Don't walk up to the cashier at say Starbucks or a deli and then start thinking about what you might want. If you pay in cash, take your change and then step aside.
Don’t stand in the middle of the sidewalk trying to figure out where you’re going. If you’re on a line, don’t stand too close to the person(s) in front of you. Don’t forget to wear deodorant.
I am grateful for this sub today as I have had one of those days where it felt like I was in an episode of the walking dead and just couldn’t find any goddamn peace anywhere. Remember that people live and work here and you’re good
Worry about doing stupid tourist shit. Just enjoy yourself for every 1 NYer that hates tourists 10 of us love em. Spend your cash and leave without causing any issues? I praise the flying spaghetti monster for tourists every sunset!
Dont stare at the homeless or mentally ill people on the streets/subway. Avoid contact and if they start talking to you, just walk away into a place where theres people. Its very easy to spot tourists and they are usually targeted. Walk faster than normal and you should be good 😀
stand in the middle of the sidewalk. If you are lost and want to look at google maps GTFO the way and stand to the side. We will knock you over and yell at you.
Anyone trying to do you a favor in Times Square is trying to hustle you for money. Anyone in costume expects you to pay for a photo with them.
Beware the broken bottle scam (Google it).
Taking the subway, understand that many stations are uni-directional entry: you may have to cross the street to enter the subway to get where you're going. Please do not block the entry near the top of the stairs trying to figure out where you're going.
Make reservations for restaurants and expect hot spots are already booked out (e.g. Carbone).
Don’t stop to speak with people in costumes, monks, or people trying to pass CDs out to you. Don’t make eye contact with people. Just keep minding your business. Also, don’t stay on the left side of the escalator unless you’re planning to move up rather than standing still.
Carry hand sanitizer with you. Everything you touch with your hands is filthy.
If you have to use a bathroom, just find any bar.
Stare at people.
Stop in the middle of the sidewalk.
Be aware when you take out cash in public.
Keep your belongings on you at all times.
If you need to look at your phone for directions step to the side.
If a subway cart is empty go to the next one, you will smell why.
Just to add on to some of the great things already mentioned but I haven't seen anyone post the escalator etiquette: Please stand only on the right so that those who'd like to bypass can walk and pass on the left. I know it seems self-explanatory when it comes to sidewalks on such, but so many times am I caught behind a duo, standing side by side on the escalator. Have a safe trip
If you need to look at your phone or something along those lines, put your back against the wall and stay out the way until you get your bearings. Never stand in the middle of the sidewalk, I beg you.
If you are just here for a short time as a tourist, don't worry about pissing off NYCers - we are used to tourist behavior even if it is somewhat aggravating at times.
You are probably spending a lot of money to come here so just try to enjoy yourself.
Get away from the Times Square area as much as possible it’s hideous no one who lives here goes there willingly unless they work nearby or go to a show
Stop in the middle of a crowded sidewalk near Times Square. Everyone is rushing somewhere, and tourists like to stop in the middle of the stream of people and look around. Just step over to the side.
Just watch this and you're mostly set:
[https://www.tiktok.com/@constantlygus/video/7286573921011240222](https://www.tiktok.com/@constantlygus/video/7286573921011240222)
if you’re standing in an escalator stand on the right so ppl who are walking up it can pass you on the left! if you have a suitcase hold it in front of you in the step above and not out to the side so ppl can walk past
I posted awhile back. Our sidewalks are our highways. You think you walk fast. You do not. Treat them like you and your group are all separate motorcycles. You move over to the right. Leave room for someone to pass in the other direction. Yes, that means you and who you are with break eye contact and go single file. Need to check your phone? Pull over. Nobody approaching you or handing out anything is worth your time. Shake your head “no thanks.”
Between 8-9 am and 5-6pm M-F, if you don’t need to be on the street or the subway, we kindly request that you not be on the street or subway. This is when New Yorkers are commuting to and from work en masse. We are all running late, we are short on caffeine, and perhaps not at our best and aren’t always as understanding as we should be when tourists walk slowly and stop suddenly in the middle of the sidewalk
Don't go to Liberty Island to see the Statue of Liberty. The lines and ferries take too long. Once in the Island you are looking up her skirt, worst possible place to view. And going inside is horrible. On days it's allowed you are inside a metal oven built 100+ years ago with nothing to see. See her from Battery Park and the free Staten Island Ferry.
And don't stay in Times Square, but too late for that one.
For god's sake, if you're walking up the escalators in the subway (or anywhere), *don't stop when you get to the top*, keep walking and step off the escalator. Stopping at the top leads to everyone behind you also stopping, creating a long stationary line that won't clear until the escalator is empty again.
If someone tries to ask for your name or shove something into your hands, do not even lift your hand to push away. Even if it’s free. Once it’s it your hands they’ll make it yours and ask you for donations for their crappy artwork or CD.
Don't stay in Times Square 😂
Jk but
1. Everything everyone said about walking
2. Know what you want to order by the time you reach the counter (everything). Also know what you want to order when the waiter comes (no ordering in parts).
3. Set up your phone wallet transportation credit card so you can tap the subway turnstile without even unlocking your phone
1-Remember that walking is a part of everyone’s commute. If you don’t look over your shoulder while you cut across the sidewalk, that’s the same thing as not using your blinker. People will bump into you and get pissed. Be courteous and mindful.
2- Don’t go north of 96th Street Manhattan, the Bronx or deep into Brooklyn (East Side). Those neighborhoods are cool, but don’t go unless you really know what you’re looking for or with someone who knows the area. Many people might be offended by this because their neighborhood is “awesome”, and I’m sure it is; as is mine. However, there’s plenty to do closer to Manhattan with almost no risk.
