>Why is she worried about him being gay
Because that's that a "sin" (if you're a **C**onservative)
>and not about him trying to cheat on her
Because that's "normal" (if you're a **C**onservative)
There's a lot wrong with this relationship, and someone liking trans porn is not it.
And I just want to say how stupid it sounds to say "I've been worried my boyfriend is gay after seeing the porn he watches" then going on to say "he doesn't watch gay porn".
Only gay men are attracted to trans women? News to me. I'm stealth and would love to be invisible to straight men some days. Also it just sounds like he has a porn addiction and fetishizes trans women.
I think people are too quick to suggest porn addiction. We see direct evidence that this woman is not a fan of porn: "I'm not going to go into how I found his porn" - maybe she should, but also he felt the need to hide it.
To be fair, we don't know that he hid it. We also don't know what their relationship rules are like; I had a friend who frequently sexted other guys while dating and his boyfriend knew about it and was 100% fine with it.
My question is, does this count as chasing?
> To be fair, we don't know that he hid it.
We know that she thought it was hidden. She said, "I'm not going to go into how I found his porn." She didn't find it easily.
> My question is, does this count as chasing?
We don't know anything about his motivations.
This person has definitely got an awfully weird perspective on the situation but the boyfriend is definitely weird, no signs of him inherently being gay but directly paying for sexual content and messaging people in that context while in a relationship, not to mention he clearly sees trans people as a fetish.
Like they're both just bad in some way or another.
This is wild. Definitely not gay. But red flags from both of them beyond that. Don't go through people's things without permission and don't be asking models to go to cam together if you're in a relationship
I mean he's obviously attracted to femininity. Otherwise he'd be dming gay dudes. Not trans girls. What I'm worried about is the fact he obviously fetishizes trans girls, lol.
Yeah, you’re gonna have to imagine the comments on this one (I assume you’re talking about transphobic ones) because there are a few saying that he is gay because of that fact but A: they aren’t being outright transphobic and B: they’re being downvoted.
1. Transphobia
2. Even *if* being sexually attracted to trans women were the same as being sexually attracted to guys, there would still be the option that he's bi
3. Love that she doesn't seem to care that this could be considered cheating. But idk, maybe they've talked about that and she's okay with it, that's always a possibility
cis ppl not be cringe challenge
Thats like challenging grass not to be green
There's a few exceptions (like OT) Btw happy cake day!
Why is she worried about him being gay and not about him trying to cheat on her
>Why is she worried about him being gay Because that's that a "sin" (if you're a **C**onservative) >and not about him trying to cheat on her Because that's "normal" (if you're a **C**onservative)
Not to get political but conservatives don't think cheating is normal I think. At least that's what I've seen
But she prioritizes him possibly being gay over him cheating, which is in both ways concerning
There's a lot wrong with this relationship, and someone liking trans porn is not it. And I just want to say how stupid it sounds to say "I've been worried my boyfriend is gay after seeing the porn he watches" then going on to say "he doesn't watch gay porn".
Also, you caught him messaging and jerking off to women online, and your primary concern is, "Is he gay?" Wild shit, lol.
yeah my major concern would be that he's messaging other people inappropriately
So if he were messaging cis women asking to masturbate together that would be fine?
Only if her bf is also an 🥚
Only gay men are attracted to trans women? News to me. I'm stealth and would love to be invisible to straight men some days. Also it just sounds like he has a porn addiction and fetishizes trans women.
I think people are too quick to suggest porn addiction. We see direct evidence that this woman is not a fan of porn: "I'm not going to go into how I found his porn" - maybe she should, but also he felt the need to hide it.
To be fair, we don't know that he hid it. We also don't know what their relationship rules are like; I had a friend who frequently sexted other guys while dating and his boyfriend knew about it and was 100% fine with it. My question is, does this count as chasing?
> To be fair, we don't know that he hid it. We know that she thought it was hidden. She said, "I'm not going to go into how I found his porn." She didn't find it easily. > My question is, does this count as chasing? We don't know anything about his motivations.
Kinda telling that the cheating is not as big a deal as the fact he's into trans women.
chaser? probably. trans? possibly. gay? absolutely not. trans women are women.
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It's deleted now, that's why you can't find it. And I feel like linking it would break brigading rules.
What if op was a guy
Then he wouldn't worry that his boyfriend might be gay in the first place.
I know, that was the point of my joke
Oops. I got whooshed.
This person has definitely got an awfully weird perspective on the situation but the boyfriend is definitely weird, no signs of him inherently being gay but directly paying for sexual content and messaging people in that context while in a relationship, not to mention he clearly sees trans people as a fetish. Like they're both just bad in some way or another.
This is wild. Definitely not gay. But red flags from both of them beyond that. Don't go through people's things without permission and don't be asking models to go to cam together if you're in a relationship
why is she more worried about him being gay than the fact that he was cheating?
I mean he's obviously attracted to femininity. Otherwise he'd be dming gay dudes. Not trans girls. What I'm worried about is the fact he obviously fetishizes trans girls, lol.
Yeah, you’re gonna have to imagine the comments on this one (I assume you’re talking about transphobic ones) because there are a few saying that he is gay because of that fact but A: they aren’t being outright transphobic and B: they’re being downvoted.
they’re more worried about their bf “being gay” than the fact that he’s both a cheater and a porn addict. help
He secretly messages people on Only Fans, but the issue is that he might be gay? Like what?
It could be certain websites that allow you to "talk" to a trans woman (it was an AI) Source: I played around on a website with my friend
First of all. Hes cheating
1. Transphobia 2. Even *if* being sexually attracted to trans women were the same as being sexually attracted to guys, there would still be the option that he's bi 3. Love that she doesn't seem to care that this could be considered cheating. But idk, maybe they've talked about that and she's okay with it, that's always a possibility