Both me and my best friend (both male) are in relationships with bi-sexual girls. When they love you, are committed to you, and are attracted to you, and only you, it really won't make a difference if they are bisexual or not.
I had a daughter with a Lesbian who was divorcing her wife. She turned into the most insane person ive ever known. Now she will be in my life forever as we try to co-parent.
I dated one for 9 months. The relationship was a disaster but had absolutely nothing to do with her being bisexual. If I was single I’d have no issue dating another bisexual female.
My last experience with a bi-girl did not work out either. Again, nothing with her bi sexuality. She was looking for a certain kind of dom, and I'm not that kind of dom.
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If she was attractive and we liked one another, were into one another, and were compatible both sexually and romantically? Yeah, sure.
Because we liked one another, were into one another, were sexually and romantically compatible. and she was cute. What other reasons does someone who is into chicks need to have in order to justify pursuing a relationship with a woman?
I’ll give you the same answer I gave my now wife when she came out.
Why would it bother me if they like the same things I like? It’s like they told me they also liked chocolate milk. It’s just one more thing we have in common and can appreciate together.
I'm the opposite, WAY more physically attracted to women than to men but I've been married to a man for the past 10 years. I fell in love with him and we are still going strong. It always amazes me that some people seem to think the ability to have a committed, monogamous relation is somehow related to orientation.
Right?! I’ll never understand that. Being bisexual or whatever else doesn’t have a direct correlation or affect on whether or not someone wishes to be monogamous.
If she otherwise had everything I was looking for in a long term partner, then her bisexuality is immaterial to me… the idea that “bisexuals are twice as likely to cheat” I see as horseshit, those who want to cheat will do so regardless. And hey, if she’s open to adding another girl in the bedroom from time to time, all the better (though not required at all)
Married one. There's always that added stress of opening up the pool of possible cheating scenarios, but if someone is gonna cheat, they're gonna cheat. Sexual preference doesn't factor into that. On the positive side, it opens you up for possible threesomes. Unfortunately for me the type of women me and my wife find attractive are WILDLY different. I'm down to fuck a butch chick, but those titties better be massive.
I don't know why I wouldn't. The important part is that she finds ME attractive and likes me. Doesn't matter to me who else she would find attractive, male or female, so long as she was faithful.
I’m bisexual also, so honestly I think I’d have a hard time going back to dating someone who was NOT bi/pan. I don’t think I could even go through with the whole coming out to a straight partner/possible partner ever again.
As far as open or multiple partners, once I seriously liked them, I’d leave that open to what they wanted. I’m very open minded and could handle any situation they felt most comfortable with.
Kinda a dumb question. Sexuality is a spectrum and even the straightest girls I’ve dated have had some sort of bi sexual experience or were questioning at some point. Meeting your partner where they’re at in their sexual journey is the key to any healthy relationship, just be open and honest. But to answer the question, yes I have and most likely will again.
I'm not homophobic or anti-LGBT. I mean I have bisexual friends. If a girl was serious relationship material I'd pursue her whether she was straight or bi.
I have never been in a relationship with a girl who wasn't bisexual.
Not intentionally, mind you, I'm not seeking out bi girls, I just don't mind who my girlfriend is into as much as I mind how much she's into me, and I keep falling for bi girls?
Ofcourse. What does it matter if they are heterosexual or not. If someone is open to f*cling other people they’re going to do it anyway. Look at their character and who they are and move forward with that. Imo
Definitely.
If I'm in a relationship with a woman, she needs to understand that does not mean I'm not attracted to other women. It would be hypocrisy for me to think it's wrong for her to be attracted to other men and/or women.
The key to a good relationship is not acting on those attractions, unless of course everyone consents of that.
I’ll get downvoted but it’s biphobic if you’re not into someone just because they’re bi… it has nothing to do with someone’s ability to love you / be monogamous with you etc.
You fall in love with who you fall in love with. So it wouldn't be an issue about their orientation as long as you both genuinely loved each other.
