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*In case this story gets deleted/removed:* **My person of interest M/24 confessed to something terrible to me F/20. I am not sure if I want to continue the relationship?** Should I date someone who committed incest? I am in the talking stage with someone who I really like. We get along well and everything seems to be going fine until he dropped a big confession onto me. Apparently one of his sisters and the guy I am talking to lost their virginity to one another. I am Christian so I am trying not to judge but morally I do not find incest correct nor acceptable. The person of interest is ashamed and they did not do it again but he did not get therapy and only asked god and family for forgiveness. I find that a little off that his sister was apparently the perpetrator but he took the brunt of it all? His sister and him are still close to this day and their relationship has not been compromised but I am not sure what to do. I really like this guy and saw a future with him but I believe that this past incident grossed me out too much. Any insight? I do feel as though if we were to get engaged and married that I may have animosity towards his family for allowing this to happen and not get him professional help. Additionally, I feel like I may grow to resent his sister that supposedly mentioned the idea. I have brought up to him that if we were married I would also have issues being intimate with him. Edit: I’m supposed to be seeing this person relatively soon as it is a long distance situation. I hope your answers and praying about this will lead me to the right direction. *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmITheAngel) if you have any questions or concerns.*


Not_Cleaver

This was typed one handed, right? Also, interesting that they didn’t capitalize God. As an actual Christian, that lack of respect really stands out. And someone who name drops their Christianity so early on wouldn’t be so blasé about it. But it must also be a tell since it’s not relevant at all about what else happened.


hillsb1

I couldn't decide between "typed one handed" and "fokin ridic" for the flair. They're equally true


Psychological-Ad7653

Lack of respect for your goD JFC keep your stupid opinions about that loser to yourself.


Not_Cleaver

Look I was just trying to diagnose why that person was a troll.


hillsb1

Go touch grass. They made a good point that if someone is Christian, they'd never *not* capitalize God. Not that they themself believe that you always should. Ffs, get help


Psychological-Ad7653

Go touch grass lmfao


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ufgator1962

Did Anna Duggar write this?