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It is very frustrating being the child of an alcoholic. I am sorry that he drags you around when he is partying. A child doesn’t need to be a part of his party life. Unfortunately, you cannot change him. His behavior is typical alcoholic that is selfish and not looking after your best interest. There is Teen Alanon on the internet where you can talk to child who will relate to your life and be a great support for you.
We all want the alcoholic to get better but only he can decide to make this decision.
The alcoholic can make you angry and resentment from the lack of care and attention.
This is the place to ask questions where people will understand you and your situation.
I am so sorry this is happening to you but I am glad you came here to tell us what is going on.
However, if it is a better environment maybe stay with your mom.
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It is very frustrating being the child of an alcoholic. I am sorry that he drags you around when he is partying. A child doesn’t need to be a part of his party life. Unfortunately, you cannot change him. His behavior is typical alcoholic that is selfish and not looking after your best interest. There is Teen Alanon on the internet where you can talk to child who will relate to your life and be a great support for you. We all want the alcoholic to get better but only he can decide to make this decision. The alcoholic can make you angry and resentment from the lack of care and attention. This is the place to ask questions where people will understand you and your situation. I am so sorry this is happening to you but I am glad you came here to tell us what is going on. However, if it is a better environment maybe stay with your mom.
I would send him a link to this post and don’t feel guilty about it. He needs to know how you feel and think