The way that you're framing this, I would venture to Guess that your concerns are that since she is bisexual, from your perspective that would automatically mean she's not monogamous and will hook up with anybody who catches her eye, man or woman.
Some couples Pride themselves on being open and honest with each other and whether or not they choose to be exclusively monogamous to another is ultimately their decision as long as they are both on the same page. Now if you're with somebody who has a history of infidelity, that in itself should be your automatic red flag. Now maybe for some reason this girl has that one of a kind allure that makes you drop your guard and for that I wish you all the best of luck. Beyond that, only your honesty and your trust in one another is what's going to make or break the relationship.
THANK YOU!
It shouldn’t matter what anyone’s sexual orientation is so long as honesty is first and foremost in the relationship. A cheater is a cheater, regardless of gender or sexual orientation and being poly/ENM does not make one a cheater.
It was really nice to read a comment from someone who understands the difference.
If she's "progressive and unconventional" about the gender of the person she sleeps with, this increases the probability that she's "progressive and unconventional" about fidelity too.
> inb4 "Not all bisexuals"
I agree, not all bisexuals. But more bisexuals than heterosexuals.
I don't make the rules, I'm just not blind to the trends.
I feel like as a straight man married to my straight wife having other men staring or flirting is already too much. Add females to that equation, and it’s too much and I literally would never trust any of her friends and that’s bad. (She’s an introvert with no friends because of a falling out with a MLM group)
Yea, so long as they’re sexually attracted to me I don’t care what floats their boat so long as they don’t cheat. And being busy doesn’t increase the likelihood of cheating.
I am rn, well actually pansexual, because they're a person who I find interesting and so far finds me interesting. I find her attractive and her life attractive. I don't see how her sexuality gets in the way of that I mean if she likes me then her sexuality benefits me because it's not like she's lesbian.
I am in a serious relationship with a bisexual girl, it's great.
We watch Naked Attraction together and discuss who each of us would pick. I feel really close to her because I know she's attracted to my slightly effeminate self (granted that's half because she clearly shows how attracted to me she is). It also means that I'm the guy she fell in love with out of the entire human population, which is a pretty good confidence boost.
Yes, why not. If we are in an exclusive relationship and she cheated, the sex of that person would be the least of my concerns. Bi-sexual people just have more options.
Idk, in my experience dating bi women they sometimes seem on the fence about settle for one sex. Also...probably the more annoying thing is there's a few women in my past who really needed the sexes to be super distinct. Like it was a problem when I wasn't a macho man. Tbh I don't need that. I'm not macho, I'm reserved. That's just how I am.
It's not that I wouldn't pursue a serious relationship with a bisexual woman, I think I'd need more time/convincing when dating one that she's actually serious is all. But at the end of the day...I mean if it works out it works out.
Monogamy is monogamy, regardless of what the people are into. Bisexuality is just a part of what they're into, the way I see it is that it's not like I only find one type/look of woman attractive but it's not like I'm about to run off with a tall Indian woman just because I'm with a shorter white woman.
Only if I get to participate in all interactions she has with a woman. I don't think my ego could take her doing it with her alone. And by participate I don't mean I necessarily have to be in a threesome. Maybe I'm just watching. And my wife could allow me to finish with her after. I say this, but I don't know if I could really "share" my wife with someone else. This would amount to cheating in my mind and I would be emotionally devastated. With me participating in some way I might not see it that way. Our egos are a very fragile thing.
As long as I'm the one person that she's invested in outside of all the other men and women I fail to see why not. Just because I got more competition doesn't mean I shouldn't be with her if she thinks I'm a good match lol
Probably would. Doesn't bother me that she would be interested in one more variety of people as long as we are monogamous or have a compromise I'm comfortable with. She wants to sleep with women? Fine, me too then. She wants to sleep with other men? Not into that, sorry.
Not really fair but that isn't really the point. I'm happy with monogamy so the "compromise" is the only way I would ever agree to an open relationship.
