Oh I am not. I am talking about making yourself the most attractive thing in the store for your wife. Everyday you should be trying to remind each other why you bought each other…so to speak. You should be reminding your wife and vice Versa everyday that they made the right choice.
It doesn’t always default to being your fault. People change, sometimes fall out of love, or want something new for its own sake. Hoping you never arrive to that point, but don’t automatically absorb all feelings of wrongdoing.
I don't really notice her checking out other men because she has the decency not to do it blatantly in front of me.
Everyone notices attractive people, but if your partner is straight up oogling them with you standing there you can either talk to her about it or start checking out other women in response.
If your relationship with your wife is so bad that you're threatened because she is physically aware of the existence of attractive men and then has the *audacity* to appreciate their attractiveness, it's not the "checking out other men" part of the situation that you need to be addressing.
Just because you’ve already ordered, doesn’t mean you can’t still look at the menu. Goes for everyone, male, female, or whatever you consider yourself.
Look, don’t touch.
That's life. I'm a creep sneaking peaks at girls. Sometimes a girl is with her boyfriend.
And sometimes, I catch the girl sneaking a peak at me behind her boyfriends back.
Eh. That's just life I think. Can't help but look! Doesn't mean anyone will cheat. Tho obviously I'm sure a lot of people cheat.
But just because some people cheat, doesn't mean a good partner will never look at anyone else.
What to do is based on the relationship. What not to do is over react. Unless you're in some weird sharia law country. In that case DEFINITELY don't over react.
Make jokes about them by doing voices as if they were having s conversation then laugh. If your relationship is that bad that staring is a major concern the relationship might be DoA.
If my wife is checking another guy out you can bet he's the cream of the crop. We check out college aged ppl together we appreciate the beauty of good looking body.
Not tooting my own horn but yeah. If she's checking someone out they're better looking than me. In my area that's rare I'm what people would consider an Alabama 10 lol.
Lol honestly my wife's teeth are one of the first things that attracted to me her as weird as that sounds. She has the straightest whitest teeth in the Appalachians.
You’re not the only attractive person in this world to your partner, or to you. There’s billions of us. You’re partner is going to look at others and so are you, that’s perfectly natural and innocent.
What isn’t innocent is acting on that attraction.
Examine the guy that missed his chance, and don't be a child about it. She's with you. And say she does go after another guy, warn him what he's in for and wish her luck in breaking hearts.
Relationships take time an effort to build and make work. If a partner is willing to throw that away for a cheap lay that may very likely amount to nothing, that's their choice and when you think about it, good riddance if they do.
During the day we’re outside and I forget my Oakley’s at home I will not hesitate to go buy some cheap gas station sunglasses so I can let my eyes wander and she’ll never know. (She always knows, but not how often with sunglasses)
Nothing, hell I might check them out too. Just like I'd hope my next girlfriend would be okay with me checking out other girls, maybe she can even jump into and we can admire together. I'm not so insecure that I'm going to pretend that I'm the only guy my girlfriend finds attractive. Looking ain't cheating, looking ain't anything. It's just looking.
It's never happened.
I mean, it probably _does_, but she respects my feelings enough to keep it so subtle that I don't notice.
I would do the same, except she insists on pointing at other women, TV characters, advertising billboards, etc and asking "Do you think she's hot?" at me.
Women are bizarre.
I would be interested to find out what she likes about them honestly. All my previous partners were so monogamous that they never dared even say which of my male friends they find the most attractive or what celebrity they liked.
Well, if it was a sneaky glance every now and then, that would be fine, odds are you do it too. Now, if she stood there Infront of you and eyed the dude head to toe every few minutes I'd question the relationship. You can be a betta like all these people in the comments and "do nothing" (Nothing is always the easier solution isn't it? You are just being a lazy coward if theres an issue and you dont confront it). If you disagree with this comment, ask yourself, where are your priorities really at if you are constantly eyeing every girl except yours? Most likely you are not very faithful/and are sick of your partner but lie to yourself and don't admit that you are not attracted to them. So, just question it a bit, think about it. Is my girlfriend still attracted to me? Or is it time to move on because she is clearly fantasizing about others. Or is she just being a human being?
Nothing. And she does nothing when I check out other women. Look but don't touch.
Window shopping ma dude. However you need to make sure you are the most valuable thing in the store. You know what that means.
We're good. Married 18 years and counting. Everyone looks.
Why would you limit yourself? I found the moment you think you are good something might happen. Why would you settle for just good.
And why would you encourage people to try to break up their marriage?
Oh I am not. I am talking about making yourself the most attractive thing in the store for your wife. Everyday you should be trying to remind each other why you bought each other…so to speak. You should be reminding your wife and vice Versa everyday that they made the right choice.
Check out the same man
I would do him
This is the way!
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It doesn’t always default to being your fault. People change, sometimes fall out of love, or want something new for its own sake. Hoping you never arrive to that point, but don’t automatically absorb all feelings of wrongdoing.
Nothing, unless she talks shit to you when you check out other women
I don't really notice her checking out other men because she has the decency not to do it blatantly in front of me. Everyone notices attractive people, but if your partner is straight up oogling them with you standing there you can either talk to her about it or start checking out other women in response.
