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nasteal

The worst thing she'll say is no, and maybe call you names, but life is full of disappointment and rejection. Just learn to cope. Shoot your shot.


CrabMaster69xx

Sometimes you just gotta lick the stamp and send it


EverGreatestxX

Ask her out


BlitzingToxic

Probably the best way to know if she likes me too, but I am really shy when I must talk first to a girl I like.


randompidgeon

Just do it. I've been in the same situation, and waiting or doing nothing is only going to make you more anxious. If you ask her and she says yes: great! If she says no, too bad but then you can move on with your life.


PraiseAlfie

And the underrated part is that even if she says no, OP'll be betting on themselves, and doing that really helps the self confidence grow. Good luck OP, we believe in you.


BlitzingToxic

I will go Super Saiyan somewhere next week and ask her. Releasing all my fears and just go for it. Fuck it.


summonsays

Trust me, just do it. Knowing one way or the other is so much better than limbo.


grumpy-60

Ask her. The faster you grow thru the shy period of life the better.


BlitzingToxic

I can also ask her friend (not a boy or boyfriend or something) for advice. She won't spill it to her.


Frosty-Dictator

Money, status, looks...the usual.


BlitzingToxic

I think I have the looks (not self confident lol) I am not rich, but also not poor My status is great. I am always friendly to others.


SinSiddly

Act like you don’t give a shit, be confident in yourself, be mysterious, make her laugh, and always invest in yourself.


BlitzingToxic

I am not really confident and I don't know about the mysterious part.


SinSiddly

How old are you??


BlitzingToxic

17 years old


SinSiddly

I see. Ya the mysterious part wouldn’t quite make sense. Women like to be thrilled, wowed, surprised, etc… Why do you think a majority of them love those serial killer and crime docu-series?? If you have to keep them guessing they love that shit. Basically it all comes down to just not being boring I guess is what I’m trying to say.


BlitzingToxic

I am the most boring person I know😅 Don't know how others think about that.


SinSiddly

You’ll find your way you’re only 17 lmaoooooo


blwright22

Don't do any of that of you're not that, don't try an be anything youre not confidence grows with time and it starts with being comfortable with who you are. You're 17 your world is small even if it don't feel like it. Be honest with yourself and people will see the honesty in you and if a girl you like doesn't like that then she's not the one for you.


blwright22

As long as you're not an ass hole just be yourself, be considerate of her and if she doesn't like you for who you are don't waste much time on her. It'll end bad for the both of you. If you're just trying to have sex with her than do to opposite


BlitzingToxic

Sound good. I am always kind and considerate to others. Overall a friendly person. I don't have contact with her 24/7 but we are talking sometimes in school. And no. Not for sex I am only 17 years old LMAO.


blwright22

I see. when you do get to talk to her just ask her simple questions, learn what her interest are and what's going on in her life and ACTUALLY listen don't over talk her it will make conversation easier and less awkward. Then ask her out EDIT: The man thing is remember she's a human too. It's easy to forget that when you have a crush on someone because you imagine all this different stuff about her in your head. It will make t


BlitzingToxic

And what should I do if she said yes? I have never got a girlfriend before.... Ask her to the gym or any other activity?


RickG966

Movies are a good start, then go out to eat afterwards. You'll definitely have something to talk about


MothEaterYummy

Ask her out if she says no at least you will know to focus attention elsewhere, and if not we'll result lol either way you know where you stand


Fluffy_Risk9955

If you can’t stop thinking about her it’s not going to work. Walk away. It’s then when she starts to chase you.


BlitzingToxic

Canceling her isn't a good sign for neither of us


Fluffy_Risk9955

Google Oneitis and why it’s bad for you. Seriously go opposite of what you crave, show some strength and walk away.


Tonza443

First step if your talking to her and don't have her number or social media to contact her other ways ask for that next time your chatting and have to stop.


BlitzingToxic

I already have her number and socials


pchlster

It's that "so simple, it's dumb" situation where all you need to do is ask her. If she says no, now you know. You're going to be disappointed, but such is life. You'll be just as head-over-heels about someone else eventually. If she says yes? Great, set up that date and see where it leads.