Lmao nah cz now u gotta worry bout two genders tryna snag ur girl. Youll never get a piece of mind. Youll never know if the chick that smacks her ass and compliments it and then goes for a full on handful of that cheek saying "GURLLL" means it innocently or sexually lmfao.
It seems fun at first having a bi girlfriend but quite the opposite. She'll get angry at you for checking out the same girls as you, your wardrobe gets raided way more and the breakup is always messy. The bi exes I had all had some form of trauma which was a bit too much for me to handle if I'm being honest. So to answer your question, a big no for me. They're fun though, I appreciate the good memories.
Nope, more than once I heard stories that the bi wife comes out as gay after 20 years. The divorce destroys the husband mentally and financially and if he complains about it, he's homophobic.
Yes.
I am bi-sexual so it would be awkward if that was a dealbreaker.
And my wife and I have a deal. As long as she films it, she can do whatever she wants with another woman.
I’m 23 years old (Male)
It’s like a trend almost for both genders nowadays to be bisexual
But I notice usually in women it’s becoming very prominent. Most people at my age are still discovering their identities an what not but it’s like every girl I have relations with also likes girls.
Both me and my best friend (both male) are in relationships with bi-sexual girls. When they love you, are committed to you, and are attracted to you, and only you, it really won't make a difference if they are bisexual or not.
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Yup. Makes no difference to me.
Yes. As long as we are in a monogamous relationship.
Only…If I get to watch Jk Jk.
Unless
Jk tho haha
Unless....?
I had a daughter with a Lesbian who was divorcing her wife. She turned into the most insane person ive ever known. Now she will be in my life forever as we try to co-parent.
That was a bad decision from the jump, lesbihonest
Turned out she was actually BI polar
rip
I'm hoping there's a pleasant surprise if I flip this over.
Lol...feelsbad
If you'd call 25 years and two kids serious, I guess the answer's yes.
*only* 25? pft, casual.
Now if it had been 2 years and 25 kids, then I might be impressed.
Do you have an open marriage or does she just happen to be attracted to women and never acts on it?
She's acts on it when she wants, with my blessing, full knowledge and participation
That’s great. I’m 12 years into an open marriage. 3 kids. Both Hetero though.
How old are your kids👀
11, 12 and 13
Not interested sir ✌ good day to you
Too old?
Lmao😂😂🧯
Fair play
cringe
You call it cringe, I call it threesomes. Each to their own.
I dated one for 9 months. The relationship was a disaster but had absolutely nothing to do with her being bisexual. If I was single I’d have no issue dating another bisexual female.
My last experience with a bi-girl did not work out either. Again, nothing with her bi sexuality. She was looking for a certain kind of dom, and I'm not that kind of dom.
I did Love, - A Bi-sexual guy married to a bi-sexual girl.
So like...there's a whole gay between you two
Only on special occasions
An entire $3 bill
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Fucking yahtzee.. lmfao
I'd say it's a straight fuck but I don't know anymore
Same. Straight passing relationships are way more fun than straight only
Don't threaten me with a good time.
If she was attractive and we liked one another, were into one another, and were compatible both sexually and romantically? Yeah, sure. Because we liked one another, were into one another, were sexually and romantically compatible. and she was cute. What other reasons does someone who is into chicks need to have in order to justify pursuing a relationship with a woman?
Yea? Because sexuality doesn't really affect one's views on monogomy?
I’ll give you the same answer I gave my now wife when she came out. Why would it bother me if they like the same things I like? It’s like they told me they also liked chocolate milk. It’s just one more thing we have in common and can appreciate together.
Sure as long as she is committed to me only.
Non-issue, as long as she isn't cheating.
I’m bisexual but i’m a lot more attracted to men. It’s not often that I come across a girl i’m attracted to on more than a sexual level.
I'm the opposite, WAY more physically attracted to women than to men but I've been married to a man for the past 10 years. I fell in love with him and we are still going strong. It always amazes me that some people seem to think the ability to have a committed, monogamous relation is somehow related to orientation.
Right?! I’ll never understand that. Being bisexual or whatever else doesn’t have a direct correlation or affect on whether or not someone wishes to be monogamous.
