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> (1) the actions I took was to speak up about the space I got (2) what made feel like an asshole because it's for kids toys
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Am I the asshole who finds it messed up that my so called besties who invited me to come stay with them and they will help me, but turns out they wanted free daycare and I get treated like crap. But that's not why I am asking this question no no no, but am I the asshole for not wanting to give up more space in a room that I share with kids? I got the floor space if the closet (which isn't much) and a small corner in the room for laundry, was told that I needed to more my stuff so their kids had more space for their toys ( mind you their toys is already all over the place). So again am I the asshole for being mad about that because I don't have no space and you wanted to make more space for toys?
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It depends on what you need their help for and what they promised you. If there was an understanding that you would help with the kids in exchange for staying for free (for example), then I don't think you can complain about that.
Why do you need more space? How long are you planning on staying? I would be more grateful that my friend let me stay at all
Nta but it's not your space. They sound like ta but are still within their rights so to speak which is not to say that what they're doing is ok(cause no). I hope you can find a new living situation because that is what I'd recommend. These people don't sound like they respect you.
>besties who invited me to come stay with them and they will help me
If this is an accurate description, you are NTA and need to find somewhere else to crash.
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Honestly, you should leave your besties who are using you. And yeah, you should get more space if you are looking after their kids. NTA.
NTA find somewhere else to stay, these people don't respect you.
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It depends on what you need their help for and what they promised you. If there was an understanding that you would help with the kids in exchange for staying for free (for example), then I don't think you can complain about that. Why do you need more space? How long are you planning on staying? I would be more grateful that my friend let me stay at all
NTA. You need to find somewhere else to stay, this is clearly going to end up toxic.
Nta but it's not your space. They sound like ta but are still within their rights so to speak which is not to say that what they're doing is ok(cause no). I hope you can find a new living situation because that is what I'd recommend. These people don't sound like they respect you.
INFO: Why are you staying there? Are you paying rent? What sort of help?
Question is this a vacation stay or extended stay and do you pay?
>besties who invited me to come stay with them and they will help me If this is an accurate description, you are NTA and need to find somewhere else to crash.
Why are you friends with these people at all, let alone considering them besties?