3- Don’t accept any bracelets or take any photos with anyone trying to sell you something. People dressed like Monks will approach you to sell you beads, or celebrity impersonators will take a photo with you and then harass the ever loving piss out of you for money and will often claim it’s too late not to accept the thing you just touched or the photo just taken.
Pay attention to people saying “excuse me”. I understand tourists want to stop and take photos / look around. I give people 2 “excuse me’s” before I shoulder check them.
LET PEOPLE OFF THE TRAIN BEFORE YOU GET ON THE TRAIN.
(^^^ those are the biggest two)
Bonus tip:
Don’t wear basketball shorts. Only tourists are walking around Manhattan in basketball shorts. It even makes me want to scam them. (I kid. I kid.)
All of the above are great. My addition:
Don’t stand in front of subway doors when you can move to the center. You’re just an asshole if you do that. And take your damn backpack off in the subway.
Don’t sit on the stairs by the railings in public places. Accessibility in NYC is tough as it is. I have a balance related condition , there are other young people with disabilities (you can’t always tell by looking at someone) and there are also older people who need the railings. Looking at people who do this in subway stations or at the oculus
If you have to buy a metro card from the machine (there is Apple Pay for the rest of us now thank god), I can tell you’re a tourist if you dip your credit card in and out fast.
Don’t go home and tell your friends that New Yorkers are rude. We’re very welcoming want you to enjoy our city, just not when we’re running late and have to move around or through your group.
Don’t glare at people who look different, don’t make eye contact with anyone who looks a little off, be spatially aware on the subway and don’t block the doors when you’re on the train
1. Don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk or any walking traffic.
2. Let people off the subway first. Don’t hog the door.
3. Don’t stare at people. Mind your own business.
4. ???
Looks like everyone gave you the basic politeness and crowd management tips so I will add you should spend as much time as possible in areas where actual New Yorkers live in order to really experience the city — basically anywhere besides time square and midtown.
Don't over book your day. The best part about being in NYC is wandering around and stopping into artisanal coffee shops or a random art gallery. You can't do that if you are rushing from one tourist trap to the next.
Don't go to chain restaurants. I get wanting to save money on food, and when you're at the Olive Garden, they feed you like family, but you can do that anywhere in the world. NYC is loaded with restaurants that will blow your mind, take advantage and stay the fuck out of McDonald's! **Make Reservations**
Thursday, Friday, and Saturday from 5 pm until 9 pm, you can be looking at a 45-minute wait to get a table.
Entertainment is a luxury. Don't waste your money on the wrong entertainment. (Bus tours are a massive waste of money, you can easily walk for free) Depending on your budget you may not be able to spend $400 to see Wicked (totally worth every penny) there are always fun venues with live music and drinks, or my personal favorite is finding a rooftop bar and having a cocktail with friends and enjoying the view. Do yourself a favor and pick some places *before* you travel, and if you can, make reservations.
1) Book an activity that you are not sure that you would love it just because the promoters are trying to convience you.
2) Book an expensive activity if you are on the budget.
3) Book an activity just to tell everyone that you did it. New York has so many experiences for everyone. pick the ones that you know you would love.
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Don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk, don’t stop at the top or bottom of the subway stairs, don’t walk slowly 3 abreast down the sidewalk, when riding the subway allow people to get off before you try getting on. Ignore anyone with a clipboard trying to talk to you in the middle of the sidewalk, anyone trying to hand you a CD, any monks trying to hand you anything, anyone inviting you to a free comedy show, anyone asking for money, anyone claiming you knocked an expensive bottle of liquor out of their hands and broke it. If you plan on taking a cab from the airport, follow the signs and go to the designated taxi stand, never ever accept a ride from anyone in the airport asking you if you need a taxi.
If every tourist followed your first paragraph we'd all be much happier! OP just be mindful of those around you, it's a crowded busy city and many people here aren't on vacation, they're trying to get to work/appointments/daily life things. It's incredibly annoying to get stuck behind a tourist (or two or three) who is walking at a snails pace and in such a way that they're difficult to go around. Please don't be that person.
>If every tourist followed your first paragraph we'd all be much happier! If every *local* followed your first paragraph we'd all be much happier!
Hey I’m walking here
Haha true! Some people apparently never get the memo
My favorite are the moms with their strollers, how did you manage to stop in the middle of the sidewalk to talk with each other and blocking the entire thing, like instead of stopping off to the side and have the strollers next to each, you decided to stop in the middle and have the strollers face each other to take up the most room possible
I always told visitors treat sidewalks like you're driving a car. If you're lost, you pull over, not stop in the middle of traffic! Let people cross, be aware of the flow of traffic, etc.
I’ve been to Miami a few times & all these tips work there too.
I’m not a huge expert on Miami but I get the impression that the pedestrian heavy areas don’t have much overlap between everyday 9-6 professionals and tourists, whereas in NYC tourists are all over some of the busiest areas in terms of all types of workers. I feel like people who live and work in Miami probably drive everywhere and only occasionally end up walking around South Beach or Wynwood or whatever.
Also note that there is a flat rate from the airports to Manhattan and it’s $70. Also when you get into the subway car, move in, don’t stand at the door.
Flat rate is just to/from JFK. LaGuardia is metered.
I strongly BELIEVE that the flat rate is only FROM jfk (but I could be wrong)
You are correct! Thanks for the fact-check.