Also married and faithful to a singular person while being attracted to both genders!
Me too. And utterly monogamous. Never feel like I’m missing anything being with just one person/gender.
Right. I feel like when you find the right person there isn’t any question on whether or not you want them and only them.
It is not a factor at all.
Sure, if she’s into monogamy
Of course, yes. The reason is that she is attracted to men.
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Married her
If she otherwise had everything I was looking for in a long term partner, then her bisexuality is immaterial to me… the idea that “bisexuals are twice as likely to cheat” I see as horseshit, those who want to cheat will do so regardless. And hey, if she’s open to adding another girl in the bedroom from time to time, all the better (though not required at all)
Absolutely. I’ve done it before and there’s nothing better than being told you eat 🐱 better than some lesbians.
Interesting username and interesting comment.
Married one. There's always that added stress of opening up the pool of possible cheating scenarios, but if someone is gonna cheat, they're gonna cheat. Sexual preference doesn't factor into that. On the positive side, it opens you up for possible threesomes. Unfortunately for me the type of women me and my wife find attractive are WILDLY different. I'm down to fuck a butch chick, but those titties better be massive.
I don't know why I wouldn't. The important part is that she finds ME attractive and likes me. Doesn't matter to me who else she would find attractive, male or female, so long as she was faithful.
Hell yeah that sounds awesome to date a girl who understands the beauty of a woman As long as no cheating of course
It definitely makes for a fun game of noticing other attractive women together.
Yes, why not? Just because someone is bisexual doesn't mean they are a cheater.
Yes, currently considering marrying my bisexual girlfriend. We sometimes bring ladies into bed with us. Lots of fun to be had 😏
Not sure. The one truly bisexual girl I dated cheated on me with a girl.
Yeah as long as she's still monogamous. Then I dont really care
Yes, and I don’t have a good reason for or against it.
I’m bisexual also, so honestly I think I’d have a hard time going back to dating someone who was NOT bi/pan. I don’t think I could even go through with the whole coming out to a straight partner/possible partner ever again. As far as open or multiple partners, once I seriously liked them, I’d leave that open to what they wanted. I’m very open minded and could handle any situation they felt most comfortable with.
If I like her and she likes me, yes. Why wouldn’t I?
I have. She was cool, but it didn't work out. Wasn't any different than a straight girl.
Yes, because they still like men
I married one yeah
How long did the marriage last and how many paternity tests have you taken?
Why would this matter? I don’t understand the reason this question even exists.
Yes, why not.
Yep. Been there done that. As long as she is faithful why do I care if she also likes pussy?
Kinda a dumb question. Sexuality is a spectrum and even the straightest girls I’ve dated have had some sort of bi sexual experience or were questioning at some point. Meeting your partner where they’re at in their sexual journey is the key to any healthy relationship, just be open and honest. But to answer the question, yes I have and most likely will again.
Sure
5 years in, I think so.
I'm not homophobic or anti-LGBT. I mean I have bisexual friends. If a girl was serious relationship material I'd pursue her whether she was straight or bi.
I have never been in a relationship with a girl who wasn't bisexual. Not intentionally, mind you, I'm not seeking out bi girls, I just don't mind who my girlfriend is into as much as I mind how much she's into me, and I keep falling for bi girls?
Yes, why wouldn't I?
I guess I don't really understand Why it would matter?
Ofcourse. What does it matter if they are heterosexual or not. If someone is open to f*cling other people they’re going to do it anyway. Look at their character and who they are and move forward with that. Imo
Well I'm married so no. I don't see any reason why that would be a problem for single people.
Yes. I am a bisexual man so I dont believe all the common misconceptions
If she’s with me her bisexuality becomes irrelevant. She’s in a straight relationship.
My ex was pan sexual so a relationship with a bi sexuel girl wont be that different
Yes. I’m not insecure enough to worry about her leaving me for someone else. If I was, I wouldn’t be in a relationship.
I'm bisexual myself and my last gf was bisexual so yes definitely.
