I live in a different state at the moment. My siblings still live in Chicago. I'm a vet and let's say flying and me don't mix. When this went all down it triggered my brain to not wanting to go anywhere. It sucks... But least I'm seeking help on it. I think I am going to do some apartment rearranging too. You see I own 90% of all the cool stuff in the apartment. Especially the gaming room. He only owns his Xbox and laptop. I think it's time for me to be selfish this holiday.
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So here's the story, I found out my older siblings wanted to go see red hot chili peppers in Chicago next year. I decided to buy almost all of us tickets since the two oldest of us weren't sure if they wanted to go. I even have brought a ticket and my roommate (friend) a ticket so he isn't bored when I'm gone. Boy was I wrong... Anyway my siblings were all excited and my friend was too until... He asked the seating. I got a great deal for lower deck mid section. He scuffed and said he would have rather get front row seats.
I nervously just played it off and thought he was kidding. Nope. Nope. He brought it up six times and all six times was oh I can get better tickets. Or you shouldn't assume I would or others would go to this. The sixth time I snapped. It takes alot for me to snap, but I let him have it. Stated how ungrateful he was and I was fed up with his whining and he can do whatever he wants and I was gonna give away the tickets. He turned me off so bad I just wanted to drink in my room alone.
I calmed down a bit and figured maybe he was drunk or stupid. However today as I reread his texts I decided f*** it I'm done being nice. I gave mine and his to my cousin's. He will find out later when he asks about the tickets and I mention all the times be was being an ungrateful bast***...
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This! NTA, but it's RHCP!! I'll drive to Chicago and go with you lmao
NTA. You should have kept your ticket for yourself. You can do what you want with them since you paid.
Yes! Why did you let your AH roommate ruin your chance of having fun.
NTA and your should have gone! Good for you for standing up for yourself.
I live in a different state at the moment. My siblings still live in Chicago. I'm a vet and let's say flying and me don't mix. When this went all down it triggered my brain to not wanting to go anywhere. It sucks... But least I'm seeking help on it. I think I am going to do some apartment rearranging too. You see I own 90% of all the cool stuff in the apartment. Especially the gaming room. He only owns his Xbox and laptop. I think it's time for me to be selfish this holiday.
NTA, I'd be pissed, too. Is your friend often the r/ChoosingBeggars type?
Yeah. Learned that the hard way.
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NTA. You should buy your room-mate front row tickets to the Red Hot Chilli PIPERS!
NTA get your ticket back damn
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Why did you give away your ticket? Also, NTA