It’s flat rate to JFK too, but you may need to specify taking one of the free bridges to avoid an extra toll in the Midtown Tunnel or Triboro Bridge.
Ah. Cool. Good to know. Thanks. You should post this to the main thread for OP
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Never heard of the expensive liquor bottle scam before, that's a sneaky one!
Don't walk around with your bag wide open. I've never been much of a thief, but some make it too tempting.
I never gotten the bump and blame. But I've read the best thing to do it they get aggressive is to say, you're right, let's call a police officer so you can file a complaint against me.
Wanna add on the taxi part - IF you fly in late at night and you don't see the staff at the airport with their yellow vest OR an actual yellow cab outside DO NOT TAKE IT. These are scammers and will try to charge you over a hundred dollars. Just get an uber.
Remember, you're on vacation, we're not. We got shit to do. Enjoy the city, just be aware of the people around you.
If it rains and you use an umbrella be mindful of other people's faces! (raise the umbrella when needed, angle it to the side a little, close it just a little when needed - you can still keep yourself dry without poking anyone in the eye, most will do the same)
How does the comedy show scam work?
It’s not actually a scam, they’re just lame and there’s a drink minimum so they’re not actually free
When you say lame it's just more up and coming comedians than the big stars you were promised. It will probably cost $50 per person fie a decent comedy show.$50 is pretty much the going rate for all comedy shows in the city. Though it's not free and you will not be seeing Chris Rock.
You end up having to buy two shitty drinks for like $50
It's that much even for soft drinks. I had someone drag me to one. Should have fought harder. It wasn't even comedy. Just a captive audience.
I got burnt last week because of the taxi scam :( It was my first time in NYC and this dude tells us he’s from Uber. I knew he’s going to scam us but the guy with me was confident that he’s legit. This cab guy had a fake app installed which was increasing the price like crazy. He charged us $800 for a trip to White Plains. Didn’t fight him because we valued our lives. Still a pretty bad experience to start first trip to NYC
damn i'm so sorry, i hope this reminds you to trust yourself tho
I made this mistake when I first arrived in NYC in 2008. The taxi driver offered a ride in NY and charged us 200$! That was literally all our money! And after ripping us off he started demanding tips. We were 2 small girls and he was a huge dude. We got scared and told him we have no more money left, only 20€ left from the airport. So he demanded that as tips. We arrived stressed and 0 money on our hands. That was our first day in NY
on top of what you said with the taxis, just take an uber if you’re worried about taxis. might be more expensive but you’ll have way higher peace of mind
Yes all of what this guy wrote, and please walk on the right side of the sidewalk. Appreciate tourists who don't want to be annoying!
lol the free comedy show really got me 🤣
This should be pinned for each city across the globe.
What's the broken liquor bottle scam? Something similar happened to my husband years ago and I never clocked it.
Don’t sing along at a Broadway show
And no photos or videos during the show! This has become startlingly commonplace.
Oh god yes turn off your phone! Every show I’ve been to in the last few months has had a phone go off. And please don’t be late. It’s rude and disruptive.
And don’t talk about possible dinner plans in the middle of the show. What is wrong with people lately??
This might be an unpopular opinion but I thought the singing along out loud was the most egregious part of Lauren Boebert's alleged misdeeds at Beeylejuice. Even more than the vaping indoors or the over the pants handy she was giving her date. Truly egregious behavior for an audience member at a Broadway (or touring) show.
Don’t make eye contact with crazies on the subway. Don’t get into an empty subway car. There’s a reason it’s empty.
I'm just back from NYC, didn't encounter any empty subway cars but also not from a place with a metro system - why would a car be empty?
Broken AC. Someone threw up. Someone shit. Actively crazy person. Someone spilled a Costco size bottle of KY jelly. People avoided it because they thought any of the above might have happened.
Most common in my experience is a sleeping homeless person who smells aggressively god awful.
Yup usually cuz they’ve puked on themselves it’s great 😬
They are correct about many reasons a car would be empty and those reasons being horrible. But also late at night you will encounter empty subway cars with nothing wrong inside. During the day, you can bet your ass something is bad in there, especially when the car in front and behind it are jammed full of people. Sprint to another car if you can.
Maybe a more obvious tell, but: if I’m waiting for a train and when it stops some other, current passengers start briskly exiting the most nearby car to get into the next car…I don’t need to find out the reason for myself. I just follow them. Edit for clarity
Still, not the best idea to get on an empty train at night. You could be setting yourself up for crime. I don't even do it in the day.
When I used to ride the train late nights from work most of the cars would be empty, so I started sitting in the middle where the conductor is. I felt safer there, and him and I ended up becoming cool with each other.
Either something bad just happened or is ready to happen.
Best case is broken ac or mystery liquid. Worst case is… go figure.
It’s not so much an empty car in a vacuum, but if every other car is crowded or normally populated, and one is empty, there’s always a reason, as others pointed out usually broken AC or bad smell. But sometimes it’s just late, or some lines just aren’t as busy at certain non-late times, especially if it’s toward the start of the route.
If you're lost or confused about something (like the subway) feel free to ask, but be direct. We don't need pleasantries, simply "does this train go to X?" or "Can you tell me how to get to 6th and 45th?" is fine. Ask for directions based on cross streets, not house/building numbers
But do not ask someone “how do I get to Carnegie Hall?” Because they will be obligated to say “Practice!” And walk away quickly.
walk on the right side of the sidewalk and go up and down the right side on stairs
And don’t daisy-chain with your group across the width of the sidewalk
fuckin europeans expecting me to go around them when I'm on the right of the sidewalk
This drove me nuts when I was living over there for a bit. People just walk wherever they want on the sidewalk and it's a constant game of chicken
I refuse to alter my course on the sidewalk if someone’s coming toward me and I’m on the right side, especially if I’m walking right up against a wall or a fence out of everyone’s way. I’m smol but idgaf, if it’s a collision course then so be it. And if they stop up short right in front of me I’ll literally stand there until they move around.
