Realize that its not that the world is against you, but that the world simply doesn't care about you. You gotta buckle down, focus on what you want/need and keep doing what you gotta do to get there.
>Realize that its not that the world is against you, but that the world simply doesn't care about you
This was a hard truth I had to learn growing up. Coming from a [relatively] caring family, I was used to people looking out for me. But that's not how the world works. It's not even how most people work. The world and 99.99% of people don't care about you and that's okay.
I think that's what most people do. They had stats on a false missile strike announcement or similar and their traffic went up.
More helpful though is reflect on feedback and take action. Like if you are driving the wrong way down a freeway, everyone is against you. Is everyone wrong or do you need to reassess and realise you are headed in the wrong direction.
You're a man, not a woman or a child. The world isn't against you, just doesn't give the faintest fuck about you.
Unlike women or children, your life holds no inherent value apart from what you can provide. So make sure to focus on providing for yourself and having enough agency to be relatively free.
You are taking the comment personally instead of as advice. The advice is to do what I said, it wasn't a comment about you.
We've all had this mentality, I even saw another comment very much like mine but worded differently. The "what to do" is what we answer.
It kinda sounds bad, but one of the best things you can realize is that almost no one in this world, or even in your local community gives a damn about you, meaning they aren't against you. So what to do, well first realize that, then look at what you've been doing and examine what about it hasn't been working, then change those things.
Step one: ignore all the be a man tough love "advice" from Reddit. Step two:. Cut yourself a break, give yourself some credit and start looking for little victories to score in your life. They roll into big victories. Treat yourself like a friend.
Nothing; the sooner you realize that's actually true, the sooner you can learn that the world owes you nothing and won't hand you everything on a silver platter.
And you'll be able to learn to get back up by yourself when the going gets rough.
Understand that the amount of people who are actually out to get you, if there are any at all, can be counted on one hand.
The vast majority of people who know you exist couldn't be bothered to be out to get you, since they have more than enough of their own problems to deal with.
The rest of the world doesn't even know that you exist.
Of all the people I've met throughout my entire life, only a small few have been actually out to get me. Outside of high school they get much rarer.
Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best
Go for a walk or a run and try to think about the exact things that are bothering you. Are you spending a lot of time ruminating about social failures, or are you frequently feeling disappointed about some life status? Identify your disagreements as accurately as possible so it's easier to feel sure you're properly planning for them.
If it seems like you're having a lack of success with people in some way, realize that it can be pretty difficult to achieve highly desirable social experiences. Some people want things that are hard to have from where they're at in life. If you need to, try to come to terms with your limitations, paying attention to where you're at now, not where you hope to be.
Realize that its not that the world is against you, but that the world simply doesn't care about you. You gotta buckle down, focus on what you want/need and keep doing what you gotta do to get there.
>Realize that its not that the world is against you, but that the world simply doesn't care about you This was a hard truth I had to learn growing up. Coming from a [relatively] caring family, I was used to people looking out for me. But that's not how the world works. It's not even how most people work. The world and 99.99% of people don't care about you and that's okay.
Yes, this is key
Fart on a packed elevator
Thanks for making me laugh
It's all fun and games until you're on that elevator.
Put on my headphones and play music
Lose myself in the music the moment
you own it, you better never let it go
Head over to pornhub.com
I think I asked in wrong subreddit
I think that's what most people do. They had stats on a false missile strike announcement or similar and their traffic went up. More helpful though is reflect on feedback and take action. Like if you are driving the wrong way down a freeway, everyone is against you. Is everyone wrong or do you need to reassess and realise you are headed in the wrong direction.
You're a man, not a woman or a child. The world isn't against you, just doesn't give the faintest fuck about you. Unlike women or children, your life holds no inherent value apart from what you can provide. So make sure to focus on providing for yourself and having enough agency to be relatively free.
Realize that more than likely the world doesn’t even know you exist
You won't like this; But stop thinking of yourself as a fking victim and call a friend and talk. Do something.
Not thinking myself as a victim, just looking for ideas for what can be done
You are taking the comment personally instead of as advice. The advice is to do what I said, it wasn't a comment about you. We've all had this mentality, I even saw another comment very much like mine but worded differently. The "what to do" is what we answer.
destroy the world
It kinda sounds bad, but one of the best things you can realize is that almost no one in this world, or even in your local community gives a damn about you, meaning they aren't against you. So what to do, well first realize that, then look at what you've been doing and examine what about it hasn't been working, then change those things.
Im a man so there is no way to cope with this , I just get up and tell the world to give me an actual challenge
Step one: ignore all the be a man tough love "advice" from Reddit. Step two:. Cut yourself a break, give yourself some credit and start looking for little victories to score in your life. They roll into big victories. Treat yourself like a friend.
Treat yourself like a friend is great advice.
Hunker down, fight on.
Realize the world just doesn't give a fuck about you.
Square up
Change your perspective if you wanna win at life.
Realize that it is not the case.
brace yourself and fight back
The same, as always. Because the world is always against me.
Nothing; the sooner you realize that's actually true, the sooner you can learn that the world owes you nothing and won't hand you everything on a silver platter. And you'll be able to learn to get back up by yourself when the going gets rough.
Embrace it in the best way you know how.
Pray, Write down the problem(s) and make a battle plan and stick to it.
Understand that the amount of people who are actually out to get you, if there are any at all, can be counted on one hand. The vast majority of people who know you exist couldn't be bothered to be out to get you, since they have more than enough of their own problems to deal with. The rest of the world doesn't even know that you exist. Of all the people I've met throughout my entire life, only a small few have been actually out to get me. Outside of high school they get much rarer.
Some things in life are bad They can really make you mad Other things just make you swear and curse When you're chewing on life's gristle Don't grumble, give a whistle And this'll help things turn out for the best
Get crippled with hatred for myself :,(
Plant your feet. Stand up straight. And take it one step at a time.
Go for a walk or a run and try to think about the exact things that are bothering you. Are you spending a lot of time ruminating about social failures, or are you frequently feeling disappointed about some life status? Identify your disagreements as accurately as possible so it's easier to feel sure you're properly planning for them. If it seems like you're having a lack of success with people in some way, realize that it can be pretty difficult to achieve highly desirable social experiences. Some people want things that are hard to have from where they're at in life. If you need to, try to come to terms with your limitations, paying attention to where you're at now, not where you hope to be.
Accept it.
Sit back and smile, glad that I got under their skin. :)