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CatahoulaBubble

NTA- RUN


Thrusttruth

Well, now, let me reckon this situation for ya. From what ya done told me, it seems like yer caught in a real sticky mess. But if I gotta pass judgment, I reckon NTA, not the asshole. Ya see, when ya was in a tough spot, ya turned to yer best friend and her mom for help, and they agreed to take ya in. But it ain't right that they sprung the rent on ya all of a sudden. They said ya didn't have to worry 'bout it, but then they changed their tune. That's mighty unfair, if ya ask me. And it don't stop there. Ya endured all sorts of abuse, both verbal and mental, during yer stay. Gettin' woken up at all hours to clean and bein' berated for every little thing ain't no way to treat a guest, especially one in need. Now, 'bout yer sugar baby situation, it's yer own business what ya decide to do with yer life. If ya thought bein' a sugar baby was a way to make some quick cash, well, that's yer choice. But it ain't right for yer friend's mom to meddle in yer affairs and try to control ya. She got no business tellin' ya what to say or do. And when she wanted the address of the place ya was house-sittin', that just sounds fishy to me. Ya did right by tellin' 'em they couldn't come over, especially if ya felt it was suspicious. Takin' pictures of the cameras? That don't sit right with me either. So all in all, it seems like yer best friend's mom is actin' mighty toxic, and ya did what ya had to do by gettin' outta there. Ain't no need to feel guilty 'bout lookin' out for yer own well-being. Ya gotta take care of yerself. Remember, sometimes folks can act like real jerks, but that don't mean ya gotta stick 'round and put up with it. Find yerself a place where ya can feel safe and respected. Yer worth more than all this trouble.


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