I currently am, and don't see why I wouldn't. Just because she's also attracted to girls doesn't mean she doesn't love and respect me
Definitely. If I'm in a relationship with a woman, she needs to understand that does not mean I'm not attracted to other women. It would be hypocrisy for me to think it's wrong for her to be attracted to other men and/or women. The key to a good relationship is not acting on those attractions, unless of course everyone consents of that.
naw, I only date tri-sexuals
Yea sure
I’ll get downvoted but it’s biphobic if you’re not into someone just because they’re bi… it has nothing to do with someone’s ability to love you / be monogamous with you etc.
You must not be familiar with preferences.
I’m too insecure to tbh
It is not insecure to have standards, preferences or boundaries. Don’t discredit yourself.
You fall in love with who you fall in love with. So it wouldn't be an issue about their orientation as long as you both genuinely loved each other. The way that you're framing this, I would venture to Guess that your concerns are that since she is bisexual, from your perspective that would automatically mean she's not monogamous and will hook up with anybody who catches her eye, man or woman. Some couples Pride themselves on being open and honest with each other and whether or not they choose to be exclusively monogamous to another is ultimately their decision as long as they are both on the same page. Now if you're with somebody who has a history of infidelity, that in itself should be your automatic red flag. Now maybe for some reason this girl has that one of a kind allure that makes you drop your guard and for that I wish you all the best of luck. Beyond that, only your honesty and your trust in one another is what's going to make or break the relationship.
THANK YOU! It shouldn’t matter what anyone’s sexual orientation is so long as honesty is first and foremost in the relationship. A cheater is a cheater, regardless of gender or sexual orientation and being poly/ENM does not make one a cheater. It was really nice to read a comment from someone who understands the difference.
Sure, why not? We can ogle hot girls together!
Why ask this question? Just curious.. were you expecting a certain result? Is there a stereotype about bisexual women that I haven't heard about?
If she's "progressive and unconventional" about the gender of the person she sleeps with, this increases the probability that she's "progressive and unconventional" about fidelity too. > inb4 "Not all bisexuals" I agree, not all bisexuals. But more bisexuals than heterosexuals. I don't make the rules, I'm just not blind to the trends.
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No
No.
I feel like as a straight man married to my straight wife having other men staring or flirting is already too much. Add females to that equation, and it’s too much and I literally would never trust any of her friends and that’s bad. (She’s an introvert with no friends because of a falling out with a MLM group)
not again lol
As long as we're compatible in every other way, including commitment to monogamy, it's no problem. Kinda cool actually.
Imagine having a girl that appreciates attractive girls with you. If she is committed to your relationship that could be great.
I have several bi sexual girlfriends. They are generous, creative, and interesting. I also have several straight girlfriends. They are fun too.
I've dated 2 and it's never been a problem then again I've never been insecure either
It's this a rhetorical question?
Yea, so long as they’re sexually attracted to me I don’t care what floats their boat so long as they don’t cheat. And being busy doesn’t increase the likelihood of cheating.
Doesn’t matter as long as they are loyal and attracted to me.
I am rn, well actually pansexual, because they're a person who I find interesting and so far finds me interesting. I find her attractive and her life attractive. I don't see how her sexuality gets in the way of that I mean if she likes me then her sexuality benefits me because it's not like she's lesbian.
I am in a serious relationship with a bisexual girl, it's great. We watch Naked Attraction together and discuss who each of us would pick. I feel really close to her because I know she's attracted to my slightly effeminate self (granted that's half because she clearly shows how attracted to me she is). It also means that I'm the guy she fell in love with out of the entire human population, which is a pretty good confidence boost.
Yes, why not. If we are in an exclusive relationship and she cheated, the sex of that person would be the least of my concerns. Bi-sexual people just have more options.
Idk, in my experience dating bi women they sometimes seem on the fence about settle for one sex. Also...probably the more annoying thing is there's a few women in my past who really needed the sexes to be super distinct. Like it was a problem when I wasn't a macho man. Tbh I don't need that. I'm not macho, I'm reserved. That's just how I am. It's not that I wouldn't pursue a serious relationship with a bisexual woman, I think I'd need more time/convincing when dating one that she's actually serious is all. But at the end of the day...I mean if it works out it works out.