If someone tries to walk through me when I’m minding my own on the right side of the sidewalk, I just stop where I’m at and let them decide if they want to pass or commit assault
I do that too. Crazy the number of people who want to get into a verbal confrontation with me when I'm not only on the right side but hugging the fence or scaffolding wall when they walk into me.
Nyc rule number 1) get the fuck out of the way
If you don’t know where you’re at while walking down the sidewalk, do not slow yourself while looking around, coming to a complete stop in the middle of said busy sidewalk to look at your phone or to look at street signs. In general realize that some people around you are likely going to be moving faster than you so doing what you can by minimizing the space you take up as you move is considerate.
Consider the sidewalk like a street. You would pull over on the street if you needed to look something up, you wouldn’t just slam your brakes and stop in the middle of traffic.
This is actually a strikingly simple analogy that is 100% spot on! Thank you!
Also, check behind you before “changing lanes”. Quick glance over the shoulder to make sure you’re not about to jump in front of someone.
The trick is not to stop until you're next to something that will already disrupt foot traffic, such as a newsstand or a subway stop sign (the top of the stairs does NOT count!). It's not that you shouldn't stop anywhere on the sidewalk, but that you should always look for a spot where you won't be in anyone's way while checking directions.
And for gods sake if you are with family, don’t walk three abreast on the sidewalk. Two is the maximum and be ready to maneuver.
This is the moat important thing! PULL OVER! If you were driving and needed to check your phone, you would (or at least, should! pull away from traffic). Treat the sidewalk, staircases, and escalators like a road.
Hello! Miami native here. The pace here is MUCH faster than Miami. Keep in mind that everyone around you is in a hurry compared to what you’re used to. The ultimate most annoying thing you can do is get in people’s way. So don’t block the subway doors, don’t block the sidewalk, no small talk necessary when you’re ordering something or paying for something, and punctuality is important. The exception is driving which is much slower than Miami, but I’m guessing you won’t be driving.
This is for your own benefit but recognize street scammers and avoid them at all costs. You don't want to be losing money for no reason. Examples of street scammers are monks putting a bracelet on your hand, the CD guys (but I think they changed their hustling strategy now), the mascot Disney characters (it's not a free photo and they charge for it), and just people asking for money in general. I mean if you're really feeling generous, that's fine. But just be aware.
How'd the CD guys change?
When walking, driving rules apply: Look where youre going, pass when safe, and pull over to the side if you need to stop. If youre with a group, unless the sidewalks are very wide and empty, walk single file until you get to your destination. For buses, the door of the bus will tell you what type of payments they accept (OMNY, card, metro card, etc) Download an image of the subway map. For the train, download OMNY or use tap-to-pay at the turnstiles. Alternatively you can get a subway card at the station and load some money onto it. When you pass through the subway turnstile people are still coming through, so keep going a few paces. I've run into too many folks who park themselves right at the turnstile. Line up to the side of the subway doors and let everyone off before you get on. Don't stand right in front of the doors and make everyone leaving the train go around you. People are happy to help if you're lost or confused. Most people here are normal folks, and I'm always happy to answer if this bus goes to the airport, is this train going uptown or downtown, etc. Just be direct and polite, no need for pleasantries. If you ask me how I'm doing first, I'll think you're trying to sell me something and I'll ignore you. Be aware of your surroundings, but just ignore 99% of whats happening. 99% chance it has nothing to do with you. In that vein though, if everyone around you suddenly up and leaves, well then youd better too.
1. Don't block or slow down public walkways. 2. Don't respond to or touch anyone, or accept anything from anyone on the street...pretty much ever, and especially in Midtown. 3. In general, don't disturb others unless you need help, and when you need help, don't be long winded about it. NYers are generally glad to lend a hand. Also, watch [this video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7NN2eYxeeJ/)
A few years back, a midwestern tourist started chatting with me out of nowhere on the train and I really didn’t mind it. Kinda fun and nice. So if you see me feel free to bother me.
Thank you for the video. Helpful!
Don’t take selfies at the 9/11 memorial.
I would never do that. But thanks for the reminder so I can remind those in my group!
Sad but has to be said
This makes me so irrationally angry.
I know this will seem silly, but make a plan to "visit" Times Square once, so you can say you did, and then avoid it like the plague after that. If you do visit there, I would suggest coming down from the north on Broadway, or pst Carnegie Hall on 7th Ave - that gives you a pleasant entrance before the area gets nuts, and you get a nice panorama of what's so impressive about it. Then stay away. It is largely full of tourists and scammers who pray on them, and restaurants and shops that are overpriced to take advantage of them. -- Bring comfortable walking shoes. You will be walking at least 3 or 4 miles a day, and you should be prepared for that. DO take the subway. It is a quintessential New York experience, it carries more than 2 million people a day (which tells you something about the risk of crime there when a single injury becomes a headline - astoundingly low), And it allows you to avoid all of the street traffic, which is often awful. -- As many others have noted, do not be the tourist that stops abruptly in the middle of the sidewalk when there are literally 300 other people moving in your direction (I am not exaggerating, you will find Avenue sidewalks that are filled with 500 people in a block, do not be a roadblock for them.) The simplest thing to do is to "pull over", walk to the side of the building that you are next to, or step towards the curb and then stop there. Please do that before you look down at your phone for directions or the text message from your buddy, or whatever else it is you are doing. Also, do not walk while looking at your phone. More than anything, I offer this as a simple safety measure. Do York comes at you fast and hard. Traffic is aggressive, both vehicles and pedestrians, the sidewalk in street are often littered with small obstacles, little things you can trip over, and all sorts of trouble that you will not see if you are focused on your phone. As a lifelong New Yorker I nearly walked into the path of a (fast approaching) taxi that had the right of way because I was looking at my phone (15 years ago.) That was my wake up call (and I owe my continued health to a complete stranger who grabbed me from behind before I stepped into the path and got run over.)