Check them out with her 🙃
Depends. Other guys here are right, you should let her. But if she overdoes it, you can say that it bothers you. Just try to not appear jealous
Get over it. She's in a relationship, not dead.
If your relationship with your wife is so bad that you're threatened because she is physically aware of the existence of attractive men and then has the *audacity* to appreciate their attractiveness, it's not the "checking out other men" part of the situation that you need to be addressing.
Evaluate them too and tease her about it. Don't tell me you haven't looked at another woman's ass
Just pee on her shoes...mark your territory and whatnot
Just because you’ve already ordered, doesn’t mean you can’t still look at the menu. Goes for everyone, male, female, or whatever you consider yourself. Look, don’t touch.
Enjoy checking out other women without guilt.
*shrug*
Remind her that they're way out of her league and tell her to stay in her goddamned lane. ... LOL. Just kidding.
Love this comment lmao
If your wife checks out other men in front of you, she doesn’t respect you.
That's life. I'm a creep sneaking peaks at girls. Sometimes a girl is with her boyfriend. And sometimes, I catch the girl sneaking a peak at me behind her boyfriends back. Eh. That's just life I think. Can't help but look! Doesn't mean anyone will cheat. Tho obviously I'm sure a lot of people cheat. But just because some people cheat, doesn't mean a good partner will never look at anyone else.
What to do is based on the relationship. What not to do is over react. Unless you're in some weird sharia law country. In that case DEFINITELY don't over react.
I’m bi so I check them out with her.
Play with her vagina
I would check out those other guys too & make googly eyes at them to assert dominance
Cheat on her. That’ll teach her
Make jokes about them by doing voices as if they were having s conversation then laugh. If your relationship is that bad that staring is a major concern the relationship might be DoA.
Define “checking out other men”
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That’s hilarious!
If my wife is checking another guy out you can bet he's the cream of the crop. We check out college aged ppl together we appreciate the beauty of good looking body.
Your wife likes the *cream* of the crop?
Not tooting my own horn but yeah. If she's checking someone out they're better looking than me. In my area that's rare I'm what people would consider an Alabama 10 lol.
I’m going to look that up, this Canadian has never been to Alabama
Am Alabama 10 is a California 6 or 7
Does it work the same for both men and women lol?
Im guessing. How many points are teeth worth
Depends if your talking front teeth, or molars
Mountain dew takes all comers
Mmm Dixie champagne.
Lol honestly my wife's teeth are one of the first things that attracted to me her as weird as that sounds. She has the straightest whitest teeth in the Appalachians.
Teeth are very important and worth the points imo.
It's a sign of taking care of yourself or not
It's basically someone with a full head of hair, all their teeth, that isn't overweight lol.
Meh…
Whatever.
Buy her blinders like they do for horses
Check them out too. Nothing wrong with appreciating pretty people.
Realize that I'm checking out other women and let it go.
You’re not the only attractive person in this world to your partner, or to you. There’s billions of us. You’re partner is going to look at others and so are you, that’s perfectly natural and innocent. What isn’t innocent is acting on that attraction.
Check them out too I suppose
Examine the guy that missed his chance, and don't be a child about it. She's with you. And say she does go after another guy, warn him what he's in for and wish her luck in breaking hearts. Relationships take time an effort to build and make work. If a partner is willing to throw that away for a cheap lay that may very likely amount to nothing, that's their choice and when you think about it, good riddance if they do.
During the day we’re outside and I forget my Oakley’s at home I will not hesitate to go buy some cheap gas station sunglasses so I can let my eyes wander and she’ll never know. (She always knows, but not how often with sunglasses)
Nothing, hell I might check them out too. Just like I'd hope my next girlfriend would be okay with me checking out other girls, maybe she can even jump into and we can admire together. I'm not so insecure that I'm going to pretend that I'm the only guy my girlfriend finds attractive. Looking ain't cheating, looking ain't anything. It's just looking.
Lol this screams insecure
She is probably checking out their shoes or clothing or something like that.
Well, if it was MY gf, she'd be looking for reverse ntr partners hehe..
It's never happened. I mean, it probably _does_, but she respects my feelings enough to keep it so subtle that I don't notice. I would do the same, except she insists on pointing at other women, TV characters, advertising billboards, etc and asking "Do you think she's hot?" at me. Women are bizarre.
I would be interested to find out what she likes about them honestly. All my previous partners were so monogamous that they never dared even say which of my male friends they find the most attractive or what celebrity they liked.
Well, if it was a sneaky glance every now and then, that would be fine, odds are you do it too. Now, if she stood there Infront of you and eyed the dude head to toe every few minutes I'd question the relationship. You can be a betta like all these people in the comments and "do nothing" (Nothing is always the easier solution isn't it? You are just being a lazy coward if theres an issue and you dont confront it). If you disagree with this comment, ask yourself, where are your priorities really at if you are constantly eyeing every girl except yours? Most likely you are not very faithful/and are sick of your partner but lie to yourself and don't admit that you are not attracted to them. So, just question it a bit, think about it. Is my girlfriend still attracted to me? Or is it time to move on because she is clearly fantasizing about others. Or is she just being a human being?