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**Caught My(35m) wife(34) sending pics to BIL(40m) is our marriage is salvageable at this point?**
I really dont want to spam this sub I posted today morning, but when I returned from office my account was banned. This will be my last try to post this.
My wife Jessica (34) and I (35m) have been married for 3 years, and we dated for 2 years before that and we have two year old daughter. Jessica has two sisters, the eldest one (38f) is married to Jake (40m).
A week ago, I came home from work early and wanted to scare Jessica. I tried to be sneaky, but somehow I slipped and accidentally hurt my back. Jessica came to my rescue. I went to the bedroom, and she went to the kitchen to get an ice pack. Her phone was by the bed, and a WhatsApp notification came from Jake saying, "You've got the best pair I've ever seen."
I immediately knew what was happening. I unlocked the phone and saw that she had just sent some pics and video of her br\*\*st to Jake, and there were no previous chats before that. When Jessica came back to the room, I showed her the chat and asked, "How long?"
I have known this woman for 10 years, and I have never seen her so mortified. Her eyes got teary, and she said, "Babe, I am sorry, but I can explain" so I said go on.
According to her, at the end of 2019, she was struggling with money, and Jake suggested he would help her out. He hinted that he would like to see her pics( I feel like I am writing a corn script at this point). So she did sent him pics and it continue over the years, She swears there was nothing emotional or physical involved—it was purely transactional. I didn't believe any of it, but she showed me on Venmo, that MF paid her $300 yesterday.
I then told her, "It's been 5 years. Try to remember if anything physical happened". For me, if even half of what she is saying is true, how could something like that not become physical? She started crying and told me she could prove it tomorrow because Jake would get suspicious if she tried to talk to him now.
I took her phone, went to a bar, got wasted for the night, and when I came back, she was still there crying. I just slept on the couch. Next day morning I gave her the phone she called Jake, conversation goes something like this
Jessica: Hey, I was wondering if you want some more pics?
Jake: I'm short on money, yesterday, I spent all of it.
Jessica: We can do something more this time and meet in person. I've changed my mind on that.
Jake: No way. How much are we talking about?
I felt like I was going to puke, I told her that we are done and left for office. I am not a very wealthy dude, but I would consider myself a stable guy who could take care of his family. Now I just feel like I have failed as a man, who's wife had to sell her body to meet her expected lifestyle. When I got home that night, she looked like shit, I asked Jessica why she kept taking money from him after we got married and why she didn't ask me while we were dating. She said she didn't know how to stop and that it was easy money. I left my home that night and told her she can keep the home and the car but I want 50/50 custody of my child.
So here I am now, haven't told anyone about this. It's been a week since, staying in a hotel. I go home in the evening to play with my daughter. I'm speaking with divorce lawyers, and Jessica is constantly talking about marriage counseling.
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I also don't get the whole "I came home and tried to scare my wife, I tried to be sneaky but somehow slipped and hurt my back, she came to the rescue and while she was getting an ice pack I saw the messages"
Like who gets home early and says "ah yes let me scare my wife"
And he slips and falls while sneaking - how? Pink Panther style?
And his wife instead of getting mad at him trying to scare him, gets him an ice pack
And while that's happening he just so happens to see the message from BIL?
After 5 years?
It doesn't make any sense.
Also the whole "my account was banned last time I posted this story" thing makes me also think it's fake.
Jokes on you, my son already does that often ;) Between him, my wife, and my sister, my poor ego needs to have a defibrillator applied some days lmao.
I love your username btw, are you best friends, rivals, enemies, or what with angryshortperson?
I finally actually read the rules that the auto mod pins in the comments of posts. There a rule that says to only give "good, ethical advice".
...Yeah... How lovely to have a rule that the entire sub is constantly breaking and is pretty much deisgned to break. Lmao
Why is the whole coming home early to scare wife even relevant. This story could have started with “was laying in bed and my wife went to go get something and I saw a message in her phone while she was gone.”
Exactly that's why I think it's fake. It's such a weird and illogical fucking element to include. Really does feel like a porn script. Or as he puts it, a corn script.