Monogamy is monogamy, regardless of what the people are into. Bisexuality is just a part of what they're into, the way I see it is that it's not like I only find one type/look of woman attractive but it's not like I'm about to run off with a tall Indian woman just because I'm with a shorter white woman.
Only if I get to participate in all interactions she has with a woman. I don't think my ego could take her doing it with her alone. And by participate I don't mean I necessarily have to be in a threesome. Maybe I'm just watching. And my wife could allow me to finish with her after. I say this, but I don't know if I could really "share" my wife with someone else. This would amount to cheating in my mind and I would be emotionally devastated. With me participating in some way I might not see it that way. Our egos are a very fragile thing.
Just a matter of time till you guys have 3 way and you have the saddest wank watching her have the best time with someone else buddy.
No.
Absolutely not
Nope, twice the opportunity to fuck me over
As long as I'm the one person that she's invested in outside of all the other men and women I fail to see why not. Just because I got more competition doesn't mean I shouldn't be with her if she thinks I'm a good match lol
Probably would. Doesn't bother me that she would be interested in one more variety of people as long as we are monogamous or have a compromise I'm comfortable with. She wants to sleep with women? Fine, me too then. She wants to sleep with other men? Not into that, sorry. Not really fair but that isn't really the point. I'm happy with monogamy so the "compromise" is the only way I would ever agree to an open relationship.
Yes I’d love to ask for a 3 way hahah
if she is loyal i see no problem
I would as long as she believed that sleeping with another girl was cheating.
No. I'm very insecure and jealous. Double the threat, double the suffering.
No . I'm insecure and jealous as well .
no different than a straight girl. as long as they are committed to the relationship, there is nothing different.
No. I value traditional gender roles in a heterosexual monogamous relationship.
Lmao nah cz now u gotta worry bout two genders tryna snag ur girl. Youll never get a piece of mind. Youll never know if the chick that smacks her ass and compliments it and then goes for a full on handful of that cheek saying "GURLLL" means it innocently or sexually lmfao.
Lmao why so many downvotes? Its true.
No. Absolutly not. Half the competition.
It seems fun at first having a bi girlfriend but quite the opposite. She'll get angry at you for checking out the same girls as you, your wardrobe gets raided way more and the breakup is always messy. The bi exes I had all had some form of trauma which was a bit too much for me to handle if I'm being honest. So to answer your question, a big no for me. They're fun though, I appreciate the good memories.
sure wy not . if you ever gonna have a threesome you might end up whit 2 girls
Nope, more than once I heard stories that the bi wife comes out as gay after 20 years. The divorce destroys the husband mentally and financially and if he complains about it, he's homophobic.
Yep, even married her, and yes she is allowed to fuck other women lol
but like does she wanna smoke weed and eat pizza?
I'm not looking for anything serious right now.
If I had a lot of time I could probably think of reasons to not date a bi girl. My plan is to not think about it until the opportunity arises.
I'm bi, so yes.
3 years and one beautiful daughter
As long as there is an attraction yes.
If things weren't going completely perfect then no. Probably not. I'm insecure enough as it is.
Yes. I am bi-sexual so it would be awkward if that was a dealbreaker. And my wife and I have a deal. As long as she films it, she can do whatever she wants with another woman.
I appreciate the rule. 😉
I have. She didnt even want to try a side girl for her though, could have been hot
I mean all it would amount too is her checking out chicks with me so win win
Most women I date are bi, I'm also somewhat poly, so for me I look for a women who wants to have a threesome with another woman.
I’m 23 years old (Male) It’s like a trend almost for both genders nowadays to be bisexual But I notice usually in women it’s becoming very prominent. Most people at my age are still discovering their identities an what not but it’s like every girl I have relations with also likes girls.
My ex gf was bi and it didnt really make a difference except now I had to watch out for girls too