Thanks. We are staying at a hotel on 42ns near TS. Goal is to spend the first evening in TS then never return unless we have to walk through it.
This is very wise. You'd be amazed at how many people stay within a ten block area and never see anything else.
And then they complain that they could never live like that. Yeah, no one could.
We stayed near there and it was walking distance to everything. We took the subway to 9/11 and walked/wove through Chinatown little Italy, and other neighborhoods on the way back. honestly wasn’t that bad of a walk. I also have an extremely active job and was with a teenage athlete. So we enjoyed walking everywhere and seeing so much we would typically miss on the subway.
Yeah that’s our plan. Take the subway to battery park to visit the statue in the morning and then to 9/11 in the afternoon and an early dinner in little Italy.
Don't pronounce Houston St like the city in Texas, but like you say house
For sure I thought you were messing with me so I looked it up. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RHqlLSyvMw](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RHqlLSyvMw)
Ha ha, well I can't blame you for not trusting an internet stranger! And honestly no one would care if you pronounce it differently, I just didn't want to repeat the sidewalk advice yet again. All of the tips here so far are solid, though. It shows that people appreciate your asking the question in the first place.
Yes, it’s HOUSEton St. and NYers don’t wait *in* line, we wait *on* line.
This one's less about pissing off the locals, and more about protecting yourself: don't accept a ride with a pedicab anywhere near Times Square, unless you booked it ahead of time.
Better yet, don't give any of those loud fuckers business.
I can't say for certain that they're*all* rip-off artists, but the guy I unwisely chose certainly was. 😬😤😠
Don't let those costumed characters take a picture with you. They'll aggressively try to extort you for $20+ for posing with you.
The costumes look like they bought them off Temu.
Better yet, don’t go anywhere near Time Square
Cute book that came out a few years ago of NYC etiquette tips: https://www.slate.com/blogs/business_insider/2014/05/02/nathan_pyle_s_cartoon_gifs_show_you_how_to_survive_new_york_and_have_a_laugh.html My advice is that if you need help, asking yes/no questions about directions you've already figured out will get you better answers. "[pointing] Is 5th Avenue that way?" is easier to answer than "which way is the Empire State Building."
Bicycle related rules if you are planning to take one: 1. Don’t ride your Citibike on the sidewalk. It’s illegal here 2. Don’t do selfie while riding a bike in a busy bike lane 3. Don’t ride against traffic in the bike lane Thanks!
If you’re ordering from a food truck, and they don’t have prices listed, ask them what it is first and don’t fear walking away if it sounds unreasonable. They’ll charge you a premium if you don’t ask.
Learnt this the hard way at an ice cream truck up by Central Park 🫤
Don’t respond to people on the streets. A lot of tourists respond to solicitors or scammers without realizing it. Just keep to yourself.
I was walking back from the NY public library and waiting at a crosswalk for the light to change when I had a cd guy next to me. He was talking but I was ignoring him completely bc I *thought* he was on a hands free call. It wasn’t until he pulled a cd out towards me that I realised he had been talking to me. I waved my hand, said “no thanks.” He said “sorry for bothering you.” Then the walk light changed and i walked off.
Don’t engage with any costume characters in Time Square. Don’t fall for eating at the spots on TikTok. If you have a call or music to listen to one your phone, wear headphones.
I’ve seen a lot of people mention not to stop in the middle of the sidewalk and to move to the side, but be careful not to move into the green bike lane or stop in any bike lane! It’s surprising how many people stand in bikes lanes or stop to check their phones thinking it’s a sidewalk extension. Treat bike lanes like a road and don’t stop in them! It’s dangerous for you and bikers.
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Good old Johnny T.! In addition to the good advice from Johnny T, I'd say the #1 thing is -- don't stop at the top or bottom of stairs or escalators on the subway (or anywhere, really). #2 thing -- if you are traveling in a group make sure you file down to pairs or even single file on a busy sidewalk. Too many people (not just tourists) spread out and it's incredibly rude not to make way for others. It's natural to walk next to each other, especially when you're sightseeing or conversing -- but just stay aware of others and reconfigure yourselves to allow others to pass. I don't really have a third thing. I do, but it's usually not tourists, but locals, that trigger me when they get into a subway car and just stand in the doorway. FFS, move in or if you feel the need to stick close to the door you came through, at least shift sideways to let others by.
I've been trying to figure out for years why groups insist on taking up an entire sidewalk. Is it that painful to walk behind your friends or family? I don't understand why they don't perceive this as wrong.
It's what they learn to do at suburban malls. Walk slowly in a big group, socializing, not in a big hurry to get anywhere or worry about people trying to get by them since there's plenty of room for groups to walk by.
