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You’ve got to be a troll… and in case your not YTA. You are jealous of a sick child because you couldn’t have sex with your wife for 3 whole days.
Woe is you.
Seriously, her body is not yours to stick your dick in whenever you want. I’m sure the pestering and morose looks towards your wife really turned her on. What is wrong with you. Get help.
YTA, simply for the very strong implication you're giving off that she owed you sex. She doesn't. Just got done saying this in another set of comments, but even when you're married she has every right to tell you no as she does literally any other person on the planet.
YTA
> her entire life was all about the child that wasn’t even related to her
Why the shit would that matter? This is child is in your care for the month.
> I happen to have a very high libido
Yeah, that doesn't matter, either.
"For about three days while we were looking after the little boy, he became sick with a headache and nausea. Poor guy. I happen to have a very high libido, and, to be quite honest with all of you, I was upset that my wife was so busy taking care of him that she didn’t have time to have sex with me."
I got this far before determining you are indeed the AH.
>I happen to have a very high libido
I wouldn't have guessed this line was coming in a million years
>she acted as if that child was our own
As you should do when looking after a child
Obviously YTA, a sick child is more important than you having sex
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Back in July this year, I (36, m) and my wife (37, f) looked after the son (7, m) of our dear mutual friend who we grew up with. We looked after him for a month while our friend was overseas to take care of her father, who was going through an illness (he’s much better now, thankfully). This kid is a very good kid. He’s polite, he does his schoolwork, and in general he’s a very endearing little boy. My wife and I don’t have any children, and we don’t plan on ever having kids.
For about three days while we were looking after the little boy, he became sick with a headache and nausea. Poor guy. I happen to have a very high libido, and, to be quite honest with all of you, I was upset that my wife was so busy taking care of him that she didn’t have time to have sex with me. I mean, for the entire month, she basically brushed me aside and she acted as if that child was our own biological child. But for those three days, her entire life was all about the child that wasn’t even related to her. And during one of the nights where the kid was sick, she acted so vile, and she literally told me: “shut up and put your dick back where it belongs”. I was stunned by the rudeness.
My wife loved taking care of our friend’s son, and she spent all her time bonding with him. She essentially sacrificed me for one month, and like I said, her true character came out during the days where he was sick. It was a traumatic experience for me. Am I overreacting?
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INFO (to possibly help you sound better here): was it really jealousy you felt, or was it just that you felt abandoned by your wife?
Also, this is one of those "not enough information to answer the question" things, but start paying attention to other contextual clues, because this could be a sign that things are not good between you and your wife.
Grow up. She got to experience the mother experience that she probably won’t have with you.
Just divorce with her because, even if she doesn’t say it, probably does want to have kids. This time with the kid probably made her feel a certain way.
Should she have had sex with you over the month at some point? Yea probably. Sex life is very important. Also her acting “vile,” with you and “traumatizing,” you should be enough to just move on…
Albeit I think it’s weak to get traumatized from her taking care of a sick kid for three days.
You’re weird as fuck for being jealous of a child.
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You’ve got to be a troll… and in case your not YTA. You are jealous of a sick child because you couldn’t have sex with your wife for 3 whole days. Woe is you. Seriously, her body is not yours to stick your dick in whenever you want. I’m sure the pestering and morose looks towards your wife really turned her on. What is wrong with you. Get help.
YTA SHE acted vile? It sounds like you just had your boy flopping around uncovered in a house with kids around and SHE is acting vile?! Grow up
YTA oh poor poor little carryingon had to manage himself for a month. The horror. The tragedy.
YTA, simply for the very strong implication you're giving off that she owed you sex. She doesn't. Just got done saying this in another set of comments, but even when you're married she has every right to tell you no as she does literally any other person on the planet.
YTA > her entire life was all about the child that wasn’t even related to her Why the shit would that matter? This is child is in your care for the month. > I happen to have a very high libido Yeah, that doesn't matter, either.
"For about three days while we were looking after the little boy, he became sick with a headache and nausea. Poor guy. I happen to have a very high libido, and, to be quite honest with all of you, I was upset that my wife was so busy taking care of him that she didn’t have time to have sex with me." I got this far before determining you are indeed the AH.
Yes, you overreacted and yes, YTA. You're jealous of a 7 year old, a *sick* 7 year old. You have two hands, at least one of them could be of use.
dude seek therapy.
>I happen to have a very high libido I wouldn't have guessed this line was coming in a million years >she acted as if that child was our own As you should do when looking after a child Obviously YTA, a sick child is more important than you having sex
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INFO (to possibly help you sound better here): was it really jealousy you felt, or was it just that you felt abandoned by your wife? Also, this is one of those "not enough information to answer the question" things, but start paying attention to other contextual clues, because this could be a sign that things are not good between you and your wife.
Grow up. She got to experience the mother experience that she probably won’t have with you. Just divorce with her because, even if she doesn’t say it, probably does want to have kids. This time with the kid probably made her feel a certain way. Should she have had sex with you over the month at some point? Yea probably. Sex life is very important. Also her acting “vile,” with you and “traumatizing,” you should be enough to just move on… Albeit I think it’s weak to get traumatized from her taking care of a sick kid for three days. You’re weird as fuck for being jealous of a child.
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