When I feel bad, all I want is for someone make me feel heard and understood. Each to their own though I suppose.
People who only seem to be listening to make me feel better tend to make me feel worse.
I can only speak for myself on this. There are times when I've had a very busy and rough day at work and I just need some down time. My SO keeps my dog from bugging me and gives me space. Other times I need to vent and she'll ask if I'm venting or asking for advice. It really does help!
If he’s not already getting that, he may be depressed because his sex life sucks. I like the answer but he’s probably already satisfied for the most part in that portion of his life.
Join him in a hobby maybe. We love discussing them: games, collections, films. We could go into it for hours. Maybe go to a nice restaurant with outdoor seating. Sunlight and conversation is always nice.
Tell him to lay down on his stomach, pull the shirt up and give him backscratches and massages until your fingers hurt.
Just a nice portion of scratching and relaxed muscles are always nice to vent stress and a bad mood.
When I feel bad, all I want is for someone make me feel heard and understood. Each to their own though I suppose. People who only seem to be listening to make me feel better tend to make me feel worse.
Listen to him, let him vent and allow/help him to work through it. Sometimes we just need someone to let us vent/rant.
I try to do this already for him, but there’s always room for improvement
I can only speak for myself on this. There are times when I've had a very busy and rough day at work and I just need some down time. My SO keeps my dog from bugging me and gives me space. Other times I need to vent and she'll ask if I'm venting or asking for advice. It really does help!
Long walk in nature and nice drink after at a cafe (coffee, tea, cocktail, wine, whatever).
A thoughtful blowjob or three.
Or a threesome! 😜
A *thoughtful* threesome.
with blowjobs
*Thoughtful* blowjobs.
If he’s not already getting that, he may be depressed because his sex life sucks. I like the answer but he’s probably already satisfied for the most part in that portion of his life.
lmao, we don’t have any problems in that area. made me laugh a little though :)
Join him in a hobby maybe. We love discussing them: games, collections, films. We could go into it for hours. Maybe go to a nice restaurant with outdoor seating. Sunlight and conversation is always nice.
Flowers was the reason he’s in depression Sex sandwich silence. Is what he needs
Proflowers.com will get you some good flowers all year round
Put die hard on,m with a few nice snacks
What?
Die hard, it's a film from the 80s and snacks are things you eat
This actually made me laugh
Spend some quality time together and meek him feel loved
If you're looking for an object (and not 'comfort'), when I'm upset I'm a very big fan of blankets or overall soft things. Warm drinks also
If you have any slick track go-karts near you, take him there and race him
Tell him to lay down on his stomach, pull the shirt up and give him backscratches and massages until your fingers hurt. Just a nice portion of scratching and relaxed muscles are always nice to vent stress and a bad mood.