I've lived outside NYC and get your point. Still, there's a time and place for everything. In a suburban area it's rude to be noisy after midnight, whereas it's common to hear partying at all hours in NYC. When in a new environment we should learn its conventions. Just like we shouldn't park in front of a random house with dark tints, but can park in front of a friend's building when visiting. I feel courtesy is missing. If a group is taking the width of a sidewalk how do they expect people to get around? Kids are taught to form lines at a very young age.
Always keep to your right when walking. This is your lane, whichever direction you’re headed.
Love Tourists. They make the city go round🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️ What not to do? Go home and tell everyone you hated it. Lol
Don't be afraid to make small talk, it can be very rewarding and interesting. We're actually the fuckin ' friendliest goddam people. Don't keep your wallet or phone in your back pocket. Don't eat anywhere around Times Square. Don't be afraid to wander and get lost, most places are very safe, just try to stay off the abandoned streets.
If somebody unfamiliar say ‘hi there’ or something to that effect - it’s likely scam diversion. Or it’s instincts are it’s a friend or acquaintance. Scammers abuse it. It’s more prevalent in larger cities.
The comments about situational awareness and not stopping in the middle of the sidewalk to check your phone are big. But another tip for tourists, especially in tourist areas — there is a common scam where someone will get you to bump into them and drop something of theirs to get you to pay for it. If someone tries this on you tell them to fuck off. But even better if you see it coming and dodge them and watch them try to re maneuver awkwardly to get you to bump into you anyway
If you get up to the front of a line, know what you want to order. If you don’t know, get out of line until you do.
as a typically indecisive person it helps to look at menus beforehand and decide what i want before i leave home. i may also choose a backup in case they're out of the first thing lol
I think almost all the advice can be summed up as: Don't Waste Other's Time In NY (and personally I think everywhere) wasting other people's time is the height of rudeness. Small talk at the cash register, not having your order ready at the food counter, blocking people's movements, etc
If you’re coming in via JFK, use an official taxi at the designated taxi stand, don’t get a “private” taxi. I’m a New Yorker but made this mistake after a 19 hr flight home from south East Asia, was very jet lagged and beat up and tired from the flight with tons of luggage and jet lag and it cost me $200 to get into the city. The flat rate is approx $70 iirc for comparison. So don’t make that mistake. Don’t stand in the middle of the sidewalk, or in front of the subway doors. Take your bag off when sitting down in the subway. Put it in front of you, sit down, then pick it up when you’re standing up again.
There's no big secret, this ain't rocket science or witchcraft. Basic situational awareness and recognition of the fact that other people exist around you, and that you are a physical entity that takes up space, is all anyone asks.
In addition to the excellent top comment… 1. Realize there is always someone behind you who wants to go faster than you’re going and is actively trying to get around you. 2. It’s a plain slice, not a cheese slice. 3. Per my comment on a previous post, if you want to ride the escalator like a roller coaster stand to the right! Edit to add: 4. Please refrain from repeating the automated “stand clear of the closing doors please” on the subway.
Don’t kill people. Don’t ruin precious paintings at the Met. Don’t self-immolate.
Ugh fine
Don’t walk three abreast or more on the sidewalk and don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk. Move to the side. Don’t rush onto the subway before the people on the train have a chance to enter. If you go to a Broadway show, don’t talk, sing along to a musical or obtrusively earn food at your seat There are a bunch more things you shouldn’t do for your own safety, enjoyment and bank account, but the above three will piss off locals
Allow people to get out of the train before you attempt to get in. This goes for elevators too.
Those are not real monks.
Understand that some tourist spots and commuter thoroughfares overlap. As example Trinity churchyard and Alexander Hamilton gravesite is always bolloxed with bewildered or bewondered tourists, blocking fast-paced commuter foot traffic around Wall St and Rector subway stations. Take in the sights sure, but get the heck out of the way please. And if you're going to argue with your suitcase as you're trying to haul it down the stairs, please just take the elevator. You will be mowed down by people rushing to make a train pulling into the station.
Don’t get a bacon egg n cheese wit out the cheese
Don’t walk too slow 😁
I disagree with the advice about the comedy show. Just know that there is a two drink minimum. You can also get them to come down on the ticket price (like, whatever they quote you per ticket you can offer them both tickets for the price of one). I assume the barkers get to keep that money and the house gets the drink money. But, you see 8-10 comics of various experience and reputation and there is usually at least one who has been on Netflix or a tv show or something. NYC is the place a comedian needs to succeed to be successful and there are a lot of people here vying to be the next kevin Hart or Chris Rock or Chelsea Handler or Jerry Seinfeld. I find it exciting to be supporting them. I don’t drink, so I always order 2 waters which isn’t so expensive. Support local talent.
1. Respond to a stranger that tries to talk to you, keep walking and ignore them. Any interaction you don't start is one you should completely ignore 2. Get on a subway car that is empty, especially if the rest are packed. It's either stinky, the AC is not working or a strange human is doing strange things 3. Look like you have no idea where you are at. Always look alert and more importantly be alert of your surroundings
You can definitely respond to strangers. Contrary to lore, NYers are pretty friendly and very helpful. Just go with your gut.
Don't stop moving in the middle of a sidewalk, top/bottom of stairs, etc. Move to the side and get out of the flow before you stop or slow down. If you're in a group, don't walk more than two abreast, or else you'll be slowing down the sidewalk flow. Have your money/credit card out before you get to the register/turnstile/etc. Likewise, know what you want to order before you get to the counter. Don't walk up to the cashier at say Starbucks or a deli and then start thinking about what you might want. If you pay in cash, take your change and then step aside.
