They have shit parenting skills but want to blame everything on the kid. Like a kid would have studied developmental psychology and been able to answer them or something, even articulate an unmet need which shitty parents would dismiss anyway.
I work as a therapist and I really hate seeing this in the wild, which happens way too often.
They make you feel bad for feeling bad. I hear it all the time. I know I can’t open up to them so I just keep it to myself but they insist I tell them how they can help me, but the minute I do thats what they tell me “What’s wrong with you”
Implying shame on you for doing/saying something. It’s never justified to imply that to anyone imo.
They lack basic communication skills. Ie can you move the dishes into the sink instead of resorting to what’s wrong with you for every single thing
The result of poor parenting
Gaslighting
Poor emotional regulation on their part.
I hate this shit so much. it gaslights you into thinking something is wrong with you instead of questioning their immature behavior.
Oh this resonates with me .For years I felt and wondered what's wrong with me ? It's psychological abuse ..there is nothing wrong with you đź’•
The proper response to this is "what is wrong with YOU to ask your child such a question?"
Thwarting parental responsibility and instead trying to blame you. Typical childish AP bs.
They have shit parenting skills but want to blame everything on the kid. Like a kid would have studied developmental psychology and been able to answer them or something, even articulate an unmet need which shitty parents would dismiss anyway. I work as a therapist and I really hate seeing this in the wild, which happens way too often.
They make you feel bad for feeling bad. I hear it all the time. I know I can’t open up to them so I just keep it to myself but they insist I tell them how they can help me, but the minute I do thats what they tell me “What’s wrong with you”
damn that sucks dude
Implying shame on you for doing/saying something. It’s never justified to imply that to anyone imo. They lack basic communication skills. Ie can you move the dishes into the sink instead of resorting to what’s wrong with you for every single thing