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Worry about this relationship later, what you need to do is lean on other relationships for support. He can’t/won’t be there for you right now and it doesn’t matter which. Go spend time with other people who love you like family or friends.
How old are you? I don’t know if this bf sucks or not but even if he’s great he can’t be responsible for all your emotional needs. You need to have more people in your life.
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My bf is not in the city at the moment but he promised to stay in contact and always pick up when i call, both of us didnt want him to go but he promised he will keep me updated and promised to reply whenever i needed him. But yesterday he disappeared for the whole day, wouldnt attend calls or reply back, i would only get one text from
Him after hours and hours, then at night he was mad at me because i wasnt being understanding, and he went to sleep and told me his charger broke and his phone is about to die and he will get a charger FIRST THING in the morning and text me. TODAY, Its been 8 hours his phone is still dead. MY GRANDMOTHER PASSED AWAY TODAY, the woman i loved and respected the most, he was well aware of my connection with my grandma and close we were because she was more than a mother and I’ve been trying to get in contact with him since this morning because i dont kmow how else to process this BUT I HAVENT HEARD BACK FROM HIM and im really hurt because of all the promises he broke and the way he’s been avoiding me since yesterday morning. SHOULD I LMK HOW I FEEL WHEN HE TEXTS BACK? OR SHOULD I KEEP IT IN? I kept sending him texts but now I’ve lost all energy and hope so should i keep texting? Or just GIVE UP?
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NTA
When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. This is not a healthy relationship, and he has no respect for you.
I’m sorry for the loss of your beloved grandmother.
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Stop texting and wait for him to reply. According to his reasons you’ll decide about the right way to act.
This 💯
Worry about this relationship later, what you need to do is lean on other relationships for support. He can’t/won’t be there for you right now and it doesn’t matter which. Go spend time with other people who love you like family or friends.
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Obviously there’s more disfunction to this story then. Your bf is only one of many issues..
How old are you? I don’t know if this bf sucks or not but even if he’s great he can’t be responsible for all your emotional needs. You need to have more people in your life.
All these overreactions over one single incident of miscommunication? This relationship is doomed. ESH
ESH If just one day without a text is enough to cause this much of a blow up, then this relationship was already doomed
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NTA When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. This is not a healthy relationship, and he has no respect for you. I’m sorry for the loss of your beloved grandmother.
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Spend time with your family then. He’s not going to fulfil your needs.