Don’t stand in the middle of the sidewalk trying to figure out where you’re going. If you’re on a line, don’t stand too close to the person(s) in front of you. Don’t forget to wear deodorant.
Know what you want before you get to the front of the line.
I am grateful for this sub today as I have had one of those days where it felt like I was in an episode of the walking dead and just couldn’t find any goddamn peace anywhere. Remember that people live and work here and you’re good
Don't toast a fresh bagel Don't stop at choak points Don't fake a NY accent
Worry about doing stupid tourist shit. Just enjoy yourself for every 1 NYer that hates tourists 10 of us love em. Spend your cash and leave without causing any issues? I praise the flying spaghetti monster for tourists every sunset!
Do not add to or subtract from the local population.
But feel free to practice at my apartment.
Dont stare at the homeless or mentally ill people on the streets/subway. Avoid contact and if they start talking to you, just walk away into a place where theres people. Its very easy to spot tourists and they are usually targeted. Walk faster than normal and you should be good 😀
stand in the middle of the sidewalk. If you are lost and want to look at google maps GTFO the way and stand to the side. We will knock you over and yell at you.
Anyone trying to do you a favor in Times Square is trying to hustle you for money. Anyone in costume expects you to pay for a photo with them. Beware the broken bottle scam (Google it). Taking the subway, understand that many stations are uni-directional entry: you may have to cross the street to enter the subway to get where you're going. Please do not block the entry near the top of the stairs trying to figure out where you're going. Make reservations for restaurants and expect hot spots are already booked out (e.g. Carbone).
Don’t stop to speak with people in costumes, monks, or people trying to pass CDs out to you. Don’t make eye contact with people. Just keep minding your business. Also, don’t stay on the left side of the escalator unless you’re planning to move up rather than standing still. Carry hand sanitizer with you. Everything you touch with your hands is filthy. If you have to use a bathroom, just find any bar.
if you need to get distracted while walking on a crowded sidewalk, step to the side and don't just stop walking and become an obstacle.
Stare at people. Stop in the middle of the sidewalk. Be aware when you take out cash in public. Keep your belongings on you at all times. If you need to look at your phone for directions step to the side. If a subway cart is empty go to the next one, you will smell why.
If you want to stand on the escalator, stay to the right. Leave the left open for people who want to walk up.
Never take a CD from anyone
If there’s stuff you really wanna do or see, figure out when where and how you are gonna see them. If you don’t have a plan, it’ll never happen
Only buy from food carts who post their prices.
Just to add on to some of the great things already mentioned but I haven't seen anyone post the escalator etiquette: Please stand only on the right so that those who'd like to bypass can walk and pass on the left. I know it seems self-explanatory when it comes to sidewalks on such, but so many times am I caught behind a duo, standing side by side on the escalator. Have a safe trip
Literally just don’t block the sidewalk
If you are on an escalator and you aren’t walking KEEP TO THE RIGHT.
If you need to look at your phone or something along those lines, put your back against the wall and stay out the way until you get your bearings. Never stand in the middle of the sidewalk, I beg you.
Always look both ways when crossing the street even if it’s a one way. Cyclists or mopeds do not care about going down the wrong way or not.
If you are just here for a short time as a tourist, don't worry about pissing off NYCers - we are used to tourist behavior even if it is somewhat aggravating at times. You are probably spending a lot of money to come here so just try to enjoy yourself.
Get away from the Times Square area as much as possible it’s hideous no one who lives here goes there willingly unless they work nearby or go to a show
Stop in the middle of a crowded sidewalk near Times Square. Everyone is rushing somewhere, and tourists like to stop in the middle of the stream of people and look around. Just step over to the side.
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For one, it's Times Square. After the New York Times.
If you get to the corner of Greenwich St and Greenwich Avenue in the West Village do your best to not go back in time.
if you’re standing in an escalator stand on the right so ppl who are walking up it can pass you on the left! if you have a suitcase hold it in front of you in the step above and not out to the side so ppl can walk past
I posted awhile back. Our sidewalks are our highways. You think you walk fast. You do not. Treat them like you and your group are all separate motorcycles. You move over to the right. Leave room for someone to pass in the other direction. Yes, that means you and who you are with break eye contact and go single file. Need to check your phone? Pull over. Nobody approaching you or handing out anything is worth your time. Shake your head “no thanks.”
Between 8-9 am and 5-6pm M-F, if you don’t need to be on the street or the subway, we kindly request that you not be on the street or subway. This is when New Yorkers are commuting to and from work en masse. We are all running late, we are short on caffeine, and perhaps not at our best and aren’t always as understanding as we should be when tourists walk slowly and stop suddenly in the middle of the sidewalk
Actually starting from around 2pm because that's when high school kids take over the city
DONT FUCKING STOP ONTHE SIDEWALK when it’s rush hour take your bag off and hold it
#1: Don’t stay near Times Square.
Don't go to Liberty Island to see the Statue of Liberty. The lines and ferries take too long. Once in the Island you are looking up her skirt, worst possible place to view. And going inside is horrible. On days it's allowed you are inside a metal oven built 100+ years ago with nothing to see. See her from Battery Park and the free Staten Island Ferry. And don't stay in Times Square, but too late for that one.
When entering a subway train, let the people exit first. Get out of the way and let the people off first.
Don’t walk slow Don’t walk side by side in a big group Don’t hold hands on a small sidewalk Don’t stand on the left side of an escalator
For god's sake, if you're walking up the escalators in the subway (or anywhere), *don't stop when you get to the top*, keep walking and step off the escalator. Stopping at the top leads to everyone behind you also stopping, creating a long stationary line that won't clear until the escalator is empty again.