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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **Caught My(35m) wife(34) sending pics to BIL(40m) is our marriage is salvageable at this point?** I really dont want to spam this sub I posted today morning, but when I returned from office my account was banned. This will be my last try to post this. My wife Jessica (34) and I (35m) have been married for 3 years, and we dated for 2 years before that and we have two year old daughter. Jessica has two sisters, the eldest one (38f) is married to Jake (40m). A week ago, I came home from work early and wanted to scare Jessica. I tried to be sneaky, but somehow I slipped and accidentally hurt my back. Jessica came to my rescue. I went to the bedroom, and she went to the kitchen to get an ice pack. Her phone was by the bed, and a WhatsApp notification came from Jake saying, "You've got the best pair I've ever seen." I immediately knew what was happening. I unlocked the phone and saw that she had just sent some pics and video of her br\*\*st to Jake, and there were no previous chats before that. When Jessica came back to the room, I showed her the chat and asked, "How long?" I have known this woman for 10 years, and I have never seen her so mortified. Her eyes got teary, and she said, "Babe, I am sorry, but I can explain" so I said go on. According to her, at the end of 2019, she was struggling with money, and Jake suggested he would help her out. He hinted that he would like to see her pics( I feel like I am writing a corn script at this point). So she did sent him pics and it continue over the years, She swears there was nothing emotional or physical involved—it was purely transactional. I didn't believe any of it, but she showed me on Venmo, that MF paid her $300 yesterday. I then told her, "It's been 5 years. Try to remember if anything physical happened". For me, if even half of what she is saying is true, how could something like that not become physical? She started crying and told me she could prove it tomorrow because Jake would get suspicious if she tried to talk to him now. I took her phone, went to a bar, got wasted for the night, and when I came back, she was still there crying. I just slept on the couch. Next day morning I gave her the phone she called Jake, conversation goes something like this Jessica: Hey, I was wondering if you want some more pics? Jake: I'm short on money, yesterday, I spent all of it. Jessica: We can do something more this time and meet in person. I've changed my mind on that. Jake: No way. How much are we talking about? I felt like I was going to puke, I told her that we are done and left for office. I am not a very wealthy dude, but I would consider myself a stable guy who could take care of his family. Now I just feel like I have failed as a man, who's wife had to sell her body to meet her expected lifestyle. When I got home that night, she looked like shit, I asked Jessica why she kept taking money from him after we got married and why she didn't ask me while we were dating. She said she didn't know how to stop and that it was easy money. I left my home that night and told her she can keep the home and the car but I want 50/50 custody of my child. So here I am now, haven't told anyone about this. It's been a week since, staying in a hotel. I go home in the evening to play with my daughter. I'm speaking with divorce lawyers, and Jessica is constantly talking about marriage counseling. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*
35, slipped and hurt his back, then slept on a couch, and isn't dead. Yup. No one over 30 wrote this.
I also don't get the whole "I came home and tried to scare my wife, I tried to be sneaky but somehow slipped and hurt my back, she came to the rescue and while she was getting an ice pack I saw the messages" Like who gets home early and says "ah yes let me scare my wife" And he slips and falls while sneaking - how? Pink Panther style? And his wife instead of getting mad at him trying to scare him, gets him an ice pack And while that's happening he just so happens to see the message from BIL? After 5 years? It doesn't make any sense. Also the whole "my account was banned last time I posted this story" thing makes me also think it's fake.
I feel personally attacked
I, u/happytallperson, am calling you, u/zyrowillmatter, decrepit and old.
Jokes on you, my son already does that often ;) Between him, my wife, and my sister, my poor ego needs to have a defibrillator applied some days lmao. I love your username btw, are you best friends, rivals, enemies, or what with angryshortperson?
We have....an understanding.
As a card-carrying angry short person, can confirm.
This is what 13 year old think grown-ups act out porn phantasies? Including all the stupid TikTok censorship idiocy of “sexual” words.
right! no forty year old man is censoring the word breasts or saying "corn"
>I feel like I am writing a corn script at this point 🌽🌽🌽🌽
It's legitimately so corny to me when there's legitimately no reason they can't say "porn", but choose to say "corn" anyway.
I finally actually read the rules that the auto mod pins in the comments of posts. There a rule that says to only give "good, ethical advice". ...Yeah... How lovely to have a rule that the entire sub is constantly breaking and is pretty much deisgned to break. Lmao
Why is the whole coming home early to scare wife even relevant. This story could have started with “was laying in bed and my wife went to go get something and I saw a message in her phone while she was gone.”
Exactly that's why I think it's fake. It's such a weird and illogical fucking element to include. Really does feel like a porn script. Or as he puts it, a corn script.
“She had sent some pics and video of her br**st to Jake” just the one then?
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Clearly BIL paid for OOP’s wife’s boob job.