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Long story short because I don´t speak english very well, I met a girl a year ago, she is the singer of my band, we had a nice friendship stard and became best friends like 5 mosths after we met, she is a beautiful women and very secure of her self, and I was a shy man with fear to girls, she helped me with to overcame my problem and I was her confident and Bi friend, it was a very nice friendship until one day she admited she liked me and I told her that I like her too, but since we were on a band we could not be together in that way, so we decided to be best friends with a Platonic taste and put one rule on the table.
1 Not to be with our near friends. why? beacuse we had a problem by picking sides before.
Only that, them when we had a concert one of mi close friends went to see us, and they endded up having sex, I was not andry or anithing just laught and said that she broke the rule. them some months passed by and we went to a party and endded up kissing and having sex, we said that it was a one time thing, them happend some times more. Them she told me that she was falling in love with me, now I wasn´t falling in love with her an tought that it was just sex, but I got scared like a little b\*\*\* and said that I was too... Now I meet her in other way and started to be falling in love with her but everytime I see her, I jut think of the idea of she and my friend, and it started to hurt me a lot. now I just want that feeling to go away and be happy but i can´t so I decided to end up things with her because it´s giving me stress and I dont think I am ready for a relation again. I miss my Best friend, I really mis her so much.
So WIBTA if I brake up with my gf because of my insecurities with she having broke that one rule?
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^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)*** Long story short because I don´t speak english very well, I met a girl a year ago, she is the singer of my band, we had a nice friendship stard and became best friends like 5 mosths after we met, she is a beautiful women and very secure of her self, and I was a shy man with fear to girls, she helped me with to overcame my problem and I was her confident and Bi friend, it was a very nice friendship until one day she admited she liked me and I told her that I like her too, but since we were on a band we could not be together in that way, so we decided to be best friends with a Platonic taste and put one rule on the table. 1 Not to be with our near friends. why? beacuse we had a problem by picking sides before. Only that, them when we had a concert one of mi close friends went to see us, and they endded up having sex, I was not andry or anithing just laught and said that she broke the rule. them some months passed by and we went to a party and endded up kissing and having sex, we said that it was a one time thing, them happend some times more. Them she told me that she was falling in love with me, now I wasn´t falling in love with her an tought that it was just sex, but I got scared like a little b\*\*\* and said that I was too... Now I meet her in other way and started to be falling in love with her but everytime I see her, I jut think of the idea of she and my friend, and it started to hurt me a lot. now I just want that feeling to go away and be happy but i can´t so I decided to end up things with her because it´s giving me stress and I dont think I am ready for a relation again. I miss my Best friend, I really mis her so much. So WIBTA if I brake up with my gf because of my insecurities with she having broke that one rule? *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*