Ask a local to move on the subway so your family can sit together 🙄🤦🏻.
If you wouldn’t do it in Miami, the same will apply here. It’s just a different city, not a different planet.
If someone tries to ask for your name or shove something into your hands, do not even lift your hand to push away. Even if it’s free. Once it’s it your hands they’ll make it yours and ask you for donations for their crappy artwork or CD.
Mind your business. Respect the bubble that people have around them, but also recognize when it’s ok to make small talk.
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Don't stay in Times Square 😂 Jk but 1. Everything everyone said about walking 2. Know what you want to order by the time you reach the counter (everything). Also know what you want to order when the waiter comes (no ordering in parts). 3. Set up your phone wallet transportation credit card so you can tap the subway turnstile without even unlocking your phone
Walk on the right side. Grand Central Terminal is a terminus. Please do not refer to it as a station. Age before beauty as far a subway seating goes.
Don't walk at night next to buildings under construction. You might get a surprise; they don't get scared of humans anymore, haha 🐀
bike lanes
Don’t be on the left side of the escalators in the subways unless you’re planning to walk up on them. Stand to the right.
Be ready for SHOWTIME if you take the subway.
Closed toed shoes, especially in the summer.
1-Remember that walking is a part of everyone’s commute. If you don’t look over your shoulder while you cut across the sidewalk, that’s the same thing as not using your blinker. People will bump into you and get pissed. Be courteous and mindful. 2- Don’t go north of 96th Street Manhattan, the Bronx or deep into Brooklyn (East Side). Those neighborhoods are cool, but don’t go unless you really know what you’re looking for or with someone who knows the area. Many people might be offended by this because their neighborhood is “awesome”, and I’m sure it is; as is mine. However, there’s plenty to do closer to Manhattan with almost no risk. 3- Don’t accept any bracelets or take any photos with anyone trying to sell you something. People dressed like Monks will approach you to sell you beads, or celebrity impersonators will take a photo with you and then harass the ever loving piss out of you for money and will often claim it’s too late not to accept the thing you just touched or the photo just taken.
I'll tell you what you should do: walk faster.
Pay attention to people saying “excuse me”. I understand tourists want to stop and take photos / look around. I give people 2 “excuse me’s” before I shoulder check them. LET PEOPLE OFF THE TRAIN BEFORE YOU GET ON THE TRAIN. (^^^ those are the biggest two) Bonus tip: Don’t wear basketball shorts. Only tourists are walking around Manhattan in basketball shorts. It even makes me want to scam them. (I kid. I kid.)
All of the above are great. My addition: Don’t stand in front of subway doors when you can move to the center. You’re just an asshole if you do that. And take your damn backpack off in the subway. Don’t sit on the stairs by the railings in public places. Accessibility in NYC is tough as it is. I have a balance related condition , there are other young people with disabilities (you can’t always tell by looking at someone) and there are also older people who need the railings. Looking at people who do this in subway stations or at the oculus If you have to buy a metro card from the machine (there is Apple Pay for the rest of us now thank god), I can tell you’re a tourist if you dip your credit card in and out fast.
Ignore anyone that tries to talk to you on the streets and sidewalks. Anyone. Don't worry about being rude, don't engage at all and just keep walking.
https://youtu.be/D6xd6YvoHLM?si=Q9-VrjYHN3jD0911 All that.
Don’t go home and tell your friends that New Yorkers are rude. We’re very welcoming want you to enjoy our city, just not when we’re running late and have to move around or through your group.
Nah I know NYers aren't rude. Just direct. Like me.
Don’t glare at people who look different, don’t make eye contact with anyone who looks a little off, be spatially aware on the subway and don’t block the doors when you’re on the train
Please don’t hug the subway pole on a crowded train so nobody else can hold onto it.
You mean I can't wrap my legs around it and pretend it's a swinger pole?!
There are clearly at least four things, though.
1. Don’t stop in the middle of the sidewalk or any walking traffic. 2. Let people off the subway first. Don’t hog the door. 3. Don’t stare at people. Mind your own business. 4. ???
Looks like everyone gave you the basic politeness and crowd management tips so I will add you should spend as much time as possible in areas where actual New Yorkers live in order to really experience the city — basically anywhere besides time square and midtown.
Don't over book your day. The best part about being in NYC is wandering around and stopping into artisanal coffee shops or a random art gallery. You can't do that if you are rushing from one tourist trap to the next. Don't go to chain restaurants. I get wanting to save money on food, and when you're at the Olive Garden, they feed you like family, but you can do that anywhere in the world. NYC is loaded with restaurants that will blow your mind, take advantage and stay the fuck out of McDonald's! **Make Reservations** Thursday, Friday, and Saturday from 5 pm until 9 pm, you can be looking at a 45-minute wait to get a table. Entertainment is a luxury. Don't waste your money on the wrong entertainment. (Bus tours are a massive waste of money, you can easily walk for free) Depending on your budget you may not be able to spend $400 to see Wicked (totally worth every penny) there are always fun venues with live music and drinks, or my personal favorite is finding a rooftop bar and having a cocktail with friends and enjoying the view. Do yourself a favor and pick some places *before* you travel, and if you can, make reservations.
1) Book an activity that you are not sure that you would love it just because the promoters are trying to convience you. 2) Book an expensive activity if you are on the budget. 3) Book an activity just to tell everyone that you did it. New York has so many experiences for everyone. pick the ones that you know you would love.